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Mandela27:
[color=#990000][/color]Are u sure u're this person?

yeah


anything?

BabbanBura:
Happy BD and best wishes. Where are the breasts?

hahaha
thanks hun

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Mother I will be someday! I celebrate Me today!.
I am grateful to God for the gift of life, I am void without
him. Also thankful to my earthly parents for nurturing me
into the graceful, lovely, and great woman I am today.
Happy birthday to Me! I wish myself many more years of
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Madibahisback:
You a shame and a big fo*l for this ..
You couldn't defend the children's right , this children where innocent ,and they arrested them for nothing sake ,there no where it is written in the constitution that emulating some one is a crime
You're here talking about naira Marley , should the children emulate buhari or abacha or what ??,


You're a big disgrace to womanhood

A very big disgrace to womanhood.


I have learnt not to reply any of her comment because replying her is just waste of data

Federalcase:
Psych412
Hmmm i have a friend that is the same as the way you describe your boyfriend. He has a loving family especially his mum, she is too Caring and not only for her son even to his friends and girlfriends. During his universities days he has this loving girlfriend, there's nothing these girl will not do for him and she is very pretty too. His family knew her and they even thought she was the final one for him because the guy doesn't stay one place at all. The problem you are battling with your bf was the same problem his loving girlfriend was battling with then. He cheated alot. Long story short, he later got married to one lawyer that works with their family lawyer that has a law firm. From what I understand, he is just guy that has no problem in his life, he got everything he wanted and he is very intelligent too so he couldn't help but test different pūssy. During the whole wedding ceremony, we discussed and I asked after his loving girlfriend and from his reply, i understand that his doesn't want a loving girlfriend, he just wants a girl that will add value to his life and that lawyer came through when the family had an issue and she loves him very well. The lawyer girl is not pretty as his other girlfriends then but she is standard, she is successful, she has her own car and house before she got married, her dad is not even that rich but she is a very hard working girl. His family paid her alot with begging on top.

You should start thinking for yourself, i am sure his mum will understand when she stops seeing u guys together. You don't owe her any explanation, don't let his mum become a criteria for loving him. She is a grown woman and if she is truly loving as you say, she will want the best for you. As for guys like your boyfriend, trust me when I tell you that he is not even thinking of getting married. He is having fun and at the time getting all the loving he wants from you, others girlfriends and family so he just wants to keep you around just like others. He won't value you now until you have given value to your life and he is burden to you if you want to move forward. Quit the relationship, study hard, finish school and start making your money. Leave relationship matters to God and God will send the best man to you.

wow


I'm so happy with these

thanks for the advice

Olakunleyakub:
Break up for now! you would have been fired by him if you were the one cheating on him....men hardly forgive cheating oooooooo!!

As for me, Once you are dirty and a cheat den kiss the relationship or marriage goodbye even if you are Elon musk daughter!!!


]n relationship or marriage, your happiness come first before anything else ma!!!

last sentence, just changed my mind completely

thanks for the advice.

nomnso2016:
you asked what he sees in other ladies,

Nothing at all, if you like give it to him each hour, he will still cheat.
it is matter of self-discipline and commitment.
walking away may an option

I don't know if he was cursed him. I'm just tired.


thanks for the advice

FLESHnBLOOD:
Be very sincere with this qstn I will ask you have cheated on him before? If yes is he aware?

I swear, I have not cheated on him. his my first. 2018 we broke up because of his cheating life style, but got back again 2020 thinking he has changed, not knowing he has even increased his rank In cheating.

Why does my boyfriend keeps cheating on me and tells me he loves me and wants to be with me.


I caught him cheating on me more than three times.

And now I want to leave but he won't let me be.


I don't have any trust left but I still love him alot.

I have asked him "what does he wants me to do for him to stop cheating on me", he told me his trying to change that I should give him time that he will change (I nearly took the bottle on top the table to hit his head when he said that). I have not been eating well since Sunday we had this quarrel.


I so much love this guy to the point I nearly fought my elder sister and junior siblings(infact I fought her) when she tried changing my mind about getting married to him(we have done introduction and plan to get married once I'm through with my Bsc course). my eyes are opened. The only person am thinking about is his mom. I so much love that woman and she already gave us her blessing when I meet her for the first time. I know this our breakup is going to hurt her. But staying with her son who loves sleeping with anything with skirts for the rest of my life is going to be hell on Earth.


Please nairalanders, advice me. I don't know what to do. Am just tried.

they should find that woman and arrest her for false accusations

I don't know why Nigeria police are slow in this kind of case or is it because she's a woman.

the hustle is real

congrats sis

koyyes:


Any society that encourages adultery and legalized adultery polygamy will have high level of paternity fraud.

Negroes think they are smart. Going about shooting decayed $perm to prove their nonexistent masculinity. Who do you think will suffer in the end?

