₦airaland Forum

Likoya:
Only in Nigeria soldiers dey guard president.... Have you ever seen soldiers guarding the president of America or Russia Or Prime minister/King of Britain? And moreover all these things are just for show in my opinion, just to look professional..

The leaders of those countries you listed are among the most protected in the world.

The secret Agents that protects them are better trained and have more security clearance than any soldier.

The cost of the technology and sophisticated machinery they deploys to protect their president can bankrupt Nigeria's economy.

The Plane that carries USA president "Airforce one" can buy the entire Nigeria presidential convoys 1000 times over, there is even a rumour that it can protect against nuclear weapons.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQi6gJwsRNs


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ManWater:
Needless confusion. How can you be 1yr old, immediately you are born.

&If you were born 11:55pm on 31st Dec, 5mins later you become 2yrs. That's crazy.

I think they are adding the 9 months spent in the womb

long distance relationship is a no no

These guys don't know the damage they are doing to Igbo Image in UK lol

You are calling for the release of an Organ harvester and human trafficker, Uk government is getting a dose of your narcissistic tendencies and entitlement mentality.

Nawttiboi007:
She don dey relax

Who told you she is relaxing?

She already has won 2 races recently this year but it didn't make it to nairaland

Only her lost make it here

She already won like 2 races recently she can't win it all


Keep trying

Nigerians are so naive and Ignorant

For a relationship to last long and be exciting, there must be healthy boundaries between you and your partner.

Myth

Everyone have thousands of soul mates out there

ImmaculateJOE:
So Yoruba don't have the word "Amaka" in their diction..?
Copycats..

You that should be happy Yoruba are promoting your language that's going to extinction.


We will stop using Amaka "Yoruba Lagba" sound better

duro4chang:
You don start o. Dey your dey make I dey my dey o. Today na sunday o. I just dey come from church o. No make me vex o.

Just use Yoruba Lagba

We should stop using Amaka

Picture of Major General Lagbaja the new Chief of Army staff on the front line


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SmartPolician:
Apart from Obasanjo (that man is a true Nigerian), every other Nigerian president appointed soldiers either from their tribe or a tribe they can trust as his army chief.

It's quite unfortunate that 100 years later, Nigeria is still struggling to unite as one country. Congratulations to the new army chief though!

The politics of bitterness you guys are playing is not yet rampart like this during the tenure of Obasanjo.

Tinubu is the only south west politician that has done the most for Igbo in Lagos, in fact he was the one that enabled Igbo to have the little political influence they once had or still have in Lagos state, but ironically he is also the one Igbo hate the most because Igbo are just jealous of his political influences, they detest a Yoruba man like that same way they detested Awolowo and MKO Abiola etc, because he is the strongest Yoruba politician and in the way of them taking over Lagos just like Awolowo of those days when Azikiwe was trying so hard to gained foothold in the west.


Igbo are blatantly wishing Tinubu dead and bitterly praying for his downfall and that of his family when he hasn't ever governed over them in the East, even Obasanjo that participated in the Civil war and killed Biafran forces is not soliciting that much hatred from them.

If Igbo cursed and campaigned vigorously against Obasanjo like they did against Tinubu i doubt Obasanjo would still be so receptive to them like he was when he became president.

DatNiggaDaz:
The Tinubu supporters on Nairaland should come and explain. Tgey have been all over nairaland posting propaganda, lies & deceit. What they lie about on Nairaland is not what the reality on the street & Universitäts of Nigeria are.

Tinubu supporters what is Happening. Is Tinubu for Real continuing from where Buhari stopped

Pls don't bring garangaja explanations about this kidnapping of of our dear Students.

I wish the kidnapped students a save return

The news about the various decisions Tinubu took during the past weeks to change our economic trajectory since he was sworn in and some policies he signed left most of you IPOB and Obidunce in severe pain and agony.

You guys should stop pretending like you want what's best for Nigeria, you just want Tinubu to fail and Nigerians to suffer so hard so that you can gloat and that's the reason why most of you guys have been hunting for bad news and propaganda so desperately to discredit Tinubu's administration.

Most of you don't want anything good for Nigeria, you just want an Igbo president, it is not about qualification. Only naive idiots wouldn't see through you guys shenanigans

proeast:
Lol, scratch-face, you're the one boasting for nothing. Oyo state does not have more industries than Anambra or Abia. We have debated that severally in the past and I proved it with facts!

