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demelza: Are the men themselves faithful?Don't mind them, you asked the right question. The world is perverted and there is nothing anybody can do about that so therefore, any man who needs a good and faithful wife should equally be a good and faithful husband. God is a respecter of nobody. He will judge according to His standard and tradition or culture will not save anybody on the day of accountability. The bible says everybody should flee from adultery. You reap the seeds you sow whether good or bad. |
Ema prince: does it mean that she's been dating this person even before you guys got married? because if she started cheating on you after marriage,then my brother,you are in trouble sha!..can u trust her again?..I doubt that!Please oga i think you are taking this case personal. To say that a wife that cheats on the husband can possible kill her husband is the biggest lie of the century. No need explaining or shedding more light on this because you have already taken the case personal. Op you made a good choice. Very good choice. Especially in the case where you wish to be forgiven when you do same. Some guys are not cheating today because they are stingy to waste their money on a woman which means if a beautiful and sexy lady offers her body free of charge in a friendly way, they will do it. Some guys are not cheating today because they are not financially bouyant. Some ladies are not cheating on their husbands today because they have not met wonderful players. Before a man or a woman can say that he/she will never forgive unfaithfulness, they too must ask themselves "can i be faithful to this man/woman till death do us apart no matter the situations/temptations". If yes is the sincere and true answer from your inner man than you worth it if not, forever hold your peace and forgive even faster because you don't know tomorrow. Never say never until you have passed through severe temptations and succeed. Op, good choice. |
Nashville: Very true and very scriptural. There is some kind of favour and grace that comes with being married. I also experienced it big time. In my first year of marriage, the blessings I received almost overwhelmed me and I got a few miracles too. I means real life miracles.This man you are something else. The oddity amongest the nairaland married men. May the mercy of God that endures forever never depart from your home. May your marriage be a point of contact to broken homes around your vicinity and may your children be the best amongest their equals. Amen. |
no1madman: i'm so into sexy orobos. . .it runs in my Family. .Sorry |
limosik: Bla bla bla..is it the kind of lust you really wanted to experience? Or you mean you or some of friends pray to have wet dreams?...do you? Oh I see you must have had sex with several men u asked for,if you think wet dreams takes place as a result of lust? Huh?...Hey guyz,princess zoe thinks you have wet dreams because of your sex fantasies,guess she doesnt knw wat it means to have wet dreams |
limosik: Bla bla bla..is it the kind of lust you really wanted to experience? Or you mean you or some of friends pray to have wet dreams?...do you? Oh I see you must have had sex with several men u asked for,if you think wet dreams takes place as a result of lust? Huh?...Hey guyz,princess zoe thinks you have wet dreams because of your sex fantasies,guess she doesnt knw wat it means to have wet dreamsCould you please explain this post of yours? I can't really place sense or meaning to it. |
Enegod: yes..Because there are so many differentHahahahaha this guy is funny. Please solomon was not the first man, it was adam. The way God joined adam with only one woman was and has been the only way God created men. Women get attracted to varieties of men too. Polygamy is different from cheating. David had more than one wife but he cheated and he faced the consequences. Cheating by women started in the time of old and were recorded in the bible. Am sure you know that potipher's wife was hell ready for handsome joseph who resisted her. Women in those days especially in a polygamous home must have cheated because naturally one man cannot keep more than one wife faithful but our bible may not have recorded them due to one reason or the other. In all these, we still have faithful men who have the resources but will not cheat, those who can get an naked woman on their beds for free but they will not yield, those who have been in an extreme cases but they still stand and same goes to women. So we have exceptions. Never say never until you have been tempted and stretched to the extreme, and came out victoriously, only then can one beat his or her chest and say that s/he is a faithful partner. That road is neither easy for a man nor for a woman. The world is very perverted. |
dojumav: @op nice write up...i join you to say the same thing. Nice write up @ Op |
