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Masterito:
South Africa should not bring global war politics to Africa o. It will end in premium tears. Let US and Russia drag themselves, South Africa is playing a dangerous game o. It is better for Africa to be the spectators o.

The world is actually a jungle where the strong prey on the weak.


No nation in Africa really have the power to stand against these super powers even if all countries in Africa unite we cannot really do much, ordinary economic sanctions from US or European union can cripple South Africa Economy. South Africa is just poking the hive nest.

longetivity:
That foolish us ambassador should be declared persona non grata. SA is a sovereign nation ffs.

Russia invaded a Sovereign nation like Ukraine because they want to and Ukraine offended them, should US invade South Africa too because South Africa offended them ?

The world is a jungle where the strong bully the weak and prey on them.

If South Africa don't have any means to fight back against US, provoking US would be stupid but if they already have effective countermeasure against any US aggression they can go ahead.

Only ignorant and naive would believe it is about right and wrong or moral justifications. It is about Interest and Power in world politics.

DonroxyII:
I'm Observing this too ... It seems Competitions drive Attentions in Nigerian Relationships Clime while it leads to Heartbreak in Other Climes !

It is the same in every climes

You can be more open about the side chic thing in Nigeria but in places like Europe or US you can only let the woman know subtlely after all the woman also have guys around.

You can only do away with side chics when you and your girlfriend promise to be committed to each other in the relationships in places like Europe or US, just going out on dates or seeing each other doesn't mean you are committed to each other in other climes, it is only in Nigeria that we demand commitment once a girl accepted to be dating us and going out with us, in other climes they go out on more dates before they even consider each other as girlfriend and boyfriend and they can only demand commitment from each other after dating for a while longer.


In the US when a girl accepted to go out on a date with you, it doesn't mean she have accepted to be your girlfriend, both of you will first go out on some dates to check your chemistry and compatibility and it is after that, they will decide to take the relationship to the next level and be girlfriend and boyfriend if it get to that stage.

In Nigeria most times once a girl accepted to go out with us, we are already seeing each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.

Nigerian dating culture and pattern is different from Europe and US that's why most Nigerians struggle with datings abroad.

deyplay:
nice point bro. Who wired that confusion in them and for what purpose could that be?

It is nature of course

The mistake most men make is to believe men and women think the same way. Men and Women doesn't think the same way.

When it come to women, don't follow or believe in whatever they say, believe in their actions. Their actions would tell you the truth and what they really want or how they really feel.

They can say whatever but their actions would be contradictory, the way they behave would be different from what they say. They can claim they love and care for you but their actions toward you would be different, they can still disrespect you, ghost you, ignore you or even cheat on you etc her actions should tell you what she really feel about you that she is just deceiving you but most guys make the mistake of believing whatever they say instead of their actions.

They say they don't like men that cheat but would be chasing guys with multiple girls behind your back and have sex with them while they friendzone guys without any girl or treat them like shits.

If you ask women about the type of men they want, most of them would say they want a loving and caring man etc, that will listen to them and respect them, treat them like a queen or princess etc but in reality it is guys like that that they usually friendzones, manipulate and disrespect while they fall head over heels for a guy that don't really care that much about them or treat them like trash like yahoo boys, cultists etc.

In fact the reason why most women are attracted to guys that have money is because money give guys the confidence to act in an attractive way to women.

Money give guys confidence that they mostly lack without money and it is that confidence that women find attractive and it is attracting them to guys with money.

Most guys with money have that special confidence and they don't care for women that much because they are confident they can easily replace any woman as long as they have money and they mostly don't roll around one woman. It is mostly guys that have money and still care so much for women that have a lot of problems, guys with money have that special confidence and act like they are in charge and if she is not on her best behavior, there are other women around ready to take her position, it is that kind of challenges that mostly make guys with money very attractive, but some guys still have money and still act like total simp, it is mostly their kind that woman can cheat on or dump for another rich guy.

deyplay:
Na wao. Who swear for them?

