₦airaland Forum

oz4real83:
The victims of bad govt are being denied visas, with more plans to deny them visas, while the corrupt perpetuators of bad govt, murderers and thieves don't encounter any form of obstacles when looking for visas. We have never heard that the families of Abacha, Buhari, Obj, Babangida, Atiku and others have been denied visas at any point in time .

isan:
What if he says I'm a winner or redeemer? They would have robbed him ? All of una dey mad

OkCornel:
Lori iro

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring

These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.

My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.

Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.

However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.

Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).

You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.

Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?

Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0EAepNI9nK/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Jennyclay:
No matter how desperate I’m to get married, I can’t allow a man try this tech wedding with me . Whether it’s introduction, traditional, court or white wedding, I can never allow it.

Tech wedding is so boring .

The world world must see me dancing and celebrating my wedding with my man together while holding hands!

chucks185:
don't waste time on women they ain't worth it

ednut1:
Agents deceived many of them with you can convert visit visa to work visa package.

Davicl:
Ok..... I'm waiting for iphone 20

Eriokanmi:
Dey deceive yourself and be using lies to advertise CNG . Is it not same Akure i know? Did you pass through ilesha-Ife highway at all? If I could try it on generator and there was no significant difference, I wonder how it could work on automobile. When the cng was first being over-hyped here. I tackled the OP. Later when some Nigerians got carborateur and tried to convert their petrol gen to cng, they dropped the idea and kept silent.

Even in the USA, the country we used to copy in everything, there are barely 2,000 cng refuelling stations there. Today, petrol and diesel remain efficient means of powering automobile engines. Any Nigerian who falls for this lie the way they fell for the generator would only throw away money once again.

FuckingMachine:
You really believe that's the price then you're dumber than a doornail.

We4all:
All of you that are waiting for her to leave Davido should continue dreaming about it because it won't happen.

You can't have all these wealth surrounding you and think of going anywhere.

Although, I have never been a fan of t-shirts and sneakers combo, I must confess that she rocked hers well and it looks very good on her.

On a different note, I think all these western designers are ripping people of their money. What makes that t-shirt or sneakers unique that will make one buy it at such an exorbitant cost?

Dareal90s:
If you say you are dead then you are dead, Oladips is dead.

immortalcrown:
The inclusion of Ola Dip is funny 🤣

It serves him right. Not everyone gets away with stupidity. If Ola's father was that of Mohbad, Ola would have been quickly buried alive in an under-sized casket at night.

Jahwinaboy:
Not all are true. Some are based on those olden days habits. Besides, a huge number of us from 90s backwards had similar backgrounds. How many rich families were there in the 80s,70s, 50s? You are indirectly mocking us all including yourself because either u, your family or grandparents were once poor. Even CR7, Mane, etc acknowledge they came from poor backgrounds but look at them now. RUBBISH POST

Boyooosa:
All makes sense but item 2, how do you determine best part of a meal?

FuckingMachine:
7. Entitlement mentality

People born in poor homes usually believe that they are entitled to the money and possessions of the affluent ones around them.


8. Lack of Appreciation

Poor people are usually ungrateful and can go to the extent of blaming their benefactor for their woes even when they were miserable long before he/she came around.


9. Belief in Juju

Poor people relate every single positive/negative occurrence to the spiritual. They also believe success is attained by juju because they were born into a home where nothing big happened no matter the level of effort put in.


10. Competition

Poor people are highly competitive. This is because they are easily intimidated by everything. A neighbour laughing in his apartment can cause poor people to bring 3 of their lousy friends to disturb the vicinity the next day. A neighbour bringing home a chick for the night can lead to poor man bringing 3 dirty skanks for the next 3 days. The worst is you having anything they don't have. Poor people can compete against a 5KVA generator with an I Pass My Neighbour or their hire purchase Keke Marwa against a 4Runner jeep. When poor people can no longer compete they resort to gossip to try and destroy the reputation of the person they lost to.


Before you fear women, fear poor people.

Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh

Natbrowny:
Alaye is already getting the pussy elsewhere. He's just trying to make moves coz he knws u'll decline.

If he doesn't ask for it. You'll suspect.

Sharp guy

englishmart:
Remi Tunubu once said her husband is not running for president because of our money. She said they have enough money already

Ff to 2 minutes after inauguration, the brown-toothed addicted druggist proposes 5 billion for Yacht, 1.5 billion for an unconstitutional first lady's cars.
What will then happen if they came for the money?

The same story is playing out in Osun state.
The richer they are, the more they're likely to steal.

I don't blame them, I blame the incredibly docile Nigerians with never-elapsing elasticity

Amotolongbo:
is Ogun state a city?

@ topic I guess Ibadan;
1. University of Ibadan,
2. Dominion University,
3. Dominican University,
4. Kola-Daisi University,
5. Lead City University,
6. Precious Conerstone University,
7. Technical University

Some people don’t even know the difference between a university and polytechnic apart from not being able to differentiate a City from a State

Atarakpa:
I want to know who do the counting. One idiot will wake up one morning and give ridiculous number and we accept it as true

atobs4real:
Na waooo.
On top wetin.
The shirt get life support and AC?

KwuoteYourFada:


Are they allowed to forge their certificate?

Tochi3:


..he is also saying that Students will enrol & graduate 4 years before the school is even open

...a useless certificate forger with a badge of irreparable damage on his existence

psucc:
Many are already at home.

englishmart:
Nigeria is rigged, and there's nothing we cowards can do about it.

thesicilian:
First you list your wife as your sister.
Then you get married to a foreigner, get citizenship and divorce just a few years after.
Then you bring back your Nigerian wife (whom you previously listed as your sister!) to the same country, while allowing her to attach her original marriage certificate.


How can a professor of Economics be thinking like an uneducated bricklayer?

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Paystack my niggar

Only real football glambers can relate

DyshApp:
Former Chelsea star, Mikel Obi, has stirred reactions online following an attack against demanding family members that act entitled.

In an interview with fellow football player Rio Ferdinand, the former captain of the Super Eagles bemoaned the fact that, in Africa, families frequently have the right to inherit an individual’s wealth.

Video:

When u make it in the game…. Beware! 🧨💰👀 pic.twitter.com/Xv04xpywsp

— Rio Ferdinand (@rioferdy5) November 16, 2023

According to him, when an African person gets money, many cousins and relatives start to make demands, and some of sisters married men who just wanted to related to him because of his status.

The football player said that he sometimes had to be tough and set aside his personal demands since these people have so many children and need him to take care of them.

Mikel Obi stated that these extended family members believe he owes them money and threaten to go to the press if he refuses. It is prevalent in Africa, according to the football player.

In his words;

“When you come from Africa, when you make money, it’s not your money. You have all these relatives, cousins, and your sisters go off and get married to some guy who just wants to get married into Mikel John Obi’s family because his life is sorted, and then you start looking after this guy, and before you know it, they keep having so many kids and you look at it like,

‘Okay, you’re having this many kids, who are going to look after them?’ It’s you! It’s the culture because, for them, you owe them that, so sometimes you have to be strong and say, ‘You know what, guys, enough is enough; I don’t care’. They give you this thing whereby ‘if you don’t do it, we’re going to go to the press’. After all, what have I done for you guys? But this happens a lot in Africa. Not everybody comes out and speaks about it.”

Is this true😂

Follow up with more Relationship Topic on Relationship Talk Loung(link)

Zonefree:
Who are these people?

mascot87:
The secret of loan shark is very simple.
Before you borrow money from any loan app company, MAKE SURE you take off all your phone contact and store them in a different phone. Make sure you have FAKE contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app.
Make sure you have fake phone contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app

Make sure you have fake phone contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app

Please take that information seriously.
Don't keep your original contacts on that phone you are installing that loan app.
That's is the only way they can blackmail you.
A word is enough for the wise

nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.

For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.

The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.

Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.

Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.

Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother.