₦airaland Forum

Tallesty1:
Not at all. It is also not a crime to go to your neighbor to borrow magi, salt, pepper, oil and even spoon.

There is no law against that but it is disrespectful

To ask for something is normal, to also refuse giving is normal...
But it's not normal to demand something in exchange...
But even if you still want to demand something in exchange, make it civil.. It's not normal Nd it's also morally wrong to demand sex in exchange

DyingFetus:
Na so your gei boss go talk say he wan knack you before helping you

Abi oo

talk2hb1:
I want us to be open minded here, because I am not supporting or justifying anything. I still get morale standard values.

@Puss360
Despite this is the basis of most marriage, you might not want to agree to this. A symbiotic relationship based on mutual understanding.

This is a simple demand and supply game, give me sex and I give you money.
She wants something he has, He has something she wanted; likewise He wants something she has, and he wants something she has.
She can decide to decline the offer and he too can decline the offer as well.

You are right about having your opinion...
But you see this sex related matter it's very delicate...
How on earth should a man open his mouth and say such??
It's even better let the woman seeking help says "She's ready to trade with sex" to get what she wants.. then we can conclude that she is desperate...
But on what grounds should a man demand sex before help?
If the man doesn't want to assist freely then he can make her sign an agreement...
But resorting to sex!!! It's a big NO

Tallesty1:
Emotional ambush is a childish way to win an argument like this one.

The dude is high on something; I don't know what, but your approach is terrible. If my wife needs something, she comes to me, and if I don't have it, then we sit down and figure out how to get it.

We have friends.

We have relatives.

A married person who goes to a male neighbor for financial help have other intentions. It is even disrespectful to her husband.

No matter what someone marital status is, the person isn't bigger than recieving financial assistance from another person..
So it's no crime let a married woman seeks financial help from a male other than her husband...

talented321:
Belle! You ask for assistance and he also ask for assistance(exercise), it's more like a balance game.. Remember everybody will not think alike. I don't hate people because they're in the best position to help me but they refuse..
It's your fuckin life and nobody is coming to save you, i'm talking from xperience..

Okay ooo..

talented321:
How responsible you are matters, if he happen to demand sex you let it slide because he is not your father and don't have any obligation for you...
How you live your life bring such situation' i help my neighbors and those who are not financial capable help me with physical power both men and women... it's life

Your first statement contradicts the second statement... at least in my opinion...
"How responsible you are matters" that's true but I can't ever "Let it slide" on matters that goes against morality...
How can a man demand sex before help? What rubbish.. He can as well say No he can't or he won't... But why bringing up sex issue?
Abeg o that's a line a man shouldn't cross...

emmabest2000:
Young man
Respect your old man and delete this thread,
If you have the money help your family
If you don't have the money, nobody will kill you, but don't ever called your old man names or disrespecting him in public like this

If you continue doing so
I assure you that your own kids will do to you whatever you did to your old man

Lol... what will happen if he calls him irresponsible?
With the look of things, is the father not irresponsible?
Or is it because he can father a son, that automatically means he can't be irresponsible?
Call a spade a spade don't sugarcoat it

IamKizzbrown10:
I don’t support sex for grade, sex for work, but I don’t
see anything wrong with sex for financial assistance
unless she is married.
Give him what you have and get the money you wanted or
rest, it is called trade by barter. If he didn’t ask for
anything in return, that’s fine and okay. Your luck.
Personally, I have never and I don’t think I will ask for sex
in return for anything. Woman nobi my problem. But some
men do and I don’t see anything wrong with that, besides
[/b]na their money and you are NOT entitled to it.[b]
If Mr A demand for sex in return and you cant meet his
demands, move to Mr B, C, D you will eventually find
someone who would assist without demanding for anything
in exchange.
May whatever you serve always lead you to the right
people.
Share your views and opinion

How will you feel when your wife is in dire need of something from your neighbour, and he says boldly to you wife that they must have sex if not he won't help.. How will u feel?
Now, how will you feel if your wife come back and tells you she has to do it with him coz you both needs the money.. then she still continue further, saying [/b]Na Him money and you both are NOT entitled to it[b]..
You all just come online to say anything you like to justify your immoral lifestyle

Lol... stop body shaming fat people...
What matters is if you are being taken care of properly by these nurses... And I'm sure it's mostly guys that will post Nd comments on such...
Everywhere dem go, dem wan collect contact of beautiful girls...
That's why dem wey vex say na fat nurses full hospital...
I thought you are sick? Wetin come concern you with the size of the nurse?
Or u dey hope say when you "well", you go like f1ck the nurse wey take care of you...
What if na from dat hospital bed you die nko??
Abi u no think dat one?

Some people will still hype these ones and even pray for their own grace

Dubetex96:
The way una take dey insult person for this forum is very bad .someone is seeking for advice and guidance but some people are busy shading him with despicable comments.

Noo.. it's normal .. You all can see that's majority of Nigerians are very uncultured and have no manners...

This is serious o...

BigBlackPreek:
e no konsign you fa

Wahala

Thundafireseun:
Try and read in between the lines

Don't read between the lines of someone statement....
Don't conclude from the actions of person...
Follow the words... Yes is yes... No is no...

Thanks anyway...
Happy Sunday to you

Thundafireseun:
Really … so you didn’t read where she said she was trying to make him feel comfortable??

Have you asked your self “HOW”

I read where she said she was trying to make him feel comfortable, but I DID NOT READ where she said she was intimate with him...

Thundafireseun:
Are you a virgin can be harmless or harmful depending on the trajectory of conversation.

