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Lero15:
TheSCRYPT u Don fumble O.
I've never seen PresVA use this face before o

don't mind that scrypt guy dear...

I have forgiven him shaa

Ferdyboss:
Hello House....

Anyone with experience on Operating BA equipment and has original Bosiet certificate should send me a PM Asap. Cheers

Long time Presva.

Where is FixedRoots?

Yeah.. just got so busy recently.. thanks for checking

how u dey?

modified. ...
congrats on the incorporation of your company. . wish you astonishing success, you have what it takes. .Cheers! !!!

TheSCRYPT:

I am sorry naw, it is the Devu that caused it.  . Anyway my regards to everyone.

of course ìt has to be the devu na.. who else?

No prob

TheSCRYPT:

Haha! Marv calm down. I can explain.   

explain gini? leave me biko


Lol

woww.. what a thread.. read all pages and totally enjoyed them all especially the later pages discussing parenthood .. wish there were more pages

following bumper to bumper

TheSCRYPT:
Tolu.tweety, Ok.zcorp has opened church. .

PresVa, you still owe me rice.

Intri.nsicniyi, I see your legwork.

.Sifo, still on the matter.

David.e470.

Ferdy

MoyoGen.eral


Hello everyone. Have a most amazing February.

go joor

ElDeeVee:
I dey tellz you

lol

eminent91:
my sister no b small booking o, DH dey expect twins cos him b twin. Wen I go for scan, na so he ask me how many d scan show. I just dey laf am

You can't get twins cos your husband is a twin... except it's in your own gene/lineage. .. because your husband's sperm can neither cause your egg to divide nor make you release two eggs in one cycle. . having a twin in your marriage is totally dependent on you

Your husband can only transfer his 'twin genetic make up' to his kids.... so your baby girls have a tendency of birthing twins in their marriages while your baby boys can only also transfer to their kids, they can't make their wives birth twins. ..

Pidgin2:
Funny enough i think it is wrong Sha. It's like having a female examine your husband's privates.

lol, you think it's wrong? don't worry till you want to give birth or something, na you go dey beg the doctor to help you expand am sef..

Trouble maker.. you're opening a thread because your MIL calls your baby "our baby"... smh

lestat:
It's my opinion that marriage is for better for worse, now if he doesn't cheat, he doesn't beat her he provides for his family , he is caring but she is upset he doesn't look like he walked out of a GQ magazine?
The issue she should be facing is why isn't she happy with what she has and instead of bitching about it try and make things work ...
Trust me if she moves to another guy maybe the next issue will be why he doesn't shave his beard ?
She is shallow and naieve that's her issue .

nawa oo.. guy calm down..
she's only asking for advice, atleast she should try to get some solutions first, if it doesn't work, then you talk about for better for worse... and she never said she isn't happy with her man generally. ..
nothing bad wanting to make your man look better. .
I choose my husband's haircut style, most wears, shoes etcc... my husband used to cut his hair very low, almost to his skin but he stopped because of me...

will you say same thing if your woman dresses so badly and looks like an old woman?


op, just like most people have said... buy him the wears yourself if you can.. then follow him to his tailor...
there's nothing wrong in wanting your man dress better but don't let it be a cause for dispute. ..

all the best

ElDeeVee:
Alright...Good luck to you

good luck to you too

ElDeeVee:
Thanks. Resumed back yet?

Moro

will miss staying with my baby..

ElDeeVee:
Happy New Year to you too

Thanks dear
wish you a fulfilling year

My sister, you should be happy you broke up with a cheat.. abi you want to live the rest of your life chasing ladies out of his life?

I understand how you feel especially as you've been together for long but please calm down ok?

shugasofttouch:
. Yes 6 yrs we started way back in schl. N jst wen he got something lil to do I thought we'll settle down cos it has been his promise.

It's really sad he left you after you 'struggled' together. . but it's fine.. pull yourself together ok?
A more deserving guy will come along ok?..

Quintessential1:
The truth is when you have "money," yes, there'll be girls in their droves. But these are girls who'll only see you as means to to an end. As a security! And they'll do nothing but pretend they love you. Trust me, girls pretend like crazy! And with their high end pretence, you'll end up being saddled with a wife who doesn't quite love you for you, but who has chosen to get married to the best available financial option she had.

How myopic! ! so you're saying "rich guys" never get true love and all ladies are broke that they need men to finance their lives? smh

oloyede252:
. cooling off with another lady at this time for him is not
cheating. it's like helping his wife cos you don't wanna disturb her
with your demands. let her rest well but for the main time enjoy the
service of a side chick. am sure the wife will understand.

SMH .. will you also advise a woman to do same if her husband falls ill at some point in marriage and is unable to meet her sexual demands?


Op, you stated that your wife has been in and out of the hospital which means she may not be 'fit' enough to have sex at this time...

You just have to control yourself, you don't have to let your emotions overwhelm you. .you're in charge of yourself..
or would you rather your wife doesn't get pregnant at all so that you can have sex? or would you prefer a miscarriage?

Have you also wondered how your wife copes or you think her 'condition' is pleasing to her?

Try to occupy yourself with other things and the joy of holding your baby soon.. also, be supportive to your wife, she needs you very much at this time...

Soon, you'll have your baby and everything will return to 'normal' ... nobody has ever died from lack of sex..

pay no mind to those telling you to cheat, I know you wouldn't want to destroy your family with your own hands...
All the best..

