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 Romance › Re: 20 Marriage Tips Everyone Needs To Know by Princesszoe: 12:41am On Aug 31, 2013 |
Op, i can testify that your write up was done out of honesty. God bless you. Actually some husbands do these things. Some husbands have these traits. I even know one and his marriage is now 17years. The wife is always full of testimonies. Any lady that has been afraid of getting married due to the characters and behaviours of some men(chauvinistic men mostly) will change her mind after visiting that home. Op your points are very true and they are being found amongest some husbands. I have come to find out that in some families, the women sacrifice more, while in some, the men do the bending and compromising the more. In some familes, both the husband and wife give equal sacrifices while in some, the couple are being reluctant to be humble enough to pamper their homes. This is why many homes lack peace, love, internal happiness, trust, faithfulness, etc. People should endeavour in building good and discipline attitudes more before venturing into marriage. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price? by Princesszoe: 11:42pm On Aug 30, 2013 |
Monicasque: no matter how desperate you can be child. never ever ever practise such a thing. HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. It's the his duty not hers even if he is as broke as whatever its his dutySounds harsh but you are absolutely right. He should do it all alone. When the time for wedding comes, the woman can help if she is bouyant enough. |
| Romance › Re: 12 Shocking Bad Habits Of Nigerian Guys by Princesszoe: 1:45pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
harmless phil: U forgot to add theseThis quote is even the funnist part of this.  . I wonder how you ladies sit down to compile all these. Hahahahahah. |
| Romance › Re: 12 Shocking Bad Habits Of Nigerian Guys by Princesszoe: 1:30pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
| OP, funny as these appear, they are true but some guys are not really guilty of them all. |
| Romance › Re: A Lonely Heart In Need Of Mature Male Friend by Princesszoe: 6:20am On Aug 25, 2013 |
temmycool: Thanks guys,I truly appreciate you all...saw all d msg buh I was told nairaland isn't d best site,that was Y I didn't add or call any1 this is a disappointment of the highest level. Hahahahah, you just made me laughed in pidgin. |
| Romance › Re: Marriage Is Like Chewing Gum. by Princesszoe: 8:34pm On Aug 24, 2013 |
So marriage is now being compared with chewing gum. Hmm serious indeed. |
| Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by Princesszoe: 7:16pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: interesting...Exactly, this(3some) has never been part of the human norm. 2some and the rest are very weird and awkward. I just wonder how devil is playing fast one on human senses. Both the men and the women who are involved should try thinking twice. This act should be the same with bestiality, very awkward. Again, i pray that we increase from strength to strength. |
| Family › Re: Hope Her Fantasy Wont Destroy Her Marriage by Princesszoe: 6:55pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
biolabee: I dont get u...i said a 3zome is conventionally frowned uponIf actually what you mean is that is not rampant for a woman to pay 2 young men to bed her then i guess is because you have not heard nor seen it that much. Some married women pay young men to give them oral intimacy. Some married women pay for penetration , according to what i heard, they mostly do it for them to reach climax because some men hardly last on bed. So they do it in the sense that when the first guy arrives, the second one will help them come. 2some, 3some, multisome are very weird on their own, it doesn't matter who did it. I wonder how this came to be. Devil has really dealt with human senses. Some men and women don't only defile their marriages, but also involve in these 2some of a thing. I wonder where we are going. I pray the OP comes out of this without soiling herself because this sexual fantasy is a very powerful tool. I pray our strength increase day by day. |
| Family › Re: by Princesszoe: 7:33pm On Aug 17, 2013 |
Nashvile God bless you beyond measure. I believe we are not only discussing about female children here. Our male children equally need special attention if not more. We are to educate our children morally especially the male ones. Our male children should be tutored on how to control their sexual urges. They should be taught on the necessity of saying no to sex until after wedding. They should be taught of the spiritual and physcial consequences of sexual immorality. They should be taught on the consquences of smoking, joining cultist, roaming around with bad peers, drinking in excess and so on. If sixty percent of parents can influence their male children on moral grounds, many female children will be saved from rape, teenage pregnancy will be reduced, prostitution as a result of lack of money to take care of ones children due to teenage pregnancy will minimize, divorce being caused by infidelity or