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Tehila07:
I had thought that love has bigger roles to play in marriage. I was wrong. I got married at 36 when I thought I had seen someone who loved me.

While dating, I was not spending money on her because she has a job and was not complaining. I ride okada for a living hoping to go into a business soon. Before marriage, I use to have spare cash of about 10k always. Even if that 10k is spent on something, I would recover it within a week. She told me that if money she spends on feeding and what I spend on feeding are added together, we would feed ourselves and save more. But since we got married, I labour hard to ensure she has whatever she needs. Now I'm stretched to the limit and can't cope anymore. She has money in her bank account but said she's saving for raining days. Anytime she wants to perform online banking, I do it for her. Two days ago, I wanted to buy data, and I transferred money from her account to the seller and I brought out the money and told her seller accepts bank transfer and I don't want to go and queue in the bank for lodgement. I would have informed her first, but she was busy attending to visitors and her phone was with me. She was angry and said "I will change my password." I replied that the only favor she did me was saving my journey to the bank. She said if she has cash in hand, she would be tempted to spend it. So, it's me that should not have savings?

I don't feel like having sex again because of the depression and she is now angry that I'm turning her down. Now I'm planning to leave home and return whenever my situation improves. She can cope because she has enough money.

Why the financial pressure on me is too much is that we are both 36 years old and friends keep trouping to our house to wish her well. As a man that manages resources, I entertained guests from my family once for the past two months we got married because it's not my town but hers. She keeps asking me for money to entertain guests. Some friends made it a habit of visiting twice weekly, while she keeps showing me off. When she asked for money for food yesterday and I told her I had no money, she has been moody since then, thinking that I'm hiding money from her.

This was a woman, that, last week, when I said I couldn't afford a particular asoebi that only concerns me because it's costly, went to the market, bought it, and took it to my tailor. Judging from her recent actions, I won't wear that cloth except I'm able to refund the money.

P.S: Love is just a rhetoric - humanity died long ago.

babaijesha:
You intend to borrow money from me. I am doing you a favor and you are not giving any benefit in return.

If you approach me with this packaging and attitude, I will smile and advise you to get to your bankers to borrow money.

No pains at all, even the headache of recovering my money is gone.

Youngherry:
5. Iyanya
From singing the biggest song in 2012, Kukere to singing Iyanu Mashele. Truly village people have started following Iyanya.
We started noticing Iyanya’s decline in 2014 when all songs released were trash and label mate, Tekno started to overtake him in the craft.
Iyanya thought it was his label that was the problem, he pitched tent with Don Jazzy‘s Mavin Records, released an EP that was only downloaded by his friends and family.
Iyanya has really gone down and it would truly require a miracle to revive his music career.
The thing about the industry is about being relevant and also the ability to evolve.
Last year we had the “pon pon sound” and now it’s the wobey and shaku shaku sound.
“Industry competition is at an all-time high, and to stand still, is to fall behind!”

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Sources: https://www.aprokonaija.com.ng/2018/03/nigerian-artistes-who-were-once.html#ixzz5Lowj1oHP

Toska4uall0913:
Good day to you all, please I want to know how to defer my postgraduate admission at obafemi awolowo university, Ile ife, I really need someone to guild me on how to go about it. Thanks

Ifakiland:
Ikeja plant... Have him send his cv to jeremyafo28@gmail.com I've lost touch of my nairaland email. God bless madam

Busari132:
I received an invitation from workforce Ibadan for interview on 26/4/18. Who else received the same ,pls ?

npowerng:
Good day ProfGday, we understand how you feel about this delay and we apologize. Be rest assured we are working to meet all your demands and fulfill all our promises to you. Thank you for your patience.

Shortyy:
Now this is a fine boy. Not that producer or whatever

dupzy05:
People of God, please my fiance as been looking for job more than two years now he is a BSC holder, things as not been easy for him , he is scouting with a friend in Abuja I so much pity him. I am begging all nairalanders in the name of God if anyone can help his very hardworking he doesn't mind doing any job .Thanks

emu22:
tanks bro but wait ooo'english dey hard me to understand some times'so d msg u got abt d Adamawa command wasn't authentic?

emu22:
Bros how far, u should be in d system by now'any news for us?

perry2020:
1) it's not a mgt that does these things ,the letter is usually addressed by the secretary to the boArd(CDFIPB)
2) ref number cannot be nis
3) if indeed this is genuine yes you would be posted to your state of origin for induction bt how come u dnt know your state of origin command since that's where you did your screening ,and if that's not ur state of origin then I wonder why your posted there because the last time they had selected people after the screening they were asked to come to the training school to get their apl and posting order and they moved to abuja fpr the sharing of the apl. So I wonder why they would ask u to come to Adamawa which isn't ur state of origin ,isn't the nis headqurts and isn't a training school .
4) If u were selected for screening then in the mail u got the first time u should see the list of all 36 state commands.
5) the first mail is usually a congratulatory one stating the cadre you were picked for ,your nis application number ,state of origin etc
6)the website shows the list of those selected before or during the mail dispatching process

blaKKy83:
Thank you jarey Mr Alex... I don't know why some people just like attention sha.. He just want to open a new irrelevant page

padua1234:
bros when did u receive the message