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Fedrick100:
Is true sha,
My ex i broke up recently made me believe this, at the beginning I thought her type is rare. But when she started showing me shege I mad

Someone before she could pay me a visit or make out with me I must drop money, at the beginning she wasn’t that way

The problem with most Nigerian guys is that they are too afraid to maintain the frame in relationship and very scare of losing a girl.

Girls will tests you all the time in a relationship and it is your job to put her in her place and show her who is the boss, if you are very weak to enforce your boundary she will lose the attraction she have for you and you will turn to a weak and bloody simp in her eyes.

The moment she started making those demands you should have called her out and don't even hesitate to dump her but you compromised because of your fear and at the end you lose her anyway.

NIgerian women are the way they are because most Nigerian men are weak. When these women started doing things you don't like instead of standing up to them and even dump them when they won't submit most Nigerian men would rather suck it up and keep putting up with the bullshits at the end the women would see them as weak and dump them or cheat on them anyway because women don't have attraction for weak guys.


Kill any sign of desperation completely. She is not interested in visiting you without getting money? she may as well not come to your place again forever, that mean her interest in you is not high enough, she want money before she can make up with you ? tell her you are not even interested in touching her again. Always have one leg outside the relationship and don't hesitate to dump a girl when she won't submit and keep acting bitchy, a girl that like you won't give you so much stress and trouble, she may occasionally behave abnormal but it won't be for long if you always put her in her place and show her you are the boss. When most Nigerian men have these attitudes you will also see the changes in Nigerian women, high rate of feminism, boss women and promiscuous behaviors is a sign of so many weak men.

Whois:
A wise man once said he will move Nigeria from consumption to production but some people said over their dead body just because he is igbo

Coming from a man that's among the highest importers of foreign goods to Nigeria and also one of the highest enablers of consumptions in Nigeria.

8 years as a governor of Anambra he could only built a beer factory, just because he is an Igbo man doesn't mean we have to believe the lies coming from his mouth, he didn't have the track record, it is very easy to promise and lie.

30 Dating Rules to Remember
by Giovanni Casanova

The following list has been compiled as the result of insights on these forums as well as my own personal experiences. Now, in life there are sometimes exceptions to rules, but in general these rules should be followed. Also, some of these aren't "rules" per se, but more like observations or insights. Enjoy.



RULE 1: Women communicate in two modes: the way things are, and the way they WISH things were. Whenever in doubt, assume it's the latter choice.

RULE 2: Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. Give attention sparingly. This is your currency.

RULE 3: Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away.

RULE 4: Confidence attracts women even more than good looks. This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks.

RULE 5: Desperation repels women. You will attract more women when you don't care if you're attracting women.

RULE 6: After getting a girl's phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate.

RULE 7: Use the phone only to set up dates. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. Save that conversation for the date.

RULE 8: If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don't leave a message. Just try again another time. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls.

RULE 9: First dates should be short and creative. NO "dinner and a movie". Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. Keep it FUN.

RULE 10: Do not give gifts early in the relationship. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection.

RULE 11: Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Do not be tempted to give in. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don't put up with excessive amounts of BS.

RULE 12: A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them.

RULE 13: There is no such thing as a "soulmate" or "the one". It doesn't exist. There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.

RULE 14: Don't put any woman up on a pedestal. You risk not being able to reach her. Women are people too... or so I'm told.

RULE 15: If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. NEXT!

RULE 16: No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved.

RULE 17: Never be the one that says, "I love you" first.

RULE 18: The challenge is part of the fun. Don't short-change the girl. Let her pursue you. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be.

RULE 19: If a girl cheats on you, she is gone. No exceptions.

RULE 20: Never date a girl who has more problems than you do.

RULE 21: Do not date girls from work. Work is stressful enough.

RULE 22: Dating is a "numbers game". Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected more times than not. Suck it up and get back out there.

RULE 23: Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.