austushi1: So d guys dat self service, do not have d fear of God, abi?This type of question always appear null and void to me because of knowledge gap. Get the meaning of one having the fear of God first, then you will possibly get your answer without doubt. |
udemzy_udex: even the men of God do fornicate.. |
udemzy_udex: even the men of God do fornicate..I know that mindset. There is a saying that the national anthem of hell fire is "every body is doing it". You better reject that mindset and build a discipline life style. Good and discipline men are every where . The issue is that you have been attracting your likes and your ears hear negative stories about your likes. Everybody (man and woman) do have the urge but some men hardly control their urge, likewise some women. The urge is normal and do occur in every human except if one has medical issues. God gives life to everybody. I don't understand your logic of men are the carriers of life. Please start working towards leaving a discipline life, it works , some men are very discipline to the core. Your choice. |
limosik: So, what about wet dreams...try to clarify dt...semens(fluid mixed with sperm) dt comes out when u ve a wetdream...is dat a sin too? Did u make d wetdream come intentionally? Did u stimulate it? Isn't it d same as spilling? Or wen u ve wetdreams u swallow it or lick it so as to avoid spilling? Read d scriptures very well b4 u start an argumentAnd wet dreams don't emanate or take place as a result of lust(sex fantasies)? |
udemzy_udex: I always tell girls that there is no guy that will date without asking for sex. .if he doesn't ask then it's because he is shy or he self service. himself..wrong! There are guys who don't ask nor self service because they have fear of God. Aside fear of God, comes strong moral principle. In some ocasions, is the women that initiate sexx. Discipline also plays important role here. |
Exponental: @op, As d case is, he has 3 options.Amongst the 3 options, where do we place abstinence? Or should we add abstinence as option no.4? |
Marriage is not by force. If the parents of the woman you want to marry, tend to have placed their daughter on a high price, shift to another lady, is only a choice. Between all parents don't charge the same amount as bride price, traditions and cultures differ as well. Such events(different prices of bride price) even took place in the bible, so is normal. Do your calculations well, if the lady you want to marry has been placed on a high price (bride price) and you have exhausted every options, please take your leave. The conditions you posted above sounded as if marriage is a do or die affair, or even by force but i guess you were only joking with those demanding. Please find another lady whose parents are even going to collect 400 naira from you as bride price because i have seen where it happened. So]me parents do not even collect any thing except the buying of yams, rice, wrapper stuffs.500,000 naira is even too much, very exorbitant but some cultures may be collecting more than that which may not be bad i guess. So relax and do your calculations well my dear. [b][/b] |
shy1seyi: A friend once complained to me bitterly that each thime he had issues with his wife, that same night when he makes sexual advances to her,she rejects bitterly and wont allow any further action.Sex,being a mutual thing should be something that should be enjoyed by both parties,even if the Man had to force his way in some cases.[/b]Is it then right for a woman to reject her husband in bed to portray her greif?[b]In as much as is wrong, issues must be settled before any intimacy. The wife is not a prostitute who goes down without any feelings. The man should make sure that every issue gets settled, whoever that is at fault should apologize. only then can the woman go down with happiness and readiness. sexx in marriage is deeply rooted in emotions unlike sexx with a prostitute.Clear issues and don't leave them lingering, of course it does a lot to the heart. Some men can equally refuse food or refuse giving their wives emotional attention if they had issues with their wives earlier before then. Emotions must be reserved and not killed in marriage |
Mayflowa: I understand what u mean. I hv been fighting from day one.I hate adultery but I also feel abused.O!this is serious. I doubt whether all you have posted here are really as they appear because i know that you are very angry. Please ignore some of the things your wife said to you because people can say nonsense when they are really upset. That is why in marriage, you forgive, forgive, forgive and continue to forgive except on the ground of adultery which you can still forgive. DO NOT DIVORCE. I bet you,you cannot remain single if you do, and if you remarry, you may cry more than you are crying now and definitely heaven will shut against you because you divorced aside the ground of adultery. Please hold on, you will win this. Communication will work wonders here but you must speak from deep down your heart, tell her the extreme you have gone with your intentions,be sincere, do the talking in the midnight and make sure you pray before waking her up. Believe me, believe God, your marriage will work and children must set in. |
