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Romance › Re: My Expenses On Girls This Month by PureFace1(m):
Funkyswagzz:
I have to honest with you.. i spent 2 year to have a proper relationship with my ex and ended up not getting married due to so many factors. If i see the quality i want between these two girls i will propose to anyone one of them.
What is so special about marriage lol ?

Most Nigerian guys are just desperate to enter that cage call marriage all in the name of God's know what, maybe because you have been brainwashed lol.

Your desperation for marriage is going to affect your chances of getting married.

Don't even consider a woman for marriage unless she is signaling to you that she is ready to take the relationship further with you and you find her suitable enough. Many guys proposal got rejected and their heart totally crushed because they couldn't read the signs , a woman will urge you to take the relationship further subtlely when she is ready for the next step with you. It is not you that will be so eager or you will be crush. When you are ready she may not be ready, when she is ready she will let you know subtlely.

Reason why it is better to just have fun and go with the flow if you are dating at least 3 women, it is just a matter of time before one would be totally into you and urge you to take that step. You are a man anyway and have all the time unlike women so take advantage of it instead of rushing and acting desperate like a woman that would soon hit menopause, men get even more attractive as they get older.
Romance › Re: My Expenses On Girls This Month by PureFace1(m): 6:29pm On May 01, 2023
Funkyswagzz:
Its about 3 months i broke up with my ex so i decided to go on adventure to find another lady i want to call my girlfriend. So i had to connect with more than 5 different girls locally and outside my state. So far i have invited 5 girls to my house that i like within this month of April. Out of those five girls i decided to pick 2 that are good march to me. Basically i though about how I've spent so from April 2 to 29 and i came up with roughly 130k. To some it might not be much but i think it was worth it cos i found two beautiful souls i will choose to marry. I cant put my eggs in one basket again and this time i will make it snappy cos theres no time to waste. By August or September i will propose to one of them. Guy wish me luck🤞🤞
You are too desperate

What is rushing you ? Your desperation will just leave you open to manipulation and exploitation until you decided to calm down and take your time unless you get extremely lucky. Things aren't always as easy as it seem and as you planned
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 9:17am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Iphone 12promax
Collect the phone back

You should only think about yourself at this stage and what will make you feel better.

After you collect your phone back, it will feel much better to move on.

I bet the only reason she is trying to convince you to put up with her is so that you won't collect the phone back, very manipulative woman.


You shouldn't be buying women something that expensive.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 9:06am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Okay bro thank you
You can collect the phone you bought for her back, if it will make you feel better to move on.

Don't give a damn what she think about you again, You can collect back the phone if it very expensive it will make you feel better.

At this stage you should be thinking about yourself and what will make you feel better.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 8:52am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Okay bro thank you
There are more beautiful women than her out there waiting for you.

Just know not to repeat the same mistakes, keep your options open, she is already seeing other guy. Get out there to look for other women too, in no time you would completely forget about her.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 8:37am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Okay do you think I should have one last hit before I let her go? cuz now is very obvious she is playing games she just told her bestie that she doesn't want the relationship but it was the same girl that still called me yesterday crying and begging that I should forgive and take her back
Just forget about her and move on or else you would hurt yourself very badly.

You see my predictions is already coming to reality, what make you even believe she would agree ? and not completely shut you down ? she would lose all the respect she have for you and dump you which would be more painful lol

cut your losses and move on, respect yourself.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m):
Ronaldo723:
Have learnt a lot from you I acted desperate because I loved her dearly but I will take my L and move on I'm ready to learn from my mistakes
Thanks once again
Women have the tendency to get bore of men that they know love them and they have won over.

Most of the time it is because there is no competition to keep them on their toes, that's why they look for it elsewhere and dump the guy that love them or treat him badly.

Have high social proof, don't be completely emotionally invested in one woman, demonstrate your capabilities to get other women affection to the women you are in relationship with.

It will make them constantly compete to win you over 100% and not get bore of you but the moment a woman believe they have won you 100% they get bore and kick you to the cub to look for competition elsewhere.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 7:54am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Thanks I apologize
We are all in that stage at some point

as long as you are ready to correct your mistakes, you will keep getting better

Learn how to remain a mystery
Learn how to control your desperation
Give attention sparingly

Wmomen should be the one asking you why you are not texting or calling not you or saying you are not calling or texting enough.