Well they are wired that way

Men see women with a lot of guys as slut but it is different with women.

Women see men in relationship with other women as attractive because they want what other women like them desire.

That's why you would see a woman having interest in a guy she is initially not interested in immediately she is seeing him going out with other women or one of her friends.

deyplay:
Why are they like that, if they say they don't like cheating?

Because women want what other women want.

when you have many women around it prove other women find you attractive and she would also find you attractive because of that too.

If you don't have any other side chicks most of them would interprete it as you not being desireable and attractive to other women which would in turn make them lose interest and attraction for you.

what did he want lol?

by Adonis

Most guys make the mistake of making friends with a girl first in the hopes of working it into a meaningful relationship later.

This couldn't be more wrong. Not only are they wasting their time and money on the girl, but they are also digging their own graves.

These men wait around with their heads down in the hopes that she will change her mind and become romantically interested in them. However, these men fail to recognize the most basic facts: If she wasn't interested in you romantically in the beginning, what makes you think she will change her mind later?

What makes you think she's not using you as a surrogate boyfriend until she finds somebody she really wants?

What makes you think that she isn't just around for the ride while you spend your money and time on her?

The "Friendship Zone" is a trap... a trap so elaborate and strong that freeing yourself out of it is about as easy as climbing Mount Everest.

To her, being friends with you means she doesn't have any sexual attraction towards you or have any romantic interest in you. You're simply around to kill boredom or until she finds something else better to do.

She may at one point in time have found you attractive, but since she's spent enough time with you, she now believes you are as challenging as a game of checkers with her grandma. You simply do not stir the electricity in her body and that's why you are who you are: A Friend!

More often than not, once a girl has made you a friend, getting her to think of you romantically is damn near impossible. And this is what you'll hear: "Can't we just be friends?"

Just because you get along with her and are compatible with her in a lot of areas doesn't mean you are compatible intimately. Besides all this, she knows you too much already, all the sense of being mysterious and being a challenge is already gone. You are basically in arms reach for the girl and about as exciting as a G-rated movie on a Saturday night.

So how do you avoid the friendzone?
Simple...

In the beginning do not approach her in the hopes of becoming just friends.

If you are attracted in any way — big or small — do not approach her looking for friendship. Always make your intentions known in the beginning.

Do not lurk around the far corner like a long-distance peeping-tom. Come on strong like the man you are and not as the chicken that you'll become if you start a friendship.

Guys, if you are going to spend so much time and attention with a girl, you better and might as well make her your girlfriend. What have you got to show for it if she bec omes just a friend?

Whenever you are interested in a woman, take her out on a real date. Don't fool yourself by merely pretending to be a friend in the hopes of winning her over later.

https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall346.htm

Buskynwa:
True

i used the above to know the kinda woman im dealing with,heck i even told her ive never had any romantic relationship with anyone and then put her on pedestal,women fail this a lot
any woman who passes such test is a true woman but i doubt there is

They can't help but to feel that way.

The interpretation of your words and actions on subconscious level determine the level of attraction women would have for you.

Don't ever reveal the number of women you have been together with when they ask you or say you haven't been in a relationship when they ask you. Find a way around it in a funny way or just tell them you have been in relationships with some women but not serious and you have some women around and nothing serious and leave the rest to their imaginations.


Women want what other women want, if you say you haven't been in a relationship. They would wonder why and it would lower their interest in you, they may even think it is because you have issues and it is problems with you, they can't help but to think that way and they would lose interest and attraction for you . Women see men being in a lot of relationships with other women as a sign of high value, it will Pique their interest in you and you will look more challenging, it is only opposite when it come to men.

Men see women in a lot of relationships with other guys as a slut but reverse is the case with women, women interest and attraction for a guy increase when they notice you are in relationships with other women, so whenever women ask you a question to know if you have been in a relationship or single, it is a trap. If you must answer it just say you have some women around but nothing serious, don't ever say you don't have any woman around or you haven't been in any relationship.