battery from the male side will reduce, bosses asking their female employees to pull off panties before giving them appointment letter or promotion will minimize and more male graduates who are qualifies for various job positions will be employed, killing for money making will be minimized, robbery and kidnapping will be minimized, above all immorality will reduce. Our male children should be taught with carefulness with ALMOST the same way female children are taught. Tell them to protect their bodies from women that are not their wives. Also not to sleep with any woman that is not the wife. Our male children are stronger sex i.e emotionally, so we are to teach them to be protectors and not destroyers(sexual predators). The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Teach your male children that as well as the female children. Remember, the children learn more from what we do, they listen to what we say about daddy or about mummy. If they ever hear from mummy or close relation that dad cheated on mum, the dad has started losing. Same goes to mummy. That is why training children is the most challanging issue in the marriage. Let us be guided accordingly. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Living With A Cheating Husband by Princesszoe: 9:49am On Aug 17, 2013*. Modified: 10:05am On Aug 17, 2013 |
honey86: God fearing sef is risky. I know a deacon with the most virtuous woman as wife, who cheats like crazy. The wife found out but the man is still doing it.No no no honey, people mistake titles in the church to God fearing. Being a priest, pastor, deacon, evanglist, chorister, usher, minister, G.O, deliverance minister, gospel singer, etc, does not mean that you are God fearing. The bible says that "Many are called but ONLY FEW are choosen". We have people who go to church just on sundays but they have fear of God. We have people who has not read from genesis to revelation of the bible but they have the fear of God. We have people who only knew few or little bible quotations off hand but they are God fearing. We have people who do not speak in tongues but they have fear of God. We have people who do not assume any post in the church but they have fear of God. Having church titles does not make one God fearing. Even if such a person speaks in tongues or performs miracles, is still not a yard stick to say such a person is God fearing, why, because the gift of God does not go with repentence. We also have perverted strange tongues. I will stop here. Honey, titles in the church has nothing to do with being God fearing. |
| Family › Re: Nagging And Non Caring Wife by Princesszoe: 10:01pm On Aug 16, 2013 |
Chillisauce: This!My dear how could you suggest a thing like that? Why would you advise him to use violence? Ofcourse that will cause chaos in the marriage the more. The wife is already following the wrong path and you still want this man to join her by doing such thing. This is marriage we are talking about, a case between a husband and wife, and not a case between oga and boiboi. Please violence does not keep a home, it scatters it or brings emotional abuse. Your advise is not healthy please. Violence must stay out of marriage, is not allowed in the institution of marriage. The man should do no such thing. He should humbly settle things as christ does to his church for that is the quality of a head, HUMLITY and LOVE. |
| Family › Re: Living With A Cheating Husband by Princesszoe: 2:32pm On Aug 16, 2013 |
Please please please All men are not cheat. All men are not unfaithful. Infact many married women are guilty of adultery. There are some faithful men whom their wives cheat on them. Many women had once cheated on their husbands but later stopped. Many women are still cheating. Some women are seriously crushing over some guys and will sleep with them if opportunity calls. Some women want to cheat but they are afraid of being caught. Some women are not cheating today because neat and rich guys have not toasted and sweet talked them into having an affair . Some women have had one night sex with other men outside. Some women want to cheat but due to their excess weights, not good looking, unactractive dresses they put on, no man of their choice has been able to toast them. Please all nigerian married men are not cheat. Am not talking about those men who do not cheat because they have limited resources i.e those who are not financially bouyant or those who have not really being sex starved to the extend that they can no longer hold on. Am talking about those who are strongly morally principled. Those who are God-fearing. Ladies should always look before they leap. OP you can divorce even if your husband does it once because the scripture gave you that authority. And you can remarry to a very faithful man, am telling you what i know and have witnessed. But God loves to see peace in families. God loves forgiveness. If you will stay, take the case to God for He has the power to make the impossible possible. I feel for you. Be strong if you can, God will help you. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What Could Be Wrong With My Wife? Pls Help by Princesszoe: 10:00am On Aug 15, 2013 |
