₦airaland Forum

@ OP, u're not wide enough in ur imaginations. Promiscuity is nt d only thing that takes one to a hotel. Av taken snapshots in a hotel before. I was there wit family - ma sisters, nephew, niece nd brother- just a weekend away from d house. I took full advantage cos I snapped in d lobby, pool, garden, balcony, toilet, in short everywhere. So Is that promiscuity in ur small mind?

Am sorry Becky, av once been in ur shoes. A foremost insurance company attempted that wit me bt I no gree. You're evn luckier, in my case we were givn no kobo to start after two wks training of about twenty of us. We were all young, vibrant nd desperate if they had offered as much as 5k for our troubles, we wud av stayed bt they placed us on ground zero. Nothing, quite unbelievable. As if dt is nt bad enough, the chief trainer wanted a relationship wit me in xchange for clients even after disclosing that I scored the highest in their yeye Gmat, in his words- I won't av to carry paper work about like the rest. Exploitation.

You know wat I did? I dumbed their dumb a*ss bfor they dumbed me. Becky like the poster above me said, you don't av to do shit just becos u need a job. Now, without meaning to sound immodest, I earn a salary in 6 figures monthly. I also do other small stuff on the side.

To start something on ur own might be difficult without capital bt surely u'l get a job that the terms wil better suit u than this one nd from there u can start a little something. May God bless ur hustle.

Just wat is honourable bout these people?....,taking Nigeria on another downward plunge. This aint the change we clamoured for.

Righteousness exalts a nation but sin is a reproach to any people.
God bless Nigeria and save the land from these self aggrandisement seeking politrickians.

Great advice which kinda suits my friend bt unfortunately, she's not on Nairaland

I think it's a matter of whateva rocks ur boat. Personally I hardly eat out and any meal I take at home I do it with my hubby, especially dinner. We neva eat dinner separately though there are times he comes back late, I wait. The down side of this is gaining weight when u eat too late into d night but inspite of this av not been able to bring myself to eating dinner alone. I love the small talks we do over dinner.

Minet16:
anty na wa 4 u o... thread neva reach FP u don de hapi 4 FTC. and y did u also occupy d 2nd To comment position also

....in Majek Fashek's voice.......If u av faith u can move mountains...

Guys like to form super man just to impress girls.

Well some of them are good, bt u didn't add the clause : 'in no particular order' cos Kenneth Okonkwo is surely nt the best Nollywood has got.

I'll prefer a Ramsey Noah or Majid over Kenneth cos his acting is kind of forced not natural.

Am I first to comment? HallelujahRastafarai....

Well some of them are good, bt u didn't add the clause : 'in no particular order' cos Kenneth Okonkwo is surely nt the best Nollywood has got.

I'll prefer a Ramsey Noah or Majid over Kenneth cos his acting is kind of forced not natural.

Am I first to comment? Hallelujah Rastafarai....... Oh No! Some fast finger;(
In Toni Kan's voice: Things can only get better!

oriosan:
Who say dem no fit blow? Make dem go maiduguri na...
Op, why is JOel of kennis music not there? With the kind of exposure he had with kennis, bomb sef no fit blow that guy

You and ur bad mouth.. I was practically reeling on d floor wit laughter.... bomb sef no go fit blow 'em

Yes O! @ OP, How did u know? I like my man to be (b) dominant(b) bt nt overbearing, like him to be confident, neat nd spontaneous nd of course generous

Happy Father's Day to my dad nd all great fathers of the world.

My dad u're wonderful nd I love u so much ever so caring. Can't forget the gift u gave me on graduation to the envy of my siblings. Am ur carbon copy though a girl, always the first to call on my birthdays. Even now that am married, u neva stop caring, thank u daddy, looking forward to ur 70th birthday.

otijah:
I won't believe until I have my own similar dream

God shows it to whoever He will. Sometimes a colleague of mine who attends Apostolic shared a tract with me. It's about the rapture, an old man wrote an account of how he saw the trance of the rapture, it was very fearful. After reading, I told this my friend nd colleague how frightened It is that even Pastor Adeboye in his vision of the rapture said he didn't make it.

Like you, I just concluded that God will not let a sinner like me have a glimpse of the rapture but lo nd behold, I thot wrong. That same night, I slept and woke up shaken to the marrow, nd gasping for breadth and shouting: Let it not be, I said it more than 15 times b4 my husband cud calm me down, he had to press me to the bed. My dear, It is fearful OP didn't see anything compared to my dream.

Word is may we not leave things too late.

From ur post, I can deduce it will only be a matter of time before he succeeds with u nd u seem to want it otherwise he wudn't evn touch u with a mile-long pole if u don't want it.

Follow ur mind.....

Bleep the fuc*king life outta him

That's wat ur freaky little mind is telling you.

Lagusta:
I am an alumnus of the best university in Nigeria....
I graduated from the department of medicine and surgery last year....
I am so proud to be an alumnus of unilorin

Yes o! Uniilorin my alma mata. Am Proud of u. Probitas Doctrina!

Op, u're correct, I was almost not opening the thread cos its not any surprise to me. My friend in school is from Anambra nd she told me dat her family worships them snakes nd dat everyone is forbidden to kill them.

presh247:
remember the law of karma...wat u sow u will reap a thousand fold

Why won't all these boys leave me alone? You're all embittered cos someone is paying u back in ur own coin. Well don't worry, No more games. I'v finally found some great guy (Son of Adam) who has succeeded in taming the daughter of Eve

Korede Bello all the way. Kiss too is not bad bt I go for Korede's kind of charm.

zleemshaddy:
how am i supposed to know that, picture or idonbelieveit

Well, am afraid I can't help you. Wallow in disbelief bt then u can imagine it in ur mind's eye....boobsy n bootylicious.....