Ogun would have been just another Ekiti, Osun, Ondo etc if not for Lagos. Over 95% of the industries in Ogun are there because of Lagos. If you put Yobe state in the geographical location of Ogun state, Yobe will still have those industries. Take a look at Agbara or Sango Ota and see how terrible those places are despite all those industries there.

It's not about chest beating because there is absolutely nothing to brag about in the SW except Lagos axis and you can't brag with that. Same way Hausas, Fulanis or even Gbagyes can't brag with Abuja.

I can feel your pain, bitter Igbo man

The ceramic factory you are chest beating over has already been established in Ogun state and Oyo state, i'm sure it is also in Lagos state, but you wouldn't know because in the west we don't even see it as something that special. Do you even know the number of ceramic factories in Ogun and Oyo lol?

Abuja has been the Capital of Nigeria for while now and it still hasn't be able to match Lagos development and economy.

Even Ekiti, Osun and Ondo are better than anywhere in the cesspit called South East reason why there is no where in South west you wouldn't see flattie doing all sort of business to survive, things they can't do in the East.

proeast:
No jokes, SW is the most redundant region of Nigeria. Lagos is just hiding the rot in that region. Remove Lagos and you have a dead zone.

I'm baffled how they have such huge advantage yet lagging behind. Even NE would have been far better than them if they're to be in their geographical location.

lol look at this flattie lol

Just because we don't have the urge to post about every little development going on in South west like you people that is constantly suffering from inferiority complex.

Can the industrial development of Anambra or any state in the East match that of Ogun or Oyo state, Forget about Oyo state and Ogun state.

Do you know the number of companies that are established in Ogun and Oyo industrial area and are still establishing every day?

There was a post about 8 villages being clear by Chinese in Ogun state recently what do you think they are going to use the area for lol ?

Check popular products and goods around you and see the manufacturing location.

Enjoy your empty chest beating.

Borntosmoke:
My girlfriend, whenever I offend her. She will tell me that he will stab my gall bladder. Is this a red flag?? She is a nurse. Is she playing or she really mean it.

Your girlfriend constantly threatening to stab you whenever you offend her is disrespectful and offensive.

You have let that bad behavior continue for so long and even if she doesn't mean it, it is a very disrespectful behavior. It mean she doesn't respect you that much, your girlfriend must never be threatening you in that manner even in a joking way.

You should have let her know that you don't like it and tell her to stop it, unless you are the woman in the relationship. Only a simp would tolerate a disrespectful act like that.

Think about it you can only say something like that to someone you don't respect that much. Can you also say something like that to your girlfriend ? if you wouldn't say something like that to her so why the hell are you tolerating it ? i doubt your girlfriend have any respect for you in that relationship it seem like she is the one in total control of that relationship.


It is a big red flag even if she doesn't mean it but there is a 90% chance she really mean it with the way she constantly threaten you. She may really stab your gall bladder one day, run for your life. That was how a girl stabbed her boyfriend with a spoon and killed him in my street, i knew the signs of danger must have been there before it happened that night.

You guys would only be satisfied if it is full of Igbo and they speak only Igbo at their headquarter so your criticism is dead on arrival.

What most of you don't know is that most of the state governors are just using the Airport project to siphon money from the state coffer. They don't really care if it function as long as they can claim it worth billions of Naira that it doesn't really worth.

securitywatch50:
And when last I checked them no care even if you dash them SP

Anything politics doesn't move them
Because they believe in themselves

With or without politics their great achievers
That's Igbotic spirit.

Typical excuses of losers

Why do you think IPOB and ESN terrorists are causing mayhem and trying to secede from Nigeria state ? It is because they can't dominate politically in Nigeria.

proeast:
If you have purchasing power, over 90% of your people won't be living in slums. Instead, you will be living in decent houses like people in SE and SS.

Your people are deep in multidimensional poverty, that's why they can't help living in slums.

Purchasing bawo, you dash monkey banana

Meanwhile, building our production bases in the East doesn't mean we won't have warehouses and distributors moving the goods across Nigeria.

Everyone in South East lives in mansion ?

Keep deceiving yourselves lol

Only the drug dealers and criminals among you can afford to lives in mansions and do you even know what ? most of those mansions are mostly empty because their owners are in prisons in Asia for drug crimes.

Come to the west and see your fellow Igbo living in the same brown roof houses and renting it like hot cakes, the most wretched region in Nigeria today is still the east.

proeast:
Why are you people always full of hate and bitterness? A company decides to relocate from a hostile place and you started crying? Is it your company? Don't the owner have right to relocate wherever he wants?