The moment a woman is not replying your texts and calls, you have already lost and should be ready to move on.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 7:38am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Okay thank you sir
Okay i will also tell you to kill any sign of desperation, reduce the amount of texts and calls.

Try to remain a mystery in a relationship, only texts and call to set up dates and some occasional check up here and there or else women will quickly get bore of you.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 7:25am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Okay thank you I will try my best to let her go to be frank I just feel bad when I imagine another guy putting his rod in her and her moaning but I will let her go for my sanity
I know that feeling, i will also give you a tip


As a man don't ever confess to a woman first no matter how good you feel the woman is, she must be the one to confess her love for you first and don't be the one eager to take the relationship further.

Women love competition don't let your woman know she have you completely 100% no matter the pressure, let her think subconsciously that she haven't won you over 100%.

The moment women feel they have already won you over 100% they would quickly get bore of you, always let her know there is still that 20% chance of you dumping her any time she screw up and there other women ready to take her place, it will keep her on her toes.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 7:21am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
Okay thank you I will try my best to let her go
That's the best thing you can do for both of you or else the pain you will feel later if you put up with it would be much more painful.

If you put up with that bullshits she pulled she will be the one that will dump you later after she source for what she is getting from you elsewhere.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m): 7:11am On Apr 30, 2023
Ronaldo723:
I'm just keeping her for sex nothing else.. what do you think should I just let her go?
Don't even keep her for sex, it is not good for your mental and emotional health.

You can only keep women you are not emotionally invested in for just sex only, but you are already too emotionally invested in this woman and i can't blame you. You were the one that disvirgined her and have a wrong conception because of her virginity status.
Romance › Re: Virginity Cannot Make A Lady Loyal! by PureFace1(m):
Ronaldo723:
How did I choke her? When we started dating long ago before she knew this guy just of recent?

If you can real well you would see where I said I was the one who took her virginity so if she doesn't love me she would give me that?
Virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty.

Only a naive guy would believe that, with enough experience you would know virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty unless you are lucky enough to marry a woman as a virgin, that woman have a very high chance of staying loyal. There are so many women that feel they need to explore after they lose their virginity and won't be satisfy with just a man doing them.


That woman is still in her ho phase and want to explore, i will advise you to cut your losses in that relationship and move on, that girl would lose the small respect she have for you if you decided to keep her after that bullshits she pulled on you, she may be the one that will dump you next time after she lose the attraction she have left for you.

She is just trying to manipulate you, no self respecting man full of abundance mindset would stay after that bullshit she pulled. If she successfully manipulate you to stay then her brain would tell her that you are not worth it because you are not respecting yourself enough and even willing to take bullshits like that from her. Women only love guys that they know won't entertain their bullshits and can dump them immediately they screw up, she will be the one to dump you next time if you put up with that bullshits she pulled on you, trust me you will regret it, she is only willing to put up with you for now because of what she is getting from you.

You can forgive a woman but not on offense like that, she is not even afraid to let you know there are other guy she is attracted to, that tell you the level of respect she have for you.

She is now bore of you and want a new spark elsewhere.

As a man don't ever confess to a woman first no matter how good you feel the woman is, she must be the one to confess her love for you first and don't be the one eager to take the relationship further.

Women love competition don't let your woman know she have you completely 100%, let her know subconsciously that she haven't won you over 100%. The moment women feel they have already won you over 100% they would quickly get bore of you, always let her know there is still that 20% chance of you dumping her any time she screw up.
Culture › Re: Fire Guts Ooni Of Ife Palace Courtyard Burnt Down To Ashes(photos,Video) by PureFace1(m): 5:22pm On Apr 29, 2023
Ooni:
IPOB seems to have been elevated to the realm of sango and Ogun here in Yorubaland. I am not happy that we have not conquered inferiority complex. Are they the ones that have kept our state osun in the backwaters of development?
Osun is more developed and peaceful than the hole you crawled out from

Go to the major cities in Osun and see so many Igbo at every corner doing all sort of business to survive, the population of Igbo in Osun alone is times 5 of the total number of Yorubas in the entire South East region.
Crime › Re: See What Lagos Agbero (tout) Did To An MSC Degree Holder At Eyin-eyo Idumota by PureFace1(m):
Japa007:
Why are you complaining, are they not ur brothers from the South_Waste.