OP i will advise you against involving in two things which will ruin your life and marriage, defile the glory and favour of God in your marriage for the bible says that "he who findeth a wife obtainth favour from the Lord". The two things are divorce and cheating/adultery. On no account should you ever cheat on your wife. I read a story on this nairaland yesterday about a woman whose husband has not being able to satisfy her sexually for good 4 years and yet she stood her ground not to sleep with another man and will still be a good wife to her husband. That is love, that is selflessness, that is patient, that is hope, that is tolerant, that is a heavy sacrifice and that is the character of standing the test of time and also what marriage is all about. she even mentioned that the husband does not care about improving and even at that she will never cheat instead she will keep fighting for her marriage. Now can you see the attitude of persistant and tolerance? The bible says that a man should love his wife like his own body, when you sleep with another woman, you have not only hurt your wife but have also destroy the vow, now can you hurt your own body? On no account should you commit adultery. You must determine to bring a change in her behaviour towards sex, determine and swing into action. Don't even fake an attitude of cheating on her or pretending to have a mistress outside because it may kill the marriage entirely, all women are not the same. She may start cheating or doing other nasty things. Don't allow the devil to use you like that because devil is very intelligent and smarter than humans. At the end of your post you made the statement of monitoring her to see if you will catch her in adultery and still went ahead to add "IJN", hmm wonders. You knew that your wife has been like that, why then did you marry? Now you want to monitor her as if her refusal for sex is a new development. MR. Divorce should never come into this because that woman might be your heaven appointed wife and if you make that mistake you may regret why you came into this world when you marry the second wife, don't ever make a costly mistake because you will leave to regret it. Go to your pastor or priest, to help you build your marriage. Seek a commited christian who is a marriage counsellor. We have them in the church and they don't need your money to counsel you and your wife. Please stand on your feet as the man of the house and fight for your marriage for you are the head and that is your duty, to fight for your marriage as christ did and still does for His church. 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: 10 Things Women Should Know About Marriage by Princesszoe: 9:04pm On Aug 14, 2013 |
Good points but the topic is wrong and one sided. The topic should be "10 things COUPLES should know about marriage" because almost everything that was pointed in the post are also peculiar to women. And any man that failed to understand this , might get frustrated in the marriage. Meanwhile all men are not the same likewise all women are not the same. We have exceptions. |
| Family › Re: 7 Types Of Men To Avoid by Princesszoe: 8:43pm On Aug 14, 2013 |
CC you are very funny but on a serious note, you are on point. Jidegirl you need to increase your points by adding what CC had already aforementioned. I saw a post by a male nairalander which tags "20 things women should not do" and they murdered ladies on that thread. While jidegirl is here listing only 7 points. Make it up to 20 points. Include CC points too to balance out the equation. una no go tear my belle with laugh o. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Nagging And Non Caring Wife by Princesszoe: 9:56am On Aug 14, 2013 |
modupsie: they are lots of women like this out there. i beg to differ from ur opinion that its a spiritual thing. when a woman is self centered its a character or attitude that can hardly be changed. my mum is one of such, while growing up my dad pays for everything up to salt and water. our school fees, bags and even socks.My dad was just a school principal while my mum had a good business but whenever we go to my mum for anything, her reply wud be "is ur father dead"? and so we av to go back to him for everything. we are grown now and doing very well but each time i give anything to my mum cos unfortunately my sweet dad is late i always tell her you did not deserve this gesture, the man that paid for all deserves much more. so its just for the op to pray and may be talk to her cos my dad did all these but it did not work. he died a sad man and always advise us to be careful in making marital decisionsOh my dear sister am so sorry for what has happened to you. This case is very different from yours. The op has neither a teaching job nor a business,so where exactly is he suppose to get money for the children's upkeep and not even the general upkeep. My initial post is still my main point from deep down my heart. The op needs God's intervention and not divorce. He needs to work things out because he will come out victoriously. Am so sorry for your dad's issue. I would have said some other things relating to your dad's issue but it might exhume your past. sincerely am so sorry. Remain blessed. |
