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Wawelexy:
Lol.. trying so hard to change the narrative... All you wrote up there is in no way close to being one self... Your level of reasoning has been exposed in your write up, no offense please, just been factual.... Your write up gave you out as a redpiller wannabe. If you don't know, being yourself is a natural triat of a redpiller and shouldn't be linked with any form of simping...

BTW, there's no need reading all you wrote up there as your first three paragraphs is making no sense...


Modified: I decided to take my time to read it, I was actually right... All you did up there is advertisment of your relationship site SoSuave.com... I regret wasting my time...

You are a lost cause lol

what do you know about Redpill ? ignoramus like you.

You must be talking about those stupid guys that take stupidity as being Alpha, being alpha doesn't mean you don't have any knowledge of game.

Being yourself mean expressing your emotions, but real alpha men don't let their emotions control them or lose their sense because of how they feel.

For example you liking a beautiful girl you just met very much doesn't mean you should confess your feelings to her on the first or second date, that's stupidity because you would apppear desperate and the girl would perceive you like other desperate men coming after her and treat you as such. Desperation is not a good trait in men.

Alpha guys wouldn't even ever confess to a girl first in a relationship, the girl must do it first even if they like the girl very much because they know once they confessed the power return to the girl's hand.

So now if they follow your advice of being themselves in a relationship, that means confessing to a girl they like first instead of the girl doing it first, spilling their emotions to the girl all the time like a girl and appear desperate etc. You see why "being your self" is not a good advice ? i don't even think you know what it mean to being oneself.


You are right in your delusional mind and i am not trying to advertise any forum.

Wawelexy:
Me too, but the little I read shows OP want men to sometimes go out of their way just to please a girl .. Tears, premium tears I say..


No matter what, be your self and never force things, what will be will be

You must be Albert Einstein

You didn't read my post but can somehow come to a conclusion and understand it.

Typical of guys like you, too dumb to read and understand but still feel too wise. You are really delusional.

My post is not about going out of your way to please women in fact it is the opposite, but wallow in your ignorance, Ignorance is blissful they say.


You say " just be yourself " This advice have destroyed so many guys.

Be yourself like confessing your love for a girl you haven't even known for a month or even a week, confessing to a girl you just met?

Be yourself like calling a girl non stop and giggling on the phone like a little girl. Ready at her beck and call

Be yourself like spending all your money on a girl you just met ? after all you really like that girl so much and you are just being yourself even if the billing is unreasonable.

Most of you just regurgitate that "Be Yourself" advice like a mantra. You don't even know what it mean.

Being yourself means you have to be open with your feelings, most men don't even follow it, if they does there wouldn't be so many simps and ass kissers because they suck it up most of the time even when the girl is doing things they don't like or making them do things they don't like because of the fear of losing the girl.

It is just a silly excuse for Lazy guys that are not ready to take responsibilities. Most guys don't even follow it.

You will see a bloody simp that woman is walking all over and disrespecting saying he is just being himself, he will do everything to please a girl and still say he is not forcing things, most of them don't even have the ball to say no to an unreasonable request and they will cover it with the lie "that they are just being themselves".

Girls can see most of them for what they are though, they are just deceiving themselves.

"Just Be Yourself" Is Bad Advice and Here's Why
by Allen Thompson

Every day I'm emailed tons of tips and articles. Every day I read hundreds of new posts in the SoSuave Discussion Forum. Every day I surf the net looking for the latest, greatest relationship info. Every day I read books and magazines about dating, relationships, and women.

I see it all.

The basic. The advanced. The good. The bad. And the ugly. Man, do I see a lot of the ugly!

Undoubtedly, the most common tip I see, whether it's in an article written by some famous relationship guru, or a post to a discussion group by some 15-year old hs freshman... is JUST BE YOURSELF.

If sheer volume were any indication of quality, then this tip would surely be in the girl-gettin Hall of Fame.

Unfortunately, volume is no indication of quality when it comes to relationship advice. In fact, much of the time it's just the opposite. "Just Be Yourself" is the one tip I'll never use. Not at the web site. Not in the newsletter. Not anywhere.

Just be yourself (abbreviated JBY from now on - because I'm a lazy typer) is a dangerous or, at the very least, counter-productive tip for a number of reasons.

Be Very Careful Whose Advice You Follow

JBY is the advice you're most likely to receive from someone who has no clue about how women, dating, and relationships work.

