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The case is already in court, Peter Obi should rest and focus on his court case.

ahnie:
I remembered when my husband refused giving me his arm card,let alone telling me his pin,I followed him to wildraw.

When I voiced my annoyance he apologize,still didn't tell me his arm pin orgive me his atm card.



Mscheeeeew

if he trust you to that extent with his finances he wouldn't be your husband he would be one of your maga.

manoflove22:
what i want to know is that is she truly a virgin or she is just using me while giving another nigga sex


a girl with big boob and big yanse with numerous male friends, u allowed me to suck ur boobs and all how am gonna believe she is a virgin

You want sex and she is not ready to give you sex.

Dump her and move on to a girl that will give you what you want instead of putting up with her.

Most relationship problems could be avoidable if the guy is ready to move elsewhere to find what he is looking for instead of trying to put up with the girl and hope she changed her mind or behavior and he continue to surfer in silence.

You want sex, she is not ready to give you sex, It mean you are not compatible. Be a real man and dump her and look for the girl that will give you what you want, a real man don't supplicate and plead for a girl to change her mind.

A real man will demand what he want if the girl is not ready to supply then you bounce and look for it elsewhere with no hard feelings, that's what it mean to be an Alpha and the difference between the guy that could be screwing her behind your back and you. You are ready to tolerate it but the guy that could be screwing her behind your back wouldn't tolerate it and he would withdraw his attention immediately he is not getting sex from her.

The moment a girl is not ready to give you what you want you should be ready to bounce, that's what it mean to be a masculine man in a relationship, that's what it means to be a dominant man in a relationship.

It is feminine traits to be pleading and supplicating or trying to satisfy in the hope that someone will change their mind or behaviors in a relationship, that's the tactics of women.

Look at women in a relationship with the guy that they truly want, they will do everything they can to satisfy him and even make numerous sacrifices and go overboard with it to prove their love.

The moment you are the one going overboard to satisfy your woman or pleading for her to change her mind regarding something like sex etc, you are no longer the dominant and masculine male, you are now the woman in the relationship and most women yearn for masculine male that can dominate them in fact they are the type of guys women enjoy having sex with and will cheat on their partners with.

Sucre6:
Real redpillers don't have time for online baters against women, real red pillers don't talk much, action speaks louder, most of those noise makers here claiming red pillers here are vegetables simps in real life, the guy that preach about red pill ubunja u can't see him bantering women here, that's not what it's all about. And yes if u see my reply to this post I have blamed op for being insensitive, he should have pressed her more to know what the issue was or at least call people around her to go check up on her before she does something stupid

Funny you can't see her pathetic attempt to Gaslight you

She called redpill men stingy why can't you ask her why Nigerian women feel so entitle to the money of any guy that show interest in them ? We are not their father or Husband and they should go get a job if they are so broke instead of looking for a relationship to siphon money from.

Rejecting their manipulation tactics and bad behaviors doesn't also mean we are mean, if we are mean they can always choose from the list of guys orbiting around them that won't say no to all their unreasonable requests and tolerate disrespect from them.

Juliearth:
Funny enough, I don't blame him. He may have acted dismissively because he paid too much attention to the redpillers here. In no time, people will come to realise that feminism and redpill-ism are demonic agenda.

May her soul find rest.

Blame Redpill very typical of women, not ready to take responsibility

That redpill movement is a response to how women manipulate men, rob them of their resources and causes them heartache.

If you look around that woman i am 100% sure there were some guys that genuinely cared for her but she wouldn't give them any chance.

OP can't be blame for another adult human decisions. We all have our shits to take care of

HNICEARTH:
Nobody marries yoruba women dont you get it. There is a reason why your elites go for igbo women, they want a different gene pool. They want their kids to have certain characteristics/traits. Poor you, just find a way to numb your pains.

However, it's still yoruba Ronu to this day!

"Nobody marries Yoruba women" this statement prove how daft and delusional you are even the Adeleke you are speaking of have two wives one of which is a Yoruba woman.

I know some Igbo guys here in my city that married Yoruba.

How many Yoruba elites even married Igbo ?and Yoruba married from any tribes but that doesn't mean is the norm.

Oluwo of Iwo married a Northerner and some Lagos Kings married from the north even one of Ooni of Ife wives is an Igala woman but most Yoruba men still married Yoruba women.