Adejoncy01:
I'm broke today. She never even told me why we can't be together, and I never asked.

Don't listen to the guys that are saying it is all about money.

It mean she will only be there for the money, once the spending reduce or decline she will still leave, even if you give her so much that won't stop her from cheating on you, she can even kill you to get all that money and enjoy with the person she have feelings for.

Adejoncy01:
I know. The thing is I fell in love with her before I learnt game. And I couldn't change how I related with her.

The Best thing you can do is let her go, there are exciting women out there if you are willing to try instead of developing Oneitis with that girl.

Learnfrom your mistakes if you don't want to experience it again.

Adejoncy01:
LOL... Calm down. She never jokingly asked for money or anything. Besides, I don't even have to give. My gestures towards her was on my own accord and reward for the things she do for me.

But you are right that I gave her too much attention though. I made it look like she was special even though no one is, actually.

You made so many mistakes

You are a real AFC and Beta

Never ever put a woman on a pedastal, when you make a woman believe she is special, yes she would believe she is too special to date you, she would believe she can do better and can get a better man than you, she would believe she is not on your level and she is even doing you a favor by interacting with you.

Women don't like dating men they believe is below their level they like dating up.

If you don't learn from your mistakes it will happen again.

Whoknow:
You are talking as if Igbos stop you from doing same business of importation now. You fail to understand that God bless every Region with one thing or the other, so when you see whom God has bless be happy so that you will get your own.

You guys are just lucky

Men in Yoruba land culturally believe and favour vocational skills and Education. We prefer to acquire skills instead of trades, most Yoruba men believe trading is for women, that's why you will hardly see a Yoruba man selling goods like Pepper and tomatoes, clothes and shoes, onions, food stuffs, yams, fishes etc like Igbo and Hausa men. We believe those stuffs are for women

Yoruba have given up most of those trading business to you guys mentally, but when the opportunities present itself. Many Yoruba will pick it up in fact if you notice these days, you will see so many Yoruba competing with Igbo in major trades of goods and wares across Yoruba land, it is just that you guys make the loudest noise.

Cooly100:
My greatest joy will be the day...

Traders in Alaba, Ladipo, Coker, Tradefair, Computer Village, Mandillas find new home in the east.

I will like to see those envious people travel all the way from Oyo, Ogbomosho, Ibadan, Akure, Abeouta and Lagos to SE to buy their wares...

That's when they will know how Igbos have been helping.

I pity the people from Ghana, Togo, Benin, etc that have to travel far to the SE to get their items...

For me I have since divested from that region.

Lol What's so special in importing goods from China or Europe to sell in Nigeria ? in this digital age?

You guys moving back to the East would create thousands of opportunities for Yoruba youths, it means most of the businessess and trades we have given up to you guys would be picked up.

No one is going to follow you to the East for anything, thousands of Yoruba youths or other tribes would replace you immediately you leave, anyone can do most of the businesses you do with small capital.

it is not like you guys provide any special skills for Yoruba in South west, Yoruba have numerous artisans and skilled workers like Bricklayers, Mechanics, Tailoring , Vulcanizers, Rewire etc. You guys just flood Nigeria with imported goods and painted it as something special anyone can easily do that with small amount of capital, it is even easier in this internet age.

Hopefully it won't be empty boasting and i hope you guys will leave one day.

What inferiority complex can do does not exist

Chest beating with poverty

The case is already in court, Peter Obi should rest and focus on his court case.

ahnie:
I remembered when my husband refused giving me his arm card,let alone telling me his pin,I followed him to wildraw.

When I voiced my annoyance he apologize,still didn't tell me his arm pin orgive me his atm card.