RULE 24: Where women are concerned, pay more attention to what they do than what they say.

RULE 25: Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Love them anyway.

RULE 26: Bros before hoes. Any girl that can be stolen from your best friend isn't worth stealing from your best friend.

RULE 27: Stay away from your ex. Chances are that you won't be able to get back with her. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you'll wish that you hadn't.

RULE 28: Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon. Remain a mystery.

RULE 29: Girls are not the only thing in life. Have other things in your life that excite you.

RULE 30: If you aren't sure about when to bend or break a rule, go with your instinct. If it's wrong, that's a good lesson for next time... and there's always a next time.


https://www.sosuave.com/articles/30datingrules.htm

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Freethinker87:
Guinea-Bissau - Africa's first narco-state.

Concern is mounting that Guinea-Bissau's efforts to stem the flow of drugs to Europe and the US have suffered a setback after a military-backed president took office, writes journalist Ricci Shryock.

Court documents show that the loot seized in Guinea-Bissau's largest ever drug bust last September included more than 20 vehicles, among them a "cinnamon coloured" Mercedes Benz, $3m (£2.5m) stashed in bank accounts, $90,000 worth of wine and porridge found in a warehouse, and, of course, 1.8 tonnes of cocaine hidden in sacks of rice.

Dubbed Operation Navara, the seizure culminated in 12 men - of Bissau-Guinean, Colombian, Mexican and Portuguese nationalities - being sentenced to between four and 16 years in prison last month.

Although the two ringleaders were sentenced in absentia after they managed to evade arrest, the case was hailed as a legal success for the West African state in its efforts to shed its reputation as a major transit hub for cocaine flown or shipped from Latin America to Europe and North America.

For us, this is the result of over eight years of investment, so we look forward to making sure that the future of Guinea-Bissau might be much safer from the infiltration of drug traffickers and transnational criminal networks," said Antonio Mazzatelli, the regional head of the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC).

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-52569130.amp

You guys are just chasing shadows

Guinea Bissau is different from Guinea Conakry that you guys alleged that Tinubu have its passport

so desperate to link Tinubu to drug dealing

couldn't beat him at the poll so you can only peddle these propagandas to tarnish his image and hope one stick to disqualify him.

Massiveglory:
Simple question.
See as fashola is talking off point and yarning dust on national tv.

Just because Fashola and Tinubu are political allies doesn't mean he will know everything about Tinubu.

You guys are so desperate looking for things to disqualify Tinubu lol, I thought the Drug case is enough to disqualify him you guys sound so sure but after your propagandists figured out it is going to be a futile endeavor they have to figure out another propaganda to keep the hope and unrealistic dream alive.

princeemma69:
who needs your feelings? South East has the lowest poverty index in Nigeria according to the Bureau of Statistics. Send your feelings to your brothers who are doing agbero work to survive.

You are wrong it is South west

Another fake stats from IPOB bureau of statistics, Agbero have taken Over Onitsha, they are the one doing Agbero to survive.

Iamzik:
Russia, China and North Korea are the three countries standing in the way of globalists elites.

The US and the west are guilty of so many crimes but i think the world will be so much worse under the hegemony of China or Russia.

The Devil you know maybe better than the devil you don't know.

This is the type of Military government Obediots are praying for because of their hatred for Tinubu. Their Hatred for Tinubu is making them wish for something that can destroy their lives.

If a Military government take over at least DSS release some propagandists they arrested for questioning, the Military will just send most of them to the gallow and the Twitter they love so much to perpetrate their terrorist activities can be banned forever at any time, it only need a single order from the person in charge.

Jakumo:
I blow bigi-bigi grammar sotaaaaay, she no gree. From there I begin dey nack broken sotaaaay, she no gree. Haba how man pikin for do?

Na him I come see say water don pass garri dis time o, say like play, like play, dis woman don dey go be dat o, and she nogo show face again.

