₦airaland Forum

Oreofepeters:
lol bad eggs, I'm happy you admit this. You said there are still good ones out there? well I'm kinda doubting it.
The bad ones has infected the good ones they now emulate them...
It's an epidemic virus .

chinchonglee:
d way they talk on dis forum makes me wonder who re nw d girls always asking their BFs 4 moni...

d most popular statement on dis forum by our female folks is "I WORK HARD 4 MY MONEY, I DNT NEED A MAN'S MONEY"..

chinchonglee:
let their BF's do d job
let their BF's do d job

chinchonglee:
fish brain...pls park well.

after all dis ranting dis morning, u ll go to ur BF's house in d evening, f*ck him nd collect transport fare back home...



i repeat. PARK WELL!

itsmeurLady:
Wow, you are really dominating.... I should feel lucky I don't need this sort of negativity, I know how to treat my man right and trust me, my man is nothing like what you think. So understand that men are different, not everyone is traditional. You have not taken any single advice on this forum from any lady, so why should I take yours? Things are not done that way at least not in this 21st century. Mind you, you don't have a clue of how men act, if you think you do, you need to change your circle and meet positive folks

chinchonglee:
buh u knw 90% of nigerian women re blessed with fish brains...


stop making dis ones feel excluded by giving u their useless views...

Eyeness:
simple, every man wants a woman that is 10/10 but he cannot afford her, now the only thing for him to do is to settle with a 5/10 who will split the bills 50:50 with him and allow his little excesses on the side, cos she is a 5/10 and probably running low on self esteem.

Now what do.you think happens to miss/mrs 5/10 when he can afford a 10/10?
That is why the true test of a man's character is when he has, not when he is without. Trust me this is the tactic men use for their golddigging. It's called the game.

itsmeurLady:
If that is your definition of brilliance, then you are the dumbest man I have ever met. Follow Follow

chinchonglee:
bros u re too brilliant 4 dis woman u re exchanging quotes with...
pls save ursef d stress..



all i can understand frm her own side is jst mere unnecessary display of personality...dats if she is nt even lying...

itsmeurLady:
I didn't want to quote anymore but you are so full of negativity but I don't blame you, I blame the society who has conformed you to this state of negativity. You have been airing negatively on this thread ever since it started and trust me, it doesn't show how much of a Man U are, instead it shows how dominating you can be. People like you cannot hold down a strong lady because you will end up abusing her and making her feel worthless. Princes need princesses and as your name implies, act like a prince and stop behaving traditional, it doesn't suit you or it doesn't suit your name

MissRaine69:
Still does not change the fact I don’t care what you think! So you can hurt your brain thinking (which must be hard for someone who rarely uses it)
Zero farks given
Knock yourself out
Anyway I have work to go to patients don’t treat themselves .

MissRaine69:
That line ...you have crossed it
You are now in the “taking the piss zone”

pryme:
Sweet.
Unlike some ladies here with flabby mid section looking for male specimen with shredded physique.

Admin401:
I'm making a comparison. Both are equipped with orifice. The face has mouth as an orifice and the Ass has the Anus as its Orifice. Now from the Mouth to the Anus is just a straight line (if you stretch it out) So how does poo stay in your ass? If that was the case, how would you sit down when you "ass" is filed with poo? Won't it splatter everywhere from the compression?

In summary, poo stays in your colon not your ass. Just like vomit stays in your stomach, not your mouth.

famousbowale:
Hello guyz, sorry for been the first to comment on my own post.

I'm currently planning for my wedding towards March next year. My self and my wife to be are trying to keep it as simple as possible, if possible just for family members and friends of about 250.
Believe it before I could say jack our budget is already hitting #3.2 million.

The post above was share by a Nigerian base abroad, this made me begin to wonder it is necessary to even wed at all?
Why was that kind of our hard earned money on wedding of a day?
That money can get us a land or start a little business.
Just thinking

MacLawwy1759:
hmmm....with my own vote @sw - 51% -49%.
atikulated won

CROWNWEALTH019:
One me ooo

Psoul:
I know you will not cos u don't have what it takes to.

dami456:
Well said. Cooking and cleaning is a feminine role because we have humans just decided that it is. There's no cookbook or cooking manual that comes with the extra X chromosome or the female DNA. Women were taught and indoctrinated by society into taking up this role. And as such, can be taught not to. Or can have men be taught to in equal measure, as well.

dami456:
And how many of those poor men have children living remotely good lives? Most of them are living in poverty and hawking stuff and begging on the street. If you think urban regions where there's growing feminism, would be riddled with a bunch of poor men that have never heard of birth control, and are changing wives, then you're more delusional that I thought. Or as feminism grows and more women are become indoctrinated, they would agree to be a poor man's interchangeable wives, then I laugh in your face. The poor man having multiple interchangeable wives is a testament to an old patriarchal culture and another platform that feminism is changing.

biterkola:
If small boys are running white women,how is that my business? I haven't seen or been exposed to the same level of civilization as well? This is so funny.

