₦airaland Forum

Adakintroy:
How do I say this now. First of all women liberation did not help africa. This ideal originated as a boast for capitalism. To encourage more labour in the area since men alone were not able to shoulder the workload. It can be indirectly trace to industrialization.

Africa had no need for that. To me our society was balance as it was with men leading the charge.Men were doing the Labour..we were not fully charged as fAR as industralization goes. We had no need for the extra hands. Whatever we t earns naturally trickles down to the women. In marriage and raising of family. However with women liberation came an opposing view. A direct affront on the position of men. Lliberators oriented women was misleading from the gate out. They fail to see us as pairs. Rather we were judged as isolated entity each striving for his or her own supremacy. It was a trap that women fell for. And the leading reason for their single statuse.. When a man earns, he get married and start a family. So a woman indirectly benefits.

However when a woman earns she rerains for herself and hopes to find a earning man. This is just wrong for balance and that's putting it nicely. You only need to flip it to understand this position.

A man who is working can marry a woman who is not working and start a family base on his earning. But a woman who is working cannot or would naturally find it difficult to marry a jobless man.

Now in a rational society were we understand that government is struggling to create jobs, women liberation has already pitch us against ourselves in a unfair way. Whatever liberated women in some ways, seem to have put them in a new bond age in another.

The baby mama trend is not a gimmick it will persist as far as rational calculation goes. If 50 jobs are available, and the sharing fomular goes 30-20. Already..20 men are without jobs so technically 20 women are having their marriages delayed.

We need to unlearn whatever we have learned and position it at a right angle so for the right healing to take place in our society other wise let kiss family institution goodbye.

Too much sense. This is exactly what ive been saying for a very long time before the consequences even became as glaring as it is today. You aptly butressed and captured it very well. They copy, nay half and mis-copy whites to their detriment without copying fully. A white lady wouldnt mind empowering and marrying a broke ass man from a third world country if she finds him attractive and emotional compactible with her but more often than not, the average empowered Nigerian babe would not go near their fellow blacks if he is not atleast at par with her financially when she is in her prime unless age is no longer on her side. They do not know, so neither are they ready, for the responsibilities towards relationship, marriage and society that come with the rights they crave to wrest from men.

Infact, If i no give you Henieken today i no go happy. Now following you for you are a Sabinus.

AnalQueenluci:
she is ryt just dat d nation isnt gud at d moment!

Yeah she is. I trying to say why its a certainty to be so. Since women are now claiming strong well men now have to claim soft and reap the "benefit" women hirtheto exclusively enjoyed based on softness.

Why not based on equality which feminists preach? But then the more men are empowered the more they look for and enpower un-empowered ladies but now women are getting empowered but instead of looking for men they can empower, they look for even bigger men to "empower" them more so men now have to do the needful to complement the selfishness of enpowered women this days. How they love feminism but cry when its fully implemented with all the role swaping it encourages.

NobleRomm:
let me not talk...

becaus i dont even know my position in this country

Chai

subtlemee:
Mbok is there no way one can trim without losing breast fat as well?

Good question. Actually..Yes! there is something you can apply to them to make them even bigger even as the rest of your body become slimer due to the weight-watching. DM me if you like to know more.

babasolution:
already the black is thinking of how to buy,never create just buy buy,and make everybody else richer but himself

Then turn around to hate on, loathe and blame the very people they made rich at their own expense.

ozoneymcm:
You have to understand that though Christianity was introduced to Africa, there is now what I'd term as the African way of practicing Christianity. The things you see in Nigerian churches today, you wouldn't see it in London or Chicago. Not to say too much, Christianity or even Islam is now part of African culture

Thats the thing; Africans half-copy then bastardize western culture with their uncivilized minds. If you advocate strictly sticking to African culture then no white marriage. If its to copy then it should be copied well (not copy only what but also how and how-not) as is practised and as the op showed. Just like feminisn and democracy . Copy a western culture correctly along with what makes the concept worthwhile-(the how and how not) or stick to the African culture, simple. All these half, mis-copy is not doing Africa any good.

itsmeurLady:
Falsehood? See young Man first, I am a child Of God and I don't see things the way people of the world see it cs that's what my Lord has instructed me to do and I will do it. I don't live my life the way everybody else lives it, I guess that why I am having exceptional results in everything that I do and it's okay if you cannot comprehend where I stand because even the same bible told me that the things of the word are spiritually discerned and it's like foolishness unto mere man , they can never comprehend neither can they understand. The scripture has already told me that people will look at me as though I am insane but it gladly shows I am on the right path.

Secondly, did you read her post? [b]Did you see anywhere where she typed she does not respect her husband ? She didn't say or state that, you can go and re-read again. [/b]The young man was just quoting out of context. Do Have a nice day!