When I see say no show again, na so I carry my hunter cloth wear am put, come begin dey take eye dey find new woman for where dem dey.

I pray make Papa God answer my pray o, say make anoda fine girl come follow me dey wakka as before.
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Women can't be please and you shouldn't try to please women, just live for yourself and prioritize yourself in everything. Know what you want and go for it, there are thousands of women that will like to be in your life for that.

You will see drunkards, street thugz and Marijuana smokers having several women even guys that beat their women and hurt them badly easily get many women around them, just prioritize yourself and have fun and don't take any disrespect.


You just need more confidence to approach at least 5 to 10 women a week and you are good to go.

jaxxy:
seem like the kind of person that will complain about everything. So a man shouldn't talk bt he must be generous.

Don't believe whatever these women are saying

Women can't be please and you shouldn't try to please women, just live for yourself and prioritize yourself in everything. Know what you want and go for it, there are thousands of women that will like to be in your life for that.

You will see drunkards, street thugz and Marijuana smokers having several women even, even guys that beat their women easily get many women around them, just prioritize yourself and have fun.

GreatVocalist:
No, I dont.

I think people are wired differently, and there's no one-size-fits-all pattern of communication.

I know that women desire more attention than men do, I also know that there are women who define what you mentioned above as clinginess.

So I don't know it better than you do, not even as much.

She is actually the one acting clingy and obsessive.

Why does she need so much texting and want to know what the guy is doing at home and work ? she is very insecure and clingy

Chee59:
No. There's a fine line between constant communication and clinginess.
I want a man who can chip in a bit of a conversation as he prepares to go to work, during his break time in the office, on his way home from work and after he's eaten, resting and retiring to bed, when he's out with friends, etc stuff like that. A little "hey" "what are you up to?" "your day going on well?" "OK something unusual happened at work" just basic conversation.

Very different from someone who wants to be on the phone with you all the time, gets suspicious of everything and everyone, for example, you didn't pick up the phone when they called, where you'll be afraid to even say "I'm sorry I have to go". That's obsessive and clingy.

That's not constant communication, you are actually the clingy and obsessive one. Why do you require so much texting every day and want to know what he is doing at home and work?

So many Redflags and deep insecurities, no valueable man will stay once he noticed that.

EgwunsoDOTcom:
After voting for APC, now they are wallowing in hunger and poverty..

APC is demonic.

This is one of the reasons why Nigeria will never get better

You guys use every opportunity to play politics without any empathy and integrity.

So there won't be armed robbery if your favorite Party is in power ? even in countries with great economy crimes happen all the time.

How are you any different from the Armed robbers ? you know the evil game you are playing but still pretend to have no IQ

[quote author= post=122483246]See Wetin Hardship Dey Cause For Nigeria

Proudly Brought To You By[/quote]low IQ

everything is cause by hardship to you guys, it make it easier for you to do evil without taking responsibility

even in saner climes many Nigerians still go there to commit crimes are they even the only one suffering ? what if everyone suffering in Nigeria started robbing and killing who would be left ?

Figger:
Don't be shallow minded, these are successful business men who strived and thrived on their own without government Support. It's quite different from being allocated an oil well. Having an oil well and dealing on petroleum products aren't similar

Keep deceiving yourselves

is there any rich business man in Nigeria without government Support ?

who told you they don't have allocated oil well ?

Only Igbo guys that deal with Oil are legit without government Support to you guys, so delusional

XerXers:
Oil company is business not "benefit". They carved out Igbo oil bearing communities and joined it with Rivers and gave the oil blocks to northerners thereby starving SE states of revenue. Oil blocks in SE they refused to invest in it because they can't grab the oil blocks, they rather rather waste money searching for oil in the North. Oil company business is entirely a different thing which Igbos built with their sweat. OP didn't even list all the oil companies by Igbos

So the Oil from the companies only comes from the oil wells in the East and those companies don't have any Oil wells allocated to them that is outside south East?