This is just the beginning.

lols

I don't pity them a bit (that's there reward)


but this paternity fraud issue is getting too much and our men are dying almost everyday because of it.


so, I beg my fellow women to take it easy, before our men go extinct because of paternity fraud

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DNA Saga: Why I Do Not Support DNA Paternity Testing -Pls Share



ByJzhane

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https://livelystones.ng/2021/01/09/dna-saga-why-i-do-not-support-dna-paternity-testing-pls-share/
 

DNA Saga: Why I Do Not Support DNA Paternity Testing -Pls Share

Hi,

I want to share my story, maybe this will help the poster from yesterday’s post .(Click here to read reference post).I am very sure the reason the husband is refusing to go for a DNA is because he knows the child from the other woman is not his….I know because , the same thing happened to me…

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Twelves years ago, I was a Driver earning about 20k per month. My wife….then …a girlfriend got pregnant for me and because of her family, we got married. Things were tough cos she was a secondary school certificate holder…not much she could do but petty trade to support my salary as a personal Driver for a lady.

Along the line, things got so bad that  could not keep catering for my family…we now had two small children…I was still on the same salary…I was also doing part time degree course. I had no choice but to send my wife and kids to my family in the village.

Back here, to survive, I did all kinds of things to survive…one of such …I am not proud of but ladies seem to flock around me then…so I got financial gain from these relationships to keep body and soul together.

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I got involved with my boss…I was sleeping with her for years. She was married and had no children but not up to six month of affair with her…she got pregnant. She did not say anything to me but I knew the baby was mine. We kept going with our affair after she gave birth and under one year, she got pregnant again.

If you see those children…they are exact copy of me…she fired me….I threatened to tell her husband about us (I really did not mean to but I was left in the cold when she fired me)…so she compensated me with a car to start my own cab business. My wife on her part…I saw her once or twice in a year.

Because of our financial situation, when we had s*x during the times I visited…I made sure not to cum inside her cos we did not want more children. So you can imagine my shock when she called me that she was pregnant…I know my last child…my beautiful daughter is not mine…but I will never question my wife.

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There were rumors of my wife being very friendly with an Uncle who supported my family financially sometimes. When the rumor got to me, my wife said it was the man’s wife who did not like her husband helping her…thinking about that…I know how many times my family went without food…who am I to blame her for accepting financial help at the time.

I will also never do any DNA test…gradually things are changing for us. My family is back with me. I have raised my daughter as mine…I am her father…let my wife keep her secrets…she must have had no choice the same way I had no choice when I fathered two children with my ex boss.

We do not know what tomorrow will hold but my advise is…do not kill yourself because of DNA….if God brings a child to you…whether you suspect you are not their true parent or not….truth is…life happens….sometimes…we cannot control such things…

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You can see that things were rough for us…I am not saying what we did was right when life presses you…sometimes…you make wrong choices…but the children had nothing to do with this…let us raise the children of our indiscretion and forget the past…I do not succumb to DNA testing…God gives children…raise your children…whether you suspect they are yours or not…

So to the poster…for your peace of mind….raise that child as yours…the child you want to adopt….may never know their real parents…they will know only you…they may or may not find out who their real parents are but God choose you as their parent….so forget the past and keep your marriage..

If you go digging too far…you will only hurt yourself and your husband…just like I will never ask my wife about our daughter….I just know she is not mine biologically but God sent her to me…

Some of you may not agree with me but let me ask you….what will I gain from doing any DNA test on my beautiful daughter? Or what will the family of my former boss gain if they do DNA on those children that God blessed them with through me?

God bless you and your home .


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Patrioticbreed9:
relized that when you love a lady sex isnt the first thing that comes to one's mind, it only when you have lust that sex becomes the main deal of the whole union, what i have for anita is true love when you love someone atimes there presence, voice and touches are enough to keep the train rolling, i do call anita from time to time and we communicate physicaly and soulicaly.. i know our love is still young but with the fondation we laid am optimistic of better days ahead..

........ The End..

Which Kind Wahala Be This Op

gfon:
hmm you don tey for the lap dance ministry

Lols

Abi

Telemon:
haha.hope you guys are still together. you can't receive beating for nothing o.

no, we're not together anymore. the last time we saw each other was during my secondary school graduation day(7 yrs ago). so he travelled abroad for his studies.

but we still talk and chat on phone

when my mom caught me at my secondary school boyfriend house, sitting on his lap. it was neighbors that begged on my behalf.

ChoCho54:
Tell them!

Have you read my brutal response up there? That was a true life story. They are all pretenders!

I know a guy at my former neighborhood. we were close friends and it nearly entered into sexual relationship before I stopped it.

there was a day we were alone in my room, he was asking me for sex. I told him I was not ready for that. he didn't stop there, he said I should just allow him to lick my plate that he won't go further.

I was surprised because this is a guy who brags that he can ever lick a lady plates.


so babe, some of them here are just noise maker's here in nairaland, but pussy worshippers offline.

his lucky, thunder didn't strike him dead since.

koyyes:


Here is another pic for you to w@nk on every evening when you feel unproductive and useless as always.

Oya, cry again.

what's this na.

I don't think so

cococandy:
What lies got me then?