Tinubu is working indeed, lagos will only be compared to Texas or New York grin grin

OP just go to court..
The problem with people like you is that you believe everything is cause by the government, even in developed countries you would find many gangsters, in fact Nigerian gangsters are weak where American gangsters are, at least Nigerian Agbero don't have easy access to guns to murder and steal, most of the famous American rappers you hear of today are former tout and Agbero that used to sell cocaine, codeine etc and committed all sort of crimes on the street before they made it as a rapper, rapper like Jay Z, Tu Pac ,Biggie , etc

What about Italian Mafia or Japanese Yakuza? Nigerian Agbero are weak where these guys are.

Some Nigerian parents can't raise their children properly, many of these Agbero are the result of failed parenting and if the government decided they are going to lock up every agbero in the country our prisons would be overwhelm in no time and don't think you can rehabilitate the Agbero easily, most of them can never change and it will cost billions of Naira to try to rehabilitate them.

The Agbero at Onitsha have been there before Peter Obi governed Anambra i wonder why he didn't do anything to stop the menace in Onitsha during his tenure.
Romance › Re: "Just Be Yourself" Is Bad Advice And Here's Why by PureFace1(op):
Wawelexy:
Lol.. trying so hard to change the narrative... All you wrote up there is in no way close to being one self... Your level of reasoning has been exposed in your write up, no offense please, just been factual.... Your write up gave you out as a redpiller wannabe. If you don't know, being yourself is a natural triat of a redpiller and shouldn't be linked with any form of simping...

BTW, there's no need reading all you wrote up there as your first three paragraphs is making no sense...


Modified: I decided to take my time to read it, I was actually right... All you did up there is advertisment of your relationship site SoSuave.com... I regret wasting my time...
You are a lost cause lol

what do you know about Redpill ? ignoramus like you.

You must be talking about those stupid guys that take stupidity as being Alpha, being alpha doesn't mean you don't have any knowledge of game.

Being yourself mean expressing your emotions, but real alpha men don't let their emotions control them or lose their sense because of how they feel.

For example you liking a beautiful girl you just met very much doesn't mean you should confess your feelings to her on the first or second date, that's stupidity because you would apppear desperate and the girl would perceive you like other desperate men coming after her and treat you as such. Desperation is not a good trait in men.

Alpha guys wouldn't even ever confess to a girl first in a relationship, the girl must do it first even if they like the girl very much because they know once they confessed the power return to the girl's hand.

So now if they follow your advice of being themselves in a relationship, that means confessing to a girl they like first instead of the girl doing it first, spilling their emotions to the girl all the time like a girl and appear desperate etc. You see why "being your self" is not a good advice ? i don't even think you know what it mean to being oneself.


You are right in your delusional mind and i am not trying to advertise any forum.
Romance › Re: "Just Be Yourself" Is Bad Advice And Here's Why by PureFace1(op):
Wawelexy:
Me too, but the little I read shows OP want men to sometimes go out of their way just to please a girl .. Tears, premium tears I say..


No matter what, be your self and never force things, what will be will be
You must be Albert Einstein

You didn't read my post but can somehow come to a conclusion and understand it.

Typical of guys like you, too dumb to read and understand but still feel too wise. You are really delusional.

My post is not about going out of your way to please women in fact it is the opposite, but wallow in your ignorance, Ignorance is blissful they say.


You say " just be yourself " This advice have destroyed so many guys.

Be yourself like confessing your love for a girl you haven't even known for a month or even a week, confessing to a girl you just met?

Be yourself like calling a girl non stop and giggling on the phone like a little girl. Ready at her beck and call

Be yourself like spending all your money on a girl you just met ? after all you really like that girl so much and you are just being yourself even if the billing is unreasonable.

Most of you just regurgitate that "Be Yourself" advice like a mantra. You don't even know what it mean.

Being yourself means you have to be open with your feelings, most men don't even follow it, if they does there wouldn't be so many simps and ass kissers because they suck it up most of the time even when the girl is doing things they don't like or making them do things they don't like because of the fear of losing the girl.

It is just a silly excuse for Lazy guys that are not ready to take responsibilities. Most guys don't even follow it.

You will see a bloody simp that woman is walking all over and disrespecting saying he is just being himself, he will do everything to please a girl and still say he is not forcing things, most of them don't even have the ball to say no to an unreasonable request and they will cover it with the lie "that they are just being themselves".

