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JerkyChan:
Is it practically possible to maintain frame in marriage (especially monogamous settings) considering you have to devote most of your time and resources to sustaining the marriage...this can be likened to having a oneitis.

So how do we practically maintain frame in marriage?

Getting quality woman is the goal

It is difficult to maintain frame in marriage because marriage is like entering a woman's frame in the first place, marriage favour women and they know.

kettykings:
If this did not stop Boko Haram and fulani herdsmen all this while, what are the chances that it will stop a well determined hit squad from carrying out any attack . Let's be careful of what we wish . This is not 80s or 90s where the military held the ace. My prayers is that the handover will go on smoothly

Well determined hit squad would be on a suicide mission.

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Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous thing. We become too dependent on our woman for our happiness, and then if we get dumped, we find that we've all of a sudden lost our confidence. This results in being without sex for many months, until we finally get a girlfriend again, and... the cycle repeats.

So to break this cycle, we need to REMAIN the attractive guy, the alpha male.

You see, relationships can make us guys too lazy (since the sex is so easy) and we lose that "high value" mindset. It's crucial to keep that alpha male frame of mind that says, "I am like a Lamborghini."

Do Lamborghini dealerships grovel to try to get people to like them? Of course not. Instead they allow all the buyers to come to them. Hell, Lamborghini doesn't even advertise. As a man, you should have a similar confident mindset if you want to maximize the attraction your girlfriend feels for you.

So, how do you keep that alpha mindset? First and foremost, avoid chasing your girlfriend like a puppy dog. A basic concept which will prevent her from ever treating you badly is what I call Punishment and Reward.

If a woman engages in behavior which you disapprove of, punish her by withdrawing your time and focusing on something (or someone) else. If she does something you like (such as having sex with you), reward her by giving her more of your time, talking about her feelings, etc.

So whenever you do something nice for her, do it because you're rewarding her. And DO reward her good behavior, if you want more of it. Like I said, Punishment and Reward.

Then there's the issue of being a challenge. Women act sweet when you're a challenge to them. They act bitchy when they take you for granted and no longer feel like they need put out effort to win your affections.

Often by around month 6 in a relationship is when a woman really starts to take a guy for granted, so avoid that by remaining a challenge.

So the solution to remaining the attractive, alpha guy in your relationships is threefold:

1. Always be willing to focus your time on things other than your girlfriend. Don't reward her for acting bitchy by continuing to be around her when she does. On the other hand, too, reward her for good behavior by giving her more of your time when she acts sweet.

2. Always have it in the back of your mind that you could end the relationship at any time. Don't explicitly threaten her with that, but just make it a subtle implication. That way she'll never become truly comfortable with the relationship and will keep working to win you.

3. Always allow her to think that's she's just a little bit more interested in you than you are in her. Again, this can be very subtle, but if (for example) you're telling her 20 times a day that you love her, and she's only telling you that twice, then obviously the situation is badly out of whack.

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/am/notscrewup.htm

is it even possible to pour super glue into another container without it setting once in contact with the air ?

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

You are just afraid

You are afraid of not getting married and getting married, you are stuck in the middle and don't know what is best.

You have to realized getting married and not getting married both have their own consequences and risks before you can choose.

Marriage can destroy a life if you chose the wrong partner and not getting married also come with its own stigmatization and disdain in Nigerian society, it also mean you have consign yourself to the possibility of loneliness without any emotional support from a partner till you die, so think wisely before you choose.

It is both risky but that's life, it is left to you to decide what you can risk. If you want a good partner for marriage the question should be are you ready to be a good partner yourself ? List realistic expectations and qualities you want in a partner according to your own values, expectations and qualities and look for that in men that are interested in you and you are interested in.

I don't think it should be that difficult if you are ready to be a good girl but the problems with most girls like you is that you don't want to submit to a man and you hate the responsibilities that come with being a wife but you can't have it both ways. If you want to be married you must be ready for the responsibilities that comes with it or remain single forever without any responsibilities and face the consequences that come with it too alone.

Ogene001:
Ignorance. He is just an employee. Non executive own the company

You are really delusional, the ignorant one ranting ignorance.

