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DeluwaTalks:
What can one do then to put the anger under control without getting to the point of explosion?

Talk it out. It's a very common saying but it works. A lot of misunderstanding, hurt and anger in relationships after marriage is due to poor communication and unexpressed disappointment. Sit yourselves down and pour out all your feelings. You will see that things will get better.

GreatResearcher:
The percentage for men is slim

True.
Men don't need to pretend, especially after having sex with the lady. It's the women who are in their best behaviour until marriage.

And no, you don't have to have mistreated her before she starts to misbehave. They know that if they perform badly pre-marriage you may not pop the magic words "will u marry me". So they behave very well until the wedding is over. Then BOOM. Their real selves pop out.

Your job now is to tame the real woman. Know what you can tolerate and know where to put your foot down. Whatever you allow now you will allow for the rest of your marriage. But then again nobody is perfect. Just know where to draw the line, it happens to everyone. Cheers

GreatResearcher:
Fellow husbands in the house, are your wives attitudes while in marriage the same as when the were in courtship? I realized women characters change from almost good to very worst once they get married. Mostimes we wonder if the women we got married to are they women we dated. What could be the cause of this change in character.

They relax, knowing they have finally got you.

Olivegreen:
It is clear that the issue here is not that feminism is fallacy or is wrong but simply that most people do not understand what feminism is about.

Once again I quote "feminism is not about man-hating"
Therefore anyone who hates men (sexist) and uses the feminist label as a cover-up is not a feminist but an extrimist or a sexist. And I am not guilty of the no true Scotsman fallacy by calling Golria Osei out for who she truly is, a sexist.

In order to move forward, it is important I understand your own point of view here.

What do you think feminism is? @ all anti-feminist on N/L.

Extremist
Extrimist


Are u deliberately mistyping it?

It's normal.

It shows she cares about your appearance.

She wants others to know you are hers and she wants to be proud of you when her friends see you.

It's a good thing.

1. Ex
2. Parent
3. Pastor
4. Boyfriend.

sisisioge:


The maid should. After all, she was hired to perform simple tasks. The husband and wife shouldn't have to deal with tasks like realignment of slipped sims fa.

Its a Sunday, biko go church.

No mind am

MamBi:
Please oh people, what is Puto? What is arrow?

Puto is a f0ol (Mexican slang)

What's wrong with ebuka sef

This long hugging be like say Sir dee dey like tasha codedly since oh

Sir dee Out!

Ebuka : who do you think is going to win?

Esther : FRODD or Sir dee.


Esther don fall ohhh

FRODD WINS!!!!

For girls reading this.

If your boyfriend is behaving like Elo is behaving to Diane right now.

There is only one way to clear the air.

Make the first move.

Dianne should kiss him let's see how he will react. All this touching and intelligent talk and the poor girl has been gumming your body since.

I feel like beating Elo up suddenly.

Abeg.

Thank you Kayode.

Mike and Omashola chatting about hustling.

Mercy crying.
Ike really comforting her now.

This is becoming uncomfortable.

Damn.

Kayode change channel.o.

This is becoming too much.

RedDistrict:
why you think Frodd has fallen mugu for the babe??

The babe has a banging body ni ooo but her wahala too much abeg

Honestly she got a banging body and a nice voice. She just behaves anyhow.

Merike talking of loving each other after the big brother house. Ike asking her to give him a chance. Mercy says she's used to guys not loving her. She's not expecting Ike to love her after the bb show. Ike saying he's not like anyone she's ever met. He different. He's given her everythang. He want her so much. He won't disappoint her. He ain't a small boi.

Now they hugging and he saying over and over that he love her.


Awwwwww

Like play like play, Esther get asss sha.
Jackie spanking Esther's ass in the changing room.

Seyi warning everybody not to touch his legend beer in the fridge. Talking to omashola specially.

Elo and Diane in the garden. Eli's hand on Diane's laps.

Mercy straddling Ike.

Sirdee and khaffi watching the action.

Kayode has shifted the camera from them.



Ike don suffer sha. Kai. Conji go don block him.pipe finish.

Frodd vs Mike argument in a nutshell.

Mike was saying something about bikes and not wearing helmets and accidents. Frodd said it happens in Nigeria, that Nigerians are worse. I think Mike got pissed off because frodd was making it look like Mike didn't know anything about Nigeria. Mike dissed frodd. Frodd tried to ignore. Mike kept on dissing and walked out. Frodd went to meet him and explained himself. Kind of schooled mike and low-key dissed him in the process, telling mike he was behaving childish. Mike finally calmed down. End of story.

Na wa o.

Venita stroking ike, trying to cause wahala between ike and mercy

Venita to mercy: e go hard for man to be with you for house and him prick go dey rise every five mins.

To Ike...yabbed him over something then starts apologising to ike's mom, that she doesnt mean it that Ike is doing well.

And mike lost his temper

And khaffi wins like a boss! She's still holding the ribbon and waiting for biggie.

Mercy should be disqualified o. Biggie cheating.

Mercy in serious discomfort but holding out.


Khaffii as calm as the sea.

Biggie cheating. Cindy's arm wasn't bent. Anyway she's out.

Mercy is in pain.

Cindy looks tired but desperate.

Khafi....looks bored. Like she ain't stresses at alllll.

janefrancisca:
Actually they drank, didn't u see wen Frodd was pouring it out in glasses for dem.

Yeah you're right but it wasn't that much right?

One of the best night outs on the big brother pepper them show till date, and they didn't even need alcohol!
Good one guys.


Thanks biggie for offing the music. Let everybody goan sleep.

Venita dey laugh Cindy who is dancing and singing to herself

And if you're missing this Diane and elo dance, you've missed something tonight




But las las something is wrong with this Elo vibes. Like he's dancing with his naughty sister or something.