Mscheeeeew

if he trust you to that extent with his finances he wouldn't be your husband he would be one of your maga.

manoflove22:
what i want to know is that is she truly a virgin or she is just using me while giving another nigga sex


a girl with big boob and big yanse with numerous male friends, u allowed me to suck ur boobs and all how am gonna believe she is a virgin

You want sex and she is not ready to give you sex.

Dump her and move on to a girl that will give you what you want instead of putting up with her.

Most relationship problems could be avoidable if the guy is ready to move elsewhere to find what he is looking for instead of trying to put up with the girl and hope she changed her mind or behavior and he continue to surfer in silence.

You want sex, she is not ready to give you sex, It mean you are not compatible. Be a real man and dump her and look for the girl that will give you what you want, a real man don't supplicate and plead for a girl to change her mind.

A real man will demand what he want if the girl is not ready to supply then you bounce and look for it elsewhere with no hard feelings, that's what it mean to be an Alpha and the difference between the guy that could be screwing her behind your back and you. You are ready to tolerate it but the guy that could be screwing her behind your back wouldn't tolerate it and he would withdraw his attention immediately he is not getting sex from her.

The moment a girl is not ready to give you what you want you should be ready to bounce, that's what it mean to be a masculine man in a relationship, that's what it means to be a dominant man in a relationship.

It is feminine traits to be pleading and supplicating or trying to satisfy in the hope that someone will change their mind or behaviors in a relationship, that's the tactics of women.

Look at women in a relationship with the guy that they truly want, they will do everything they can to satisfy him and even make numerous sacrifices and go overboard with it to prove their love.

The moment you are the one going overboard to satisfy your woman or pleading for her to change her mind regarding something like sex etc, you are no longer the dominant and masculine male, you are now the woman in the relationship and most women yearn for masculine male that can dominate them in fact they are the type of guys women enjoy having sex with and will cheat on their partners with.

Sucre6:
Real redpillers don't have time for online baters against women, real red pillers don't talk much, action speaks louder, most of those noise makers here claiming red pillers here are vegetables simps in real life, the guy that preach about red pill ubunja u can't see him bantering women here, that's not what it's all about. And yes if u see my reply to this post I have blamed op for being insensitive, he should have pressed her more to know what the issue was or at least call people around her to go check up on her before she does something stupid

Funny you can't see her pathetic attempt to Gaslight you

She called redpill men stingy why can't you ask her why Nigerian women feel so entitle to the money of any guy that show interest in them ? We are not their father or Husband and they should go get a job if they are so broke instead of looking for a relationship to siphon money from.

Rejecting their manipulation tactics and bad behaviors doesn't also mean we are mean, if we are mean they can always choose from the list of guys orbiting around them that won't say no to all their unreasonable requests and tolerate disrespect from them.

Juliearth:
Funny enough, I don't blame him. He may have acted dismissively because he paid too much attention to the redpillers here. In no time, people will come to realise that feminism and redpill-ism are demonic agenda.

May her soul find rest.

Blame Redpill very typical of women, not ready to take responsibility

That redpill movement is a response to how women manipulate men, rob them of their resources and causes them heartache.

If you look around that woman i am 100% sure there were some guys that genuinely cared for her but she wouldn't give them any chance.

OP can't be blame for another adult human decisions. We all have our shits to take care of

HNICEARTH:
Nobody marries yoruba women dont you get it. There is a reason why your elites go for igbo women, they want a different gene pool. They want their kids to have certain characteristics/traits. Poor you, just find a way to numb your pains.

However, it's still yoruba Ronu to this day!

"Nobody marries Yoruba women" this statement prove how daft and delusional you are even the Adeleke you are speaking of have two wives one of which is a Yoruba woman.

I know some Igbo guys here in my city that married Yoruba.

How many Yoruba elites even married Igbo ?and Yoruba married from any tribes but that doesn't mean is the norm.

Oluwo of Iwo married a Northerner and some Lagos Kings married from the north even one of Ooni of Ife wives is an Igala woman but most Yoruba men still married Yoruba women.