Fortunately for me,your thoughts on who is real and fake,what is a waste or not are inconsequential. They mean nothing at least from where I'm standing(typing).

Have a good day

dami456:
It's hilarious that you think every man is going to be able to change wives often. Do you think every man is Otedola? How much do you think the average Nigerian man makes a month? Is it Gbenga that's making 60k/month with 2 children from his first wife that'll have the resources to be changing wife often? Lmao! Not sure what country you think you're in, but the actual average Nigerian man is dirt poor and with our economic state, most cannot afford to have families on one measly income. Also not sure what ganja you've been smoking, but no, there aren't an increasing number of women going to babalawo's looking for a man. Life is not a nollywood movie. Many Nigerian men will tell you themselves, that cooking and cleaning is no longer enough. In our current state, a woman that makes a good income will find it easier to find someone than one that has no reputable skills beyond homemaking and places all of the financial burden on the man. Your snarky remark at women giving money to boys for sex, highlights your obvious bitterness about it. Because instead of pandering to the demands of a useless husband, most of these women would rather live their lives alone fulfill their emotional needs with friends and family, and their sexual needs from the virile, attractive men that they solicit sex from. After a woman has been married once, she realizes that men actually get a lot more from marriage than women do and women give up more for their marriages. And suddenly a stress free single life is much more appealing than the burden of a husband (again, statistics on the happiness of single men vs married men and single women vs married women). No one expects a woman to "house" a guy, why should she? But paying half the bills and expenses does give her half the rights and the responsibilities to the relationship/marriage. It makes no sense to take on all the expenses, when it can be shared with someone, which again, ironically, is what a lot of men are now looking for. How many men do you see going to village to find a girl that has no reputable skills beyond cooking and cleaning? Lol. They don't because they too no longer want that sole responsibility of financial providership.

The likelihood of a woman becoming financially incapable, perhaps via loss of her job, is just as much as that of a man. But at least, just as you alluded to, women would at least have cooking and cleaning to fall back to if she can no longer contribute financially. It's something she can pick up to balance things out. What do men have to fall back on when they become financially incapable? Absolutely nothing. Once he can no longer provide, he's discarded like trash or routinely disrespected, humiliated and made to feel useless, because society knows that men are only good for one thing. And once that's gone, no one cares about you anymore and no one cares what happens to you. So either way, rant bitterly all you want, but women will be fine.

Every man is free to enjoy sexual freedom. Everyone should enjoy sexual freedom. But the days of a man holding it over your head and coercing you to have sex, just because he gave you some money or bought you rice and chicken will be diminishing. Women will have sex with men that they want to, because they want to. And the ones that are smart enough to be financially set will still be more attractive for relationships than the ones sitting at home waiting for some guy to come and pay all her bills. Plus most men are just not hot enough to get casual sex, so tbh, a lot of them will likely still be getting sex in relationships anyway, while some others will be sexually starved when they realize that just because you have some money doesn't entitle you to sex (or they catch STDs from prostitutes - same thing really).

All in all, Rome wasn't built in a day. It didn't take a day to develop the patriarchal society that we currently have, and as such, it won't take a day for feminism to spread to the majority part of the nation. But the fact that its already started and affecting the lives of men, is why many men like you are coming to the internet to display your anger about it. We don't need to have more women willing to fully provide for men to prove the validity of feminism, all we need is for them to take on half the expenses, which a lot of them are well on their way to doing. And with that financial contribution, they demand the rights and respect that comes with that.

PenlsCaP:
That adage is actually not a Yoruba adage rather igbo... It says.
"efulefe na Eji aka ekpe atu ulo nna ya"

Howeva if u are talking about ancestry ownership it still doesn't belong to YORUBAS but Edos., ask ur grand parents only if they honest enuff to tell u the truth.

Haven said that, we can ignore the fact that YORUBAS try to claim it because it located in southwest,(its understandable) but what we can't condone is when u guys try to use Lagos to mock other people where as other southwest regions like ondo, osun, and ogun are in mess.

Only then we will remind u the bitter fact that Lagos doesn't belong to u.
Cheers!

biterkola:
I am not busy being elite,I AM elite.

What do you know about a woman like me? You can't know anything because women like me aren't usually found around men who cower at the sight of a strong woman.

A woman like me is a product of two working parents who believed in me.

Bent down and read my books,and by sheer hard work and determination i am progressing in my career, teaching other women and girls that they can be greater than their wildest imagination,they can be anything they want to be as long as they put in the work.

I do that so that they can escape men like you who think they are 'uplifting them' and doing them a favour.

Women are not also paying school fees of other women,housing and supporting them? You are funny.
Any woman that chooses to be wholly dependent on a man in this harsh economy is a fool.

My husband has more than a wife,he has an equal who holds the forte,a woman he is confident in,a woman who holds her own and is ever ready to step in.

