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cc150615:
I presume they have started documentation and posting, so that means there's a probability they will be paid

Alright. . good then

You're looking for stipends/salary, have you started work?
Abi you want to be paid without work?
You should be more concerned about when to start work because only after you have started work can you talk about stipends..

take your advert to the health section. .. pregnancy or new born thread. ..

This is so inspiring. ..

thanks lero15 for sharing..

Thanks feddy27 . I got rota for my baby at prime hospital

About asking him where the relationship is heading to, do you plan to settle with someone who's doing nothing and has no skills whatsoever

is he making efforts at all?

whatever shaa, I won't advise you marry someone who has nothing doing... atleast till he finds his feet.. finance is important in marriage.

soonest and doubledouble , thank you for your comments. ..

we ain't fighting and no hard feelings really .. just had to make things clear..

dusting powder in a baby's vg?

AlphaHandMaiden:
Me i disagree with the boldened oh.

Sweetheart dont attribute your values, level of caution and common sense to everyone.

First of all Just because someone has a child does not make her maternal, and does not mean that she will take a bullet for that child.

and just because you have the common sense to identify harzards and risk around a child, someone else is absolutely ignorant and dismissive of what you assume will be a common sense issue.

ok, Let me point out the contradiction to you since you said you can see none...

you said my statement: "nobody can take care of a child better than the mother" doesn't hold because I can't talk for everyone or other people ... that it's solely my own value...

but you went ahead to speak for people..ref: bolded ... how do you know there are mothers who can't take a bullet for their kids? if my statement can't hold because I can't speak for people or everyone, what makes you think yours holds? or Isn't it solely your belief too?

We both have different beliefs as regards motherhood. ..and you can't say mine is false and yours true except there are higher proven facts to back yours up...

Anyway, my first comment which you quoted wasn't even about this, I knew what I had in mind making that statement. ..wonder how it degenerated to this...
My first comment was about being around to monitor all the time.. you told me not to decieve myself bla bla... as if I don't know that nobody can really monitor all the time..
I cleared that one and you went on to pick on another statement, haba...
you don't really have to try to 'correct' everything, nobody is a kid na...

Cheers!

Gaily04:
Am also interested in the books.
cc:
orirebaby

we would have to wait for more mamas to indicate interest...

AlphaHandMaiden:
Me i disagree with the boldened oh.

Sweetheart dont attribute your values, level of caution and common sense to everyone.

First of all Just because someone has a child does not make her maternal, and does not mean that she will take a bullet for that child.

and just because you have the common sense to identify harzards and risk around a child, someone else is absolutely ignorant and dismissive of what you assume will be a common sense issue.

@bolded, you contradicted yourself .. you just did what you talked about.. don't talk for "everyone" yet you just did..


whatever though, let everyone hold on to her mentality

AlphaHandMaiden:
Please dont decieve ypurself oh! There is no such thing as "monitor all the time"
It is easy to assume accidents happened because we as the parents were not the ones watching, or criticize others as we feel they may not have been alert or vigilant .
But we all need to be honest wih ourselves that a lot can happen even in the 1min 27 secs it takes you to go to the loo and pee like you are trying to put out a fire.


We should just ensure we do the best we can, remove all harzards and reduce the risk of any accidents as best as we can. And pray that those we leave to care for our children share the same level of caution that we have or are even better.

of course one can't monitor all the time.. didn't mean it literally. ..

but I know what I meant. . nobody can take better care of a baby than the mother or have that sort of attachment a mother does. .
I feel bad and somewhat scared that I will be leaving my lil boy soon to start work..

but as I said before. .God help us and fill in our inadequacies/gaps. ..

Doubledouble:
Hello mamas...just thought to share...choking is a very serious issue, let's all be more careful...as for me, I intend doing a serious check in my home...pls let's baby proof our homes adequately and get rid of anything that's a choking hazard...I don't mean throwing it all away but making sure it's where baby can't get to...also we need to be more careful on no-no foods...God bless our efforts...

http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/health/news/a41598/two-year-old-dies-after-choking-on-popcorn/?ref=yfp

scary scary stuffs especially for working mothers who can't be there to monitor all the time..

God help us..