Only Inferior people like you see it as something to chest beat about.

free2ryhme:
Low self esteem men sends women money at the slightest whim

They are not confident women can like them for just their personalities so they compensate for it by showing off with money.

Women should also beware of guys like that because most of them believe in the bad stereotypes of women, they believe all women are hoes that can do anything for money and they hardly respect any women.

But it is true

Many men are just simp with no self esteem, they believe a woman can't like them without them showing off with money.

Most of these simp would be skeptical to help their friends and family members but wouldn't hesitate to send money to a woman they just met or take her out and lavish money on her.

Women should also beware of guys like that because most of them believe in the bad stereotypes of women, they believe all women are hoes that can do anything for money and they hardly respect women.

swagguElite:
When a lady is having period, don't talk until you're asked to. The only time you reach out is can I rub your stomach to stop the pain or boil warm water to bathe. Anythin' else na offense. When they go through pain, they transfer aggression.

Your fellow man will say this buh when he sees the quality of your babe, he will bend some principles for her. Na men dey do men in this life.

So many weak guys in Nigeria that make excuses for women treating them like trash.

I understand occasional mood swings but mentruation shouldn't be an excuse for women to treat you like trash unless she do not have enough respect for you to begin with.

My woman don't treat me like that during her period because she know i won't tolerate such and why should i lol. I understand the care aspect but not letting you speak or transferring aggression on you that's excessive and should not be tolerated unless you are a man with no value that enjoy being treated like trash.

You will know the level of respect your woman have for you by how she treat you during her period.

frozen70:
Dey play

yeah dey play because most women don't want to take responsibility for their shitty behaviors.

It may be normal to get occasional mood swings here and there but excessive and crazy behavior like that is not normal and acceptable, not all women act crazy and treat their guys like shit during their menstrual period so what make her think the guy would keep taking that treatment from her?

It is just like guys that got drunk and started beating their women or maltreat her whenever they are drunk then apologize later , is it every guys that get drunk that beat their women and maltreat her ? many guys can drink and still put themselves in check.

The emotional torture the woman is putting her boyfriend through every menstual period is like her physically beating her boyfriend and you say it is normal. There are so many women out there that won't act crazy when they are on their mentrual period so why should the Op keep taking that kind of treatment from his girlfriend ?

MrBrownJay1:
pretty normal... many women become insane people just before/during their perod... its not their fault, its their bodies playing tricks on them.
just ignore anything they say during that time. they truly

It is not normal you know nothing about women if you think that is normal. Menstration doesn't make a woman insane and crazy, that woman is just using Menstration as an excuse to be controlling and manipulative, she is not the only women that menstrate and if she can't put herself in check during her menstration it mean she is not ready for a long time relationship, the standard is so low that many men take shits from women.

I understand occasional mood swings during her menstrual circle here and there but excessive behavior like that is not normal and shouldn't be tolerated.

He can not ignore it because it will get worse moving forward.

Nia69:
😂 Something that happens every month, you can't handle the pain. I think some women are just using period as an excuse to behave anyhow.

This is the only woman that tell you the truth


That girl is using her period to control and manipulate you and it is not going to end there. It is a big sign you are dating a very manipulative woman

frozen70:
Its normal
You will experience more when she becomes pregnant

It is not normal.

Period or Pregnancy shouldn't be an excuse for women to be controlling and manipulative.

LittleBigDick:
I love my gf. But when shes having her period she becomes completely unreasonable. Everything i say is suddenly wrong, she gets skeptical of everything and she demands i make her feel better because she feels bad. Then a week later she apologizes for being like that.
Is this normal?

It is not normal, she is very manipulative and controlling and you are seeing the red flags already and she is very insecure with low self esteem, which make for a very bad combo.

Her period shouldn't be an excuse to manipulate and control you. There are too many low quality women in Nigeria that see nothing wrong in putting their boyfriends through something like this.