FYI, Igbos are now generally divesting from Lagos. Be it industries or real estate, it's only a matter of time before you guys will turn the place into mass of slums.

It is this sort of hate and bitterness that has made your towns to remain stagnant. Take an aerial view of your so-called cities and tell me if they're not glorified slums.

Your divestment from Lagos wouldn't take anything from Lagos. It only mean more jobs and business opportunities for people in South west.

As long as south west have the purchasing power we are fine. We are the customers patronizing most of your businesses, and no customers from the west is going back to the east with you.


Let's see where you will get the market for your products and goods in the east. You guys can only win this game if you can make your Yoruba customers come to the east to patronize you.

students loan is not mandatory it is only for those that need it.

These IPOB lunatics just want Tinubu to fail and Nigeria to keep regressing so that they can justify their bitterness and hatred.

Sensible Igbo know that even if you guys get Biafra tomorrow, you will just self destruct because you will direct the bitterness and hatred on yourselves.

siofra:
What an idiot!!

He invited her on a date but refused to pay That's what happens when we ladies settle for these scums.

A date is not only the responsibility of the man because you are both interested in the relationship that may follow so you should both put your sincere effort to make it work not acting as if the man is a slave sent to serve you.

Women are not doing men a favour by going out on a date with men, your comment sound as if women are doing men a favour by going out with men.

If the woman was not interested in going out with the man she should have rejected him but once the woman accepted the date offer it mean she was interested and should at least put in effort if she have any respect for the man.

If the man is going to pay for the first date in a relationship they are both interested in the least minimum effort the woman can put in is to consume as moderately as possible out of respect for the man because the man is not plucking money from trees. It show you are really interested in making it work and not just out to consume like an hungry vulture.

If she won’t make any effort to show her sincerety and interest why should a man put up with it when there are thousands of women out there more hotter and well manner than her ?

The guy might have overreacted though if it was me i would have offered to split the bills and called it a day and if she rejected that i wouldn't show her any respect too.

Merry100:
Guys, stop showing off and pretending to be what you're not. Let the lady you're taking out on a date know your financial capability. I always feel disgusted when I see guys insult ladies because of the amount of food they order on a date. As a lady, I have paid for meals for guys without insulting them. I don't ask guys to pay for my meal, but if a guy insists on paying for my meal, he does not have the right to insult me no matter how much food I buy. I will not form because he is paying, I will buy my usual.

There are some immature guys out there. Ladies, buy only what you can afford, don't be extravagant and always remember to bring enough money when you go on a date so that you can refund the money for your food when necessary. If this lady had enough money to refund him instantly, she would have been the one disgracing him and insulting him.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iI4I6pmx004

It is the height of disrespect

It mean that girl did not respect the guy at all because she would have been moderate and careful not to be seen in a bad light on the first date by that guy if she really respect him in the first place or give a damn about the relationship they may have later.

Since she have no qualms about acting shamelessly like an hungry vulture, i wouldn't blame the guy for disgracing her accordingly.

No one want to be put under pressure like that.

Taking a girl out on a date is not a license for the girl to waste and lavish a man hard earned money even if the guy is rich. It is the height of disrespect

manoflove22:
please when it too early to ask sex from your girlfriend,she told me no sex in the relationship i thought she joking so she won't look cheap and she told me she is virgin



just last 2 day i told her no sex no money, i could feel the sadness in her voice but she told me she will offer sex but not now

it just 2 months relationship any advice

As a man you should be the one setting the terms of the relationship not her. You should see yourself as a great prize and great catch.

Letting a woman set the tone of a relationship and playing along with it is like entering a woman's frame and surrendering to the power of that women in the relationship, it is a recipe for disaster. It is like you are being submissive to a woman if you let a woman set the tone of the relationship, it make their pvssy very dry and make them lose attraction for you, it is just a shit test and you are failing the test woefully. She is waiting for a man to dominate her not play along with her rules, make moves on her and she either comply with you or the relationship is over, there are thousands of women out there better than her and no time to play silly games and waste time.