Where in your screenshot did it say non executive members are also major shareholders ?

both the executives and non executives are representing the major shareholders.

Hellonearth:
Does Dangote involved in daily activities of Dangote group?

He is not on the management board.

If those guys were major shareholders their name would have been listed on the list of major shareholders and the amount of shares they owned like Aliko Dangote but they are only on the management board which mean they are only representing other major shareholders, use your brain.

Ogene001:
Non executive pass executive for company hierarchy. Do more research. The yoruba guy is just an employee, he owns nothing there

Non executive members also own nothing there, even your investopedia screenshot says they are only working for the major stake holders just like executive members.

Where in your screenshot did it say they are major stakeholders ?

Ogene001:
Ignorance? Non executives don't run the company but they are major stakeholders. The executive cadre are mere employee and that is what the Yoruba guys is. Non executive is higher than executives

You guys reason upside down

Both the executive and non executive members are only representing major shareholders.

If those guys were major shareholders their name would be listed among the list of major shareholders like Aliko Dangote but they are only listed among the management board.

Ogene001:
That is the non executive category

You are delusional lol

Just like executive members non executive are also representing the major shareholders.

Ogene001:
Ignorance? Non executives don't run the company but they are major stakeholders. The executive cadre are mere employee and that is what the Yoruba guys is. Non executive is higher than executives

Even that your screenshot called non executive members advisors lol

Who told you non executive members are major shareholders? non executive members are also like executive members, they are representing major shareholders.

Did you see their names on the list of major shareholders like Aliko Dangote and the amount of shares they owned ?

Having the power to make the overall decisions or the power to only give advise and suggestions and can't enforce any idea, who is more powerful according to logic ?

Who told you executive members don't have shares, both executives and non executives can also have shares but they may not be the major shareholders.

Ogene001:
Na you de get high BP as we expose your propaganda. No field where Igbos have not displaced you

You guys always act delusional.

There is only one Igbo on that list and he is a non executive member the Yoruba there is the real executive member with power so how the hell have you displaced Yoruba lol ?

Are you now claiming Dangote company because you have one guy as a non executive member on the board ? there must be something special in the water you guys drinks in the east to make you so delusional.

Ogene001:
I see Igbo names in the non executives yet yorubas are acting as if they now own Dangote to the exclusion of Igbos

There is only one Igbo on the list the rest are from South South they are even non executive which mean they don't have any power to make decisions they can only advise. The Yoruba guy there is the Chief Financial Officer with real executive power but Yoruba are not claiming Dangote company though

TundeBricklayer:
I mean those that own Dangote group

I see 1 Yoruba 2 Igbo and 1 guy from south south, even that guy that bear Ikazoboh could also have been from the South South, in fact all of them could have been from the south south.

Only the Yoruba guy have real power in the company as the Chief Financial Officer the rest are non executive which mean they can only give advice

If this is what you are trying to chest beat with ? then you score an own goal.

There is a great tragedy I have observed:

What I notice about guys is that being in love makes them want to be more submissive and feminine. It's not the being in love that hurts them — it is being submissive and feminine.

Now, with many of the guys at this site, they totally lose the ability to be in love, because they are trained on how bad oneitis is. (That is, obsessing over one particular girl.) But they misdirect their energy, and instead of trying to kill submissiveness and femininity as a whole, they end up killing off their emotions. As a result, they find that they can't be in love even when they WANT to be.

These guys associate falling in love with being a wuss and the disease known as oneitis. However, there's a huge contrast between a healthy, reciprocal love and a one-sided blind obsession that degenerates you into a clingy chump.

You wanna know how you know that you have a good mindset?

What should happen is that being in love with a girl should make you want to be more MASCULINE, be the leader, sweep her off her feet, and make sure she will never forget you.

I have found this happening to me with my girl, almost by accident. With my masculine nature taking over, I really have no need to remember excessive techniques. I can safely say that she is literally addicted to me.

Guys have a tendency to sort of become wusses when they are in love — losing masculinity.

However, women seem to become more feminine and submissive as well, meaning women are more in tune with their feminine nature than guys are with their masculine nature. Why does this happen?

