₦airaland Forum

Raydos:
As I see say Dem clear my 4k debt

Me I don sharperly borrow another 5gb data

yrhuhfy113:
wow, awesome... you are right and have a strong point
A very compeling piece of idea about Nigerian men... sadly its true but wholistically its myopic.


I am not here to make a CASE for men... i acknowledge your expressed thoughts as reality but as INCOMPLETE.

SEE, MEN ARE NOT LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY... We are only LOVED BY MERIT, RAISED AS HUNTERS TO COMPETE AND PROVIDE else we are not competent.

THE THINGS YOU MENTION WE LACK ARE ACTUALLY NOT LACKING BUT SURPRESSED BY THE HARSH REALITIES OF LIFE WE HAVE LIVED THROUGH....


Let me explain... EVEN on the case of wooing or getting a LADY for sex or marriage... LADIES GENERALLY FEEL SAFER WITH A RICH DUDE, THAN A CARING, EMPATHETIC S.O.B. Whyyy because the COUNTRY IS HARD.... and Ladies think of the FUTURE ALOT.
So after being drilled by our parents to always COME FIRST IN CLASS, and being punished for not coming first or not outdoing others.... we now enter a tetiary institution where only the BEST GRADUANDS are assured of jobs or connections... so we have to compete, hustle for money and do everything possible to be among those who thrive or survive.. AFTER YEARS OF LIVING AS A SURVIVOR.... we now marry, with HOOOOOGEE responsibilities, wife and kids... most likely WIFE HAS NOTHING DOING OR EARNS LITTLE YET FEELS ENTITLED TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN.... Then we should let down our GUARD and still be as caring, as emotionally sensitive, as all that you women want us to be??
C'mon sis... YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL.

Marry unambitious men from other countries who are not living in the same terrible conditions we have had in NIGERIA... they have emotions to spare, because THEIR FINANCIAL SYSTEM WORKS and is DEPENDABLE... not here. So you can't come here and GENERALIZE, when majority of your GENDER.... WILL CHOOSE SIX CARS OVER SIX PACKS. Pls... have some balance.

Little wonder why MEN are no longer interested in MARRIAGE... because it has become like an orphanage, so baby mama is now what many opt for, so as to retain their freedom. Ladies wanting EVERYTHING yet offering so little JUST BECAUSE THEY EXIST, is the highest form of lowkey witchcraft ever.

ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME..... MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE..... BUT MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO ALL.

Aremwayne:
Till now we haven’t seen any development from this man.

Kukutente23:
You dropped your brain before making this comment

Skyview01:
Prayer can all things.

Just take the micro-pe**nis to God in prayer and tell him you need 10 inches.

RepoMan007:
Maybe there should be penis measurement agencies that measure penis and alert people of unusual size or create awareness for penis size plaque.

Mokason288:

Ay Chevron

Nah man you be ….

You deserve to be president of Nigeria

CoronaVirusPro:
Let me tell you the bitter truth!

Don`t leave without your family!

With a visitor`s visa is a no no. That route is unpredictable and comes with different unplanned circumstances. You could get stuck for longer than you expected, and your wife and kids would lose patience, if not forget you.

If you want to embark on such route, move wit your family so you can be mentally stable.

Don't let anyone sweet talk you about how easy you could legalize your stay, it is an unpredictable route

ojun50:
My guy
Stay back, invest in you yr business.


No ask me for reason

Reminderz:
confidently living off a man without planning to marry him, to them it's cruise because that's how they were trained to become... like mother like children.. you see why I don't pity these modern girls when they get served hot? they are nothing but parasites... they date the yahoo guys because of what he has so they can leech off him not because they love him, I don't pity them one bit when they have their head cut off for rituals... so he was older than you and you didn't tell him straight yet, you kept leading him on and eating his stuffs with your mother? I don't even know who's to blame whether it's the simp or the greedy fools..

I know the simp man would have moved heaven and earth for them not believing that he was just a fool in the game of the mother and daughter...someone who has been in the relationship game for long would have known that he's just getting played all this while but a simp and a resources are soon parted..

now if the daughter ends up with someone that doesn't give a fvck later in life or doesn't find a partner, they blame it on spirits not blaming it on how they played good men in the past...