| Family › Re: A Man Hits His Sister With A Hammer For Stopping Him From Getting Married by Princesszoe: 9:24am On Aug 14, 2013*. Modified: 9:43am On Aug 14, 2013 |
[b]My God! How could he do such a wicked thing to his sister? Doesn't he know about familiar spirit, the act in which someone he knows very well or loves very well is been shown to him in the spirit world as an enemy? I never read where they said that he is a born again in order for someone to ascertain his level in spirit things so i wonder how he came to the conclusion that the sister was really the enemy of his soul. Such a war is not a physical thing, is a spirit battle. Why didn't he meet with his pastors to explain his dreams because such things are spiritual battle? No child of God will go to this extend. He should have sent his sister packing than doing such a wicked thing to her. This case should be a murder case so i wonder why they granted him bail. Corruption i guess or was the bail granted on the ground of insanity? This is bad. Okk i just hope he gets married anytime he evacuates from kirikiri. And i even pray he will not marry a woman whom will see him in the dream trying to hitch her from progressing only to wake up and use digger on his stomach because unfortunately he will reap what he has sown for God can never be mocked. This is wickedness, heartlessness, lack of fear of God and ignorant of the highest level.[/b] |
| Romance › Re: My Apology Letter To My Man by Princesszoe: 7:56pm On Aug 13, 2013 |
Hmmm... |
| Romance › Re: Confession] The Groom-to-be Cheated On His Fiancee, Had S*X With An HIV Positive by Princesszoe: 1:09pm On Aug 13, 2013 |
The problems(both physical and spiritual problems) that sexual immorality has caused people especially unfaithful partners, science cannot solve them all. Loretta really offered a wonderful suggestion but in the situation whereby is pass 3 days , ajibam's suggestion should suffice. The two carriers should marry themselves and give their lives to Christ who is able to cure every manner of sicknesses and diseases. hmmm. unfaithfulness has different prizes attached to it. |
| Family › Re: I Impregnated A Young Girl To Test My Manhood After My Wife Couldn't Conceive by Princesszoe: 7:50am On Aug 13, 2013 |
I have heard some similar cases in which the wives left their unfaithful husbands who could not got them pregnant and remarried, only for them to have kids with their new husbands. One of these women is my uncle 's wife. The woman now has more than 4 kids and she is really enjoying her second marriage more . I have heard and seen this strange cases times without number. |
| Family › Re: Why Deny Your Husband Food After A Fight? by Princesszoe: 7:29am On Aug 13, 2013 |
And do you know that a husband can deny his wife money for her personal upkeep after a fight? Do you know that a husband can cancel a good promise he made to his wife earlier after a fight? Do you know a husband can refuse to pay his wife her allowances or reduce the pay by giving her flimsy excuses after a fight? Do you know that a husband can refuse to bring the complete money he use to bring for the house upkeep after a fight with the wife? Do you know that a husband on his own can deny the wife attention or even eat in his house after a fight with the wife? Do you know that a husband can get a girl friend just because he had a fight with his wife? There are one thousand and one nasty things husbands that lack fear of God, discipline and moral principle would do in their houses after having strong disagreement with their wives. It actually takes two to tango. But first, the man of the house must be a peacemaker, gatherer, a lover and discipline husband and father. Marriage is more physical than spiritual. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Nagging And Non Caring Wife by Princesszoe: 8:09pm On Aug 12, 2013 |
OP, if you are telling me that she nags , i will believe you. If you tell me that she disrepects you, i will agree. If you tell me that she does not value you or have feelings for you again, i will definitely believe you but for you to say that she does not feed her children or take care of them as a mother would do even in the midst of your predicament, i will not believe that. A bad mother is far more better than a bad father and this is a proverb(wise saying). I disagree that a rich woman whose husband does not work nor do business will not take care of her own children. Unless i see or hear that from her presentation. I know very well that when husband and wife are quarreling, they will be exaggrating their points or even lying against each other to draw supports for themselves. Except if your wife comes here to paste the same story, only then, will i believe this. But if its actually true that you don't have a job or even a business but she has boutique and still refuses to even take care of her own children that she carried for nine months, then is not normal. Spiritual powers may be at work here. Something is completely wrong somewhere. OP you are to engage God to