She wrote:

"If my husband decides to be snatched,no problem .
I earn enough to cater for my children,no fear here"

This is the subtly arrogant kind of statement the "low socioeconomic ladies" dont bleat off at the slightest whim. And does not represent value for the man.

Trying to correct her negative (no1 point below) and flawed (no 2 point below) orientation that
1) men only seek less fortunate ladies so as to oppress them instead lots of men go to them cos they feel their financial capacity (the mans) can be meaningful and positively impactful (Yes POSITIVE!) and so appreciable (yes men love to have more appreciating than standoffish spouse and no apologies for that) to them (the lady)
2) that men fear empowered ones instead that the quick arrogant exuberances and high propensity to unnecessary contentiousness of educated/empowered ones is a huge turn-off (not fear) to many men.
3) To let her know that her ability to read ABCD and solve 1+1 does not make her an elite if she lacks awareness and grasp of reality because the late is what schooling and education was meant to inculcate in her.

And to point out and correct those wrong outlook is not being negative in anyway just because she said some other nice stuff.
This is the crux of the entire matter and i wonder how you managed to get it all warped.

ozoneymcm:
The op didn't have to add that traditional wedding is included hence extra expenses which wouldn't be included if an American was getting married. Even during the wedding reception, amala, pounded yam, fresh fish etc will be included. That is what we are talking abbout

I mean, you advocate Africans should stick to their culture so why church wedding at all based on your logic ?

Why have they not castrated or hung the two by their balls?

Every reasonable person admires their marriage and want a lovely marriage like that even the haters.

Correct man and beautiful intelligient woman.

ozoneymcm:
I don't like it when Africans complain about their culture. When your children grow up and start saying "Bleep you daddy" , you will now be seeking African way. Do your wedding the African way. The money you spend depends on what you have. I have to accept that our weddings cost too much but that's the way we are. Never use the American way as standard for your deeds

Is white marriage an African culture?

Baronnaire:
Shut up...

Who has the language you just wrote with?

Who made the device you're using the write this your nonsense?

Who designed what you studied or are studying in school?

I'm sure you're not putting on plantain leaves to cover your nudity which is your heritage?

Your house, furniture, appliances, car etc aren't your father's heritage.

So what are you not copying from the white man?

You copied everything, but dont want to copy their prudence? That's why a black man never stops wanting even when he can't exhaust that which he already has.

A 60yrs old billionaire wants to be a trillionaire, when it'll take over 55yrs to squander N1billion @ 50k/day.

We are just too wasteful and greedy by nature...

Sense ..Its called selective transcopy ......lol

ozoneymcm:
I don't like it when Africans complain about their culture. When your children grow up and start saying "Bleep you daddy" , you will now be seeking African way. Do your wedding the African way. The money you spend depends on what you have. I have to accept that our weddings cost too much but that's the way we are. Never use the American way as standard for your deeds

Abeg remember to say that to feminist too.

Newboss:
Well, you haven't met a real feminist before, so I don't think you'll understand When you meet a female one, then you'll be able to tell if you're a real man or a mini man

They're more logical than most men If you're a chauvinist, please avoid one because they'll make you feel insecure

Bro I meet a lot of them both online and offline and i treat them foc. If you know any here, kindly refer them but you will pay small thing for their cure shah. Just because na you ooh. I know how much we dey collect normally but for you, it will be at a subsidized amount.

Newboss:
Wrong,

Feminism is actually against "buying" a woman in the name of wedding Feminists are logical people

Which ones - the local abi international ones?

The problem is mainly on the second part. The combination is a KO.

sacajawea:
Its Not serious Bros, im just being Over the Top

Understood ...but all thesame......

sacajawea:
Compare Humans with Humans.
Not with Rabid Dogs!

Bros sincerely i dont concor with this one. They are very human just misguided and mental deficient in some areas due to negligience and pervasive wrong orientation from childhood in the society. So at the end of the day, after much correction we forgive their ........ if we dont, who will?

Divay22:
Omo I'll like mine domesticated o
But not to make her feel inferior or less of herself, I think you should balance it. She should go to the kitchen with you even if you wouldn't want her to help she can at least talk about her day while you do the cooking.

So know when to balance it. Even if she won't do anything just let her be close to you (that's the fun of a relationship)
You chop onions i fry the meat
The slice the plantain, I fry it
You sweep, i mop (or the reverse )
Make the bed, I scatter it (Shebi you like work)
You wash the clothes, i hang them
Even if you don't want her to work, always involve her, make her feel her presence around is necessary.
Even if you fry thr meat and she start eating (all na work).
This is the time you guys bond, rare moments money can never buy, and fun time that involves no cash but filled with happiness, smiling face and love...

Awww

Young Miss sabinus there ...then not too long after, make her laugh then make her moan. Somebody's d*ckson already rejoices at pictures you painted.

flyca:
E be like say them use this word swear for y'all pencil preeeeks

Am pained so has that made you happy and wet now.