Only Inferior people like you see it as something to chest beat about.

free2ryhme:
Low self esteem men sends women money at the slightest whim

They are not confident women can like them for just their personalities so they compensate for it by showing off with money.

Women should also beware of guys like that because most of them believe in the bad stereotypes of women, they believe all women are hoes that can do anything for money and they hardly respect any women.

But it is true

Many men are just simp with no self esteem, they believe a woman can't like them without them showing off with money.

Most of these simp would be skeptical to help their friends and family members but wouldn't hesitate to send money to a woman they just met or take her out and lavish money on her.

Women should also beware of guys like that because most of them believe in the bad stereotypes of women, they believe all women are hoes that can do anything for money and they hardly respect women.

swagguElite:
When a lady is having period, don't talk until you're asked to. The only time you reach out is can I rub your stomach to stop the pain or boil warm water to bathe. Anythin' else na offense. When they go through pain, they transfer aggression.

Your fellow man will say this buh when he sees the quality of your babe, he will bend some principles for her. Na men dey do men in this life.

So many weak guys in Nigeria that make excuses for women treating them like trash.

I understand occasional mood swings but mentruation shouldn't be an excuse for women to treat you like trash unless she do not have enough respect for you to begin with.

My woman don't treat me like that during her period because she know i won't tolerate such and why should i lol. I understand the care aspect but not letting you speak or transferring aggression on you that's excessive and should not be tolerated unless you are a man with no value that enjoy being treated like trash.

You will know the level of respect your woman have for you by how she treat you during her period.

frozen70:
Dey play

yeah dey play because most women don't want to take responsibility for their shitty behaviors.

It may be normal to get occasional mood swings here and there but excessive and crazy behavior like that is not normal and acceptable, not all women act crazy and treat their guys like shit during their menstrual period so what make her think the guy would keep taking that treatment from her?

It is just like guys that got drunk and started beating their women or maltreat her whenever they are drunk then apologize later , is it every guys that get drunk that beat their women and maltreat her ? many guys can drink and still put themselves in check.

The emotional torture the woman is putting her boyfriend through every menstual period is like her physically beating her boyfriend and you say it is normal. There are so many women out there that won't act crazy when they are on their mentrual period so why should the Op keep taking that kind of treatment from his girlfriend ?

MrBrownJay1:
pretty normal... many women become insane people just before/during their perod... its not their fault, its their bodies playing tricks on them.
just ignore anything they say during that time. they truly

It is not normal you know nothing about women if you think that is normal. Menstration doesn't make a woman insane and crazy, that woman is just using Menstration as an excuse to be controlling and manipulative, she is not the only women that menstrate and if she can't put herself in check during her menstration it mean she is not ready for a long time relationship, the standard is so low that many men take shits from women.

I understand occasional mood swings during her menstrual circle here and there but excessive behavior like that is not normal and shouldn't be tolerated.

He can not ignore it because it will get worse moving forward.

Nia69:
😂 Something that happens every month, you can't handle the pain. I think some women are just using period as an excuse to behave anyhow.

This is the only woman that tell you the truth


That girl is using her period to control and manipulate you and it is not going to end there. It is a big sign you are dating a very manipulative woman

frozen70:
Its normal
You will experience more when she becomes pregnant

It is not normal.

Period or Pregnancy shouldn't be an excuse for women to be controlling and manipulative.

LittleBigDick:
I love my gf. But when shes having her period she becomes completely unreasonable. Everything i say is suddenly wrong, she gets skeptical of everything and she demands i make her feel better because she feels bad. Then a week later she apologizes for being like that.
Is this normal?

It is not normal, she is very manipulative and controlling and you are seeing the red flags already and she is very insecure with low self esteem, which make for a very bad combo.

Her period shouldn't be an excuse to manipulate and control you. There are too many low quality women in Nigeria that see nothing wrong in putting their boyfriends through something like this.

Funkyswagzz:
I have to honest with you.. i spent 2 year to have a proper relationship with my ex and ended up not getting married due to so many factors. If i see the quality i want between these two girls i will propose to anyone one of them.

What is so special about marriage lol ?

Most Nigerian guys are just desperate to enter that cage call marriage all in the name of God's know what, maybe because you have been brainwashed lol.

Your desperation for marriage is going to affect your chances of getting married.