As a man you should be the one dominating in all aspect with strong frame and setting the tone of the relationship , not be the submissive one in the relationship hoping to get some pvssy when they say no pvssy. Unless you both want the same thing, don't let what a woman want or desire supercede your desire in a relationship, as a man you should be the superior one that she must be submissive to.

manoflove22:
please when it too early to ask sex from your girlfriend,she told me no sex in the relationship i thought she joking so she won't look cheap and she told me she is virgin



just last 2 day i told her no sex no money, i could feel the sadness in her voice but she told me she will offer sex but not now

it just 2 months relationship any advice

As a man you don't ask for sex you initiate and make moves to take what you want and if she denied your sexual advances, that's a rejection and it mean she does'nt find you sexually attractive or attracted to you sexually.

Unless she is really a virgin that want to abstain from sex which i doubt and if you are looking for sex in relationships, you shouldn't be in relationships with any girl that is not ready to have sex with you, virgin or not because there's really no way to prove a virgin is genuine, next her and look for better prospect.

She may only want to use you for your attention and resources and string you along to waste your time until she find a better prospect, unless she is really a virgin that want to abstain from sex which i doubt. You did good by telling her no money until you have sex but watch the amount of money you are giving a girl in relationships and only put what you can afford to lose and afford and won't feel pain over if she decided to dump you tomorrow as a reward for her good behaviors towards you and don't ever sacrifice your comfort or goal for a girl.

If she is not fvcking your brain out frequently and treating you with care and respect and then attention, she does not deserve any of your money and attention, only reward good behaviors in a girl and punish bad behaviors with attention withdrawal and if she continue with the bad behaviors persistently break up.

It is never too early to have sex with a girl that you are both attracted to each other in fact your goal should be sex first relationship later like every true don out there practices, don't make a girl your girlfriend yet if you have not fvck her once or twice. It is only after sex you can definitely confirm a girl find you attractive sexually and know you have the right chemistry.

If you play your game right and make the right moves you can even fvck a girl on the first date if you can generate the right level of attraction and sexual tension in her. At most by the third date you should have fvck a girl that you both find each other attractive unless you don't play your game right. If she is rejecting your advances and don't want to have sex with you, you next her and cut her lose and look for a better prospect. Any girl that is not ready to have sex with you is not compatible with you because you want sex.

And you don't ask a girl to have sex with you that's stupid, your actions and body language should do the speaking. You should have invited her to a private place alone with just the two of you, Kino and touch her and escalate from there, try to kiss her, then proceed to make out with her, after that you can initiate to have sex with her. If she is not digging you, she won't let you make any moves on her or let you touch her successfully and by the third to fifth date you should have screwed any girl that let you make all these moves.

Your whole epistle is about what you can get from him, what he can do for you and suck from him like a bloodthirsty vampire, not the way he make you feels or what you feel about him.

You are only interested in him as a Beta provider and you are not sexually attracted to him. It is also the reason why you crave more power in that aspect instead of the way he make you feels and how you really feel about him.

There is nothing he can do for you that would ever be enough even if he gave you control over his whole life because you don't like him that way.

You only see him as a provider and not a lover, even If the guy do everything for you it wouldn't be enough and you would just become a bottomless pit that would continue to suck life out of him because you are not in love with him and attracted to him sexually you are only interested in him because of what he can provide for you.

You can even cheat on him with a bikeman, driver or gateman or worse you find attractive and I'm 90% sure you are already cheating on him, you can give him bastard children in your desperation to get that gene you want in your children because it is obvious he can't provide that and you will make up for it somehow, do the man a favour and dump him instead of being a bottomless pit that crave insatiable control over his life.

You would never be satisfied until you destroyed his life or killed him. Despite all what you said he is doing for you the list of what you don't like or what you still want is still that long, do him a favour and look for a guy that can give you all what you want.

21 Tips
by De La Soul

I'm turning 21 this year, so I thought it would be appropriate to give you guys 21 good tips on life and women.

1. Being genuinely WARM will get you connections. By being nice to everyone (unless they disrespect you), interested in other people, and by having a happy disposition, you will attract people like moths to a flame.

2. Stay HEALTHY. Work out. Seek advice from a professional first, and then hit the weights. Eat right. Everything in moderation, lots of fruits, lots of vegetables, and if you're trying to lose or gain weight see a nutritionist.

3. What's the key to HUMOR? It's simple: don't take yourself too seriously. Forget the canned jokes, just try to see the lighter side of things and laugh at yourself occasionally. Often it's not what we say that's funny, but it's the way we say it. Keep that in mind.