Well, first off, the lack of worthwhile father figures in society is to blame. Nobody is teaching boys how to be men, nobody is teaching them how to be in tune with their masculine nature. Mothers, try as they might, cannot do so adequately, because they don't know HOW to teach masculine nature, because their nature is feminine. With more boys being taught how to love by their mothers, they pick up the feminine nature.

Girls, when they are very in love, still become more feminine (for the most part), obviously due to this mother nurture. Even with absence of mother figures, women love talking about feelings and guys, while guys don't really do much talking about women aside from terse comments and bragging.

Now for many pickup artists and Don Juans, they focus too hard on techniques and less on mindset. They will act masculine and leaderly for a while, but when they get into a long-term relationship is where they run into problems. They think, "Sweet, I got her to like me/sex me. Now I can show my real self, and stop worrying about all that crap I learned. It's too much WORK."

Ay, there's the rub.

Being a man should not be WORK.

Being a man should be FUN and should be effortless. Why worry about it? You should be masculine by nature and love what you do.

But the problem is that some guys never ingrain love emotions and romance with the newfound masculine techniques, and the techniques don't become mindset, they simply stay techniques. Love becomes the polar opposite of being a man, and they avoid it like the plague.

Or, they get into a long-term relationship, and they stop with the techniques, and instead start being their "true selves".

What happens?

They take off the pants in the relationship, their girlfriend puts the pants ON, and the guy gets dominated and dumped.

Women know that relationships have roles, they just won't admit it. And if you start trying to fill THEIR role, they will subconsciously start trying to fill YOUR role. And since it is not in their nature to do so, it will have less of a chance of lasting, and you can kiss the relationship BYE BYE.

How do natural males do it?

The dominant, masculine leader is WHO THEY ARE. It's not a front. It's not a fallacy. It's the real them. THEY ARE just being themselves. They can even be in love, and not get screwed over, cuz they are in touch with their nature as men, and love makes them want to be more masculine, and not more feminine.

This plays into romance too. Showering her with gifts, being her servant, whatever, is not real romance. It's a farce that's been sold to us in a brown bag with a bad label, and we bought it. Real romance is what sweeps her off her feet, takes her and shows you that world you can bring her into where she is being submissive and loving it.

The point here, folks, is that being this masculine lover who women associate with the prototypical "Latin Lover" and the romance novels they so love, is something that should not just be done in techniques. Ingrain it into your mindset, and you won't have to WORK at it, and grow embittered.

Instead, you will simply have to just be yourself. You can be satisfied and happy as a clam. And she can be just as satisfied and in love with you, as you are with her.

Don't cast off love and romance — Take It Back!

Make it what it is supposed to be, and embrace it.


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Shalommy:
Not funny at all. Disgusting.... Tueeehhh....

it is strange things like this that mostly turn women on, not all women though but most of them have strange tastes.

It wouldn't be strange to discovered that those women were wet down there, look at the happy smile on their faces, apparently they love being grope by unique creatures.

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If she is not ready to satisfy you sexually look for another girl, You are the man.

So some people really believe UK government wouldn't know Nigerians are using students Visa that way ?

They knew before they even created the opportunity in the first place.

"What do women want?" many men have wondered. Who knows. But figuring out what women want in men is crucial to becoming effective not only in dealing with women, but developing the kind of Dating Life you really want.

So what do women want from men? What traits do they look for? And why -- what's the reason behind it?

There are three specific traits. And naturally there are also three corresponding reasons why women want these traits in men.

Let's take some time to explore them in detail...

Ultimately, what women want in men is to have their needs and desires fulfilled. To understand what traits women look for in men, we have to understand just what those needs and desires are...

... and then we can make the connections to these character traits, and how you can develop them in yourself.

Need #1: Security. Women want to feel safe. In today's civilized world however, safety isn't really that big of an issue anymore.

Need #2: Pleasure. Women want to feel pure sensual stimulation. What do men talk about? Business, sports, and women. But what do women talk about? Sex, men, sex, relationships, and sex -- did I mention sex?

Need #3: Adventure. Women want to feel excitement and anticipation. They have a strong desire to trust in someone who will lead them into emotional charged experiences that they wouldn't have the courage to go alone.