Girls can see most of them for what they are though, they are just deceiving themselves.
Romance › "Just Be Yourself" Is Bad Advice And Here's Why by PureFace1(op): 6:45am On Apr 27, 2023
"Just Be Yourself" Is Bad Advice and Here's Why
by Allen Thompson

Every day I'm emailed tons of tips and articles. Every day I read hundreds of new posts in the SoSuave Discussion Forum. Every day I surf the net looking for the latest, greatest relationship info. Every day I read books and magazines about dating, relationships, and women.

I see it all.

The basic. The advanced. The good. The bad. And the ugly. Man, do I see a lot of the ugly!

Undoubtedly, the most common tip I see, whether it's in an article written by some famous relationship guru, or a post to a discussion group by some 15-year old hs freshman... is JUST BE YOURSELF.

If sheer volume were any indication of quality, then this tip would surely be in the girl-gettin Hall of Fame.

Unfortunately, volume is no indication of quality when it comes to relationship advice. In fact, much of the time it's just the opposite. "Just Be Yourself" is the one tip I'll never use. Not at the web site. Not in the newsletter. Not anywhere.

Just be yourself (abbreviated JBY from now on - because I'm a lazy typer) is a dangerous or, at the very least, counter-productive tip for a number of reasons.

Be Very Careful Whose Advice You Follow

JBY is the advice you're most likely to receive from someone who has no clue about how women, dating, and relationships work.

It doesn't matter if that person is male or female, young or old, single or married — it's the stock relationship answer when one doesn't know or can't think of anything else to say... but doesn't want to seem as clueless as he/she actually is.

Ask your buddy what women want, or your mother, or your minister, or Dr. Expert. They'll probably hit you with some version of JBY. Why? Not because it's the correct answer, but because they themselves have no idea what women want.

But they have to say something, right? And besides, they've been hearing JBY for their entire lives. It must be the right answer. How could something be so prevalent, and be wrong?

As a side benefit, JBY is also an answer which allows the advice-giver to feel a sense of smugness or superiority... as if simply seeking relationship advice in the first place is somehow indicative of lower intelligence or underdeveloped social skills. And oh how people like to feel smug!

But what happens if you press them a little, ask for more details? Tell them that you've been "just being yourself" your entire life and it's pretty much gotten you nowhere at all with women. In fact, you haven't even had a date in 2 years.

What about that?

At this point they'll probably shovel you the stock follow-up answer — "You just have to be patient and eventually you'll meet someone who's right for you."

Oh, and don't forget, "And if it doesn't work out between you and her, than it wasn't meant to be."

Be Yourself — Patience — Faith

Be yourself - patience - faith. That's about the extent of the advice you're likely to receive.

I consider this to be utterly Ridiculous !!

What kind of advice or help is this to a person who's been struggling with women his whole life? A person who goes on one date every 6 months... and never gets a second date? A person who's lonely, depressed, unhappy? A person who's obviously doing something wrong but has no idea what it might be?

Rather than simply JBYing, and waiting patiently, and having faith, perhaps it would be more beneficial if the troubled person would decide to TAKE CHARGE and actively create the kind of life he wants. To learn the mistakes he's been making in the past and how to correct this in the future. To learn the correct attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts which will enable him to attract and keep the woman or women he wants.

This would be useful advice!

But then we'd run into another problem.

A Convenient Excuse For Not Doing Anything

You see, the second major reason that JBY is so common and a potentially damaging piece of advice is that it gives the person in need an EXCUSE for not doing anything. A convenient excuse, validated by others (after all he asked), for continuing to do what he's always done. A convenient excuse to do only what he wants to do, or what feels comfortable for him.

A convenient excuse to sit on the couch every evening drinking beer and watching TV... because, after all, he's the kind of guy who likes to sit on the couch, drink beer, and watch TV. He's just being himself!

You see being a Don Juan is not about being yourself. And it's certainly not about pretending to be someone that you're not. It's about becoming the person that you want to be. It's about self-improvement and reaching your full potential. It's about feeling good, being happy, and learning new things.

Time and time again I've gotten emails from people telling me how the information at SoSuave.com has changed their lives for the better. How they now understand "the game" better, and how their social lives have dramatically improved as a result.

Yet — get this — when they tell their friends about the site, about all the cool information there, and how it changed their lives... their friends are not the least bit interested.

Or their friends may even think the whole idea of "learning" how to act around women is ridiculous and try to make them feel bad for even suggesting such a thing.