4. Use LOGIC when arguing. Never resort to arguing by volume and never resort to arguing with your fists. If you can't make a logical argument, it's almost definite that you don't know what you're talking about and you're wrong -- no big deal, just admit it. Often women will start arguments just to stir you up, or to test your strength.

5. As soon as you stop being CALM, you have lost the argument. Stay cool at all times; if a woman sees that she's annoying you, she'll feel that she's won.

6. Never let a woman become your life. Never "fall in LOVE" with a woman you barely even know. So you're sister's best friend's cousin is cute, so what? So you're dreaming about that McDonald's checkout chick. Wake up!

Have you been on a date with her? Have you kissed her? Have you slept with her frequently? Have you had great sex with her frequently? Have you been with her when she wakes up in the morning? Have you been with her when she's sick? I didn't think so.

Don't commit yourself to that one woman until you can answer "yes" to all of the above questions, and still like her. And don't even daydream about that one girl until you've at least been out on a date.

7. SMILE more often. Better yet, smile more often at girls, and look them straight in the eye.

8. Be FIRM. It's no big secret that women want a man with a backbone. If you want to have any chance with any given woman, you have to be bigger, better and stronger than her. You have to be able to dominate in any situation. Women want to be able to feel as if they can become helpless little girls around firm, dominant men.

9. Every second, all over the world there's a DESPERATE guy getting used by some attention-seeking bitch. Women can sense desperation like a shark senses blood. If they sniff it out on you, they'll either run for the hills, or use you in some way -- you may become their personal servant, their social proof, or their Mr-Listen-to-me-talk-about-myself-until-your-ears-bleed-but-you-won't-get-any.

To avoid being one of these poor desperate guys, fill your life with hobbies, sports, friends, social events, and...

10. GOALS are essential. Your goals are what drive you in life -- they are what motivate you. My suggestion is to write down a list of everything you want to do in your life, and try to knock off a few of these things every year. Some examples of things you might want to do are: get a hole-in-one, see Manchester United play, meet the president, become the president, play for Manchester United, go scuba diving, and the list goes on.
What's great about goals is that you get great side-effects. For example if one of your goals is to get a hole-in-one, you'll have to practice your golf a lot, consequently, you'll become a better player.

11. The cornerstone of success with women is ACTION. A man of action is a hot commodity. These days most men are so feminized that they feel more comfortable reacting to a female's flirting for two hours and then walking away without getting a number, than striding up to a woman, initiating a brief conversation, and then getting her digits.

As the man, you should feel comfortable initiating everything. That's just the way it is, men must initiate. If you waste all your energy looking for signs of interest, or some sort of "thumbs up" from the woman, you'll have none left to enjoy yourself. Stop thinking. Start acting.

12. Every day, do something that SCARES you. This really helps your confidence.

13. TEASE girls. In order to show that you don't idolize her, or think of her as a goddess, you playfully tease her. Laugh at her. I'm not talking about brutally exposing her insecurities and drawing attention to them, I'm just talking about saying the sort of things that would make a girl playfully punch you. Just play with them, but never say you're sorry.

14. Stop CARING about what others might think. The people who are most successful all across the world are those who don't give a damn about what others think, they do what makes them happy. The least successful and most regretful people are those who spend all their time worrying about whether they are doing the right thing in the eyes of everyone else. Stop seeking other peoples' approval.

15. Be DIRECT. Don't pussy-foot around. Don't walk on eggshells. If someone pisses you off, you tell him or her that they're pissing you off and why. You'll get a lot more respect than if you go around bitching about them behind their back.

16. TAKE what you want. If you want something, it's your job to get it!

17. REGRET is painful and a waste of time. If you make a mistake, you should make sure that you know exactly what you've done wrong, and how you can improve. Never spend time worrying about "what if" or filling your head with regrets.

18. Learn to CHAT. In other words, learn how to make small talk. You must be enthusiastic, interested in the other person, and say more than just "yeah" or "nah" or nodding and laughing.

For example, if someone in a music store says to you (while you're paying for a CD) "So, you like the guys, huh?" Don't just say, "Yeah, they're cool." Say something like, "Yeah, I love the drumming patterns and I've heard this CD is much better than their last. What did you think of they're last one?"

19. Stop worrying about her BODY LANGUAGE, and focus on your own. A woman's body language means about as much as her star sign in my opinion. Unless she's thrusting her boobs in your face and rubbing your crotch, forget about trying to work out what her body language means. Instead, make sure that your own body language is positive and inviting.

