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Establish something for your parents/siblings, that way they make their own income and the burden on you becomes lesser.

Else, it will be hard/unfair to say you're doing one project or the other while your family is hungry and needy.

Teach them how to fish too..

All the best

PresVA:
Hello house, the NOC one chooses depends on experience and not the qualification right?

Then, please help provide advice on the below

- someone studied sciences, has one year NYSC experience, has another one year in a stockbroking firm then currently works in an auditing firm for one year now. can the person go ahead and claim points for 3yrs experience? given that the experiences are distinct and can't qualify for one NOC... also, different from the Bsc acquired.

Thanks

@ Datechman , please can you offer advice based on the above? must the experience one claims be based on one NOC?

PresVA:
Hello house, the NOC one chooses depends on experience and not the qualification right?

Then, please help provide advice on the below

- someone studied sciences, has one year NYSC experience, has another one year in a stockbroking firm then currently works in an auditing firm for one year now. can the person go ahead and claim points for 3yrs experience? given that the experiences are distinct and can't qualify for one NOC... also, different from the Bsc acquired.

Thanks

Guys, I really need your 'expert' opinion here as I have contrasting views on this.. please

sherryz123:
Hello everyone

Please if degree end date is June 2008 and graduation date is Jan 2009 and graduation date is what is on d certificate, what date will be filled in d EE form as end date under education.
Please respond

Thank you

I would suggest the date on the certificate as it serves as the evidence. .. the other date is merely implied, no back up whatsoever. .

Hello house, the NOC one chooses depends on experience and not the qualification right?

Then, please help provide advice on the below

- someone studied sciences, has one year NYSC experience, has another one year in a stockbroking firm then currently works in an auditing firm for one year now. can the person go ahead and claim points for 3yrs experience? given that the experiences are distinct and can't qualify for one NOC... also, different from the Bsc acquired.

Thanks

Jina24:
Just checking on you ma'am, good to know you're doing fine

Awwwshh. . many thanks. .

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Hiii

siobh:
Lol,

T shirt check. Jean check. Sneakers Check.
or Native check. Palm slippers Check.

Traveling down with my uncle/cousin, sister and brother in law tomorrow.
Since my mom's retirement ceremony is tomorrow, we will touchdown by Saturday.

Lol, all the best

Lookingforadvic:
That might aggravate her more.

Should I go forward with my career plan and pursue being a social media influencer I'm just scared she knows who I am a d will expose me and it will be humiliating

Unless you have alternative careers to pursue, I suggest you go on.. You can't tell if she knows you or not unless you try... but bear in mind that it could go either way...

Of course you can get married with about 60k salary. . but your wife has to be working too to support. ..

people get married with a lesser salary, how much do state civil servants earn? even many private school teachers yet they survive.... you just have to cut your cloth according to your size, lower your standard of living accordingly..

when you're choosing a life partner, choose someone that can live within your means and let her know she has to bring something to the table too.. both of you should know your capabilities and be in agreement. .. Along the line, things may even get better because two good heads are better than one..

but my problem with many low income earners is before you know it, they don 'blow' like 4 to 5 kids

You said your relationships never get past 1yr, examine yourself and know if there are areas of improvements. . but if it's because you're 'broke' as you said, then you may have been dating ladies 'above' your standard.. a girl that fixes brazilian wig of 40k, how the person wan manage with 60k salary
Enter relationships with ladies that are willing to hustle and grow with you...

I wish you the best in your hustle and relationship....

feddy27:
Loya,peak and oldenburger are also good.

For yoghurt, gerber yoghurt. I also buy one from Spar, it's 6 in 1 , can't remember the name

okk.. thanks dear. . much appreciation

Onegai:
How flush is your pocket? Similac makes a good mill. Also, for yogurt, have you heard of Habib yogurt? They have shops all around, walk in and find out if it's suitable. I know it's fresh and unsweetened.

Flush is relative. . maybe if I get an idea of the price, I will then know whether my pocket is flush enough. .

I know habib and I take it a lot. ..I will ask them.. thanks a lot

*I just learnt the word "flush" as used in this context*

soonest:
No idea on yorghurt
Milk: i use dano.
How have you been? And your LO? Regards

Alright. . many thanks. .

We're good. . just been so busy..

enque:
Oldenburger and Loya have full cream milk.
I use loya milk (personal use cos my LO isn't 1 yet)

For yoghurt, I heard the unsweetened type is good for kids and then u can add fruits to sweeten.
Someone also recommended unsweetened Greek yoghurt.

Thank you, I use oldenburger.. didn't know 1yr old can take it....

zaynie:
I'm also learning here o.....
We use Dano milk at home.
Yoghurt - Yoplair and all its cousins that come in cups are it for us.

Thanks Zaynie, I appreciate.

feddy27:
Yes this is it

Ok.. Many thanks...any suggestions on Yorghurt?

I also need more suggestions on milk.. preferably full cream milk..

cc soonest, zaynie. . everyone please

Hey mamas, Trust you're all doing great...

Please, I need suggestions on quality yorghurt and milk(asides peak 123) for my one year old..

@ feddy27 , you mentioned miksi sometime ago, please confirm it's the attached you meant. .. it seems to be instant filled instead of full cream..

Many thanks. .

cc: all mamas

jazzyjazz:
I use the finger brush
There's actually a regular toothbrush for babies but I prefer the finger brush

ok.. thank you

jazzyjazz:
Good morning mamas
I bought this toothpaste for my ds. is it the right one?

Please is their a kind of brush for babies that goes with this?

or you just use this with your finger or??

Thanks

oh God, this is sad... mere 60k?

Poverty too much for this country.. so heartbreaking. ..

He now left his family to 'suffer'?

hmmmmmm. . just passing. . this one is too much for me...

holy spirit fall on you and your wife......

mayoor15:
If it happens baba, life goes on, I can't give myself hypertension over pwc, like someone said, getting to the last stage shows your quality, that you didn't get it this year doesn't mean you can't next year....Baba just drink chill zobo and move on.....But no worry, pwc don take you already.

so if he doesn't get this year. .. he'll still wait for PWC next year? like there are no better companies?. ..hmmmm

I wish you guys the best..

orirebaby:
Hello momma yu can call 08063702340 her soyabean powder is nice

Many thanks. .

enque:
Bellaella stays in PH too.... guess she'll see this and respond.

Yeah. . thanks. .

Meanyl BellaElla, the man you referred me to has gotten a new nanny for me.. we hv stayed for 1m+ now.. the lady is trying . thanks

hey mamas. . good morning. .

please does anyone know a reliable person/source where I can get ground soyabeans and groundnut. .
something I can add to my baby's pap...

A very neat person that sells unadulterated one please. ..
Used to do them myself but I'm quite busy now..

I stay in Ph..

Thanks..

ElDeeVee:
Visa approved this morning!

Transcript in a bit....

Congrats. . go excel dear


Meanyl, 'all of you' wan run commot?.. na only me go come dey Naija?

ElDeeVee:
No wonder...I'll keep praying for you, brother.

Jazzlite:
Not at all. Bible says submit to your husband....not love... Surrender.... Reason why most marriages crash....it is based on love... Nah it should not be.... Rather on submission of the woman to the man. Kpem.

Lol.. so submission is kneeling to greet your husband? funny you. .

if I kneel to greet my husband, he'll be wonder if I'm out of my mind
how many times do we even say "good morning"..like good morning? there are other ways to 'greet' your spouse abeg..

whatever rocks your boat shaa...

Have been waiting for the announcement. .. sekem sekem


I hope I achieve all I have set out to do..

azimibraun:
Sorry ma.. You just indicted yourself and justified mothers prevailing over their children in marriage." None of my daughters will marry a Man...." that means you plan to influence who they marry becouse you feel you love them and should protect them. na just prayers, tolerance and being smart go help our daughters.

So that's all you could get from the comment? smh

GhettoG1:
Have a son first nd u gonna understand, i swear if a girl question about my mum in a slight rude way or she's asking too much then even if it's hour's to our wedding I'm calling it quit. Shikena

I'm a mother and I have a son... none of my daughters will marry a 'man' who is addicted to his mother as the Op described. . it's a recipe for marriage failure. . what if the wife decides too to be that attached to her mum, who will now focus on the family?
OP even said he consults his mum before any decision. .

Children are brought up to be independent at some point in their lives.. I don't pray I raise sons and daughters who keep running to me for everything and anything at adulthood. . They should be able to make some basic decisions and actions independently.... All the parents should be seeing now is the good result of the decisions rightly taken by their children... it makes them happy and proud. . and not a supposed man running to his parents for every single decision and action. ..

Taking care of one's parents is different from being a 'mummy's boy'...

Op, if you were my daughter or sister , I would advise you not to marry him.. cos it will be basically him and his mum making the decisions in your marriage...
He should know he's a man now and not a boy..

PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.

Marriage is for better or worse!

What an advice. . and it got over 100likes .. smh

ElDeeVee:
Guy, you well so

Focus on your audit career, my son