1) I’m not convinced she didn’t have a relationship with the MD
2)I’m not convinced the kids aren’t the MD’s.
Those can be proven or disproven but it’s not what I’m actually drawn to in the story.

It’s the part where they said finding out “killed him”. Neither a stroke nor a cardiac arrest can be caused by bad news.(long diversion if I choose to go into it).
Just because I won’t ignore anyone who says cause of death is “paternity scandal” doesn’t mean I’m swearing on the lady’s behalf. It just means I can’t go along with an impossible school of thought.

But you know when a man thinks to much(something that troubles him), it can kill him either cardiac arrest or HBP.

Agboki:
If six yrs old pikin under any circumstances make u get errection den u go fit Bleep fowl. Matured babe go sit 4 my laps noting go sup e go come b pikin, baba dat ur talk better b joke ooh.

mature babe will sit on your laps, you won't get erection.



Story For The gods

bjprodint:
Me wey no lie about paternity,na me dey suffer dey train kids without support.may God help us all ,both men and women

any woman who supports paternity fraud is evil and wicked.


if you know you're tried of the marriage or your husband is impotent (infertile) then quit the marriage. it's better than giving a bastard to your husband to take care of. that's wickedness.

In an ideal world, a paternity test would be an automatic and compulsory test done in the hospital right after the child is born, while both mother and baby are recovering.
I believe this would benefit not only the father (for obvious reasons), but the mother, child, and society as a whole.

I don't know why some women are trying all means to make sure they cahnge the mindset of Men who made paternity test compulsory once their child is born. you can only be afraid of paternity test if you're guilty ( even the bible said "No Peace For The Wicked".


it can seem offensive to new mothers in monogamous relationships to be accused of something so egregious.

Here I will lay out a comprehensive list of benefit to compulsory paternity tests to try to convince even the most skeptical.


1. Benefits for father:

This one would be most obvious. The father would be 100% sure that the child he is raising is biologically is. This is a certainty I think women take for granted, so if this can assuage new fathers, what a great thing. Imagine if he finds out the child isn’t is at the hospital, before he has time to form an emotional attachment. Then he can save a lot of time, money, and heartbreak.


2. Benefits for mother:
The benefit for the mother is that she never has to worry about the father accusing her of cuckolding. It’s quite sad, but some men can be abusive with their spouses and accuse the mother of tricking them into raising another man’s child, even if that isn’t true. And, the sad truth is, without paternity tests, he can never be 100%, so he get some sympathy, even if he is otherwise being unreasonable. But with compulsory paternity tests, she can say “No, what you are saying is 100% untrue,” and this can prevent a lot of potential abuse and slander in the first place.


3. Benefits for the child:
With the paternity test, children can be secure in the knowledge of who their biological parents are. Not only will this prevent the disintegration of family units, but it is important for someone to know their true biological origins for medical reasons, i.e. their medical history.


There is no reason that paternity tests should remain a taboo subject as it once was, and remains, in my opinion, a remnant of a more archaic time. (Most) men have sex before marriage. Naturally, (most) women have sex before marriage. Paternity is no longer 100% guaranteed since both partners don’t marry off young, and there is less societal pressure for a woman to remain a virginal bride. Even then, paternity was not 100% guaranteed. Why not 100% guarantee it?


I will admit, even as someone who advocates strongly for paternity tests, I would still feel a little sting if my partner demands one, as I will probably be hormonal and stressed carrying his child. That’s because in our society now, paternity tests aren’t used or seen as the useful and benign tool that they can be, but as a necessary evil to only bring out if infidelity is suspected.

I think we can change that though.

Have a law that makes paternity tests safely and routinely conducted by hospital staff after birth. This will make paternity tests less taboo, and they will be seen as just another routine test, and it will also provide a net positive to society as a whole, or at least a net neutral. I cannot see any potential downsides to it, since they are safe and do not harm the child.

igbowoman:
Those kids may have been conceived with the full knowledge of that man.
Maybe he cannot father babies and they had that secret for her to get belle elsewhere.
Just because the man is now dead she is being demonized. Let's hear her side

madam, that man was not impotent.


his fiancee got pregnant with his child, then he was planning to marry her at once before he died



stop supporting paternity fraud.




if you know he can't get you pregnant, please leave the marriage(with honour) or you let him know about adopting a child

Dpsychologist:
Enough with the men also lie to their wives that they don't have kids outside.


It is not as terrible as lying to a man that the child is his own and make him to take care of the child. Investing and raising up a child only to discover that the child is not his.


Like i said before it is the woman's choice to take care of children that are not hers.

Unlike in the case of the man he has no choice for he is being deceived thinking its his own.

If she is a baby mama he can chose to take care of her or not. Many men marry baby mamas and single moms and they take care of the children its his choice.

The problem is being deceived a child is yours via paternity fraud.

That thing can Kill a man.

There are enough stories that show how men end up committing suicide. Killing the woman and then committing suicide.

That thing mess men up really bad.

please, don't bother to reply that lady again.



Her mentality is too low and faulty.



paternity fraud is bad and evil and no man/woman should support that.