The friends will then preach JBY to the person, and try to convince the person that he doesn't need "tricks and gimmicks" to do well with women.

Those Friends of Yours

These oh-so-wise friends are the same ones who cower in a corner when out at a bar. The same friends who spend most of their time surfing the net or playing computer games. The same friends who insist that you should buy flowers, write love notes, be "friends" first, take her to the most expensive restaurant in town, tell her you love her (on the first date, no less), etc.

In other words, these friends don't have a clue, yet have the audacity to preach JBY to those who are trying to improve themselves and understand what really works.

Talk to them about challenge, body language, confusion, desperation, confidence, conversational strategies, or any of the other Basic Stuff at this site, and watch as their eyes glaze over like a deer caught in headlights.

Are you actually going to take advice from these people?

Why are they like this? Why can't they see that JBYing is not working for them? Why can't they understand that simply learning and implementing a few simple "tactics" could dramatically improve their lives?

Because they're lazy!

It's All About Self-Improvement
Becoming a Don Juan is about self-improvement. And self-improvement oftentimes involves work. Take a look at all the info here at SoSuave.com. It would take WEEKS just to read it all. Then you have to commit it to memory. Then implement and practice. This takes time and effort.

Make no mistake about it... you're not going to go from a Non Juan to a Don Juan over night.

Do you think that Michael Jordan became the greatest basketball player in history by JBYing? When he failed to make the varsity team in High School, do you think he went home and said, "Oh well. I guess I'm just not much of a basketball player. But I'm sure there must be something else I can do."?

I don't think so. He grabbed the freakin ball, and practiced, and practiced, and practiced.

He wanted to be great. He decided that he was going to be great. And then he made himself great!

What Do Women Do?

What about women? Do you think that they subscribe to the JBY model of dating?

You tell me...

They spend hours working on their hair, their makeup, their skin, and everything else imaginable before going out. They spend untold fortunes on clothes, shoes, accessories, diet pills, and anything else they can find to make themselves more attractive.

And have you ever read Cosmo, Glamour, or any of the other women's magazines on the stand? Just look at the covers.

20 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You... Instantly

Is Your Man a Cheater? Take Our Test and Find Out

Bedroom Tactics to Rock His World

You see women have been studying "us" since they were old enough to read. When we're out digging in the dirt, playing ball, or watching cartoons, they're pouring over the latest edition of Seventeen and discovering "New Kissing Techniques that Will Leave Him Drooling."

They're having slumber parties, giggling, and professing the merits of playing hard to get, not returning phone calls, flirting strategies, not looking desperate, body language, or whatever. They're learning the "game" and how to play it... and very, very well.

We're busy JBYing... and they're researching, studying, and practicing. Is it any wonder that in most relationships the woman is in complete control? Is it any wonder that most guys, when they do occasionally get a date, make complete fools of themselves?

Is it any wonder that YOU'RE having so much trouble with women?

I think not. In fact, I think being an "idiot" is the norm for men. I think most guys are completely clueless.


And that's why those of you smart enough to seek out this site are destined for greatness.

Those of you who visit the site regularly, those of you who study and practice, those of you who've dedicated yourselves to learning and improving, should be commended. You are in the minority. And if you keep at it, you will reap the rewards.

And, oh man, how sweet the rewards !!!

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/just-be-yourself-is-bad-advice.htm
Romance › When A Woman Tell You She Doesn't Play Games by PureFace1(op): 6:10am On Apr 27, 2023
After reading some posts lately, I felt compelled to present this tip to help some of the more confused visitors with a little reality check.

Occasionally, you may read the post of a chick who hangs around here saying she is

"different" and "doesn't play games."

If you read this enough times, you begin to think:

"Hey, maybe the girl I'm dating is like that. I'll bet I can open up to her and tell her all about myself. I'll bet she'll understand."

Bad move, my amigos.

I'll sum it up this way: Never assume your chick is different. Never assume that you can deviate from the plan. Never assume she's going to "get it."

I'll give you an example...

When I was living near Knoxville, TN, the cops there ran an elaborate ruse to trap speeders.

They parked a cop car at a place where people traditionally speed through. Next, they placed a mannequin in the driver's seat. Naturally, drivers rounding the corner would see a figure in the cop car and slow down.

This went on for a long time until people began to catch on that it was only a mannequin in the car, and they were in no danger of being busted. They assumed it was a mannequin. And continued to speed.

