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Despair:
Thank you so much Sir for your input. My apologies for not indicating my gender...I'm a lady.

I was already moving on before the lies started flying around. I am hurt because she's someone I love dearly. I thought I'd be able to break that chain.

Her mother leads same life too. Sorry to say this here, she goes after people's husbands.
She was angry with her for pimping her friend to the married man instead of herself.

Just like you and some others have said, I'll try to cut them off and move on. However, I don't think that will be totally possible as her child is soooo fond of me. The little girl will always be in my life. I hope that I can take her away when I have the means as I don't want her to be influenced by their lifestyles.

ModestGal:
Please chat me up directly through my signature

I took a break from WhatsApp some months now but you can always mention me on any related topic. By the way nice work you got. Keep it up

Dtruthspeaker:
No they would not because He is Unforgettable!

Janeberryy:
I have passed the era of sleepless nights when it finally dawned on me or when I finally succumbed to years of internal battles that have been raging on silently within me.

To help cease this battle, I gave myself to more study to convince myself, more prayers, more sacrifices, more services, I didn't want God to lose. I couldn't bear him to lose, my life, love, family, community and everything I cherish that money cannot buy, depends on it. I was fighting for my life.

I read, I learnt, I saw I became blind, ignorance is bliss. Now I know and I went through my heart break pretty bad. God to me wasn't the angry hell fire one, he wasnt the destroyer of the world, i could explain what happened to Noah! That wasn't God, I could explain what happened to sodom and gommoarrh, that wasn't God! He saves and doesn't destroy, Never has Never will.

So I wasn't afraid to think, because I was never afraid of him, because I know him and know his heart. He gave me structure, waking up to pray gave me sanity, gaurding my heart and mouth gave me wisdom, kindness opened doors to me, keeping my body gave me honor, walking around with my earpiece gave me security.

Now I have Nothing! The battle is over, I miss the sanity, I miss the community, I miss the sacrifices, I miss the labour, I miss the services, I miss the Joy, I miss the family, I miss God. Ignorance is the only bliss I pray for.

#copied

Janeberryy:
People will go for an higher meaning beyond that perfect world so there would be God

fabianiyobosa:
Oga 19800 was paid by NNPC to Siwes IT students. Did mine at NNPC, Abuja. Last month of it we were paid double and I used it to pay my fees I lost and even assisted my friend half way to enable him pay his fees.

CanadaOrBust:
This thread is to correct misinformation and confusion contained in the thread “Today Is The Longest Day Of The Year...”
https://www.nairaland.com/5939166/today-longest-day-year-there

** There is no shortest or longest day in Nigeria because Nigeria is close to the equator. Close to the equator the days (daylight in a day) are about same length all year round.

** June solstice (called Summer Solstice in Nothern Hemisphere, and Winter solstice in Southern Hemisphere) is the longest day of the year ONLY IN THE NORTHERN HEMISPHERE; it is the shortest day of the year in the Southern Hemisphere.

**December Solstice (called Winter Solstice in Nothern Hemisphere, and Summer Solstice in Southern Hemisphere) is the longest day of the year in the Southern hemisphere and the shortest day of the year in the Nothern hemisphere.

**On June Soltice there is 24hr daylight (“midnight sun”) at the North Pole (Arctic Circle), while South Pole (Antarctica) experiences 24hr darkness. Reverse is the case on December solstice.

Lalasticlala, Seun and the mods, I respectfully suggest you remove that other thread. Otherwise it continues to misinform and confuse lots of people, and gives the false impression that Nairaland is a willful purveyor of misinformation and fake news.
Thanks.

Righteousness89:
To be Honest with you sir , with the way you are going, you may be back here with tears and stories that touch the heart in no distant time..



If you are Genuinely seeking a Spouse , my Advice to you is to ask GOD ALMIGHTY in prayers to show you your wife!

Not all these fairytales!

You are right bro. Not all these fairly tales .This is the major problem with Christianity marriage. We spiritualize relationship. Relationship is more of canal than spiritual. Why don't we seek God when making new friends? Why must it be in relationship. Even in the holy book, there's no where God told Someone this is your wife, right from Adam, to Jacob, to Joseph, to Isaac, to David, to Solomon. They all went to search for what they want in a woman. Even the greatest plan God have for mankind which was Jesus Christ, God never told Joseph this is your wife Mary; marry her. So why must we ask God to show you want you want? Is it God that want to marry her?

I don't blame you, I blame most of these pastors that see visions for other people. Imagine a pastor telling a grown up guy to go to street x, he should branch after the third turning. He will see a house painted brown. He should find the door made of iron. He should knock and enter. The lady wearing pink shirt with white skirt is his wife. I just laugh.

Even after seeing some red signs, they still stick with the relationship. Afterall, it's God that showed me and my pastor approved it. No wonder Christian marriages have the highest number of divorce.

Op.. Go for the lady you want. I hope you find your suitor