20. Never avoid being SEXUAL. Touch her when you're out on a date! For god's sake touch her! If you're feeling like you won't be coming on too strong, touch her before the date. Make sure you make solid eye contact with her, and don't be afraid to talk about sexual things.

Even more important than acting sexual, is giving off the sexual vibe -- one of the best ways to do this is to (while talking to her) imagine the two of you having sex, then create an image in your mind of her thinking the same thing at the same time. I've successfully field-tested this and it seriously helped me to be more sexual. Why? Because I suddenly felt confident that my sexuality wouldn't scare her off. I touched her confidently and I held great eye contact. I've got a date with her on Thursday night.

21. Have FUN. The most important thing in life is to have fun. A life, which you don't enjoy, is completely wasted. If you're dating a girl who you're not having fun with, cut her off. If you're at a party and you're not having fun, chances are you won't be getting laid after dark. Make fun your goal.

Make approaching women fun for yourself (don't give a damn about whether she's feeling) because a fun person is the most attractive type of person in the world. Fun is the single thing that will transform you from a boring, average guy, to the prize that everyone genuinely wants to win.

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/21tips.htm

Makophils:
I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months because she asked me when was the last time I gave her money to make her hair and nails.I yelled at her when she popped the question out of the blues and things escalated quickly from there which eventually lead to our breakup. I've never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked even though I must admit that she wasn't materialistic.

I lost my job last year december when my company downsized but I was fairly compensated . Since then,my ex only visited me once despite staying in the same city with me. Knowing fully well that I had no job but still going ahead to ask that insensitive question really made me angry. Earlier this year,I gave her money when she was returning to school. I also gave her money during her birthday. After we had the argument,I still went back to apologize to her but insisted that she is no longer interested.

So,I just wanted to confirm from you guys,Did I overreact when she asked that question ? Did this girl even loved me in the first place ?

You did the right thing by broken up with her because if you didn't she would be the one that would dump you later. She asked that question because she was losing interest in you and as a shit test. You could have passed it easily by telling her to find another man if she is no longer interested without arguing or lashing out.


Your only mistake was overreacting and not braking up with her properly and begging her after you broke up.

Learn how to spin plates and date more girls and you won't give a damn about a selfish hoe again.


You are right and you are the one that ended up begging , your begging scream desperation, neediness, lack of options and weakness which disgust women, your pathetic attempt at begging her made her lost every interest she had in you and confirmed to her that you are not a real man. You gave away all your power without any dignity, even if she ever take you back because you begged her you have given up all your power in that relationship.

Begging a woman also confirm to that woman that you don't have any other options, it would lower your value and attractiveness in her eyes or totally destroy it

It is only men that value submission in a relationship, a man begging a woman prove you are surrendering and submissive to the power of that woman in a relationship and it would lower your value and make you less attractive.

You can admit that you are wrong to a woman if you are really wrong but never beg a woman you are in relationships with for anything to move the relationship forward.

https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/149-how-to-maintain-control.htm

Makophils:
I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months because she asked me when was the last time I gave her money to make her hair and nails.I yelled at her when she popped the question out of the blues and things escalated quickly from there which eventually lead to our breakup. I've never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked even though I must admit that she wasn't materialistic.

I lost my job last year december when my company downsized but I was fairly compensated . Since then,my ex only visited me once despite staying in the same city with me. Knowing fully well that I had no job but still going ahead to ask that insensitive question really made me angry. Earlier this year,I gave her money when she was returning to school. I also gave her money during her birthday. After we had the argument,I still went back to apologize to her but insisted that she is no longer interested.

So,I just wanted to confirm from you guys,Did I overreact when she asked that question ? Did this girl even loved me in the first place ?

Never beg a woman bro, you can admit that you are wrong if you realized that you are truly wrong but never beg for forgiveness. It disgust women and they see it as weakness, your act of begging her killed all the interest she had in you.

You should have broken up with her without arguing with her or lashing out at her, don't give women that satisfaction to see you lose your cool. It gives them that validation and attention they desperately crave.

If you handle it the right way she could have been the one begging you for forgiveness right now and you would have been the one contemplating if you should still give her another chance.

Go to sosuave and learn
https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/149-how-to-maintain-control.htm

Yes you overreacted

Never let women get to you emotionally or allow them to see you lose your cool, don't give them that satisfaction and attention.

You should have broken up with her right when she made that comment without arguing with her or lashing out at her and move on.

If you handle it like a super chad she would have been the one begging you now to forgive her.