He does not need to clothe and feed me before I respect and care for him,he does not need to demand for it,he has earned it and he has it in spades.I am also happy to lavish him with goodies.


With a man like him,my money is his money, he is not threatened because I am independent


I fully reject the Nigerian version of humility,not for me and my type.Every Mallam to his kettle.

I am married to an adult and we both strive to be the best we can be by encouraging each other not displaying fake humility.

I have no need to hide my ideals from him,he is a man born of a woman,a woman like me. Why should I be afraid?

You see,I know what I'm worth,I know I bring beauty,brains,money to the table, co - raising strong excellent confident children.
He is very lucky to have me.


If he wants to leave all this goodness and go for the "humble" girl,that's fine.He has a right to be happy and if he feels his happy is not me,I will be fully behind him.

We are all born with freewill so I'll be damned if I waste my precious time worrying about girls and snatching. Any woman spending her time fearing other women is a fool,it's an old trick used by men to keep women in check.

Yea by the way, I spend loads of money on charity and don't demand respect and care from the beneficiaries.

Done with this discussion,on to my fellow "elite" who have work tomorrow.


We need to keep the coins coming!

Saff:
The gap between the rich and poor is huge, especially in Nigeria. Most men never reach that level of financial success. So like I said, this is is social media, I shall meet you in real life one day.

Saff:
Ok sir. Remember this is social media and not real life. Have a good evening.

Saff:
It’s not just a natural urge for sex mr man. Sex only lasts for a few minutes, but it will not fill in the everlasting void that the bachelor life brings, that’s where most of you struggle. Especially as you grow old, but continue.

Saff:
You are blinded by gossip stories and social media lies. The reality is that, yes women get their wahala. But the truth is that, most men cannot live this bachelor lifestyle for too long, because there’s indeed so much value in women. Most cant stay single for more than a year, despite your resentment towards us. The natural urge and instincts will lead you to look for a female mate, even though we are classified as “useless”. Useless indeed. Most of you men are so emotionally weak, hence the ranting and complaints. Women averagely consume x10 of not only emotional but physical trauma that marriage brings, yet we survive and make a way. Oga the truth shall remain the truth.

CrazyEfikGirl:
For your information, in this day, century and generation... WOMEN buy MEN too!!!

biterkola:
Bitter much? No one is asking you not to join MGTOW,it is a welcome development so we can see road and hear.

If you prefer low socioeconomic strata so you can oppress them ,feel free.

24/7 supposed men are ranting,telling women what to be.We have heard NAA,go your own way and leave us with the ones that are happy with the way things are.

By the way,money isn't my problem,I make mine.Full time professional woman ,mother and wife raising beta pikins.

I don't believe in diabolism,it's for deluded people.
If my husband decides to be snatched,no problem .

I earn enough to cater for my children,no fear here

Ohh and I'm in a profession that supports women and encourages them to be the best and not depend on 500 naira giving men.

Saff:
To a certain extent, I have to agree with him.

biterkola:
@itsmeurlady



Men who make the loudest noise are usually the weakest.

Ask why they sleep with ashawo day and night? It's purely psychological, they need to feel they are more superior to someone, they cannot manage a relationship with a normal person without feeling threatened ( fear of falling in love,fear of getting hurt,fear of disappointment) so they resort to someone they can order about with 500 naira.Someone that will pretend to love it when they call them b*tch and hoe.Someone that will pretend their prick is sweet,they will even boast about how the ashawo is shouting and cuming at the same time with them.

They want someone they can do things they consider degrading to,taking out their frustration,depression and misery.


Many will enter pvssy pulverised by okada man,keke man ,farmer,trader,pepper seller,no trace of being selective .They will claim the one you pay 10k for will f*ck another guy for free.

Their problems are deep-rooted mostly to do with insecurity and they can only feel validated when they have someone they think they can talk down at and insult.

Go and talk to them,dig deep and you will see someone who has been abused,someone from a difficult/bad background,someone who has serious issues,someone who cannot let go of hurt,someone who is afraid.Which sane woman wants this sort?

You will never see this behaviour or speech in someone raised in a loving home by wholesome loving parents.

Eventually some of them go on to marry and inflict untold hurt and misery to their partners.

Check the women they end up with,mostly people who they out earn completely,who are from lower socioeconomic backgrounds so they can oppress them and 'play man'.They make them housewives so they can be totally dependent on them and at their mercy.

They never attract high worth partners because a woman raised correctly with good self esteem would never ever tolerate being treated anyhow.They will always attract women who have nothing to offer.

I am pleased with MGTOW so that normal and good women will be spared .

In the end when they are old and looking for who to change their pampers who will they turn to? One small girl that will be spending their on a f*ck boy and the cycle continues.


Who is kidding who.

I forgot to add that NL boys are mostly mastu rbating teenagers.Reality is very different

Psoul:
Have you seen ur life?

resurgent4oodua:
Exactly! You buy women to marry in Nigeria because it is expensive!