It doesn't matter if that person is male or female, young or old, single or married — it's the stock relationship answer when one doesn't know or can't think of anything else to say... but doesn't want to seem as clueless as he/she actually is.

Ask your buddy what women want, or your mother, or your minister, or Dr. Expert. They'll probably hit you with some version of JBY. Why? Not because it's the correct answer, but because they themselves have no idea what women want.

But they have to say something, right? And besides, they've been hearing JBY for their entire lives. It must be the right answer. How could something be so prevalent, and be wrong?

As a side benefit, JBY is also an answer which allows the advice-giver to feel a sense of smugness or superiority... as if simply seeking relationship advice in the first place is somehow indicative of lower intelligence or underdeveloped social skills. And oh how people like to feel smug!

But what happens if you press them a little, ask for more details? Tell them that you've been "just being yourself" your entire life and it's pretty much gotten you nowhere at all with women. In fact, you haven't even had a date in 2 years.

What about that?

At this point they'll probably shovel you the stock follow-up answer — "You just have to be patient and eventually you'll meet someone who's right for you."

Oh, and don't forget, "And if it doesn't work out between you and her, than it wasn't meant to be."

Be Yourself — Patience — Faith

Be yourself - patience - faith. That's about the extent of the advice you're likely to receive.

I consider this to be utterly Ridiculous !!

What kind of advice or help is this to a person who's been struggling with women his whole life? A person who goes on one date every 6 months... and never gets a second date? A person who's lonely, depressed, unhappy? A person who's obviously doing something wrong but has no idea what it might be?

Rather than simply JBYing, and waiting patiently, and having faith, perhaps it would be more beneficial if the troubled person would decide to TAKE CHARGE and actively create the kind of life he wants. To learn the mistakes he's been making in the past and how to correct this in the future. To learn the correct attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts which will enable him to attract and keep the woman or women he wants.

This would be useful advice!

But then we'd run into another problem.

A Convenient Excuse For Not Doing Anything

You see, the second major reason that JBY is so common and a potentially damaging piece of advice is that it gives the person in need an EXCUSE for not doing anything. A convenient excuse, validated by others (after all he asked), for continuing to do what he's always done. A convenient excuse to do only what he wants to do, or what feels comfortable for him.

A convenient excuse to sit on the couch every evening drinking beer and watching TV... because, after all, he's the kind of guy who likes to sit on the couch, drink beer, and watch TV. He's just being himself!

You see being a Don Juan is not about being yourself. And it's certainly not about pretending to be someone that you're not. It's about becoming the person that you want to be. It's about self-improvement and reaching your full potential. It's about feeling good, being happy, and learning new things.

Time and time again I've gotten emails from people telling me how the information at SoSuave.com has changed their lives for the better. How they now understand "the game" better, and how their social lives have dramatically improved as a result.

Yet — get this — when they tell their friends about the site, about all the cool information there, and how it changed their lives... their friends are not the least bit interested.

Or their friends may even think the whole idea of "learning" how to act around women is ridiculous and try to make them feel bad for even suggesting such a thing.

The friends will then preach JBY to the person, and try to convince the person that he doesn't need "tricks and gimmicks" to do well with women.

Those Friends of Yours

These oh-so-wise friends are the same ones who cower in a corner when out at a bar. The same friends who spend most of their time surfing the net or playing computer games. The same friends who insist that you should buy flowers, write love notes, be "friends" first, take her to the most expensive restaurant in town, tell her you love her (on the first date, no less), etc.

In other words, these friends don't have a clue, yet have the audacity to preach JBY to those who are trying to improve themselves and understand what really works.

Talk to them about challenge, body language, confusion, desperation, confidence, conversational strategies, or any of the other Basic Stuff at this site, and watch as their eyes glaze over like a deer caught in headlights.

Are you actually going to take advice from these people?

Why are they like this? Why can't they see that JBYing is not working for them? Why can't they understand that simply learning and implementing a few simple "tactics" could dramatically improve their lives?

Because they're lazy!

It's All About Self-Improvement
Becoming a Don Juan is about self-improvement. And self-improvement oftentimes involves work. Take a look at all the info here at SoSuave.com. It would take WEEKS just to read it all. Then you have to commit it to memory. Then implement and practice. This takes time and effort.

Make no mistake about it... you're not going to go from a Non Juan to a Don Juan over night.