Of course, the cops pulled the old switcheroo. After a while, they put a real cop in the car, as well as parking a pursuit vehicle a half mile down the road. They cleaned up.

Don't be the driver who assumes it is a mannequin and gets busted.

Always work off the premise that the chick you're dating is just like all the rest.

Odds are, she is.

The DJ principles work. Use them with absolute confidence.

Over time, you may find the chick has a little more potential to relax the rules, but make her prove it.

When dealing with chicks, they can say they are not like the rest, or post here and list the reasons why the DJ rules won't work on them, but take it with a grain of salt.

(written by Gipper)
Romance › Why Texting A Woman Too Much Is Bad by PureFace1(op): 6:31pm On Apr 26, 2023
Why Texting a Woman Too Much Is Bad

What king, what warrior wastes his time playing with a high school girl's toy.

by Atom Smasher

Of course some texting is necessary, for setting times and other practical issues, but the more you do it, the more common you become in her eyes.

How can you remain mysterious (an absolute requisite when it comes to dealing with women) when you're available for chit-chat just like her girlfriends are? .

You need to appear ABOVE common texting.

You're a man. You don't have time to play with a high school girls' toy.

Make no mistake about it, texting makes you common and robs you of your mysteriousness. It is well worth repeating.

The dangers of texting are many, unless you really know what you are doing.

Texting leaves you wide-open to misinterpretation. She will interpret your words according to HER semantics, HER definitions of words and phrases, and HER experiences.

And guess what, guys...

Her template of interpretation consists of a culling together of the massive text conversations she has with her girlfriends.

The very fact that you're chit-chatting with her makes you one of her girlfriends.

The more words you spew, the more COMMON and boring you become.

The more you spew, the more misinterpretation that occurs; the more available and predictable you appear to be.

Texting is a torrential bleeding of your power and influence with her. It is literally a hemorrhage.

Every word that you text should emanate from a sense of intent and purpose.

Words should be used sparingly, and every one should be a soldier that has been dispatched out with a specific purpose in mind.

Chit-chat will kill you.

I also always say that for a man, texting should be like sniping. Every shot must be well-aimed, and the trigger pulled with a specific intent in mind.

I broke my own rules on this just last week. I sent out an uncharacteristically long message to a woman, and she answered with a smiley face. DOH!!

Do you guys see why this was a severe error?

The one who uses the fewest words is ALWAYS the one with the most power.

Fortunately I recovered by disappearing for an inordinately long amount of time. I wouldn't have had to clean up the mess if I hadn't spilled my guts like an excited schoolgirl.

Let your takeaway at least be that texting is a potentially dangerous activity that can be used effectively in skilled hands but is very likely to backfire on you. Once it leaves your phone it is subject to her (often wildly wrong) interpretation and it makes you common. It causes a massive hemorrhage of your power base and her perception of your value. The more you do it, the more you appear like her common, boring girlfriends.

You're a man. You're above texting.

It should appear as a necessary evil, something you reluctantly do in order to take care of practical things like scheduling meetups.

What King, what Warrior has time to tap little tiny keys to tell a women how awesome he thinks she is?

Are not your hands engaged in operating your weaponry?

Is not your mind engaged in slaying dragons and winning wars?

That is the picture of you she needs to imagine.

Not you sitting cross-legged on the floor like a little girl typing your witticisms into this tiny little phone and hoping against hope that you monkey-danced just right for her with this particular text.

Put that thing away and take up arms.

https://www.sosuave.com/quick/why-texting-a-woman-too-much-is-bad.htm
Sports › Re: NPFL Clubs To Slug It Out For Dozy Mmobuosi/npfl Super Cup Star Prize Of N1.5bn by PureFace1(m): 1:14pm On Apr 26, 2023
mrvitalis:
I shake my head when ever I see Igbos thinking doing all this would make u accepted in Nigeria

2 million dollars can sponsor 2000 Igbo youths to Europe for trials

Ask airpeace ....as long as you are ready to abuse Igbo nation openly nothing for u ...even at that you would get crumbs
Is it only Igbo that is patronizing Air Peace airline ?

Even this tournament it is also for Igbo, in fact the final winner might even be an Igbo team.