Don't even consider a woman for marriage unless she is signaling to you that she is ready to take the relationship further with you and you find her suitable enough. Many guys proposal got rejected and their heart totally crushed because they couldn't read the signs , a woman will urge you to take the relationship further subtlely when she is ready for the next step with you. It is not you that will be so eager or you will be crush. When you are ready she may not be ready, when she is ready she will let you know subtlely.

Reason why it is better to just have fun and go with the flow if you are dating at least 3 women, it is just a matter of time before one would be totally into you and urge you to take that step. You are a man anyway and have all the time unlike women so take advantage of it instead of rushing and acting desperate like a woman that would soon hit menopause, men get even more attractive as they get older.

Funkyswagzz:
Its about 3 months i broke up with my ex so i decided to go on adventure to find another lady i want to call my girlfriend. So i had to connect with more than 5 different girls locally and outside my state. So far i have invited 5 girls to my house that i like within this month of April. Out of those five girls i decided to pick 2 that are good march to me. Basically i though about how I've spent so from April 2 to 29 and i came up with roughly 130k. To some it might not be much but i think it was worth it cos i found two beautiful souls i will choose to marry. I cant put my eggs in one basket again and this time i will make it snappy cos theres no time to waste. By August or September i will propose to one of them. Guy wish me luck🤞🤞

You are too desperate

What is rushing you ? Your desperation will just leave you open to manipulation and exploitation until you decided to calm down and take your time unless you get extremely lucky. Things aren't always as easy as it seem and as you planned

Ronaldo723:
Iphone 12promax

Collect the phone back

You should only think about yourself at this stage and what will make you feel better.

After you collect your phone back, it will feel much better to move on.

I bet the only reason she is trying to convince you to put up with her is so that you won't collect the phone back, very manipulative woman.


You shouldn't be buying women something that expensive.

Ronaldo723:
Okay bro thank you

You can collect the phone you bought for her back, if it will make you feel better to move on.

Don't give a damn what she think about you again, You can collect back the phone if it very expensive it will make you feel better.

At this stage you should be thinking about yourself and what will make you feel better.

Ronaldo723:
Okay bro thank you

There are more beautiful women than her out there waiting for you.

Just know not to repeat the same mistakes, keep your options open, she is already seeing other guy. Get out there to look for other women too, in no time you would completely forget about her.

Ronaldo723:
Okay do you think I should have one last hit before I let her go? cuz now is very obvious she is playing games she just told her bestie that she doesn't want the relationship but it was the same girl that still called me yesterday crying and begging that I should forgive and take her back

Just forget about her and move on or else you would hurt yourself very badly.

You see my predictions is already coming to reality, what make you even believe she would agree ? and not completely shut you down ? she would lose all the respect she have for you and dump you which would be more painful lol

cut your losses and move on, respect yourself.

Ronaldo723:
Have learnt a lot from you I acted desperate because I loved her dearly but I will take my L and move on I'm ready to learn from my mistakes
Thanks once again

Women have the tendency to get bore of men that they know love them and they have won over.

Most of the time it is because there is no competition to keep them on their toes, that's why they look for it elsewhere and dump the guy that love them or treat him badly.

Have high social proof, don't be completely emotionally invested in one woman, demonstrate your capabilities to get other women affection to the women you are in relationship with.

It will make them constantly compete to win you over 100% and not get bore of you but the moment a woman believe they have won you 100% they get bore and kick you to the cub to look for competition elsewhere.

Ronaldo723:
Thanks I apologize

We are all in that stage at some point

as long as you are ready to correct your mistakes, you will keep getting better

Learn how to remain a mystery
Learn how to control your desperation
Give attention sparingly

Wmomen should be the one asking you why you are not texting or calling not you or saying you are not calling or texting enough.

The moment a woman is not replying your texts and calls, you have already lost and should be ready to move on.

Ronaldo723:
Okay thank you sir

Okay i will also tell you to kill any sign of desperation, reduce the amount of texts and calls.

Try to remain a mystery in a relationship, only texts and call to set up dates and some occasional check up here and there or else women will quickly get bore of you.

Ronaldo723:
Okay thank you I will try my best to let her go to be frank I just feel bad when I imagine another guy putting his rod in her and her moaning but I will let her go for my sanity

I know that feeling, i will also give you a tip


As a man don't ever confess to a woman first no matter how good you feel the woman is, she must be the one to confess her love for you first and don't be the one eager to take the relationship further.