Do you think that Michael Jordan became the greatest basketball player in history by JBYing? When he failed to make the varsity team in High School, do you think he went home and said, "Oh well. I guess I'm just not much of a basketball player. But I'm sure there must be something else I can do."?

I don't think so. He grabbed the freakin ball, and practiced, and practiced, and practiced.

He wanted to be great. He decided that he was going to be great. And then he made himself great!

What Do Women Do?

What about women? Do you think that they subscribe to the JBY model of dating?

You tell me...

They spend hours working on their hair, their makeup, their skin, and everything else imaginable before going out. They spend untold fortunes on clothes, shoes, accessories, diet pills, and anything else they can find to make themselves more attractive.

And have you ever read Cosmo, Glamour, or any of the other women's magazines on the stand? Just look at the covers.

20 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You... Instantly

Is Your Man a Cheater? Take Our Test and Find Out

Bedroom Tactics to Rock His World

You see women have been studying "us" since they were old enough to read. When we're out digging in the dirt, playing ball, or watching cartoons, they're pouring over the latest edition of Seventeen and discovering "New Kissing Techniques that Will Leave Him Drooling."

They're having slumber parties, giggling, and professing the merits of playing hard to get, not returning phone calls, flirting strategies, not looking desperate, body language, or whatever. They're learning the "game" and how to play it... and very, very well.

We're busy JBYing... and they're researching, studying, and practicing. Is it any wonder that in most relationships the woman is in complete control? Is it any wonder that most guys, when they do occasionally get a date, make complete fools of themselves?

Is it any wonder that YOU'RE having so much trouble with women?

I think not. In fact, I think being an "idiot" is the norm for men. I think most guys are completely clueless.


And that's why those of you smart enough to seek out this site are destined for greatness.

Those of you who visit the site regularly, those of you who study and practice, those of you who've dedicated yourselves to learning and improving, should be commended. You are in the minority. And if you keep at it, you will reap the rewards.

And, oh man, how sweet the rewards !!!

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/just-be-yourself-is-bad-advice.htm

After reading some posts lately, I felt compelled to present this tip to help some of the more confused visitors with a little reality check.

Occasionally, you may read the post of a chick who hangs around here saying she is

"different" and "doesn't play games."

If you read this enough times, you begin to think:

"Hey, maybe the girl I'm dating is like that. I'll bet I can open up to her and tell her all about myself. I'll bet she'll understand."

Bad move, my amigos.

I'll sum it up this way: Never assume your chick is different. Never assume that you can deviate from the plan. Never assume she's going to "get it."

I'll give you an example...

When I was living near Knoxville, TN, the cops there ran an elaborate ruse to trap speeders.

They parked a cop car at a place where people traditionally speed through. Next, they placed a mannequin in the driver's seat. Naturally, drivers rounding the corner would see a figure in the cop car and slow down.

This went on for a long time until people began to catch on that it was only a mannequin in the car, and they were in no danger of being busted. They assumed it was a mannequin. And continued to speed.

Of course, the cops pulled the old switcheroo. After a while, they put a real cop in the car, as well as parking a pursuit vehicle a half mile down the road. They cleaned up.

Don't be the driver who assumes it is a mannequin and gets busted.

Always work off the premise that the chick you're dating is just like all the rest.

Odds are, she is.

The DJ principles work. Use them with absolute confidence.

Over time, you may find the chick has a little more potential to relax the rules, but make her prove it.

When dealing with chicks, they can say they are not like the rest, or post here and list the reasons why the DJ rules won't work on them, but take it with a grain of salt.

(written by Gipper)

Why Texting a Woman Too Much Is Bad

What king, what warrior wastes his time playing with a high school girl's toy.

by Atom Smasher

Of course some texting is necessary, for setting times and other practical issues, but the more you do it, the more common you become in her eyes.

How can you remain mysterious (an absolute requisite when it comes to dealing with women) when you're available for chit-chat just like her girlfriends are? .

You need to appear ABOVE common texting.

You're a man. You don't have time to play with a high school girls' toy.

Make no mistake about it, texting makes you common and robs you of your mysteriousness. It is well worth repeating.

The dangers of texting are many, unless you really know what you are doing.

Texting leaves you wide-open to misinterpretation. She will interpret your words according to HER semantics, HER definitions of words and phrases, and HER experiences.

And guess what, guys...