Now, what you'll notice is that what women want in men are traits that allow her to experience the condition that meet her needs and desires...

... traits that give her these FEELINGS!

The 3 Traits Women Look For in a Man's Character

So what traits allow women to experience these feelings? This is the key to understanding what women look for in guys.

Here's what women want in men...

Trait #1: Loyalty. Loyalty allows a woman to feel safe. It gives her a sense of security.

Trait #2: Imagination. Imagination allows a woman to feel stimulated. It gives her a sense of pleasure.

Trait #3: Passion. Passion allows a woman to feel excitement. It gives her a sense of adventure.

Now, what you'll notice is that guys can be categorized by which trait is most dominant in them.

Nice Guys are loyal.

Smooth Guys are imaginative.

And Bad Guys are passionate.

We'll take a look at each man shortly, but before we do...

... what defines a man? Why do some have loyalty as their dominant trait while others have imagination -- or passion?

How Do You Develop Different Traits?

What defines a man's character? And why are certain traits dominant in some while suppressed in others? After all, different dominant traits attract very different responses from women.

Here's the secret...

It has to do with his views on risk. It's all in his ATTITUDE toward risk!

What you'll notice is that what defines each type of guy is how he approaches risk. And the key to figuring out what women want in men is to notice how different men respond to risk.

How a guy approaches risk is what defines him and his character.

So if you want to change your character, change your beliefs about what risk means to you.

Do you respond to risk with fear? That's an important question.

Ultimately, what women want in men are guys who respond to risk with courage -- not fear.

Now, let's take a closer look at each guy by paying attention to how he responds to risk, and the effect it has on women...

Trait #1: Nice Guys Have Loyalty

Nice Guys are your average guys. They tend to be passive.

There are a few guys that don't buy into it, but we're all raised to be Nice Guys. We're conditioned to become Nice Guys from day 1.

How do Nice Guys look at risk?

Nice Guys avoid risk at all costs. Risks scare them because they hate stepping outside of their comfort zones. They cling to what they know, and usually resist change.

Generally, they're closed-minded. They think they're always right... even though they may not voice that opinion. And it is this needing to be right that causes their fear of risk.

When it comes to their approach to women or dating, they rely on what they've been taught to believe their whole lives.

They try to BUY a woman's affection with free dinners, free drinks, free advice, free gifts, free favors, and free compliments

When you ask the Nice Guy for advice on dating, he says, "Be nice, and treat a woman with respect."

What he really means is, "Bend over backwards for women. Suck up to them. Disrespect yourself by going out of your way to please them. Be her slave and kiss her ass... and pray she gives you what you want."

They focus on women... on pleasing them.

What women want in men is SECURITY. And even though Nice Guys are the least successful with women, they do offer women security because they're LOYAL.

Women marry Nice Guys. That's it. Women SETTLE for Nice Guys when they've either run out of options, or are ready to 'settle down' because they know they can trust him to provide for her.

But in her eyes, he's just a friend... not really a lover.

And since, today, women have equal opportunities as men for seeking financial security, she can give herself the only thing Nice Guys have to offer.

Basically, women get together with Nice Guys out of laziness.

Trait #2: Smooth Guys Have Imagination

Smooth Guys are suave... or rather, they seem suave at first. They tend to be moody... one moment they may be passive, and the next, aggressive.

These are the people-pleasers. They're players, con-artists, and BSers.

Unlike the Nice Guys, they cannot be trusted. They're not loyal.

They tend to be guys who feel they need to compensate for their feelings of inferiority. So what you are actually seeing is always a clever disguise that covers their perceived weaknesses.

How do Smooth Guys look at risk?

Like Nice Guys, they don't like risk but they'll take it if they're promised a guarantee. They need reassurance that they won't fail. If they think they have a 'fail-safe', they'll take it.

What they want is to belong, and fit in. They're generally after winning people's approval. And that's why they need the guarantee.

When it comes to their approach to women or dating, they rely on techniques and seduction methods.

They try to convince or PERSUADE a woman into liking them with hypnosis, seduction, and techniques.

When you ask the Smooth Guy about dating advice, he says, "Use manipulation to seduce women."

