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ogtavia:
..i had no lady in my life then,i didn't know about her....she is pretty,great figure and all that,but I just wasn't attracted to her and if I ever was, I never would act on it...there was a time I travelled and post poned my return but forgot to tell her, when I came in at night,she was soo madd but didn't say a word,i noticed so I kept quiet ,she had cooked so while eating I playfully her asked why she didn't even call to ask me how my trip had been and when I would finally return ... even though we spoke while I was away and she even mailed me a document I forgot....she really exploded....she said many things,one thing she said that shocked me was when she asked me why I expected her to call when she wasn't my girlfriend or sexually attracted to me,i could only keep quiet and stare at her....when she was done,i quietly said sorry,...a short while after that,she left......

ogtavia:
last year after NYSC,a friend of mine came over when she left her PPA and came to stay with me cos she was looking for a job in the state where I lived...in fact, I had a female friend to pair her with but she refused saying she would only be comfortable staying with me...so she stayed a little over a month...I am team #nosexbeforemarriage so it never even crossed my mind that anything would happen...initially we had no issues but along the line she became a real pain in the A and became so annoying...she picked up anything I said and started a quarrel with it wherein she insulted me and I kept quiet...bear in mind,she was the first person I met when I got into UNI,my buddy from secondary school was her family friend so he introduced her to me,when I came to know her in school initially she showed glimpses of aggressiveness but I thought she was only being playful.... well,she had a sister in that same town but refused to stay with her...anything I said made her angry...I cooked,cleaned,washed while she watched movie,ate and slept..i would go to work,come back and still cook...during the rare occasions where she cooked or cleaned,i knew an insult session was coming....she is my agemate,i nearly asked her to leave but couldn't,..on a good day she is really nice but on those terrible days...she becomes a monster.....we slept on the same bed since I lived in a studio apartment....but a time came when she on her own decided to sleep on the couch and sometimes lay a mattress on the floor and slept....finally finally she announced she was leaving and I was so relieved....till today most of my friends never believe I had nothing intimate to with her....i had no lady in my life then,i didn't know about her....she is pretty,great figure and all that,but I just wasn't attracted to her and if I ever was, I never would act on it...there was a time I travelled and post poned my return but forgot to tell her, when I came in at night,she was soo madd but didn't say a word,i noticed so I kept quiet ,she had cooked so while eating I playfully her asked why she didn't even call to ask me how my trip had been and when I would finally return ... even though we spoke while I was away and she even mailed me a document I forgot....she really exploded....she said many things,one thing she said that shocked me was when she asked me why I expected her to call when she wasn't my girlfriend or sexually attracted to me,i could only keep quiet and stare at her....when she was done,i quietly said sorry,...a short while after that,she left......

DaGeneral:
It amazes me that when it comes to cheating a lot of people always use the excuse of that's how we are wired. I mean is there anything we are not wired to do? We all have the ability to kill, steal and be greed yet we are able to put this abilities under control so why can't we put the urge to cheat under control? Let's cut the crap joor we cheat because we want to. Aside the fact that I know and understand clearly the consequences of indulging, my decision to remain faithful to my wife has nothing to do with how she treats me rather it is because am answerable to a higher authority before whom I made a vow when I said I do. Has it been easy? Definitely not but His grace is sufficient when we accept and revere Him with all that we are.
[b]Titus 2:11. [/b]For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men [b]12.[/b]It teaches us to say NO to ungodliness and worldly passions,to live self controlled,upright and godly lives in this present world .