That’s my point madam

Happy Sunday young lady

That you point is very derogatory... very very...
Sex is a private matter..
It shouldn't be up for discussion unless you both are intimate...
If you are not intimate, the response to "Are u a virgin" cannot add anything positive to your life... so it's unnecessary to ask it...
Next time, if u aren't intimate with a lady, then don't ask about her sexual life... e no concern you oooo

Happy Sunday Dear

BigBlackPreek:
your post made my day.... you're really a wise man talking from experiences.... I'm 31 and only care about older women and looking ➡ to settle down with one

Lol see who wan to settle down?

Thundafireseun:
Happy Sunday to you too

You are just avoiding my point deliberately

How was she trying to make him feel comfortable??

What were they discussing??

So when a girl offers a guy accomodation and says she will try and make him comfortable so automatically that translates to sex on a silver platter? Hey God....
So to you, if a girl says "Feel comfortable in my house", you'll remove clothes ready for sex...
This is serious oo...

Happy Sunday oo

bantilosha:
You're a very lazy woman

If u need house help as wife, surely you will get....
But my dear, I'm not a slave....

Thundafireseun:
You are a lady and I understand that you are trying your best to defend your fellow lady….

Because we were talking about health….

Do you think I should ask the doctor if he is HIV POSITIVE

When we were clearly talking about asthma

Even if you asked him of his status, that's okay... okay.. Ask a female doctor if she is a virgin?
As a man you have to be Very conscious of your actions and words in the presence of women to avoid issues of sexual molestation...

Happy Sunday

Thundafireseun:
Ewu lemme give you a perfect example…

Few years ago I went to the hospital and I met a doctor who discussed and explained asthma like never before…..

I was forced to ask him if he (doctor) was asthmatic

Was I been intrusive with my question??

That was on a question based on health.. and besides, it was medical...
On what ground should you ask someone if they have had d1ck in their puss?

Lol... Nigerian men are so bold when it comes to demanding sex or talking about sex....
To them, women are for sex nothing more...
To them, nothing good can come out of a woman except she spread her legs....
This guy's behaviour isn't new... it is everywhere in the country...
Morally depraved men left and right

GOFRONT:
At first, you chose to mind your bizness.

Later on, you chose to delve into their matter. Why didnt you continue minding your bizness??

People think by minding ones bizness, he/she is doing any good. You are causing more harm than good to yourself

It's not easy to mind your business when your own sister or brother is in a state of dilemma

wrongnumber:
Call the police cos a man asked in the course of conversation if a lady is a virgin.

There was a day I met a very beautiful lady and I asked her what my chances are on a scale of 1 to 10 if I woo her and she said ZERO, I told her that her response is very harsh and she said that's because she is a lesbian.

I now asked if she has ever been with a man and she just smiled and said NO.

I can tell you that this lady in question is most likely manipulative.

In the course of which discussion?? Were they discussing?

Thundafireseun:
Ewu Hausa

What if they were talking about porn??

Talking about porn? You see how u think? That shows there's nothing in your head to discuss with a girl except porn and sex...
Please my dear, try and make your life useful other than thinking about porn...

Nehyooh:
I never reprimand your point lady, I only quoted that "She should serve me" you said which I actually decided to cruise with .
Believe me, you're right with your analysis, but nothing is bad to make an attempt or even go greet her in the kitchen. It's called courtesy!
Be a good lady with positive characters and homely to your husband's family just as you claimed the guy's mother should be homely too

lol.. okay dear

Thundafireseun:
Like I said earlier there are 3 sides to every story

1… Her side
2… His side
3… The truth…
Ode please learn to read in between the lines…

We can’t be chatting about a movie for example… then from no where I ask you if you are a virgin….it doesn’t make sense

Except we were chatting about porn … then you shouldn’t feel bad if I ask if you are a virgin

I know you still won’t comprehend my point ODE

Since there aren't dating or in love, then he has no right to ask if she is a virgin!!
That's like crossing the line....
Infact to me that's molestation sef...
Rubbish guy....
Someone offered you accomodation, instead of thinking of ways to show your appreciation, you are asking her if d1ck don enter her veejay...

Ode

The6thAustralia:
Sex is normal and infact its not a strange factor... It's funny people believe whatever they read on the internet

Sex is normal to those who consent it... rape or sexual molestation is not normal...
Don't support immorality

Thundafireseun:
Very simple question

Yes I’m a virgin…. No I’m not a virgin

You didn’t tell us how you were trying to make him feel comfortable… buh you rushed to social media to tell us the part where he asked about your sexuality

Fear daughter’s of EVE

something is wrong with your brain...
Why asking a so personal question?
What is his business if she is a virgin or not?
The girl even tried to kick him out .. she would have called the police on him...
Pervert everywhere including you supporting him ...

Nehyooh:
I agreed that the lady was a visitor. But why will his mother be the one that'll serve her? The guy can bring the meal to the dining after his mother might have dished it.

Listen, if the lady was his boss at work, will she serve herself??
As long as she is coming to his house for the first time, the mother (who is the manager of the house), should serve and take care of their visitor...
That also shows how homely she is welcome to the guy's home...
Then on her second coming, then she can feel at home and settle well...
As a guy, try and allocate some modicum of respect to your intended...

Nehyooh:
"She should cook and serve me" Can you imagine!

Yes... As visitor... You all want your girlfriend to be slaves in your house...
First time coming to the guy's place she should be treated as a visitor!!

In as much as I am the girlfriend of her son, to her, I am a visitor, coming to her house for the first time... she should cook and serve me....
Then we talk Nd familiarise ourselves...
On my next coming, I can then see if I can assist her in doing anything I can do