yemi2plus: wait for Jesus Christ, he is coming very soon. coolest01: no time to read this long post...but I'm sure the best person to fit this long list is JESUS hourlarwharley: be patient, Jesus is coming very Soon he alone has all d qualities above.. I advice u marry him only if u have d qualities as well.I guess you guys like the fun you just made with this NAME. Desist from bringing the name of the Lord into paltry matters. Desist from using the name of the Lord in vain. your choice. |
betterline: I guess u are right. She believe getting pregnant will make her lazy and stop the growth of her biz. She is 28 going 29. I am going 35. There are issues associated with late pregnancy. I won't wait for that to befall. |
betterline: I guess u are right. She believe getting pregnant will make her lazy and stop the growth of her biz. She is 28 going 29. I am going 35. There are issues associated with late pregnancy. I won't wait for that to befall.Do you really mean to commit adultery? Holy Jesus. So you expect your marriage to be all rosy without a challenge? So you cannot stand your ground to fight the problem and challenge that entered your home? Are you trading your headship in your marriage with the devil? A head is a protector and a fighter, are you actually selling that right to adultery? Am sure you know what adultery can cause for you? You may need to prepare yourself for divorce; unsettled home; permanent lack of love; immoral children or even financial turbulent. You are about to invite the devil to come and take total per-eminent in your home. From your post, you sound as if you have ventured into it before and you think that spiritual consequences of adultery cannot bring this problem of you dragging with your wife over having what some homes are lacking(children), yet you are about sailing again. Ignorance is a slow killer. Between, will you have the face to pray to God again? What will you tell God? My wife pushed me into this? It was a mistake? No, you signed the warrant and purposely choosed that path. Of course God will forgive but you will reap the seed of adultery you have sown, that is the hurting truth people don't know . Physical and spiritual consequences of adultery are still affecting majority of homes even homes where the couple have said no to infidelity. Trust me, you don't want to do this for time shall come when you will pray to change the hands of time in order to amend your deeds. I will love to see you enjoy the glory of God upon your marriage, that was why i came back to paste this second message. Remember, for things to get better, you must get better and not worse. Your choice. |
ademotors166: My dear, I understand you. But, if I get married and after some years no kid..... I wonder if my wife can withstand the pressure that will follow.[b]My dear many families have gone through delay in child bearing and still came out of it victoriously. Spiritually, there is no guarantee that your wife will start producing babies almost immediately after matching down to aisle even if you marry an under aged girl but there is 100% guarantee that God does not leave His people childless. Nobody here can stick out his or her neck for you by betting that your wife will give birth immediately after wedding why because we are not magicians. Every marriage has its own challenge and yours might be what you fear most. Even if such happens(God forbid), you must be strong for yourself and for your wife.You must determine not to open the door for the devil and oppressors. That is why marriage is not a child's play. If you lack the quality of fighting for your marriage especially when childlessness is involved then you should place your marriage plans on hold and deal with your poor qualities first. I pray that what you fear most, will not come upon you and that devil will not use it against you. Some men faced this and made it. please get your mind off it. Build resistant trait, build violent faith and above all,know that anywhere there is a rise, there is a price.[/b] |
NO, she is not a wicked woman. she is simply temperamental. Communication should be taken serious in your marriage. Get Christian article that deals with how to put up with a temperamental person for yourself and get another write up that deals with anger management for her. Also both of you should discuss about selflessness and top priorities in your marriage. I guess this is your own marriage challenge. Every marriage has it's own so you don't fret when yours come.You need to deal with this selflessly and patiently.Above all, get on bended knees because in kneeling,we win. |
