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dmcdad: They are two different things... double-date means two couples going on a date (you know a couple is consist of two people). So invariably, it's a date in which two couples participate. For example, you go on a date with your partner along with your friend and her partner. That's what double-date means. People are just using the phrase mis-appropriately. While of course you know cheating is something very much different to this. Capiché?

dmcdad: And I am sure you have the mind to think in all directions and not just one so as to discern whatever point I might be trying to pass even though I did pass it jokingly. And always try to keep an open mind to whatever that comes to the fore, because you might be missing something fundamental out of ignorance caused by being biased.

Good day.

dmcdad: Tell her to better follow Jesus now oooo. So that Jesus too no go do her wetin u do her wey make her come dey say "had I known" ooooo. Lmao

To avoid stories that touch

dmcdad: How about peeps like me with ugly and broke asśes... Are you saying no hope for us? Lol

dmcdad: Please double dating is not same as unfaithfulness or cheating... I think you should look it up in your dico for your kind perusal...

platinumricky: am i the only one who finds this funny?

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greatgod2012: My dear, I don't want to judge you o, but I'm not happy with you for what you have made up of your life because you want to bag a MRS title. Tell me some of the things you are going to lose if you are not a Mrs.
You should know that you can't force anyone to love you, or marry you. You have just played with your self esteem and that man have seen your desperation towards him marrying you, hence, treating you like a rag. He had wanted you to leave and you didn't, that's why he's maltreating you, thank God you didn't die in that situation before your eyes were opened.
Now that your eyes are opened and you've decided to move on, learn from your mistake, concentrate more on how you're going to have a successful childbirth, make yourself happy, move with positive oriented people, people that will believe and accept you the way you are, have positive approach to life, believe in your God and believe in yourself. You are the only one responsible for your happiness, don't deny yourself of your happiness. For now, refrain from having amorous relationship with anyone, build up yourself up again. Always get engaged in fruitful activities like reading, surfing the net for what can be productive in and for your life.


And as for what you can do to take revenge on that guy ,unfortunately, there is nothing you can do, I will advise that you forgive him and hand him over to God, He will deal with him, remember God says, vegeance is mine, I will take it, so, let God take the vegeance on your behalf and you shall be better for that.

And as for being suicidal, for what? I say, for what exactly? If you have opportunity to hear or see what others are passing through, you will thank God for your own life, I can't die for good people, se na bad person I go come die for? God forbid!

I want you to see positives in everything that happens to you, admit that you have learnt the lessons meant for you to learn and move on with your life.
It is well with you and happy delivery in Jesus name.

Tofax: 1 Believing a Guy will change 4 u
2 insisting on a Guy who clearly doesn't give a crap about u
3 Playing hard 2 get 4 entirely 2 long, till you're way past
your sell by a date
4 Falling 4 a bad Guy and putting the good guys in the
"FRIENDS Z0NE"
5 Thinking every Guy is like your EX
6 Shaving 0ff your EYEBR0WS Completely just 2 draw them
back 0n
7 Blaming the entire male population 4 one bad experience
8 Bringing 0ther Gals down because of your own
insecurities
9 allowing the same Guy 2 hurt u 0ver and over, you're
taken him back for another time. It's u who has a problem
not Him
10 ignoring this post and perfecting the same mistakes

dmcdad: ^^^^ Jesus Christ of Nazareth!

dmcdad: ^^^^ Jesus Christ of Nazareth!

eyenCalabar: When I read things like this, I'll just feel bad with you girls. Didn't you know the kind of person he is before you got married to him? Is his actions new to you? Do you think it all men that women should get married to? No pls! Some are just good for friendship alone. Now, he's beginning to get tired of you for just first pregnancy. What would happen when your breasst start sagging? He'll need a marriage break nah. See, there are some things in life you can actually use your wisdom to settle it than with long prayers in the long run.

jidegirl12: Instruction on ''How to Respond To A Bully'' is inscribed ( with pics) on every institution walls here.

1. Look bully straight in the eye and tell him how you feel.
( don't talk to me like that I don't appreciate it, blah blah)

2. Walk Away

3. Report to the Teacher/ Authority.

Teaching your Kids to retaliate is same as what a Bully does .... In other words y'all teaching your kids how to be a bully. Lobatan

By the way, why can't y'all people eradicate smacking, spanking and pain inflicting ways from y'all mentality already, I see it keeps y'all blood flowing,

Violence beget violence don't y'all think??

Jagidijagan sha!

Ujujoan: You are right, love is EVERYTHING . . .

The problem is that most people mistake lust for love these days, that's why they are advised not to marry out of 'love'!

Without love, a marriage cannot succeed . . . . but only REAL love stands the test of time.

On my wedding day, I read from the scripture where men were advised to love their wives the way Christ loves the church. So much more that he was willing to give up his life for our sake.

That kind of love does not come overnight. you can only build that kind of love with someone you trust and respect. Someone you value like a friend . . .

Enegod: wether a man is marriageable or not he is still gonna get married unlike the ladies..it's a man's world..deal with it!!

Ayab1203: I would do like my parents did. Meet the bully's parents and discus the issue . If that doesn't work, teach my child fighting techniques or get a younger cousin from my kin to bully the bully! And if that doesnt work an na legal action straight! I no get child wen person go make miserable/suicidal . Lai lai! I no gree!

Enegod: nth like husband material..we the men can get married at any time if we find the right wife material

Enegod: nth like husband material..we the men can get married at any time if we find the right wife material