Her template of interpretation consists of a culling together of the massive text conversations she has with her girlfriends.

The very fact that you're chit-chatting with her makes you one of her girlfriends.

The more words you spew, the more COMMON and boring you become.

The more you spew, the more misinterpretation that occurs; the more available and predictable you appear to be.

Texting is a torrential bleeding of your power and influence with her. It is literally a hemorrhage.

Every word that you text should emanate from a sense of intent and purpose.

Words should be used sparingly, and every one should be a soldier that has been dispatched out with a specific purpose in mind.

Chit-chat will kill you.

I also always say that for a man, texting should be like sniping. Every shot must be well-aimed, and the trigger pulled with a specific intent in mind.

I broke my own rules on this just last week. I sent out an uncharacteristically long message to a woman, and she answered with a smiley face. DOH!!

Do you guys see why this was a severe error?

The one who uses the fewest words is ALWAYS the one with the most power.

Fortunately I recovered by disappearing for an inordinately long amount of time. I wouldn't have had to clean up the mess if I hadn't spilled my guts like an excited schoolgirl.

Let your takeaway at least be that texting is a potentially dangerous activity that can be used effectively in skilled hands but is very likely to backfire on you. Once it leaves your phone it is subject to her (often wildly wrong) interpretation and it makes you common. It causes a massive hemorrhage of your power base and her perception of your value. The more you do it, the more you appear like her common, boring girlfriends.

You're a man. You're above texting.

It should appear as a necessary evil, something you reluctantly do in order to take care of practical things like scheduling meetups.

What King, what Warrior has time to tap little tiny keys to tell a women how awesome he thinks she is?

Are not your hands engaged in operating your weaponry?

Is not your mind engaged in slaying dragons and winning wars?

That is the picture of you she needs to imagine.

Not you sitting cross-legged on the floor like a little girl typing your witticisms into this tiny little phone and hoping against hope that you monkey-danced just right for her with this particular text.

Put that thing away and take up arms.

https://www.sosuave.com/quick/why-texting-a-woman-too-much-is-bad.htm

mrvitalis:
I shake my head when ever I see Igbos thinking doing all this would make u accepted in Nigeria

2 million dollars can sponsor 2000 Igbo youths to Europe for trials

Ask airpeace ....as long as you are ready to abuse Igbo nation openly nothing for u ...even at that you would get crumbs

Is it only Igbo that is patronizing Air Peace airline ?

Even this tournament it is also for Igbo, in fact the final winner might even be an Igbo team.

You are not doing any one any favour, in fact do you know the amount of publicity and free marketing Air Peace get for claiming they will evacuate Nigerian students from Sudan ?

post=122751942:
I like the tone of your post for those Igbos that think we are stupid by not supporting APC, when the chips are down they will separate them, fact is if the court doesn't favour Obi or Atiku, Tinubu will come and go, the only improvement will be increase in debt and misery index will increase, when he was governor areas dominated by Yoruba wasn't better than areas dominated by Igbos, his home state Osun didn't benefit In his wealth, he and his cronies were stealing Osun common wealth, when Buhari won the president his people thought that their problems are over, that Igbos are their problems, same Buhari they were throwing stones at, Buhari sidelined Igbos at the end what happened, Nigeria is worst of everybody including you and your family are in the mess, same will happen to Tinubu go and mark it.

stop crying as if Peter Obi achieved something tangible when he was Anambra governor

Anambra Indigenes are still trooping out to other states for other business opportunities, they are now Unknown gunmen and ESN terrorists terrorizing the East. Petet Obi can never achieve any thing as Nigeria president, he is not that bright. Only gullible people would believe all your propaganda of marketing Obi as a messiah.


Nigeria will be better for me and my family under Tinubu's government. You can wish yourself misfortunes under Tinubu's government

goodnessme1:
God bless ESN that are doing that for our people in East.


God bless Mazi Nnamdi Kanu that made it possible

Keep deceiving yourselves

Adaibeku:
Deploy amotekun but ur hate for igbos is greater than fulani, I know as a Yoruba this news didn't pain u what pains u is the comment of igbos.

You guys are always ready to gloat because of bitterness, herdsmen crisis is as old as Nigeria and it happen in all region the difference now is there is more media coverage.

so saying they should deploy Amotekun mean he hate Igbo and love Fulani ? you are delusional

Focus more on your region instead of playing petty politics with every issues.