Billyonaire: You are gonna hurt yourself a lot by deciding to torture yourself for something that you are obviously the victim. You need to toughen up.And what exactly is your point? That he should commit adultery? Shame to devil. You mean he should defile his marital bed to destroy the glory of his marriage?. The lord rebuke devil. The OP will not do such thing. The mercies of God will not let him fail and he will find solution to his challenges. OP please ignore some comments here. Ignore the comments like: she doesn't love you; blackmail her; cheat on her; involve your parents; you married the wrong woman; or even the comments blaming you for anything. This is your trial time and if you stand this test of time, your marriage will be promoted. You may not understand what i mean until you defeat this. And can you really defeat this challenge? YES, you can. Jidegirl has been wonderful with her advise. Try sticking to her advise or the advises of the post of her likes and you will see that God has really given them the wisdom to help out of your predicament. Believe this, you must walk out of this victoriously. |
Billyonaire: You are gonna hurt yourself a lot by deciding to torture yourself for something that you are obviously the victim. You need to toughen up. |
Billyonaire: You are gonna hurt yourself a lot by deciding to torture yourself for something that you are obviously the victim. You need to toughen up.And what exactly is your point? That he should commit adultery? Shame to devil. You mean he should defile his marital bed to destroy the glory of his marriage?. The lord rebuke devil. The OP will not do such thing. The mercies of God will not let him fail and he will find solution to his challenges. OP please ignore some comments here. Ignore the comments like: she doesn't love you; blackmail her; cheat on her; involve your parents; you married the wrong woman; or even the comments blaming you for anything. This is your trial time and if you stand this test of time, your marriage will be promoted. You may not understand what i mean until you defeat this. And can you really defeat this challenge? YES, you can. Jidegirl has been wonderful with her advise. Try sticking to her advise or the advises of the post of her likes and you will see that God has really given them the wisdom to help out of your predicament. You must walk out of this victoriously. |
And i hope all of you judging her has never cheated on your partners before. OP, am going to deviate a little now, please ignore some advises that has been dropped here out of chauvinism and hypocrisy. Don't tell me you can't spot them cause you can, when you read, read and re-read their comments carefully. Think out of the box while reading comments. Check the posters previous comments on past threads especially threads that are sexually and relationship related. Threads that have to do with topics where a man visits brothels; cheats on the wife; attracted to other woman aside his partner; e.t.c. Check those threads to confirm and be at least 98% sure whether such a person can profer same harsh or disciplinary advise when same sex gender is involved. N.B: some may be using multiple handles but some how by their fruits( same comments) you shall know them.Meanwhile, try and build a strong wall of discipline around you, with that, you can always control yourself not to hurt yourself or partner. |
O this is lovely. Op please keep it up. Just do it with care and not for fun to avoid mistakes but God forbid. May the joy in your home never turn to sorrow, Amen. I love this. |
Tolexander: If she comes to my house, i will cook for her. But going to turn myself to a cook seems to be an impossible mission for me. I will rather go out to buy her food.You are really one of the best of your kind. Impressive! |
Gudintent: Nice.I think i will vote for this opinion. |
[b]OP, yes prayer moves mountain but is not all really about prayers. Is really about you knowing that you will reap what you sow, is really about you knowing that you are contracting spiritual forces (bad luck; uncontrollable bad manners; failure at the edge of breakthrough; poverty; better luck next time syndrome; curses; spells; bewitchment; evil attacks ETC). Is all about you knowing that you may have to relax and cry your heart out when your daughters turn to prostitutes/runs girls or your sons become great patronizers. It is all about having fear of God. Now, with or without prayers, you can stop it, by the time you know the truth about the damages you have already done. There are Christian who assume posts in the church but they do more of this so is not really about prayers. Prayers will be Mostly needed when you have stopped and decided to erase all that you have contracted. Only God knows how long it will take for you to come out victoriously but with Him nothing is impossible. So determine today, stick to it and start the warfare of cleansing yourself, but then, only if you want glorious future. Your choice.[/b] |
...wait for him, he's coming soon **hugs**