Because it involve Igbo now you claimed it was built by their sweat but if it involve Yoruba Oil companies or others you will cry murder.

i thought you guys said no Igbo man is benefiting from crude oil in Nigeria, that you are being marginalized

tctrills:
Because of people like you, I weep for Nigeria. It's confirmed that your president elect was a criminal but you don't care. You voted for him so even if he is a murderer you still want him as president. Shame on you.

Weep for yourself
what is a criminal ? to call someone a criminal it mean that person must have been legally convicted by a court.

Nothing like that in Tinubu's case

Faber:
I just dey laugh at all these yeye Yoruba professors replying Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie. They are just making a fool of themselves. The world listens to Chimamanda and Okonjo-Iweala, these two women are like living deities in the eyes of US, UK, EU and international communities. They guided their reputation so well that each time they make a claim, the whole world believes them.

We don't produce half backed Professors and quota system SANs

what is new lol?

even before this propaganda page twitted this and Chimamanda Adichie wrote her letter some European news paper already wrote about the case.

Keep fooling yourself, Chimamanda letter can not get any reaction where it matter it can only fuel propaganda like this.

observanc1:
you forgot that dahomey women overan Abeokuta and your cowardly ancestors went and hid under olumo rock.

You forgot Yoruba were the only Africans to decesively dealt with Dahomey before the french.

I fear the dangerous precedent being set in Nigeria political space, any reputable Yoruba man that is not ass licking Peter Obi and subservient to his presidential ambition and movement is being insulted and disrespected.

It was Pastor Adeboye yesterday and Wole Soyinka's turn today, who is next ?

The most annoying thing is that these lunatics want to dictate for Wole Soyinka, Adeboye etc without giving them any chance to even be neutral in something that was supposed to be democratic. It is either you are subservient to their cause or be disgrace and call unprintable names, is that the toxic new Nigeria you are fighting for ? no room for any criticism but full of "Yes Daddy". That is dictatorship not democracy

Chimamanda Adichie is being celebrated because she wrote to the President of the United state to support her kinsman but Wole Soyinka's couldn't even be neutral without being labeled a villain and disrespected.

Keep it up until everyone see the obedient movement for what it really is. A desperate attempt at power grab from one section of the country.

If unknown gun men started disrupting the Peace of Lagos State, you know the suspects

If you can't live in Lagos go back to your region, not start terrorising the place. OPC and other militia will be activated very soon and arm to the teeth to face this terrorist.

kyber:
My babe thinks I’m angry cause I found a guy in her room and she apologized and I forgave her.
Well I decided to test her by telling her to Suuc my Cock but she refused saying another time,
The same thing she always says.

I’m thinking of leaving the relationship quietly without letting her know I want to break up,
Pictures below

Should I carry on?
What do you think?

Every thing is not about sex bro.

No Valuable man will ever forgive such a disrespect, that's an unforgivable sin to an Alpha. As a valuable man you must have boundaries that must never be crossed.

The fact that you still find her attractive for sex after that experience make you a very big simp.

Alpha male have sex with woman they consider worthy of it because they are the prize.

A woman disrespected you like that and you didn't even find her disgusting getting near you and even told her to suck your dick. It means you are a very big simp, you wanted to reward her very bad behavior.

She can easily have you regardless of whether she treat you right or disrespect you and you call yourself alpha ? .That girl must have find you disgusting at that moment.

As an Alpha you only have sex with a woman when she treat you right and behave well, rewarding any bad behavior in women with sex or money and even attention means you are too cheap.

end the relationship now, you already lost

What was another guy doing in her room ?

Did you know what they did at your back or how many of them are even visiting her ?

count your losses now and move on.

The relationship can never be the same again because she already lost respect for you, she disrespected you big time by that action. You need strong boundaries as a man and something like this should be part of your boundaries that must never be crossed.