KolaShangOne:
Add me na.. You can be my side chick..
Jus kidding.

A gud thing dat u're jus kidding

zleemshaddy:
which one are you? 1 or 2

Me ke? None of d above. Am volatile, gather Manchester nd Arsenal

KolaShangOne:
We're all cheaters ehn but you're following 3 men on Nairaland and 0 girls... I hear you..

Abi make I add u? You av been pokenosing abi? Okay o keep stalking

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]When a guy truly loves a girl he would always want to be around the girl. Just seeing her face lightens up his mood.
He would always want to speak with her or text her, just something that would keep the connection with her alive. Hearing her voice makes him happy.
Anything that involves the girl excites him.

He would always want to make the girl happy, because the girls happiness is his happiness. He would always want to please her in anyway he can.
He will make sure she doesn't lack what she needs.

Sex would never be his priority. Even if the girl tells him to wait, he would wait. He wouldn't force it.

If a guys truly loves a girl, he would want to marry her. This is because he would want to spend the rest of his life with her. He would dread the thought of her being with another man.[/color]

So so true, reminds me of when my husband and I were dating, I was his sunshine........Reminiscencing, still am.

micronut:
may be rokiatu and cococandy

No, not Cococandy. Maybe Rokiatu and Onila

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

Aminat, I assume based on ur post u don't want our honest responses since you have already formed an opinion on the issue. In other words, u're not being objective since u blame the wife already.

I blame the husband. There are marital vows to be respected, you are committed to ur wife, reneging on any promise made is betrayal. At any rate, wife n husby must av made the decision to hire a maid so...or will d husby be like: 'I didn't imagine she'd be this irresistible'? No excuse, adultery is adultery.

I also blame the maid for taking what does not belong to her, that is stealing. If Madam like, let her turn her husband to playstation or candy crush that's her wahala. OP, if ur roomy for hostel dey careless wit her fone, u see am, kolobi d fone com begin use am, no be stealing be dat? Ehn ehn! Na serious gbegen for u be dat.

As for the wife, I am not wearing her shoes so I don't know why she needed a maid in the first instance.

sucess001:
lagbaja is stil relevant. he did a collabo with psquare recently.


The most painful one is style plus...

God bless u aplenty. Why wud a great group like Styplus disappear to thin air just like that? Anybody close to them shd please tell them to come back-Shifi, Yemi, Zeal Oh! How I miss them. Tracks like: Olufunmilola, Did u call my name are world class.

Lagbaja shd b taken off the list though he is not as prolific as he used to be, remember motherlan days.

B.O.U.Q.U.I is more of a gospel artist these days.

Muma Gee's voice was more than a nightingale's didn't know why she's into hiding, may be married life got to her.

OP didn't mention Lord of Ajasa, Mode 9, Azadus, 2short, Baba Fryo, Black Face, Ashionye, Kenny St.Brown etc

tivta:
Women in nigeria of this generation just love to be right no matter how truly wrong they are, how can a married woman who is 30years old not have anything to show for her marriage except globe trotting? If she had a kid now I would call Maje a poligamous hegoat, but he has none. I still say just because a woman is working doesn't mean she can't raise a family, that's why I so much love Beyonce, despite her over working life style, she still has time to raise her daughter. She is not a super woman but a virtuous woman, I bet that all the so called women shouting Maje is this and that are all just kids from the early 90's, who are on their way to becoming lesbians. Family must always come first if not there is no way you would be alive. I still say it, Toke was just not ready for marriage, you can't eat your cake and have it. She should have just married her job just like Genevive. I really pity girls of this generation, always trying to eat their cake and have it yet don't have wisdom like Beyonce, what a pity.

How dare you? Comparing Us to Beyonce of all people? She does not strike my idea of virtous. Somebody whose marriage a while back was on the brink of divorce.

For ur info Mister, you are not wearing Toke's shoes so you'll neva know. Have you ever considered she might av been trying to conceive without luck. You don't just sit in your living room, conjure ideas and without censoring ur thot process you assume you can apportion blames. Like somebody opined earlier on this thread, Mr Maje has been cheating before Toke became as busy, career wise as this. So, carry your sermon on the mount elsewhere.

Looking for some excuse for some dickhead that will shove their phallus into any willing hole....
The hole of coke bottle o, pepsi bottle, fanta, mountain dew, maltina can, even the hole on Tiger blade.....hole na hole Mtcheeeeeeew.

KolaShangOne:
Calm down.. You sound bitter..

Ooooookay, I'm sipping the mellow tea, no qualms bt just know y'all 're cheaters.

KolaShangOne:
Its definitely making front page.. Its big news..

Toke the relationship advisor.. Side chick spotter.. O ma se ooo

The way this world is set up right now ehn.. Men will always cheat.. You can argue with your shadow..

You see, exactly my point in another thread... Lessons from past relationship or so...
Men will always cheat, they are cheaters. As for me, No pity party for 'em! Ask Vhikky.

Hmmmmmm..........
I think ....my Manchester nd Arsenal

Following this trend right from the beginning, then I can say av been lucky - no man has ever broken my heart. Instead, I do the heart breaking. I remember now leavin 2 or 3 of them wit tears streaming down their faces, one even threatened to curse me, of course I laughed it off where will a medical doctor get 'otomopo' from? He just wanted me to stay.

Now, I don't feel any remorse, many men av caused many ladies too much heartbreaks so am happy dealing wit them in defence of the sisters.

Guys, whimper and whine all u want, deed is done nd av hung my boots.

kingarizona1:

These particular ones may be photoshopped but it is not an impossibility. My mum used to av a dog nd a goat, the two were best friends, they sleep together nd walk together. God is awesome.