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Do we still have this type of OP's hubby as husband? This is one of the reasons why wives lose respect and love for their husbands, nag them around and cheat on them. You cannot make an irresponsible man a husband material, no you cant. No matter how "decent" he might force himself to appear, he will still bring out the irresponsibility in him. And please is not in any man's nature to behave like this except if the man lacks good parental upbringing, fear of God or discipline. |
Many parents are not really trying. Male children should be giving special attention. Male children should be given undiluted moral lessons. Male children should be taught on how to say no to sex until they marry. OP move out of that relationship. There are some guys who got moral training from home and are morally principled. Am very serious. Most of these guys are virgins. Hold on, be focused, believe, you will get one of them and may even walk down the alter with him. Just move out of that relationship and be yourself. |
Segeggs: @Mynd_44 . Look at the way this gal is all over you. I envy ur reward. I guess i'll have to imbibe your brainwashing technique.Hello Mr. I wonder why you addressed me in that manner. |
[quote author=Mynd_44]The argument in the opening post have been addressed. What else do you want?[/quote]Mynd please ignore those guys. Ignore them completely. They can call you whatever they like because you aint chauvinistic like them. Do not let them inculcate you with their pervertciousness although i have always known that you are not fickle minded or the gullible type. You and nashville are a very wonderful set of men. No good woman will like to lose you even some bad women will like to have your type as their husbands. Good upbringing reflects. |
xynerise: I dont see why a woman will love her husband and still cheat on him. Where is the fear of being chased out when caught?And you think most of them habour such fear these days? You think some of them will ever being caught? You think some of them aint indpendepnt to the extend that they take turns to pay house rent with their husbands or even do the paying alone? You think some of them aint very strong both physically, spiritually and financially? If the man was so lucky to have found out and succeded in chasing the unfaithful wife away and later remarried, what assurance does he have that the second wife wouldn't be a TACTFUL cheat who never gets caught while she does her duties well? The days are evil and the world is completely immoral. The assurance for you to escape having any of these women as your wife is when you are a very responsible man with fear of God. |
NnamdiN: They handed over everything |
NnamdiN: They handed over everythingHahahahaha. Earnestly is worst now than before. |
NnamdiN: They handed over everythingHahahahahah. Earnestly is worst now than before. |
MRbrownJAY: Yes, some men are insatiable, and yes again, some men will cheat but i doubt this is a reason for any woman who loves her man to NOT stand and fight for her marriage/man. if you are claiming that all married women have absolutely no issues towards their husband then you must truly be joking.....unless of course you want to claim that WE (men) are responsible for your constant nagging. |
MRbrownJAY: Yes, some men are insatiable, and yes again, some men will cheat but i doubt this is a reason for any woman who loves her man to NOT stand and fight for her marriage/man. if you are claiming that all married women have absolutely no issues towards their husband then you must truly be joking.....unless of course you want to claim that WE (men) are responsible for your constant nagging.Now can you practise what you preach, i mean stand by your wife, fight for your marriage and do the stuffs you mentioned or should we classify you as a hypocrise MR? |
Acidosis: My woman cannot cheat..I pray this is true because the rate of married women(both the church title holders, the well brought up and the once morally principled) that cheat these days is ALMOST getting to be the same with the rate of married men who cheat. The world is extremely immoral. But we still faithful husbands and faithful wives to the glory of God. |
Oh my bukatyne and nashville, no archive card to give, no sweet flowers to send(due to distance), no cute graphices to forward, just a caring heart with lovely saying "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" |
Honest |
[quote author=Gabriel_sylar]...don't just marry who u love but who u can live with.... that u LOVE an aircraft doesn't mean u can OPERATE it...love is just chemical reactions...compatibility is reality...love does not produce compatibility but compatibility will produce a bonding that natural words cannot fathom...let's stop deceiving ourselfs putting the cart before the horse...loving someone does not mean u can live together...dis is why we have 5ex to MAKE love...we gorra MAKE it cos it isint there before...lol[/quote]You really sound like a marriage counsellor. Your definitions and explanations are the best and very true. Some people are still confused about the two(love and compatibility) but they don't know hence still hold on to their misconceptions. |
[quote author=$wtme]Abeg this guy is fine n looking younger than his age [/quote]Honestly o. He looks younger than his age. 32 really. Abeg what type of gene bi this one? E good o. |
[quote author=$wtme]Abeg this guy is fine n looking younger than his age [/quote] |
[quote author=$wtme]Abeg this guy is fine n looking younger than his age [/quote]Honestly o. He looks younger than his age. 32 really. Abeg what type of gene bi this one? E good o |
[quote author=D-Explorer]When you love someone as you claim, you protect their interest to a reasonable measure. . .alas! Respecting them comes along.[/quote]That is exactly what the mind of the OP has failed to comprehend. He even misinterpreted and misunderstood the instructions God gave couples. A teen, he is, maybe. |