Women love competition don't let your woman know she have you completely 100% no matter the pressure, let her think subconsciously that she haven't won you over 100%.

The moment women feel they have already won you over 100% they would quickly get bore of you, always let her know there is still that 20% chance of you dumping her any time she screw up and there other women ready to take her place, it will keep her on her toes.

Ronaldo723:
Okay thank you I will try my best to let her go

That's the best thing you can do for both of you or else the pain you will feel later if you put up with it would be much more painful.

If you put up with that bullshits she pulled she will be the one that will dump you later after she source for what she is getting from you elsewhere.

Ronaldo723:
I'm just keeping her for sex nothing else.. what do you think should I just let her go?

Don't even keep her for sex, it is not good for your mental and emotional health.

You can only keep women you are not emotionally invested in for just sex only, but you are already too emotionally invested in this woman and i can't blame you. You were the one that disvirgined her and have a wrong conception because of her virginity status.

Ronaldo723:
How did I choke her? When we started dating long ago before she knew this guy just of recent?

If you can real well you would see where I said I was the one who took her virginity so if she doesn't love me she would give me that?

Virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty.

Only a naive guy would believe that, with enough experience you would know virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty unless you are lucky enough to marry a woman as a virgin, that woman have a very high chance of staying loyal. There are so many women that feel they need to explore after they lose their virginity and won't be satisfy with just a man doing them.


That woman is still in her ho phase and want to explore, i will advise you to cut your losses in that relationship and move on, that girl would lose the small respect she have for you if you decided to keep her after that bullshits she pulled on you, she may be the one that will dump you next time after she lose the attraction she have left for you.

She is just trying to manipulate you, no self respecting man full of abundance mindset would stay after that bullshit she pulled. If she successfully manipulate you to stay then her brain would tell her that you are not worth it because you are not respecting yourself enough and even willing to take bullshits like that from her. Women only love guys that they know won't entertain their bullshits and can dump them immediately they screw up, she will be the one to dump you next time if you put up with that bullshits she pulled on you, trust me you will regret it, she is only willing to put up with you for now because of what she is getting from you.

You can forgive a woman but not on offense like that, she is not even afraid to let you know there are other guy she is attracted to, that tell you the level of respect she have for you.

She is now bore of you and want a new spark elsewhere.

As a man don't ever confess to a woman first no matter how good you feel the woman is, she must be the one to confess her love for you first and don't be the one eager to take the relationship further.

Women love competition don't let your woman know she have you completely 100%, let her know subconsciously that she haven't won you over 100%. The moment women feel they have already won you over 100% they would quickly get bore of you, always let her know there is still that 20% chance of you dumping her any time she screw up.

Ooni:
IPOB seems to have been elevated to the realm of sango and Ogun here in Yorubaland. I am not happy that we have not conquered inferiority complex. Are they the ones that have kept our state osun in the backwaters of development?

Osun is more developed and peaceful than the hole you crawled out from

Go to the major cities in Osun and see so many Igbo at every corner doing all sort of business to survive, the population of Igbo in Osun alone is times 5 of the total number of Yorubas in the entire South East region.

Japa007:
Why are you complaining, are they not ur brothers from the South_Waste.

Tinubu is working indeed, lagos will only be compared to Texas or New York

OP just go to court..

The problem with people like you is that you believe everything is cause by the government, even in developed countries you would find many gangsters, in fact Nigerian gangsters are weak where American gangsters are, at least Nigerian Agbero don't have easy access to guns to murder and steal, most of the famous American rappers you hear of today are former tout and Agbero that used to sell cocaine, codeine etc and committed all sort of crimes on the street before they made it as a rapper, rapper like Jay Z, Tu Pac ,Biggie , etc

What about Italian Mafia or Japanese Yakuza? Nigerian Agbero are weak where these guys are.

Some Nigerian parents can't raise their children properly, many of these Agbero are the result of failed parenting and if the government decided they are going to lock up every agbero in the country our prisons would be overwhelm in no time and don't think you can rehabilitate the Agbero easily, most of them can never change and it will cost billions of Naira to try to rehabilitate them.

The Agbero at Onitsha have been there before Peter Obi governed Anambra i wonder why he didn't do anything to stop the menace in Onitsha during his tenure.