Diplomaticbeing:
I appreciate your input. Thanks! And to the others that commented either in half or full, I say thanks to you all,too.

krauss:
I believe in the concept of sexual corruption. What you feed your mind is what it will act on. We also grow from strength to strength as we overcome and conquer daily the temptations of sin. In turn, one goes from one point of weakness to a lower point as he accepts sin daily to be a part of him. The question is, how many are ready to let go the throes of the passion of sin. Yes and Yes, how many are ready to suffer the loss of the sweet but destructive taste of fornication and adultery. We all know we can work on this. Aside Christianity, other religions have different ways to tame the carnal mind, there is meditation and so much. The spirit of a man is subject to him.

krauss:
Again, sex is very much voluntary notwithstanding the involuntary hormonal transductionary signals that elicit the urge. There is a clear gauge between erec...tion and insertion. Even Joseph at possibly the very lowest ebb of his defence mechanism, was able to free himself from a beautiful and naked woman. I'm sure you at least know that passion can also he tamed. I for one have had ladies visit me bare breasted( seriously) and sit carelessly in my house without doing nothing. One even had the guts to say I wasn't romantic and that she can't marry someone like me if I asked her to. She even said she thought I was gay because she hadn't seen me attached to any lady. Once again, cheating is a choice.

Oneminuteman:
In lovemaking,does pain translate into pleasure for a woman because when I do other styles she complain she's havin pain.

Oneminuteman:
Bro i think you are very correct here, there was a time I did something like this and she said she really enjoy it.I didn't come early because I didn't start with missionary then. Also is it true that missionary always makes someone ejeculate very fast. Thanks for your advice.

onirugbon:
So how is this a less harder/tasking solution to simply making the juice mixture, preserving it in a refridgerator and taking some of it one hour before sex?

Kindly explain.

onirugbon:
You have a better option for him?

onirugbon:
Today January 14,

Bro if you are truly married, then do this today.

Buy one coconut, one wrap of dates (dabinu) and one wrap of tiger nuts.

If you have a juicer, juice the mixture and drink it exactly one hour before the show. If you do not have a juicer, eat them raw one after the other.

Remember to soak your tiger nuts for minutes and remove the seeds of your dates before blending.

I tell you that tonight your wife will be begging you stop.


P.S. Make sure you have no other food in your stomach at that time to impair its effectiveness meaning you should have had dinner atleast about 2 hours before taking the mixture.

People who are not married should steer clear this post. #Abstinence is key in life.

MurderX:
Men are not wired to cheat neither are they wired to be faithful but circumstances push some to it, some understandably others complicated. I know a married friend who always cheated on his wife but for 3yrs since he met his mistress he has not cheated on her. He no longer hangs out with us, just behaving like a teenager in love - vexing.

blasian123:
just want to see the reaction of nigerian guys to oriental beauty, i could hardly find any other funny and educational resource on internet, so i transcribe this chinese tv beauty, anyway , you guys at least learn the summary of a chinese literature masterpiece

iamDaisy:
Only a Gay guy will accept oral but refuse to give.

Kobicove:
The woman is obviously a tout...

What's the point in damaging property when you can just walk away from the relationship?

ModestGal:
I used to hav things like nervousnes, nt looking at his face, not talking etc for my BF before jx bcx i feel a lil different from him,now we are closer bcx my bf will tell me plainly he hates what he hates,he will tell me, hey look at me,whats the problem,play with,talk to me,nd if I do not,mybaby may get mad at me,so I co-operate,he made me hav dat trust in him nd made me see him as my friend,nw i tlk freely with him,bt still feel shy whenever we ae meeting after a long time,bt on phone,i feel very free.

Benita27:
You won't understand cos you're not in my shoes, words travel faster than one could imagine when spoken in the open.
I can remember in most occasions while i'm minding my business some peeps on social gathering will be like 'that one?, she no dey greet person or she's too full of herself'
As a matter of fact, when some see me joking around with friends they call my friends to tell them they're surprised i could joke around.

It leaves me wondering sha!.

Benita27:
She's rude.
She doesn't greet, like is by force to greet.

safarigirl:
That line is so overused....these people need to get more creative or shut down this stupidity.

Marry and leave the world out of your business....just snap your pinshur and put it on jotter for your guests, no need to disturb us with it.

And please, the mods moving these things to FP should better change, this is 2017 mbok

lepasharon:
I love crop tops, I have got summer and winter knit crop tops. It's a statement piece for me. If you've got a flat belly, flaunt it.

Let no one, shame you for the beauty of ur body