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Filashade:
Ahhhhh please oo ask me.

I dont even know sef.

I always ask myself that question since I was 9 (because I see all my relatives cheating and it now a norm for me). But at that age I said to myself "At least my dad is not like them. He is a faithful husband and a good father and i hope to marry a man like him one day"

Fore where?

Ehhnnnn. Never. I wish I had a soap to wash out my mouth.

If I knew what I know now, ahhhh.

Whats funny is that my mum said it is normal for a man to cheat that she is not suprised. There is nothing women or anybody can do about it, you will die and it will still continue.

I cant believe she would say that.

So sad man. We just have to pray that such things never cross our path. That God sends us a good person because with the way our world is turning into, I dont even know. All i know is the world has come to and end.

Lol to an end indeed. I don't believe it's normal with every Man, but the truth is that such man will tell you tells in their own precise way to why they go polygamy. Some will say the woman don't know how to take good care of her self to kind of look attractive for him..lol. Others excuses could be that she nags alot. Seriously, i'll never Love to have a woman that nags like crazy lolz.

Filashade:
Ahh brossss. Take am easy ehhhn.

I dont see anything wrong with spying on your partners phone. If they dont have nothing to hide then they should be able to give you their phone easily.

I had this issue with my ex, he was Jamaican and half portuguese (I should have stayed clear but anyways). This guy whenever I ask to see his phone or rather just recently two phones, this mumu just dey lie they tell me sey him no know which phone him they use and he was just fiddling with his phone(s) and doing all sorts and i knew what he was doing. He is one of those guys who flirt a lot with ladies and am so serious and I also knew he had a girlfriend which he has been claiming is his ex who is pyscho, so many things happened that whenver I see him (we work in the same company but different departments) my body just they boil. I have never hated anybody so much in my life. I willingly used to give him my phone without even complaining at all coz am a faithful person and he just never lets me even touch his phone. I should have known better.

I ended up meeting my current partner a month right after I broke up with my ex. I am still watching but he hasnt given me any concern so far but we will see.

Sorry i went off there into lala land but I know how you feel. I feel your pain.

Just take things easy and dont fall in love easily as that would hurt you even more. Men and Women of nowaday are becomign way to smart and sneaky. Just be careful.

Stay Blessed

lol..believe me i never suspected any fishy deals surrounding my ex, This very experience with her were she happens to be my very first love, and a cheat with my snake of a friend has affected how i relate with people. I can't help it, i no longer trust any one, any more. In a nut shell, i've learn my lessons the hard way. She was like a green snake under a green grass, pretending to be there for me alone, which was a hoax. Infact, i was just foolish to have over trusted her. Thats a sad one with your ex as well, am happy you moved on. By the way, thanks alot for the encouraging words..

Filashade:
Thank you ooo. I hope he doesnt because my dad is cheating on my mum as we speak but that is a story for another day.

If any man tries that rubbish.

Somebody will die on that day and it sure will not be me.

Lol.. You sound kind of funny about it, sorry about your mum, i did laugh over how you put the dead part.
But for real, i can't say why some men do that, is it that, the lady who once was the said, "love of his life" has changed from the norm or he's the one who has changed, there by creating the path way to cheat?? Or both parties were just not meant for each other but some how along the line decide to leave together as a married couple!

junketer:
which national carrier are you talking about? Do we have nigerian airways? Is it arik you want me to use? I tried the patriotic route with arik and the experience made me decide never to use arik again. Being someone who doesn't like flying, i prefer ethiopian because it flies direct to enugu which allows me to take the 45 minutes drive down to awka instead of landing in lagos and then waste a whole day in lagos traffic and then another 8 to 10 hours driving to the east. Abeg free me. Even if nigeria had a national carrier, i no go enter. I still value my life.

ah oga you're very free to fly oo..lol. Ok, i now get it, you only have an airport in place but no any National carrier to call your own as Nation from the lady minister of airport constructions? Its like having a beautiful Nigerian Bus stop with no Nigerian Buses available on the road but many Ghanian ones to take you on a tour around the country and beyond.. Asking me if we have a carrier should have being a question for the then Lady of airport wonders who have giving you beautiful Airports across the nation but no single carrier to complete the puzzle. Well, i concur ..

So keep patronizing Ethiopian Carrier for it's 100% safety, and since our prayers as a nation is not to have one of our own then we should keep praying for the worse.

Filashade:
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

Oga? Why are u talking like this na?

Just because our backward continent accept polygamy we the women should now accept it abi?

I pity you. When you have your own daughter (if you havent already) go and tell her say "If your husband is banging another woman, please just accept it, Polygamy is not illegal in a normal African culture".

How can such rubbish come out from your mouth, nko?

This is why Nigeria is like this. I am not suprised since my Dad who I looked up to from the day I was born could do such a thing so I am not surprised.