Chaiomsy:
You might think the man loves you so much to want to do all the dirty jobs, no, he is only trying so hard to please you because you are obviously calling the shots!

What's dirty about chores? keeping your own house in order?

Ok, supposing it's actually dirty. a man can't do "dirty jobs" but a woman can?

senseless post!

This is cute.. Love is a beautiful thing. .
Wish you an even more beautiful union

karleone:
Thanks for the invite!
Compliments of the Season
Sure! Had an indoor enjoyment/celebration.

missebira:
I think its time I set the records straight. Been following as a guest anyway. Nice contributions so far but silverr didnt tell the story as it is.

Mr X got married 6yrs ago to his first wife I'll call Mrs X, by their 4th year of marriage he started looking outside for the happiness he wasnt getting from his wife. She's a nice lady but gets carried away by influence e.g when they take decisions as husband and wife, she goes to friends and mum to confirm if the decision is okay, whatever they say is final, she just does it without even telling hubby anymore. One day her mum said she needs to upgrade like her inlaws, and Mrs X broke her hubby's fixed deposit and bought her mum a house on the island and a 2015 range and lied about it to the hubby. Mr X complained that her friend has a bad reputation for being a woman of the night, she told him its nobody's biz and yet she goes on weekend trips with that friend even though she doesnt do whatever her friend does there. When Mr X felt he couldn't continue, he told her he wants a divorce, she pleaded with him promising to change etc, when her friends heard it, they told her to take the divorce and asked for alimony and voila she picked divorce.
Mr X was broken cus he didnt actually want a divorce, he just wanted to shake her a bit but decided to move on. Decided to date again and over did it, got 2 ladies pregnant almost immediately as he was smart enough not to use a condom, Mrs X asked for alot of alimony and he gave her not because he didnt have a choice but cus he didnt want his kids with her to suffer.

I met him few months after this when he tired my company's services, we later became friends and things later got serious. He told me about his past. I advised him to move closer to God again.
I didn't gift him an office, he's working on a deal, he had foreign buyers coming to the country. He has an office around Ikota but I didnt think it was good enough, I also recently got an office in V.I, I lent it to him to help him package himself better for 6months. He wanted to share the rent but I didnt agree, we later decided that when the deal flies, he will pay the next year's rent for me.
I dont take gifts from guys cus I dont like to feel indebted to anyone. I haven't made any other "big" expense on him but everybody feels I'm not myself. I asked our pastor about him, and he said that he's sincere. I spoke to other spiritual people some told me no, some said yes.
God speaks to me through dreams but I dont understand anymore, All I know so far is last year during a prayer service the pastor came to me and said he see's my future hubby, described him, his haircut, skin color, physique, state of origin, height and profession. Mr X has ticked all the boxes except the haircut and I stylishly asked him about it and he said he doesn't see himself with that haircut at all. I too would like to be the first wife of my hubby but like someone said, does a man having an ex-wife and 4 kids guarantee he will be a bad husband or does a man not having strings attached mean he will be a good man? According to him, all the kids will be with their mothers. Even if they are to live with us, I dont have an issue about that. I have always wanted to adopt 5 kids later in life. My issue with his kids is that they aren't orphans, they have mothers. I have broken up with him twice due to pressure from family. Everybody was happy except me, when we got back together, everybody became angry. My elder sis said she wont attend my wedding. I dont want to be an outcast because of a man.
E just taya me.

cc cococandy, harddon, silverr, bukatyne, bellong, boladale, eketem, bibitayo2, thearchangel and the host of others

Story! story!! story!!! Uncle please tell us another story!


how can a young lady like you even be considering this and then believing all the crap??

This love isn't only blind but deaf and dumb as well...

I wish you the best though..

karleone:
Knock knock!!

Lol.. the door is wide open, you can step in...

hope you had a wonderful celebration yesterday?

amicable09:
Merry Christmas PresVa, thanks for the invite.
The next knock on your door shall be mine

Didn't hear any knock? lol

eeeyyaa. . God be praised. .

God bless your LO

Merry xmas my wonderful e - family ... wish us an excellent celebration

ElDeeVee
Lero15
Jamine
davide470
therealadonye
adeaks
singlefade25
scrypt
unofficial
emasel
ferdyboss
cc150615
lastmumu
macmaster01
spawne
tolutweety
amicable09
blessenE
geobukky
ksstroud

and other everyone else


if you no get rice or drinks, just knock on my doorr

Preetiex:
ur wish is granted by God's grace

Amen.. thank you

Santa please restore my FIL's health. . He's suffered enough and a lot has been spent already..

O God please

Lol.. heard food processors can make poundo wella, so no much hassle here...


But he should also comply when I insist on Iphones, brazillian weaves, designer bags and wears

ElDeeVee:
I can relate. We've been there before and I can tell you it's not easy

Lol.. I hear you

ElDeeVee:
hahahahahaha you wee see na...

where have you been though

Ok o.. na here we dey

I dey o.. career+family no gree me see road again

ElDeeVee:
I don't think this current Bayern side should be too hard for Arsenal to rape. As much as I don't want it to happen, I think Arsenal will go through this time.

odimma. . hopeless hope

Done. . I wish you well

nice one.... I expect the business to flourish as cloth diapering hasn't really gained much presence in Nigeria 'esp among the middle and rich classes'..

I wish you well.