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lankykid:
ya, she did but it was a day after her flow

Why not run a pregnancy test to know if she's, instead of making assumptions. .

Congrats to blessedmum, simababe and other mamas that have put to bed.. God bless your Los


It's well peggygee ... God will give you double for your loss.. Please be strong. .

Concerning this issue of sex in pregnancy. . Body differs, so you should watch yourself. .

@rgasm triggered premature contractions in me in the first trimester, had to be placed on ventolin.. so it really slowed down our sex life. .hubby was even scared of touching me ..

So just watch yourself..

Why is everyone saying "big weddings don't guarantee successful marriage"? So do small weddings guarantee successful marriage? ..whether big or small wedding, what matters is that the two persons involved genuinely love each other...

What's parlour traditional marriage? I wouldn't want that too. . Not even a small wedding kinda but parlour wedding? That means everything will be done in a small room or what? Because he doesn't want to show off? Who says celebrating love means showing off? Wish me and my husband can be celebrating our anniversary yearly .
The main thing is not spending beyond your means and from what you wrote money isn't even the problem. .so?

Sorry, your fiance should consider your feelings too.. BOTH of you are involved in this, not just him ... Both of you should reach a peaceful agreement where they'll be mutual happiness/satisfaction..

However, in as much as I wouldn't want a "parlour wedding" , I wouldn't let the issue come between me and my partner especially if he's a good man...
I wish you the best Op..

Oduok:
I think I can work out a delivery plan to you in PH. Can I know the quantity involved and how soon and frequency you would be needing the product. My number is on my signature. Anticipating ...

I don't think it's worth delivering to Ph... just need something for my home(kitchen), to substitute morning fresh. ..
Delivering from Uyo wouldn't be cost effective. . I will ask around here instead. .

Cheers and all d best in your business. .

simababe:
40weeks and still observing. Hmmmm. Make I just dey look dey chill.

It shall end in praise sis..

It's well sir.. Thank God you have one "boo" to hold on to ... Please be strong. . Another "boo-boo" will come in due time..

Congrats to you and your wife.. God bless your lil boo

Strongbest:
Heyllo Sir, price depends on location and producer.

Thanks.

ok.. Thanks

Oduok:
I supply mine at the rate of 3,000naira for 10litres. I supply to homes, restaurants, hotels, corpers' lodges in Eket, Akwa Ibom State and Ife South, Osun

Unfortunately, I'm in Ph..

Any Ph supplier here?

How much can one get about 10litres of liquid soap? Kitchen soap, something similar to morning fresh?

I won't allow my daughter get married before getting atleast a BSc..
Even if the man will sponsor her, combining school, childbirth and family no easy..

It's her call shaa..

Lol.. really enjoying the discourse here...

cmecproblem:
This would have been a simple matter if you are more experienced or have been reading some marital issues here on NL. Your wife is simply reacting this way for a reason, communication can be challenging for some people and they end up doing the wrong things. First find out what is making her angry. The answer you will get will help you make the best decision.

@bolded, hmmmm so people take whatever they read here seriously? I pity whoever applies what he reads here to his home, there are only a few sensible comments on nairaland...

LegendDrogba:
Its a pity that lalasticlala and seun don't want to assist in pushing this thread to front page so I can get enough advise from people.. Pls lalasticlala do the needful.

Why do you keep mentioning the mods? Over four times now. ..

Seriously, this is a decision you alone can take... nobody here can tell you which family to accept/reject and you alone have the full details and see everything clearly. . It's totally your call.. as your (step) dad rightly said, you're a man now..

I wish you the best..

ElDeeVee:
^^^my girl, really

Errrrm we still get one 'wash' oooo; how's it gonna be

Lol..

E go be when e go be

ElDeeVee:
You're welcome.

Anything for me

lol.. na you suppose find something for me na, as per your 'girl'..

ElDeeVee:
I've been around ooo.

How far and hope you are settling in very well

Alright. . Been a while I saw your comment. .

Yeah, Fine... Thanks

ElDeeVee:
Ordinary Alaves

Una go hear am this season aswear

where have you been?

Hmmmm.. them doing their romantic 'stuffs' in front of your kids is the major one you need to put a stop to immediately. .

babyme1:
2k?

Lol.. I would have thought it was a huge amount. . But then huge is relative.. Op seems to need the money badly especially as he said he had to withdraw the money from his savings. ..

The money may not be huge but the girl's attitude and betrayal of trust no good.. Little things like this show the kinda person one is..
Op made it clear to her that he wasn't dashing her the money and she promised to pay.. why the breach of agreement and even cutting communication??

Meanyl, op stop generalising; all ladies ain't like that...

comtem2011:
pix attached

Alright, thanks a lot. ..

Thanks too to onegai and tojued , really appreciate

comtem2011:
I add Lander oil to it, its a foreign oil. I use baby pears oil for his head/hair, so he always smell nice. Most important thing is for baby to be neat, no body odour.
Thanks smiley

You mean lavender oil?
Yes, baby won't have body odour but I like that 'babylike' smell....