What he's really saying is, "I don't feel that I deserve a woman for who I am. I'll sacrifice my own identity to feel close to someone. I'm that desperate for affection."

They focus on being validated by women... usually on sex, and their performance.

What women want in men is STIMULATION. Smooth Guys offer women stimulation because they are IMAGINATIVE. They're successful at bedding women and giving them sensual experiences.

Women sleep with Smooth Guys because they know there will be no strings attached... it's free sex. They know the guy won't pursue or judge them afterwards.

They're intimacy gadgets. Women use them to fill space.

Trait #3: Bad Guys Have Passion

Bad Guys are generally the rebels and jocks. Often, we know them as "that jerk", or "that asshole"... the "bad boy".

They tend to be highly aggressive.

Bad guys are very masculine. They have all the manly traits... but they are often very selfish and domineering.

Still, women go crazy for them because these guys usually don't look for approval from anyone... they're not out to please anyone.

How do Bad Guys look at risk?

They love risk! They often take risks for no other reason than because they enjoy it... to put themselves to the test.

When it comes to their approach to women or dating, they generally don't have one. They don't need an approach because there are always women pursuing them.

Women WIN them because Bad Guys don't care, and are unpredictable.

When you ask the Bad Guy about dating advice, he says, "Who cares!"

What he really means is, "I'm completely self-centered. I don't really care about anyone, but myself. I look out for me, but no one else -- oh yeah... I take what I want, when I want."

They focus on themselves... pleasing themselves, often at the expense of others.

What women want in men is ADVENTURE. Bad Guys offer women adventure because they're PASSIONATE. Women are attracted and become attached and addicted to these guys.

Women want these guys because they can't help it. It's in their nature. Bad Guys trigger high states of attraction in women and create intense emotions.

They're the guys women want to catch and tame. But Bad Guys refuse to be controlled, so it's always a losing battle.

Why Not Integrate and Balance All 3?

Then there are the guys who have all these traits integrated into their character in a balanced way.

They have integrity.

I call them the Cool Guys. They are the rare guys who have a healthy balance......

They are loyal, but they respect themselves. They are imaginative, but they don't use it to win people's approval but to pursue their dreams. And they are passionate, but they don't let it control them.

They're assertive and enthusiastic.

They have backbone unlike the Nice Guy, they're creative like the Smooth Guy, and they control their emotions... yet they respect others, unlike the Bad Guy.

A Cool Guy is the ideal guy... the guy that all women are secretly looking for -- not only in the short-term, but also in the long-term.

What women want in men, ultimately, is a man who has all these traits. A man who has integrity.

How do Cool Guys look at risk?

They also love risk! But they choose when they take a risk, and they place a purpose behind their risks. They take risks to better themselves, but not at the expense of others.

When it comes to their approach to women or dating, they decide to give women chances -- if they like what they see or experience.

Like Bad Guys, women WIN them, because Cool Guys are authentic, genuine, and real. They know what they want and pursue their ambitions, and they have high standards and expect the best.

When you ask the Cool Guy about dating advice, he says, "Live your life on your terms. Have an identity that belongs to you. Have ambition and create a World... and women will show-up and try to invite themselves in."

What he really means is, "Women are an addition to my life. They don't complete me, and I don't need them. But they definitely make it more fun."

Cool Guys offer women EVERYTHING! They are the best of all worlds.

This is the guy women will fight for! This is the trophy every woman wants to win.

He can be nice, he can be smooth, and he can be dangerous... but in a good way.

What women want in men is the character of a Cool Guy.


https://www.sosuave.com/articles/jj/womenwant.htm

Mynd44

So many men become criminals in Nigeria because of stupid motivation like this.

If you want to become a successful man do it for yourself and family, not because a woman left you or rejected you, that's a loser's mentality and sign of desperation and low self esteem, it mean you won't be happy in life without women's validations and approval.

If you are so successful women may still leave you, we put women on pedastal in this part of the world, women ain't shit learn how to live without them and you will have more peace in your life.

Most of the criminals in Nigeria today like ritualists, Yahoo boys, kidnappers, arm robbers, drug smugglers, cultists etc became a criminal because they are looking for women's validation and approval.

by The Unknown Don

A few days ago I turned 40 and tonight I was just thinking about past relationships... the things that went right, the things that went wrong, and the outright disasters.