assist you. Please this is not normal. And you are the target here so if you divorce her and move over to another woman, you may be signing your death warrant or sponsouring your own failure and heaven too maybe against you because divorce is only approved on the ground of infidelity which you can still forgive. I bet you is not going to be funny for you at all. This woman may be your heaven appointed wife and devil wants to use some people to push you into wrong decision which you will regret later on. You should seek solution to rekindle the fire of "life" in your marriage and not seek divorce. Involve God and let Him take over for the bible says "i will fight your battle and you will hold your peace". When God takes control of this issue, your lost glory, lost peace in your marriage, job and your finances, must be recovered and restored, just involve God. Don't try it, just do it. Get God involved now. |
| Romance › Re: Wil Like To Hear Views by Princesszoe: 7:00pm On Aug 12, 2013 |
xynerise: If your brother have had sexx with her before, then I dont support it. Besides, it will make her look bitchy.I agree with you. OP please go no further. If your brother had been intmate with her, look else where. Please involve God for He will give you yours and not a left over from your brother. Habaa! This does not sound well o. Please go no further. Your choice though. |
| Romance › Re: Have You Ever Being Slapped By A Lady Before by Princesszoe: 11:43am On Aug 12, 2013 |
idnoble135: Never! Ki lo fe f'oshi?oga so you are this harsh and hard? Hmm |
| Romance › Re: Landlord Shoots Tenant For Dating His Wife by Princesszoe: 9:08pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
And the landlord has a son from another woman. Hmmm! What a combination! |
| Romance › Re: My Wife To Be Drop My Promise Ring In An Unknown Place by Princesszoe: 2:09pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
lorretta u: Is promise ring the same thing as engagement ring?I second this post too. God bless you. So OP you want to jilt her just because she lost the ring you gave her? Just because she lost a ring? Are you serious? Why not buy another cheap promise or whatever ring you called it as a replacement, then test her again to see if she will lose it?. Don't you think is possible for one to even misplace wedding rings talk more of "promise ring"? Is this a form of insecurity or absent of trust or even inability to be patient? Please my dear brother, marriage is a serious business and if you can call off an engagement just because your fiancee lost just a ring then you are not yet mature for marriage because the trials in marriage are much more bigger than mere losing of rings. You better go back and buckle your patience, tolerant, security and trust level up to a higher degree otherwise you will have yourself to blame on the long run. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Check by Princesszoe: 12:17pm On Aug 09, 2013 |
mitwitdot: It's sad how impressionable some people are...Now you rationalize perversion by comparing it to other vices? Read the parable of the rich fool, the bible allows you to qualify someone as a FOOL! I guess I' m in the minority on this perversion issue cos the devil is creeping slowly into the heart of Men...End times indeedAnd you think sleeping with a man or woman you are not married to, is not a perversion? You are right, devil is creeping slowly into the hearts of men making them to choose some portion of the bible that did not critize the wrongs they but the wrongs others do , to condem those people. devil is seriously creeping slowly into the hearts of men making them to see gays and lesbians as perverts while fornicators and adulterers as not. End time indeed yes because people now hate the truth or rather choose to believe what pleases them. The parable of the fools qualifies you to CALL some people fools? Are you serious? Becareful before you blasphem. Mathhew 5 vs 22 says ".......Whosoever shall say, thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire". Thank God for His mercies otherwise only few percent will remain on this earth by now. Now if we are to sound carnal, between the gays and the persons who believe fornicators or adulterers are not perverts, Which group is really fooling themselves? But because we are children of God, we don't really need to judge that way. Gays, lesbians, fornicators, adultereres, masturbatorss, are all guilty of sexual immorality. God frowns at it(sexual immoralities) and any of it can take one to hell. Please you should not be sarcastic with your words. You should love like christ did. We are meant to correct people in love and not condem them because you too "might" be guilty of sexual sin(i maybe right or wrong). Pardon me if you are a non defiled virgin (a virgin who has never watched porn, engaged in romances or masturbationn).No dragging of post but let love prevail in your corrections. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Check by Princesszoe: 9:17am On Aug 09, 2013 |