And you are thinking of parting ways because of this? Just for this only? Not even as a result of adultery? These days marriage sounds more like a social club where one comes in and goes out anytime any day he wishes. Now oga, why you have not being able to solve this problem is that you don't do it with love; you have not been doing it as if she is one body with you; you have not being doing it with sacrifices; you have not really being showing her the sign to trust you enough in the sense that you know what you are doing. You think parting ways will settle the matter? You think divorce will free you from marriage turbulencies? Divorce can only guarantee you another free passage to marriage in which as a christian you are allowed to obtain it on the ground of adultery otherwise you are on your own . Divorce and remarry and you will still see another set of turbulence which will be very different from this one you are facing and might be worst, that is when you will know that marriage has a biblical blue prints which you have completely ignored. |
So because you called him daft, he got angry, so pissed that for two weeks you begged for forgiveness he couldnt forgive you? In as much as you used the wrong word and equally appologized which suppose to have settled the matter long enough before now, is he still suppose to remain hard hearted?. Does he know that in marriage he might face challenges that will sound more harsh that being called a daft? What will he do then? The guy has unforgiven spirit which is a marriage sinker because in marriage one will have to forgive, forgive and forgive even without waiting to be begged except when adultery is involved. Madam, the guy will still come around but you must do a proper check up before accepting to marry that guy if he proposes. You dont need to think with your heart in this case, use your brain. Love is just one tenth of what is needed in marriage. Remember, "there is no one so deaf as those who refuse to listen". Listen now because simple things become complex when one refuses to follow advice. |
So because you called him daft, he got angry, so pissed that for two weeks you begged for forgiveness yet he couldnt forgive you? In as much as you used the wrong word and equally appologized, which suppose to have settled the matter long enough before now yet he remains hard heartened. Does he know that in marriage he might face challenges that will sound more harsh that being called a daft? What will he do then? The guy has unforgiven spirit which is a marriage sinker because in marriage one will have to forgive, forgive and forgive even without waiting to be begged except when adultery is involved. Madam, the guy will still come around but you must do a proper check up before accepting to marry that guy if he proposes. You dont need to think with your heart in this case, use your brain. Love is just one tenth of what is needed in marriage. Remember, "there is no one so deaf as those who refuse to listen". |
onila: tufia! thats not fair |
There is nothing wrong in a lady answering her father's name along side her husband's name and there is nothing wrong in a man wanting his wife to bear his surname alone. The two in question are not compatible. They are very adamant and arrogant. They don't have any sense of tolerance and sacrifice. The man does not want to yield neither does the wife want to yield. If they can seriously go into strife due to mere surname issue, how much damage will they do when the real waves come knocking after their wedding? They should seperate and look for the partners that will tolerate their selfish and stubborn characters respectively. |
If i am to speak for myself, i will not and cannot maintain a joint account with my spouse except if God stands against it. |
True although there are some church title holders who act as if they know God and love him while they don't but by their fruits you shall know them. |
Op, you want to sleep with her? I wonder why some people come out in the open to express their immoral intentions. Is that suppose to be a lack of good parental trainning; corruption or moral decadence? Op, you too had better check yourself, who knows, you might have spirit wife too. |
You don't have any business with the lady. The only person you have business with is your man. Thank your stars that you found out on time before wedding him so any decision you make now can either make you or marr you. The guy is unfaithful and if you forgive him now and ignore his cheating, make sure you do the same thing after your wedding with him. Don't come back crying that you didnt know he was going to do it again or that you thought you could change him. If you can tolerate his cheating please marry him but if you cannot, jilt the relationship now. The choice is yours. |
kulyie: as well as scrubing brush,right?:p8-)Ofcourse, kids of that age (a year) have their tooth brushes |
Cc is right. You can even start from one year because by then the baby must have gotten some teeth. Dont use any how toothpaste. Use milk teeth paste or get a similar paste to avoid harm. |
There is nothing wrong in hosting a traditional wedding in ones father's house in the city. The depising thing is what baffles me even. How can someone from igbo come up to say that she hates igbos? The mother is from yoruba, married to igbo but hate igbos. I guess the woman cojeled her children into this hatred which is bad and their father may have insisted on going to village for the ceremony as a result of their hatred towards their tribe of which has been a big blow to him. If they are refusing to go to the village due to security purposes, let their father adapt but if is just for nonsensical reasons, they should be the one to adapt. |
There is nothing wrong in a mother in law visiting her son's house except if she is demonic and i didn't see where sarah mentioned that in the above statements however i agree with yield's posts. Yield, i agree with you completely, at least judging from the cases we have handled concerning homes, you made the best points here. |
[/quote]Honestly o. He looks younger than his age. 32 really. Abeg what type of gene bi this one? E good o.
thats not fair