A little background. I'm a reasonably well-off, college-educated white male, 6'0" in good shape. I've been married once for 5 years, divorced for 3. I went through my AFC (wussy) phase in my late teens, but I was fortunate enough to snap out of it by the time I was 20. From then on it was smooth sailing.

I've been reading many of the articles and message threads here. I agree with quite a bit, but I think there are some areas that need a little fleshing out and amplification. So I'd like to share some of my observations in no particular order:

1) No matter how good-looking a woman is, she will always become boring (particularly sexually) with time. The boredom accelerates if the relationship becomes domestic (living together, marriage, etc.).

2) Men remain in boring relationships out of sentimentality or financial convenience... but rarely fear.

3) Over the long run, the periods that men are without a partner and frustrated are generally happier than being stuck in a relationship which has lost its luster.

4) Women generally do the selecting in the earliest phases of a relationship. Once a woman has committed herself emotionally, the balance of power shifts to the man (assuming he has some degree of self-confidence).

5) Contrary to the myth that "looks don't matter" to women, physical attraction may be the primary and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is difficult to determine just what will be physically attractive to any particular female. Even though men also value looks, they are far more willing to initially compromise on looks in the pursuit of sex.

6) If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.

7) If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date.

Always pay attention to a woman's actions. If she says she likes you but will not respond to kissing or touching, then she doesn't like you. Move on immediately.

9) Just like there are many men who are simply assholes, the same goes for women. If a woman is rude or inconsiderate in the first few dates, move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.

10) Any strange psychological problems, drug problems or baggage... move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.

11) All women have the same body parts. Don't obsess over one particular female based on appearance. It's a waste of life.

12) The vast majority of men get rejected much more often than they seal the deal. If you are rejected you are simply shooting par. Relax.

13) Above all, women crave attention. Women want to date rock stars not because they find the man himself exciting, but because they find the thought of sharing the limelight exciting. Ask any young girl what she wants to be. Top answers: model, actress, singer.

14) The sad truth is that we can only truly know ourselves. A wonderful woman you marry today and trust completely may change radically over the course of time to become your most vicious enemy. There is absolutely no way to predict this or stop this from happening. It is, ultimately, a matter of chance.

15) There are far more available women out there than you think.

16) Humans are generally not very good at monogamy. Most men in long-term relationships cheat to varying degrees, and a great number of women do as well. It's simply a matter of biology. If you discover that your significant other had an affair, the best course of action may sometimes be to take the high road and let it go.

17) Never, never, never be afraid to approach a female. To reiterate: they all have the same body parts, and they are all composed of Carbon, Hydrogen, Oxygen, Nitrogen, and trace elements. There isn't a single woman on Earth who is "above" you, no matter what her affectations and social pretenses.

18) Women tend to be far more pragmatic about relationships than men.

19) Unconditional love is a nice sentiment, but does not generally apply to male/female relationships. It does however, almost always apply to female/child, and to a slightly lesser extent, male/child relationships.

20) Never become financially entangled with a female. If you decide to marry, do not even think of doing so without a prenuptial agreement. This is common practice in Europe, however there is still a social stigma attached to these agreements in the U.S.

21) Sex is generally overrated. The amount of effort expended in obtaining it vs. the payoff is absurd.

22) If a woman in a relationship begins to lose interest, it is usually impossible to regain it. The feelings you are having of confusion and fear mean something... trust your gut and move on immediately.

23) After breakups, men usually tend to forget about the sexual boredom and once again find their past girlfriends exciting.

24) If a woman has not gained some form of emotional stability by the time she is her mid-twenties, then it is too late. Move on immediately.

25) Avoid women with a large number of pets or women who pay unusual amounts of attention to their pets.

26) Most first-time marriages fail. Consider that if you decide to get married, there is better than a coin-flip chance that you will be divorced. If any other civil contract had as high a failure rate, Congress would outlaw it. The world has changed dramatically in the last three or four decades and many people have postponed marriage until much later in life, or simply never get married.