SSFeedsNigeria:
Lol, I'm only trying to enlighten some of you that SS has gone far ahead of you guys yet you always insult us.

Whatever you have with Igbos of SE is noty business, yoruba man.

South South is better than South West in all ramifications


I hope you are happy now

SSFeedsNigeria:
The first two pictures are that of Uyo, the capital of Akwa Ibom while the last two are that of Abeokuta, capital of Ogun state.

You can easily observe a pattern in their levels of development. SS cities are modern and fit for human habitation but honestly, I can't say same for SW.

We can smell your pathetic attempt and desperation to pit south west against south south lol

The standards of Nigerian women for a relationship are high reason why you would see many men working hard and striving to level up, so why the hell should Nigerian men settle for less ?

Most Nigerian women exhibit bad behaviors in relationships because of too many weak and desperate men in Nigerian with low standards.

Most Nigerian men are so thirsty and desperate and ready to do anything to get that pvssy. So many men whine and wail about women daily and are not ready to take responsibility for their actions, many men are the catalyst and architect of their own heartbreaks and disappointment. These women can easily get whatever they want from men regardless of their bad behavior and they have many men on leashed so why the hell should they make the effort to treat men right with respect in relationship?

Stop rewarding bad behaviors in Nigerian women with money and attention. Most Nigerian guys are too weak and can't stand up to their women in the relationships, they would rather sucked it up and tolerate the bad and disrespectful behaviors they don't like because of the fear of losing the woman, at the end the woman would see them as the weak and pathetic simp they are and cheat on them or dump them anyway.

Most Nigerian men are too desperate to the extent they don't care about the characters, job, education, family backgrounds etc of the woman they want to get in a relationship with as long as her beauty is enough to mesmerize them and get their prick standing they don't care, their standards are so low and they easily settle for less.

You would see so many Nigerian men spending lavishly on these women with bad characters, disrespectful and slutty behaviors, giving them a lot of gifts and even doing things for them for free as long as these women have the beauty they can do whatever they like, get whatever they like, so why the hell should these women put in the effort to behave well to you and treat you with respect when they can easily get whatever they want from you or from other weak Nigerian men regardless ?

The desperation is so high to the extent most Nigerian men become braindead to everything else except the beauty of the woman, they are ready to put up with a jobless, rude and disrespectful woman because of their incontrolable lust. When these women dissapoint them because of their desperation, you would see them wailing and whining.

Women are not stupid they can smell your desperation, most of these women know themselves and know a confident and valuable man would never put up with most of their bullshits, so when you lower your standards and put up with it when they test you, you are telling them you are not confident and valuable and it is just a matter of time before they dump you to look for a better prospect. Women don't find valueless men without confidence attractive

If there is no man that will look at a Jobless woman twice or hesitate to drop women because of their lack of job, you would hardly see a woman without a job. If there is no man that won't hesitate to dump a woman because she won't contribute for a date, you would see so many women competing to contribute for a date, if there is no man that won't hesitate to dump a woman because she is very disrespectful, you would see so many respectful Nigerian women.

Many Nigerian women behave badly in relationships because many Nigerian men are too weak and desperate with low standards.

It is about supply and demands, if there is no demands for the women with bad behaviors, they won't be in the majority. When every men increase their standards without settling for less, women will also work hard to meet that standards, let the change begin from you, don't settle for less, don't supplicate and don't compromise

saweide:
Thanks bro

If you listen to that simp advice, trust me you will make it worse and hate yourself for trying that, even if she is testing you, you can't pass by trying to sort it out with her besides she is even the one in the wrong for disrespecting you. She will have you by the ball if you try to sort it, that action mean you are proving to her that you are weak and a bloody simp, even if you miraculously sort it out with her it is only going to be for a short time and you will become the woman in the relationship, you will lose the leadership of the relationship, you can only pass by starving her of all attention and ready to move on.

Even if she come back, don't accept her unless she plead heavily and let her know if it happen again it will be the end of the relationship and mean it.