You are not doing any one any favour, in fact do you know the amount of publicity and free marketing Air Peace get for claiming they will evacuate Nigerian students from Sudan ?
Politics › Re: “May It Not Be True”. Joe Igbokwe Reacts To Tinubu’s Transition Team With No Ibo by PureFace1(m): 11:19am On Apr 26, 2023
[quote author= post=122751942]I like the tone of your post for those Igbos that think we are stupid by not supporting APC, when the chips are down they will separate them, fact is if the court doesn't favour Obi or Atiku, Tinubu will come and go, the only improvement will be increase in debt and misery index will increase, when he was governor areas dominated by Yoruba wasn't better than areas dominated by Igbos, his home state Osun didn't benefit In his wealth, he and his cronies were stealing Osun common wealth, when Buhari won the president his people thought that their problems are over, that Igbos are their problems, same Buhari they were throwing stones at, Buhari sidelined Igbos at the end what happened, Nigeria is worst of everybody including you and your family are in the mess, same will happen to Tinubu go and mark it.[/quote]stop crying as if Peter Obi achieved something tangible when he was Anambra governor

Anambra Indigenes are still trooping out to other states for other business opportunities, they are now Unknown gunmen and ESN terrorists terrorizing the East. Petet Obi can never achieve any thing as Nigeria president, he is not that bright. Only gullible people would believe all your propaganda of marketing Obi as a messiah.


Nigeria will be better for me and my family under Tinubu's government. You can wish yourself misfortunes under Tinubu's government
Crime › Re: 1 Killed, 8 Injured As Herders Attack Ondo Community by PureFace1(m): 1:24pm On Apr 25, 2023
goodnessme1:
God bless ESN that are doing that for our people in East.


God bless Mazi Nnamdi Kanu that made it possible
Keep deceiving yourselves

Crime › Re: 1 Killed, 8 Injured As Herders Attack Ondo Community by PureFace1(m): 1:21pm On Apr 25, 2023
Adaibeku:
Deploy amotekun but ur hate for igbos is greater than fulani, I know as a Yoruba this news didn't pain u what pains u is the comment of igbos.
You guys are always ready to gloat because of bitterness, herdsmen crisis is as old as Nigeria and it happen in all region the difference now is there is more media coverage.

so saying they should deploy Amotekun mean he hate Igbo and love Fulani ? you are delusional

Focus more on your region instead of playing petty politics with every issues.

Politics › Re: No State In SW Is As Developed As Rivers, Delta Or Akwa Ibom by PureFace1(m): 1:07pm On Apr 25, 2023
SSFeedsNigeria:
Lol, I'm only trying to enlighten some of you that SS has gone far ahead of you guys yet you always insult us.

Whatever you have with Igbos of SE is noty business, yoruba man.
South South is better than South West in all ramifications


I hope you are happy now grin grin
Politics › Re: No State In SW Is As Developed As Rivers, Delta Or Akwa Ibom by PureFace1(m): 1:05pm On Apr 25, 2023
SSFeedsNigeria:
The first two pictures are that of Uyo, the capital of Akwa Ibom while the last two are that of Abeokuta, capital of Ogun state.

You can easily observe a pattern in their levels of development. SS cities are modern and fit for human habitation but honestly, I can't say same for SW.
We can smell your pathetic attempt and desperation to pit south west against south south lol
Romance › The standards of Nigerian men for a relationship are too low by PureFace1(op):
The standards of Nigerian women for a relationship are high reason why you would see many men working hard and striving to level up, so why the hell should Nigerian men settle for less ?

Most Nigerian women exhibit bad behaviors in relationships because of too many weak and desperate men in Nigerian with low standards.

Most Nigerian men are so thirsty and desperate and ready to do anything to get that pvssy. So many men whine and wail about women daily and are not ready to take responsibility for their actions, many men are the catalyst and architect of their own heartbreaks and disappointment. These women can easily get whatever they want from men regardless of their bad behavior and they have many men on leashed so why the hell should they make the effort to treat men right with respect in relationship?

Stop rewarding bad behaviors in Nigerian women with money and attention. Most Nigerian guys are too weak and can't stand up to their women in the relationships, they would rather sucked it up and tolerate the bad and disrespectful behaviors they don't like because of the fear of losing the woman, at the end the woman would see them as the weak and pathetic simp they are and cheat on them or dump them anyway.

Most Nigerian men are too desperate to the extent they don't care about the characters, job, education, family backgrounds etc of the woman they want to get in a relationship with as long as her beauty is enough to mesmerize them and get their prick standing they don't care, their standards are so low and they easily settle for less.