But OP why are being very cruel with words? Why are you being very sarcastic with your postings? You had better be a virgin who has never watched porn, ever engaged in romances or self service before otherwise forever hold your peace. The bible says "be not deceived for no fornicator, adulterer, lier etc, will make it to heaven". So is not only gays and lesbians that are defiling the temple of God, the fornicators and adulterers are also in the same boat. Am so sure you are not perfect. And am sure you know what the new testament says about those who call people fools? Grow up please and learn how to love people because with this type of hatred you will equally end in same place with a gay or lesbian. Am sure you also know that. Please dwell in love. Advise the wrongdoers to change and not going about cursing them whereas you were not given that right. Is only God that has such authority. Be guided accordingly. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: deleted by Princesszoe: 8:59am On Aug 09, 2013 |
There are some things that some people don't really know. Changing people to suit your liking has 2 faces i.e it can make or mar the marriage. On the process of changing someone, she or he might start showing "fake" adaption just to suit you and not herself or himself. Such a person might start hiding under the coverage of pretences , making you believe that he or she is now changed just to make you happy and relaxed. This "trying" to change someone during courtship or dating is very risky. That is why after some years in marriage, you may start to see new characters(not really new but the person's normal character) which will start affecting the peace of the marriage. By then you will be surprised, and start blaming all the demons in your household or even her for an ugly character transformation whereas you as a person, has the whole blame when you were busy pursing a change in her character during courtship instead of pursuing a way to end the relationship or accepting her naturally the way she is. Whatever charater you saw in your spouse when you came into courtship, is definitely the character they will maintain after wedding or some years after. It is the holy spirit that changes people and not human doing the magic. Compatibility does not demand you start changing people. Compatibility demands that you two(without one trying to change one's ideology or character) concur with each others ideology and character. Quit trying to change people's character for what you see when you came has 80% chances of being there after wedding although might be hiddden just to please you. Is either you accept her the way she is or you walk way. Fortunatly what you are advised to do is "teaching" her what you think she "does not know". Like cooking well or how to cook some kind of food, etc. And not changing her attitude. You may regret it years later in marriage, when the heat of marriage comes in and she or he starts changing to their real characters in which they faked to have faded away only to please you. Every build up in a marriage must allow to flow naturally. Let us be guided. |
| Romance › Re: deleted by Princesszoe: 8:57am On Aug 09, 2013 |
There are some things that some people don't know. Changing people to suit your liking has 2 faces i.e it can make or mar the marriage. On the process of changing someone, she or he might start showing "fake" adaption just to suit you and not herself or himself. Such a person might start hiding under the coverage of pretences , making you believe that he or she is now changed just to make you happy and relaxed. This "trying" to change someone during courtship or dating is very risky. That is why after some years in marriage, you may start to see new characters(not really new but the person's normal character) which will start affecting the peace of the marriage. By then you will be surprised, and start blaming all the demons in your household or even her for an ugly character transformation whereas you as a person, has the whole blame when you were busy pursing a change in her character during courtship instead of pursuing a way to end the relationship or accepting her naturally the way she is. Whatever charater you saw in your spouse when you came into courtship, is definitely the character they will maintain after wedding or some years after. It is the holy spirit that changes people and not human doing the magic. Compatibility does not demand you start changing people. Compatibility demands that you two(without one trying to change one's ideology or character) concur with each others ideology and character. Quit trying to change people's character for what you see when you came has 80% chances of being there after wedding although might be hiddden just to please you. Is either you accept her the way she is or you walk way. Fortunatly what you are advised to do is "teaching" her what you think she "does not know". Like cooking well or how to cook some kind of food, etc. And not changing her attitude. You may regret it years later in marriage, when the heat of marriage comes in and she or he starts changing to their real characters in which they faked to have faded away only to please you. Every build up in a marriage must allow to flow naturally. Let us be guided. |