If i catch you for one corner and unfold and roll out my tool for, in, at, within and on you ehh.......there will be damages and bandages afterwards....

kunleweb:
Do you agree with most of the comments on this thread? I really must say i have a different opinion

I will really like to hear your opinion. This kind of matter can use different approaches as no one suggestion may be the only way. Maybe you prefer he does a Joseph on her (flee) or goes on 7 days dry fast. Its all good.

Wetin de dey smoke for that Kenya wey people no dey take for Naija sef?

Sincerely, be nice to her and get to know what's wrongs and how you can help or advice her to adopt.

Sincerely if she is harrasing you why not ....HARASS..her back? If she is giving you blue signs why not give her red, green, black and yellow sign? E.g Fix a very long fat thing on your dick, go to her office and flash her the fake extra larger than life dick. Or better still, march into to her office late after work with a black substance in a feathered red bottle, roll out your tool and start applying the messy red and black (maybe grinding water melon + black hair cream) on it while she sees you then proced to tell her your private native gave you those to always apply before doing a woman so she can enjoy it. Then watch her take off and leave you in peace forever she will be the one to even change office not you runing..lol.. Dont even thank me later.
#Becreative.

elmagnifico411:
Op , that baby Mama thing is scope jare.. She needs your schlong inside her cos its been ages she last had some.. Help the poor lady out. Give her some life - changing nacking.. U can get this ointment called 'sansu', rub it on your cap some minutes before action , and give it to her in loads! It should take 45mins or more before u com, and u can pull your schlong out before u do so.. By then she woulda gotten multiple orgasms forgetting about one silly baby.
And please, stop this 'my parents will kill me' yearns.. Youre almost 30 eh.. Your mates Don dey marry... Bleep now and enjoy the free puna.. Whatever we Bleep now, echoes in eternity.

Ire o

Chai chai my brother that last part ....that last past ....why not share your brand of snuff so all men can receive yoir inspiration per head? Asking for a sisters brother. Lol

adamsbadoo:
NEPA disconnected our light.


Op, u dey fall hand oo....Bleep the devil outta that sex starved bitch.

Bleep her finish the devil no come out instead belle comout nko? Lol

MissRaine69:
You fainted hypothetically

Una mouth abi mind badeeh.

itsmeurLady:
You still can't even comprehend the simplest things that I am a child of God Any Man? Sorry to burst your bubble, scroll up and you will see that not all men agree with this school of thought, only the negative controlling ones accepted this theory. Do u kno who a child Of God is Maybe u should research on that so that u can understand properly... BTW it's Cheers! and not Sheers

Again what control are you harping on sef? What is control exactly to you that you extrapolated from any of my posts? Why is your mind locked on that? Where you raised by control freak parents or had/has a control-freak bf such that you see that everywhere? Surely, am not the cause of of your phobia for control. Infact sef, masquarade wey no get control dey......

If not that i done already like you before, i for no like you again due to this your miscontruement of control.
Infact........

itsmeurLady:
sorry Sir, don't be angry Sir but It's Cheers Sir and not Sheers Sir. Have a Lovely Day Ahead Sir, Thank You Sir! Hope am Forgiven Sir?

lol

tayooluwole:
See what we are saying... You have to correct my english with respect... Cant you say... BTW sir, it's Cheers ! and not sheers sir

Chai...balls out...lol

itsmeurLady:
I am a woman of God, we don't see things the way the world sees them. There is no message for me to take there as long as it is negative. I only listen to positive messages so that only positive vibes can flow out of me. I don't say words just for saying sake, I say words to inspire, build and encourage... So if your words do not do any of that to me, I do not take it. We all have choices in life, and this is one of the choices I have made in my life.

Good but then describing a negative state, the very negative state created by your fellow female folks with befiting adjectives, examples and scenerios for easier and cearer understanding so a reality-check and necesary correction can be induced and made does not imply that someone is a negative. Just like a mechanic telling you that your brakes are in bad shape hence an accident is likely with the car is not a negative person. The stick can be very useful and important for corrections which are as worthwhile as inspiration, romancing, encouragment etc. Some time we lay bare and bring down the bad to build the good. A time to this a time to that...If you want to know, you know.

Btw, have i told you i like you before so i dont repeat myself?

ngadaAwo:

whoever thinks that Buhari will get upto 20% votes in Middle belt should think again

Buhari's defeat is already sealed
remember in 2015 Buhari swept the whole middle belt
now he's already loosing before election

it's not about Atiku but it's all about justice to those killed as the result of buhari the criminal terrorist gross incompetence

Anybody both East West North and South that vote buhari will be guilty of this picture forever and their blood shall hunt them forever amen

cc
cilicmarin ngeneukwenu
sarrki
midolian
seunmsg
madridguy
passingshot
deomelo
Butterflyle0

Wow.