You would see so many Nigerian men spending lavishly on these women with bad characters, disrespectful and slutty behaviors, giving them a lot of gifts and even doing things for them for free as long as these women have the beauty they can do whatever they like, get whatever they like, so why the hell should these women put in the effort to behave well to you and treat you with respect when they can easily get whatever they want from you or from other weak Nigerian men regardless ?

The desperation is so high to the extent most Nigerian men become braindead to everything else except the beauty of the woman, they are ready to put up with a jobless, rude and disrespectful woman because of their incontrolable lust. When these women dissapoint them because of their desperation, you would see them wailing and whining.

Women are not stupid they can smell your desperation, most of these women know themselves and know a confident and valuable man would never put up with most of their bullshits, so when you lower your standards and put up with it when they test you, you are telling them you are not confident and valuable and it is just a matter of time before they dump you to look for a better prospect. Women don't find valueless men without confidence attractive

If there is no man that will look at a Jobless woman twice or hesitate to drop women because of their lack of job, you would hardly see a woman without a job. If there is no man that won't hesitate to dump a woman because she won't contribute for a date, you would see so many women competing to contribute for a date, if there is no man that won't hesitate to dump a woman because she is very disrespectful, you would see so many respectful Nigerian women.

Many Nigerian women behave badly in relationships because many Nigerian men are too weak and desperate with low standards.

It is about supply and demands, if there is no demands for the women with bad behaviors, they won't be in the majority. When every men increase their standards without settling for less, women will also work hard to meet that standards, let the change begin from you, don't settle for less, don't supplicate and don't compromise
Romance › Re: She Sent dis 2 Me On Facebook Due 2 Litle Misunderstanding how should I reply by PureFace1(m):
saweide:
Thanks bro
If you listen to that simp advice, trust me you will make it worse and hate yourself for trying that, even if she is testing you, you can't pass by trying to sort it out with her besides she is even the one in the wrong for disrespecting you. She will have you by the ball if you try to sort it, that action mean you are proving to her that you are weak and a bloody simp, even if you miraculously sort it out with her it is only going to be for a short time and you will become the woman in the relationship, you will lose the leadership of the relationship, you can only pass by starving her of all attention and ready to move on.

Even if she come back, don't accept her unless she plead heavily and let her know if it happen again it will be the end of the relationship and mean it.

Why are you even dating single mother in the first place ? You deserve better, you don't know your value. There are so many women out there that are not single mothers with a lot of baggages
Education › Re: Igbos Dominate 20th Annual Mathematics Competition Awards (photos) by PureFace1(m): 5:41am On Apr 20, 2023
[quote author= post=122626463]20th annual mathematics competition Igbos lead the park


Oboy no be small wahala

You wonder why they placed Anambra, Imo, Enugu, Abia and Ebonyi highest on National score because of high IQ[/quote]Always gloating about irrelevant awards

Check the top score of JAMB for 5 years now

Yoruba have 24 out of 44 top score from the south

Your Anambra only have just 3 students on the list

Even last year Jamb results Yoruba dominated it

What about top universities in Nigeria ? also dominated by South west but keep gloating about irrelevances, we will focus on what matters.

https://www.nairaland.com/7301703/top-utme-scores-2017-2022#116087352

Education › Re: Igbos Dominate 20th Annual Mathematics Competition Awards (photos) by PureFace1(m):
domDva:
The guys from the neighboring tribe usually say miracle centres whenever they see WAEC and NECO Ranking that since left them competing with the North West . LOL .


I hope this competition was organized by a miracle centre in Peter Obi’s village . Heart ache go kill some ppl.
Which NECO and WAEC ranking?

You mean WAEC ranking base on percentage of students that sat for exam in eash state you people always chest beat about but South west states always have the highest numbers of students that passed with 5 credits including English and Math?

There is not much information about NECO performance but it is not a secret that Ekiti state have always top NECO results.

You guys can gloat for any mushrooms awards but Yoruba have nothing to prove when it come to Education in this country.

It is even a competition for primary students, i am damn sure only a handful of schools from Lagos and Ogun perform in that competition.

Check Top 10 Jamb results for 5 years now, Yoruba dominated it even the one for last year, Igbo were hardly seen on the list.

What about top universities in Nigeria ?

Can't blame you guys, your inferiority complex can't help but make you very daft.

https://www.nairaland.com/7301703/top-utme-scores-2017-2022#116087352

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