Why are you even dating single mother in the first place ? You deserve better, you don't know your value. There are so many women out there that are not single mothers with a lot of baggages

post=122626463:
20th annual mathematics competition Igbos lead the park


Oboy no be small wahala

You wonder why they placed Anambra, Imo, Enugu, Abia and Ebonyi highest on National score because of high IQ

Always gloating about irrelevant awards

Check the top score of JAMB for 5 years now

Yoruba have 24 out of 44 top score from the south

Your Anambra only have just 3 students on the list

Even last year Jamb results Yoruba dominated it

What about top universities in Nigeria ? also dominated by South west but keep gloating about irrelevances, we will focus on what matters.

https://www.nairaland.com/7301703/top-utme-scores-2017-2022#116087352

domDva:
The guys from the neighboring tribe usually say miracle centres whenever they see WAEC and NECO Ranking that since left them competing with the North West . LOL .


I hope this competition was organized by a miracle centre in Peter Obi’s village . Heart ache go kill some ppl.

Which NECO and WAEC ranking?

You mean WAEC ranking base on percentage of students that sat for exam in eash state you people always chest beat about but South west states always have the highest numbers of students that passed with 5 credits including English and Math?

There is not much information about NECO performance but it is not a secret that Ekiti state have always top NECO results.

You guys can gloat for any mushrooms awards but Yoruba have nothing to prove when it come to Education in this country.

It is even a competition for primary students, i am damn sure only a handful of schools from Lagos and Ogun perform in that competition.

Check Top 10 Jamb results for 5 years now, Yoruba dominated it even the one for last year, Igbo were hardly seen on the list.

What about top universities in Nigeria ?

Can't blame you guys, your inferiority complex can't help but make you very daft.

https://www.nairaland.com/7301703/top-utme-scores-2017-2022#116087352

Fedrick100:
Is true sha,
My ex i broke up recently made me believe this, at the beginning I thought her type is rare. But when she started showing me shege I mad

Someone before she could pay me a visit or make out with me I must drop money, at the beginning she wasn’t that way

The problem with most Nigerian guys is that they are too afraid to maintain the frame in relationship and very scare of losing a girl.

Girls will tests you all the time in a relationship and it is your job to put her in her place and show her who is the boss, if you are very weak to enforce your boundary she will lose the attraction she have for you and you will turn to a weak and bloody simp in her eyes.

The moment she started making those demands you should have called her out and don't even hesitate to dump her but you compromised because of your fear and at the end you lose her anyway.

NIgerian women are the way they are because most Nigerian men are weak. When these women started doing things you don't like instead of standing up to them and even dump them when they won't submit most Nigerian men would rather suck it up and keep putting up with the bullshits at the end the women would see them as weak and dump them or cheat on them anyway because women don't have attraction for weak guys.


Kill any sign of desperation completely. She is not interested in visiting you without getting money? she may as well not come to your place again forever, that mean her interest in you is not high enough, she want money before she can make up with you ? tell her you are not even interested in touching her again. Always have one leg outside the relationship and don't hesitate to dump a girl when she won't submit and keep acting bitchy, a girl that like you won't give you so much stress and trouble, she may occasionally behave abnormal but it won't be for long if you always put her in her place and show her you are the boss. When most Nigerian men have these attitudes you will also see the changes in Nigerian women, high rate of feminism, boss women and promiscuous behaviors is a sign of so many weak men.

Whois:
A wise man once said he will move Nigeria from consumption to production but some people said over their dead body just because he is igbo

Coming from a man that's among the highest importers of foreign goods to Nigeria and also one of the highest enablers of consumptions in Nigeria.

8 years as a governor of Anambra he could only built a beer factory, just because he is an Igbo man doesn't mean we have to believe the lies coming from his mouth, he didn't have the track record, it is very easy to promise and lie.

30 Dating Rules to Remember
by Giovanni Casanova

The following list has been compiled as the result of insights on these forums as well as my own personal experiences. Now, in life there are sometimes exceptions to rules, but in general these rules should be followed. Also, some of these aren't "rules" per se, but more like observations or insights. Enjoy.



RULE 1: Women communicate in two modes: the way things are, and the way they WISH things were. Whenever in doubt, assume it's the latter choice.

RULE 2: Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. Give attention sparingly. This is your currency.

RULE 3: Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away.

RULE 4: Confidence attracts women even more than good looks. This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks.

RULE 5: Desperation repels women. You will attract more women when you don't care if you're attracting women.

RULE 6: After getting a girl's phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate.

RULE 7: Use the phone only to set up dates. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. Save that conversation for the date.

RULE 8: If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don't leave a message. Just try again another time. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls.

RULE 9: First dates should be short and creative. NO "dinner and a movie". Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. Keep it FUN.