Can't stop laughing

thorpido:
Ah, congrats.

Thanks a lot

thorpido:
Checking on you too.How are you?

_{Have you dropped?}

I'm fine doc.. thanks

_{yeah..my LO don reach 8 weeks}

ElDeeVee:
Very well too. You back to work

nah but in about one week

ElDeeVee:
Hello, how and where have you been

Hi .. I'm good.. been around though not as before..

thanks for checking. .

how are you too?

my only worry is how your adopted son will be treated when the "flesh and blood son" comes. ..

but I wish you success..

orirebaby:
Aiit boss. Will whatsapp you

I'm interested in the books. . Ph mama here

kaboninc:
If my sister or a female friend or if me, I'll tell her that it's best we're separated that be forcefully joined together.

Sometimes we have a choice to say no, but do we also have the power and strength to insist on NO?

Until we know what circumstances the op found himself, we can't conclude. They both never wanted the union....at least from the op's pov

You didn't have the power and strength to say No but you do now... SMH

btw, you sure you ain't the op?

Everyone is saying op was forced into the union but I think otherwise. . if he was forced, then there wouldn't be room to end the union as he wants to do now, he would have gone ahead with the marriage regardless. .
He actually had options. .

why didn't you reject your parent's proposal then? why now that the lady is pregnant?

It's easy to tell him don't marry out pity bla bla bla.. but put yourself or your sisters in op fiancee's shoe ...mtcheew
not telling you to marry someone you don't love but didn't you know all along? Why didn't you reject your parent's offer earlier?
People should learn to be careful of their choices and be willing to take responsibilities afterwards. ..

Also, I don't believe the agreement to breakup was mutual if not there will be no need for this thread from the op...

I hope your fiancee finds peace and a much better man when you break up with her...

TheSCRYPT:
Hello mom. I got your message.
I am coming to chop rice. I haf finish all the business.

Ahhh, finally. .ThankGod you're done. ..

rice full yakata.. Anambra rice

Mcbussy:
Fear is contagious dear. He came last and he was given d opportunity to go in first for a reason. The moment he turned that down out of fear, the others suddenly felt; "why should I go when I wasn't the one called". If he had just gone in, I'm sure every other person would av gotten a fair hearing....but he actually spread the fear and made every other person except the girl show they didn't believe in themselves.

hmmmm.. so you actually believe this bull crap?? like an HR will invite you in for an interview you came for and you'll refuse? every other person will also refuse?
And then they were deliberating on who to enter first? and the HR will be there waiting for them?
except say na play them come play shaaa...

op should compose a more credible story nxt time..

TheSCRYPT:
Hi mom

Hello ever busy scrypt

Don't leave the job without having a plan B because you'll be more depressed when your family goes hungry. .

Intensify your job search. .
Continue pushing for a transfer. .
You can start a business in Lagos and relocate when it starts thriving. .

Or you can relocate your family to Yola.

For the time being, make out time EVERYDAY no matter how little to communicate with your wife and kids( on Skype)... I like media like skype because you get to see the person(s) at the other end...
communication is very key in a distant relationship...

wish you the best and pray that you reunite with your family soon...

Jamean:
Hi wife... okbye

op and his fake stories again!

You were invited for an interview and all of you refused entering because you were scared mtcheew .. and they were deliberating on who will enter first?? . in the supposedly big company?

odimma ..

please tell us another story. ..

even without reading the write up, I totally agree... good marriage is very good for the health and wellbeing

boik:
No, they don't. Just ICAN and ATS.

Alright. .thanks

feddy27:
My children get theirs from Ultimate Specialist Hospital on Odili Road. Last I paid for my son is 7k, will be takin my daughter there tmrw 4 6wks immunization. It is taken at 6 and 8wks.

You can also get from Moni Medical Centre @ Opobo crescent, GRA; Pearl clinic D/line, Prime @ Rumuogba.

Where is ur location?

I stay at Rumuodara. . Prime is the closest to me I guess..

thanks a lot

Ph mamas, who knows a reliable hospital where I can get rotavirus vaccine for my ds? and the price too..
also, is d vaccine supposed to be taken at 6 or 8 weeks?

cc feddy27 and other mamas

thanks