Optimum2023:
Not news. Reminds us of those COVID-19 days when the CDC would reel out daily number of infections, deaths and recoveries. At a point, we all got used to it and stopped caring because it became part of normal life. It was expected.

rinzaugustine:
Peter Obi is an exceptional human being. I can’t even believe a man like him joined Nigeria politics Nobody have ever inspired me more than Peter Obi. He took Labor party from obscurity to national limelight within six months and never spent shishi, or government funds or donation, something no Nigerian living or dead had ever done! I sometimes go back to his speeches and play it most of the time. I have his potriat in my house. The man is a genius and would have made a big change in this 6 months the incompetent mandate thief is wandering around like a lost baby…a new Nigeria is possible with Peter Obi

Cromagnon:
99% of Nigerians cannot boat of 500k oga

culcat:
Oga, tell us the truth

Focusmind:
Nigerians and their format.......Nothing to blame on the immigration officer doing her job. You lied that You were coming on vacation with a heavily pregnant wife.... the truth is that they were coming to give birth. All these bullshit that there was no good hospital back home to take care of the " high risk " pregnancy na just format. Oyibo woman don decode their intention and my guy still dey yarn.

Kenn55:
The lie is obvious so he shouldn't blame the immigration officer or push this racism narrative.
You are going for vacation in November when winter is almost set with a heavily pregnant wife about to deliver. Haba naa. I think he should have just opened up

Alvin212:
I know the one on red shirt


He's Ajibola from Ogun state

A rice bandit
Plantain thief

Ajibola can steal anything stealable

epondudu:
Big boy for day thief for night.

Omoawoke2:
When people say japa.
Do you mean just packing your load to enter a country you see white skin people without any agenda or plan for what you hope to achieve there?

Nicoddemus:
No body should listen to op o. His japa money is almost complete

Offpoint1:
You don see any big man wey wan japa? na we the poor masses wan JAPA. Richmen na vacation dem dey go, highest 1 month, I know some wey no fit spend 2 weeks outside Nigeria.

Japa is for broke or average people.


Nothing go make me wan japa leave my papa land, land of many wereys, land of cruise, land of fun, land of better food, land of women with big bakasi. Land wey if your maggi finish you fit knock neigbor door borrow, land wey I fit comot my prick piss beside person car , land of freedom.

Naija na dey best country for this world, Nigerians no get wahala and dem dey look out for each other.

NAIJA FOR LIFE

Jestin:
Long overdue. Shut down the country

Tjra:
Fraud money makes you restless.

The thing go dey push you to show-off. It largely stems from low self-esteem though.

jackie111:
Hushpuppy no go like this kind news

Hollyharjii:
Imagine a well to do someone still living with his mum, and Nigerians who just graduate will want to leave his/her parent's house

stano2:
Greedy peeps, they would have done better with no trace

ganisucks:
I just love President Tinubu. He meets with his allies and together they make plans on how best to punish Nigerians. God help Nigerians when Tinubu meets his detractors.

taylor89:
Tinubu good evening ooo





Typing from Chicago university computer center





Certificate forging maggot





What a president can do an ordinary citizen can do better




Nmesoma is the only girl that saw the future




Imagine last week a UNIZIK lecturer caught with fake certificates was boldly saying he’s not the first Nigerian to forge his certificate and got away with it




E remain small make the lecturer mention Chicago

SeeWahala:
Hehehe, shebi the youths talk say dem no wan protest the daylight robbery wey happen for aso rock say na mohbad case na him dey pepper their body pass, well . . .

200% increase in school fees loading

All of una go smell the coffee eat the beans

kenbee:
Congrats to him but ...
When is Guinness book of Records going to give Nigeria citizens the award of longest endurance from Greedy and Clueless leaders?

dalebrown:
Who go hold the remote? 🤔

What if one wants the AC on and the other wants it off 🤔

oglalasioux:
Women see sex as a commodity. They give it to the person that pays.