Is okay, I just feel sorry for all the innocent women who will be affected by such nonsense, all the deadly diseases, ahhhhhh.

Is okay. Continue. Its ur life.

Babe no vex, some men are just he-goats. I believe your Man will never cheat with another lady.

germainediva:
D only tin I like is d penis............if not I no nid man at all dem wahala too much

i no fit laugh sef

When did this Madam allow Jesus to take the wheel in her life when its a facts she has being taking a ride with S...an! Oya fill in the blank space, no be me talk that one o. The little princess dey cute no part two.

emmasege:
I'm not an IPOB, at least you can deduce that from my profile name. Please, let's give it to a performer when we see one. That woman did her best in the aviation sector and I can't think if any minister or regime that outperformed Stella and GEJ in the aviation sector since 1999. All we had before them was bogus amounts of funds allocated to the sector with nothing to show for it @ the end of the day. Funds could've been looted through airport remodelling they embarked on as well, which is typical of politicians of all divides (current regime inclusive) anyway, but then they had deliverables at the end of the day.

They couldnt have done it all. Let the current government continue from where they stopped, including the floating of a national carrier. That's how nations and economies grow, not by perpetually dwelling on past failures and apportioning blames.

I never made mention of you being an IPOB, rather you brought it up. Well, about stella's indeed she did a great job with the Nigerian Airports which were fix with the Nigerian Economy i'll say was ok, but i still stand on what i said before now which is on "patronage" which you sound proud of Ethiopian air and that is simply because some one with the responsibility fails to do what is right. Yes, we now have better airports than what was almost like that inherited from our colonial masters but fail to fix our National carrier. It's a thing of pride for a nation to have in place it's very own National Carrier. Which nation will have beautiful Airports with out a National carrier to its credit?

The survey should serve as an eye opener for city planners else were in the country, to first consider heavy traffic as to when a city progresses into the future high population raise is possible and associated with heavy traffic hold ups if measures were not taking in planning what the population of a city should look like.

Building vehicular roads with more lanes than what we have in Lagos in other Nigerian Cities will help reduce this kind of daily hold-ups on our roads. China with the number one highest population on planet earth, has at one time had the longest know traffic hole up in history that lasted for days. And yet they built better bigger roads than even those found in many cities around the world for its many lanes.

The funny thing surrounding this survey is that, just as all other surveys that only remain on paper, our govermenet will rather love to remain in the mungo park era of planning our cities and future when it comes to future plans, it is only in Africa were you see modern cities with narrow lanes as roads simply because some one somewhere wants to pocket project money for himself and family in a swiss bank Account.

junketer:
True. Anytime i visit nigeria now i land at enugu airport. I now boycott lagos. Last time i landed in lagos, i was stuck in traffic for hours. Everywhere na hold up. I pity people that live in lagos. Thank God for stella oduah for giving us enugu international. Ethiopian air all the way.

But she failed to encourage you and all other Nigerian to patronise a made in Nigeria "National Carrier" cos the last time i Check we have fail as a Nation, now our air space is flooded with foreign airplanes. Even with the recession many are closing shop on us. No wonder you love Ethiopian air.

braithwaite:


Human are capable of anything regardless of their belief.. and this doesn't prove atheist are violent than the religious folks

It do not indicates that Atheist are by far saints in the making because they hate God, but just a bunch who do not want to admit they are bound to the same human nature full of the tendency to do every thing Wrong ( sin ), eg killing a fellow man for no just reason which they try force on people with religion. And as they keep pointing fingers on religious people for every atrocities, they should now understand that history has records of all they do as four fingers not one, are directly on them.

Hmmmm this man? Na serious womanizer una dey see so.

Too much talk, drop something make we see jor

I believe our African politicians and all those beauty pageant organizers think with their *Anus* while they keep their brains in their asss, if not, we're yet to see were they encourage school students across Africa to do something reasonable. No single first class students will be giving such Amount of Money rather, for being a pretty damsel you get N11 million naira just like that! *crazy*

Will also start up a great blog that will rock the internet.. Time will tell.

Hmmmm! na politician? He's just Celebrating how the state's money will be in his pocket soon. No be today.

Killing of a Boy or Boy-Man?

Well, by the time the senators stop their own jungle justice in the house were they sometimes rumble into shameful acts of fighting one another on national and International TV, then the citizenry alike will learn from their new ways.

MyGeneration:
So u re saying its ok for Nigeria to import beef since the fulani herdsmen we know in the south hv been a torn in the flesh?
After all we can get cows from anywhere?

Go and do your homework, Beef has being imported into the country since time in memorial not all the cows you see in the market are from Nigeria Many come from Chard and Niger republic.
Back to the topic of discussion, the Militants focus on destroying pipelines supplying most of the gas power plants sending millions into darkness for no just reason. And if some states are thinking of going into renewable energy it is a welcome development were they do not have to remain in darkness at ransome simply because some one is not happy some were.