RULE 10: Do not give gifts early in the relationship. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection.

RULE 11: Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Do not be tempted to give in. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don't put up with excessive amounts of BS.

RULE 12: A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them.

RULE 13: There is no such thing as a "soulmate" or "the one". It doesn't exist. There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.

RULE 14: Don't put any woman up on a pedestal. You risk not being able to reach her. Women are people too... or so I'm told.

RULE 15: If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. NEXT!

RULE 16: No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved.

RULE 17: Never be the one that says, "I love you" first.

RULE 18: The challenge is part of the fun. Don't short-change the girl. Let her pursue you. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be.

RULE 19: If a girl cheats on you, she is gone. No exceptions.

RULE 20: Never date a girl who has more problems than you do.

RULE 21: Do not date girls from work. Work is stressful enough.

RULE 22: Dating is a "numbers game". Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected more times than not. Suck it up and get back out there.

RULE 23: Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.

RULE 24: Where women are concerned, pay more attention to what they do than what they say.

RULE 25: Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Love them anyway.

RULE 26: Bros before hoes. Any girl that can be stolen from your best friend isn't worth stealing from your best friend.

RULE 27: Stay away from your ex. Chances are that you won't be able to get back with her. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you'll wish that you hadn't.

RULE 28: Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon. Remain a mystery.

RULE 29: Girls are not the only thing in life. Have other things in your life that excite you.

RULE 30: If you aren't sure about when to bend or break a rule, go with your instinct. If it's wrong, that's a good lesson for next time... and there's always a next time.


https://www.sosuave.com/articles/30datingrules.htm

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Freethinker87:
Guinea-Bissau - Africa's first narco-state.

Concern is mounting that Guinea-Bissau's efforts to stem the flow of drugs to Europe and the US have suffered a setback after a military-backed president took office, writes journalist Ricci Shryock.

Court documents show that the loot seized in Guinea-Bissau's largest ever drug bust last September included more than 20 vehicles, among them a "cinnamon coloured" Mercedes Benz, $3m (£2.5m) stashed in bank accounts, $90,000 worth of wine and porridge found in a warehouse, and, of course, 1.8 tonnes of cocaine hidden in sacks of rice.

Dubbed Operation Navara, the seizure culminated in 12 men - of Bissau-Guinean, Colombian, Mexican and Portuguese nationalities - being sentenced to between four and 16 years in prison last month.

Although the two ringleaders were sentenced in absentia after they managed to evade arrest, the case was hailed as a legal success for the West African state in its efforts to shed its reputation as a major transit hub for cocaine flown or shipped from Latin America to Europe and North America.

For us, this is the result of over eight years of investment, so we look forward to making sure that the future of Guinea-Bissau might be much safer from the infiltration of drug traffickers and transnational criminal networks," said Antonio Mazzatelli, the regional head of the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC).

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-52569130.amp

You guys are just chasing shadows

Guinea Bissau is different from Guinea Conakry that you guys alleged that Tinubu have its passport

so desperate to link Tinubu to drug dealing

couldn't beat him at the poll so you can only peddle these propagandas to tarnish his image and hope one stick to disqualify him.

Massiveglory:
Simple question.
See as fashola is talking off point and yarning dust on national tv.

Just because Fashola and Tinubu are political allies doesn't mean he will know everything about Tinubu.

You guys are so desperate looking for things to disqualify Tinubu lol, I thought the Drug case is enough to disqualify him you guys sound so sure but after your propagandists figured out it is going to be a futile endeavor they have to figure out another propaganda to keep the hope and unrealistic dream alive.

princeemma69:
who needs your feelings? South East has the lowest poverty index in Nigeria according to the Bureau of Statistics. Send your feelings to your brothers who are doing agbero work to survive.

You are wrong it is South west

Another fake stats from IPOB bureau of statistics, Agbero have taken Over Onitsha, they are the one doing Agbero to survive.

Iamzik:
Russia, China and North Korea are the three countries standing in the way of globalists elites.

The US and the west are guilty of so many crimes but i think the world will be so much worse under the hegemony of China or Russia.

The Devil you know maybe better than the devil you don't know.

This is the type of Military government Obediots are praying for because of their hatred for Tinubu. Their Hatred for Tinubu is making them wish for something that can destroy their lives.