27) If you do decide to get married, remember that it IS a contract - one that you can't get out of without a great deal of expense and pain. Never be sentimental about marriage. Love is only one piece of the pie. You may love a woman terribly, but you may also be unable to deal with her in everyday affairs and money matters.

28) Avoid women with addictions, particularly the big three: nicotine, alcohol, and born-again Christianity.

29) Never avoid discussing something that bothers you out of fear of losing the relationship. Most relationships will - sooner or later - be lost anyway. It's better to stand up for yourself early on.

30) Always keep the ego in check. If a woman you are approaching for the first time is rude or obnoxious, simply go away. Tossing an insult or scathingly witty comment back simply demonstrates that your self-confidence is far lower than hers. Always, always, always take the higher road. This doesn't mean be a pushover, it means you bend with the wind (kind of a Zen thing). The best way to disarm an obnoxious female is to treat her with courtesy and respect.

31) There is an inverse relationship between self-confidence and concern with what others think of you.

32) Self-confident men desire sex, but don't dwell on it.

33) Most reasonable, normal women will make it clear if they are attracted to you or not very early on. Period. If you have difficulty reading a woman's motives, or find yourself dwelling on what she meant by something she said, or you can't seem to pin down a date, then move on immediately.

Hope this helps.

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/25years.htm

post=123287588:
Ibadan is an eyesore to Yorubaland

Ibadan is developing very fast

See the roads and trees, you would think it is Lagos



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzNjcpKjwXs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32VZT99kUQE

Reminderz:
Men who know their worth - Alpha/Sigma Men

Men who don't know their worth - Simps/Incels/manginas

she loves men who don't know their worth because they are the one that worship her smelly pus$$y and saggy boobs and also sponsor her fake life.. she knows a man of value won't patronise damaged goods...

That is the reason why most Nigerian women and women in general don't respect their partners.

On a subconscious level they know they have no other value if you remove the boob, booty, eyelashes etc and other fake things, so if a man suddenly fall in love with all that and started caring so much for them without them putting in the work to at least make him care they would think you are cheap without any worth and self esteem.

IamdbuII:
So I went to the mall swagged out and as usual the ladies were tripping, approached 3 ladies and they were so excited but to their surprise I didn't collect their numbers.


They kinda looked me pass in disappointment, omo I no get strength and money to chase women.

Drip still by

@maldives_island_collections

You should have collected their numbers, it wouldn't hurt to give it a try.

If you don't really care you wouldn't be so bother about how they felt when you left.

You also don't need that much to chase women as long as your confidence and game is sky high, just have fun as usual and don't be a simp, reject all unreasonable requests and requests you don't like, ignore girls that are not ready to play with you or girls that are disrespectful just have fun and look for something casual, don't be so fixated on a serious relationships and get tie down to a girl, play with them all and fun, who know maybe you will see a lucky girl that can get you serious.


You can hit on women without spending much effort on chasing them, which is even the most effective strategy.

I enjoy being alone more than going out but i also have the abilities to socialize whenever the need arises mostly for work, social gathering etc but not for making friends, i like protecting my space and boundaries too many fake people in Nigeria trying to rip you.

hope it won't require application and joining fees ? like typical scam

chymeze:
I chatted up a girl last week. The moment I said I liked her she started to bill me. I got so irritated that I cut her off. I never knew that this begging of a thing had degenerated to this point where a girl shamelessly asks you for money the moment you profess some form of like for her. I guess she realized her spontaneous stupidity and She has been sending me messages since then but I lost my appetite for her. I don't send her anymore.

I know Nigerian girls are too obsessive with money but most Nigerian guys game plan is also not helping matters and their game plan is too weak.

NIgerian guys like texting too much, stop wooing women online through text messages or telling them you like them through texts, say that physically to them to make better impact, it won't make any impact through WhatsApp or Facebook because there are many guys like you sending the same shits to them everyday, be unique and different.

Take them out on a date to get to know them because there is no way they will feel you and know they like you if you don't see each other physically, most guys hardly know about a girl before they start confessing they like her, Guys don't even care if they have any chemistry and compatibility before saying they like the girl which would make guys look desperate and when women believe you are just desperate for that coochie they would start thinking they can exploit you and start billing you.

At least don't be the one holding the flowers