Mamas, please what harmless fragrance/oil can one add to shea butter to get some nice smell?

Mamas that use shea butter/coconut oil/olive oil and the likes as cream for their LOs.. how do you achieve that nice smell a baby should have? Cos I don't think shea butter et al can give that 'babylike' smell...

Do you add anything to your shea butter to make it smell nice?

Thanks

ifyalways:
Take the car from him. At this stage in life, all you owe him is accommodation and food and occasional pocket money, let him find his feet.

Tough love.

Does she even owe him anything??

robedu:
Thanks for your response, my dad is late, he's been late since i was barely 2 years old, my mom an old woman in the village, she is hypertensive and has issues with bad reports, she will just faint or become sick. have told him this over and over again, even when we were buying the photography stuffs, i said it over and over again, he even came with his friends to beg that once this is done he will be able to stand on his own, after that it was excuse that i keep receiving, i do not know why God will allow me to be stress this way for the life of me, i work hard, too hard for my age to make a living but this people kept on pressing me down like a wild force :- my mates in the office are far better than me, they live a worthy life but here i am always spending money like i uproot them from the farm becaues of family[

Chaiiii, I really feel your pain sis ...You're really trying. . I hope it all ends soon..
ThankGod you're getting married soon, let me see if he'll be coming to your husband's house to disturb you. ..

Meanwhile, if you ever decide to help him again.. Outside what he tells you, do a feasibility study on your own to ascertain the viability of the business because it could be he lacks a good sense of judgement. ..
Then, after he starts something. .a follow up will be needed to see how far he's going and offer advice where necessary till he stands firmly on his feet; don't just give money and look away....
It may seem tough but ...?

Again, I wish you the best.

She should visit a hospital. . The doctor will most likely recommend an ultrasound scan...

Btw, did his wife miss her period? How sure you there's a pregnancy at all?

I must commend you. .You're really a hardworking woman..

This is really somewhat tough, if we say you collect the car and let him go.. what becomes of him? He may become worse and cause nuisance to the society at large. .

You didn't mention your parents in your writeup? You guys need to call a family meeting to discuss his issue and advise him seriously. ..

After that, I will advise you settle him once and for all based on what he has interest to do... and let him know that would be the last time you're going to do anything concerning helping him.. he should start fending for himself henceforth. . If possible, rent a self contained for him, seems he enjoys so much comfort at your house, let him be totally independent and hustle like others. .. Once in a while, check up on him and see how far he's going. .

Before helping him this last time, make 'noise' about how the economy is affecting your profit at work.... money no dey as e dey before oo..if possible, delay helping him for a while and tell him no money.... Let him know you're struggling to survive too(even if you're not), don't just dish out money...

I wish you the best and hope your brother becomes productive. .

Hmmmmm .. From Bsc to ND? ... Forward ever, backward never biko!

Recession won't continue forever. ..

Goodmorning!

sugarbuns:
Hey beautiful mamas, dunno if this might look like a rant but I need advice.
So I have this job I want to leave after maternity, I told my husband and he says its ok but feels I should get another first before I leave as a baby is coming and we need every cent. So I started applying for jobs last week hoping I could get some interviews during mat leave.

I'm crazy about marketing but I hardly get call backs because I studied Microbiology and no one wants to take me seriously.
The point of all this my long tori is I got an interview with a marketing agency, I'm 24 weeks pregnant so yeah I'm showing already I don't know what I'm going to do. And yes its tomorrow.

Should I carry my bump there?
Will they even give me a chance?

Hi, I think I'm in a good position to encourage you. ..
I recently got a good job with my pregnancy. . Did all the five stages of the recruitment process with my bump(I was btw 20-28weeks during the processes)...
Like you, I was somewhat shy and apprehensive but my husband encouraged me.. we prepared for the interview together. . Considering my pregnancy, I knew I needed an outstanding performance to convince the HRs/managers to hire me and so I really did prepare well..

My dear, just prepare well.. if they see the value in you, pregnancy won't prevent their hiring you, afterall you won't be pregnant forever and pregnancy isn't a disability. . Be explicit about your skills, achievements and experiences, let them know you will add value to their organisation as that's wht every company wants... You're going for a marketing position, give examples of how you've achieved good sales in your previous job(s)...

Above all, pray.. God has a way of doing things. .

So dear, please rock your bump wella.. pregnancy isn't a disease or something to be ashamed of. ..
I wish you the best

Hmmmmm... my only advice is that you take it slowly with your Sweden gf so that you don't make same mistake a second time...

Take your time and make your decision.... Wish you the best. .

It's always best to keep family/relatives out of your business. ...


But then, hope your husband didn't send him home with nothing? Having served him for over 4yrs?

Onegai , you too much ...

I'm garnering so much information here at no cost..lol

Weldone mamas, can't wait to join...