If a Military government take over at least DSS release some propagandists they arrested for questioning, the Military will just send most of them to the gallow and the Twitter they love so much to perpetrate their terrorist activities can be banned forever at any time, it only need a single order from the person in charge.

Jakumo:
I blow bigi-bigi grammar sotaaaaay, she no gree. From there I begin dey nack broken sotaaaay, she no gree. Haba how man pikin for do?

Na him I come see say water don pass garri dis time o, say like play, like play, dis woman don dey go be dat o, and she nogo show face again.

When I see say no show again, na so I carry my hunter cloth wear am put, come begin dey take eye dey find new woman for where dem dey.

I pray make Papa God answer my pray o, say make anoda fine girl come follow me dey wakka as before.
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Women can't be please and you shouldn't try to please women, just live for yourself and prioritize yourself in everything. Know what you want and go for it, there are thousands of women that will like to be in your life for that.

You will see drunkards, street thugz and Marijuana smokers having several women even guys that beat their women and hurt them badly easily get many women around them, just prioritize yourself and have fun and don't take any disrespect.


You just need more confidence to approach at least 5 to 10 women a week and you are good to go.

jaxxy:
seem like the kind of person that will complain about everything. So a man shouldn't talk bt he must be generous.

Don't believe whatever these women are saying

Women can't be please and you shouldn't try to please women, just live for yourself and prioritize yourself in everything. Know what you want and go for it, there are thousands of women that will like to be in your life for that.

You will see drunkards, street thugz and Marijuana smokers having several women even, even guys that beat their women easily get many women around them, just prioritize yourself and have fun.

GreatVocalist:
No, I dont.

I think people are wired differently, and there's no one-size-fits-all pattern of communication.

I know that women desire more attention than men do, I also know that there are women who define what you mentioned above as clinginess.

So I don't know it better than you do, not even as much.

She is actually the one acting clingy and obsessive.

Why does she need so much texting and want to know what the guy is doing at home and work ? she is very insecure and clingy

Chee59:
No. There's a fine line between constant communication and clinginess.
I want a man who can chip in a bit of a conversation as he prepares to go to work, during his break time in the office, on his way home from work and after he's eaten, resting and retiring to bed, when he's out with friends, etc stuff like that. A little "hey" "what are you up to?" "your day going on well?" "OK something unusual happened at work" just basic conversation.

Very different from someone who wants to be on the phone with you all the time, gets suspicious of everything and everyone, for example, you didn't pick up the phone when they called, where you'll be afraid to even say "I'm sorry I have to go". That's obsessive and clingy.

That's not constant communication, you are actually the clingy and obsessive one. Why do you require so much texting every day and want to know what he is doing at home and work?

So many Redflags and deep insecurities, no valueable man will stay once he noticed that.

EgwunsoDOTcom:
After voting for APC, now they are wallowing in hunger and poverty..

APC is demonic.

This is one of the reasons why Nigeria will never get better

You guys use every opportunity to play politics without any empathy and integrity.

So there won't be armed robbery if your favorite Party is in power ? even in countries with great economy crimes happen all the time.

How are you any different from the Armed robbers ? you know the evil game you are playing but still pretend to have no IQ

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low IQ

everything is cause by hardship to you guys, it make it easier for you to do evil without taking responsibility

even in saner climes many Nigerians still go there to commit crimes are they even the only one suffering ? what if everyone suffering in Nigeria started robbing and killing who would be left ?

Figger:
Don't be shallow minded, these are successful business men who strived and thrived on their own without government Support. It's quite different from being allocated an oil well. Having an oil well and dealing on petroleum products aren't similar

Keep deceiving yourselves

is there any rich business man in Nigeria without government Support ?

who told you they don't have allocated oil well ?

Only Igbo guys that deal with Oil are legit without government Support to you guys, so delusional

XerXers:
Oil company is business not "benefit". They carved out Igbo oil bearing communities and joined it with Rivers and gave the oil blocks to northerners thereby starving SE states of revenue. Oil blocks in SE they refused to invest in it because they can't grab the oil blocks, they rather rather waste money searching for oil in the North. Oil company business is entirely a different thing which Igbos built with their sweat. OP didn't even list all the oil companies by Igbos

So the Oil from the companies only comes from the oil wells in the East and those companies don't have any Oil wells allocated to them that is outside south East?

Because it involve Igbo now you claimed it was built by their sweat but if it involve Yoruba Oil companies or others you will cry murder.