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Westaslave2:
Am a catholic n my bible says spare nt d fool frm aving his way

lol surely you are a handfull.

Westaslave2:
hahahaha...ta ks dear, but am on fasting!

You sure say those your words to that guy never spoil your fast already?

WetinConsignMe:
I never said that. I've long conceded some homosexuality is environmental and hormonal.
But some are essential homosexuality that is at the very core of the person and u can't cange it without killing the person or changing him to an entirely fifferent person

BTW we are also discussing same here:

https://www.nairaland.com/4800031/lets-talk-gender-sexuality

So does it not make sense to endavour cure the hormal and environment induced ones as a starting point? While looking at other means to cure the rest.

I dont think i can shuttle both threads as it may involve a little of retyping or editing most of the things ive already written.

WetinConsignMe:
You pretend u don't see "IN THE PRIVACY OF THEIR OWN HOME".
No one will ever bother an otherwise productive member of society who does eccentric things that harm no one in privacy of his owm home

BTW we are also discussing same here:

https://www.nairaland.com/4800031/lets-talk-gender-sexuality

Is the activities of gays relegated only to their homes and not visible to members of the public like that of a mad man? Is there no public notice of gayism at all? Will it be ok to then convide all activities of mad people indoors without an attempt to cure them? Or is the idle man disruptive than a convined mad man or the mad man who is made to work.

WetinConsignMe:
Once again, r u ok?
How does this compare to a publicly disruptive mad person.
You should be talking of a high-performing member of society who chooses to eat from dustbin in the privacy if his own home. 9ja's priority should be "curring" such person!!!

Who told you that all mad people doing their thing privately is disturbing people yet who doesnt love for them to get cured and who told you that the sight and doings of two gay people does not disrupt the sensibilities of the people in a society. You want to agree with the society for saying mad men are disruptive because you feel you are not mad but disagree with them for the same about gay people.

WetinConsignMe:
Once again, r u ok?
How does this compare to a publicly disruptive mad person.
You should be talking of a high-performing member of society who chooses to eat from dustbin in the privacy if his own home. 9ja's priority should be "curring" such person!!!

Can we say mad people are just doing their thing and accept their state? Who decides who is disruptive or not not in a society?

WetinConsignMe:
@bolded, you miss the point. Hormones have nothing to do with it. He has normal male hormones but still prefers to love and have sex with men

No you have no scientific evidence that excess or defficiecy of certain hormones have nothing whatsoever to do with sexual disposition of one.
Also the rest can still be apllied if you have too much problem with the first.

WetinConsignMe:
There are serious illnesses they haven't contributted a penny to eradicate. But here is a high performing, upright, solid member of society and u believe 9ja's priority should be "curing"him of who he has the natural inclination to fall in love and have sex with in the privacy of his own home??!!!!
What's wrong with u?!

Ofcourse everybody will not get cured but a good majority will just like every mad man "naturally" but actualky unnaturalky inclined to enjoying the sanctity of the nearest dustbin is not cured. But therer will be an exit path to many and no jail terms.

WetinConsignMe:
Are u deluded?!
Do u know how much all that will cost? What if the person doesn't want to be "cured"

A country like 9ja can't even pay workers or supply basic necessities and u talking of doing all that to "cure" two adults consumating the love they have for each other in the privacy of their own home!!

Even mad men do not want to be cured of their love for dust/dirt bins yet .........though they can as well argue they were just doing their thing privately and so should just be accepted even say they their madness na follow come or due to natural miswire.
Countries, Nigeria inclusive, have deployed resources needed and set up medical apparatus to cure more costly and challenging diseases so that shouldnt be your worry. Am giving a possible path to get out of it like you asked and you are not concerned with the potency of the propasal but still taking the defencive path. Let it be understood as an illness and a cure developed first as i outlined and even your village people will gladly contribute to pay for the cost for you or others.

As an addendum to no 1step on the cure outline above, for those whose homoillness is as a result of excess hormones, hormone reduction drugs can be administered.

Some sufering from the illness will voluntarily want to be cured the rest can be rounded up and cured. Is that not better than 14 yrs sniffing cold bars?

WetinConsignMe:
I've already long conceded the bolded. Problem is, many times it is crossed wires, nature simply made a mistake. How do you deal with that especially when love is involved

Thats were the brain wipe-out (no2) comes into play. Its a complete package there. Even mad people are in love with dust bins yet when the case us understoond to be a metal illness every attempt is made to severe such ill-begoten love/lust for the good of the mad man and society.

ozoneymcm:
The reason for the post by the op is the cost of arranging "our" weddings. The bottom line is that most of the things that make African weddings expensive are within the traditional marriage so whether you copy the white wedding well or not, money will be consumed

that is where the black has to jettison his culture or evolve it in light of better ways instead of remining slaves to the ways of the forefathers in a fast changing world at his detriment. That is where cultural dynamism is a good thing. Why not blacks keep killing twins if they really want to stick to the old ways? Solution copy fully and well not half and evolve

WetinConsignMe:
Ok, next time u have a chance at sex with someone u love, let's see u apply self control.
The sexual urge is too strong for that

Yes i can understand it will be really strong otherwise many would have snapped out if given the jail term, sociatal pressure and all hence my solution above what do you think about it.
1) Hormonal pumping
2) Total brain wipe out
3) Brain reprograming by reverse exposure.
4) Prayers.

Its all original taught pprobably never considered or attempted dince the wirld is too busy trying to either accept it, curse it away wish it away, flog it àway or just look the other way.

WetinConsignMe:
So u blieve gender is entirely due to hormones. If we pump enough female hormones into you you'd crave having a man shove his dick into your anus. How about totally masculine men who crave other men? How does your hormones cure that?

Yes its a possibility especialy if followed of with exposure. Most guys who watch normal porn consciously flee from and avoid viweing gay porn if its on thesame website the normal porn is because tgey subconsciously know that beyond the initial revulsion of them, they hold dark possibilities and potential to alter their sexual programming and disposition them just thesame someone not given to giving mouth action can get tempted to start practising if he is exposed long enough to it.