Go and look for another girl to go out with, think about your next adventures with other girls.

Ayu want to cause as much damage as possible

Atiku is the most foolish Politician in Nigeria, Nigeria dodged a bullet. He is not even wise enough to see that Ayu was working against him. We can not afford to hand Nigeria over to such a stupid politician.

Ayu desperation for that position is suspicious and he is not willing to back down despite the irredeemable damage it is causing the party.

Tinubu will never allow what is happening in PDP to happened if he was Atiku, he will squashed it by any means and that's why he is currently the greatest politician in Nigeria.

Do you know how much these politicians inject in US economy through tourism, vacations etc ? these politicians spend thousands of dollars whenever they visit the US

You are naive if you believe the US would do something that will hurt their economy

Yorubalandlord:
A simple google search should have cured your ignorance, but you choose to insult yourself in public.

What is the fuss about ibo this ibo that?

At your age you don't know that their is a difference between "founded" and being a managing director of a company

It was founded by Him but he is no longer in charge of the company and he is not even the biggest shareholder of the company.

are you an illiterate ?

I'm talking about the board members of the company not managing director.

Board members represent the ownership of the company and it is dominated by Yoruba, the Chairman of the board is even Yoruba.

The Chairman and MD are both Yoruba

[quote author= post=122181648]See where debt has placed Lagos[/quote]Debt that is not up to 5 billion dollars so overhype by you.

Lagos have the best economy in Nigeria that's why they also have the most debts

Anambra can't even have the debt of Lagos government because no bank would be stupid enough to borrow them that kind of money.

[quote author= post=122180147]Lagos is heading to trillion debt in Nigeria wonder why the state tax is skyrocketing and now red in easy doing business[/quote]So much obsession with Lagos state

How much is 1 trillion naira in dollars?

It is not even up to 5 billion dollars, you think the richest state in Nigeria cannot handle just 5 billion dollars debt?

beside South West states debt is also a reflection of the economic viability of the region, no bank lend money to poor people.

[quote author= post=122181189]LEKKI PORT WAS FUNDED BY CHINESE GOVERNMENT[/quote]You sound like an illiterate
You believe Lagos government won't also contribute

This is a counter to the Post that was calling e-tranzact an Igbo company, chest beating and insulting Yoruba because Lagos government signed an Mou with etranzact.

etranzact is not own by Igbo even though it was founded by Igbo, it is listed on the Nigeria stock exchange and the leadership is dominated by Yoruba. The founder is no longer in Charge of any business there since he was sacked.

Empty barrel make the loudest noise, Yoruba are in charge of many companies in this country and you won't even know.

This is why Yoruba will never support Lagos government to patronize Innoson even though we have better alternatives in Lagos. One stupid IPOB will decide to chest beat and come to nairaland, Twitter or Facebook to insult Yoruba and even claim they are in charge of Lagos government transportation.


https://www.wsj.com/market-data/quotes/NG/XNSA/ETRANZACT/company-people

sammirano:
This tax system is unrealistic. You need to look at the numbers. Tax is not the only means of generating revenue for a responsible govt. Also most taxes goes to social welfare.

which tax is unrealistic ?

go to Europe and know what unrealistic taxes is, For every dollar you make the government have their percent.

How many parts of the country are even paying taxes ?

As long as Lagos economy is vibrant enough it is a very realistic tax. Lagos have the best economy in Nigeria and the culture of paying taxes must be inculcate in the people for it to developed not be like every other parts of the country where people hardly pay taxes. If you can't cope you can move away, people just want to make money in Lagos without contributing to the development of the state.

You think you will make that much money in your business or job if you are not in Lagos or Abuja ?

For Lagos to move forward the taxes are important and necessary, what you guys should be crying about is accountability for the taxes not reduction of taxes.

You want Lagos to be as developed as London, Texas, even Journesbourg but you don't want to pay the same taxes like people that lives and work in those cities.