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Wow!! She really look great for her age

Sugarhugs:
90% of foreign girls all wanna be slim that's why you see they work out a lot in the gym its not here that slim girls aren't found attractive. There, they are hit cakes. Like seriously.

Even at that, I don't think any right thinking person will want to look like that bone I just saw...

Most comment here fail to see the bigger picture here, the future. There's nothing wrong in being with a broke guy who is ambitious, you don't look at the present picture of his brokenness but the future so long as you love him. The op guy is broke and worse still not ambitious. He's not eager nor willing to change his status quo, he's comfortable in his little world and like the op said, the future is not looking bright..

Well I won't ask you to leave him, but I will advise you not to marry bcz of money. Forget that " the love will come latter" in most cases it doesn't. Being with someone you have no feelings for can be very frustrating..

I will advice you focus less on the marriage and more on your self, on getting a job or business.

TheRealestGuy:
Lol. Okay love.

I'm quite adept at taking guesses

I'm not from enugu by the way... that was just a wild guess...

Hope you had a great day...

You were able to guess right cz of my initial comment... Am great though..

TheRealestGuy:
You're from enugu most def.

Udi, nkanu or nsukka?

Which one?

Udi..

Where are their face? And who's brides daughter?

andyanders:
You have told her the bitter truth. That marriage cannot work out if she forces herself to it. She cannot marry out of sympathy.Either she take your advise or to go ahead with her wish.

I do not wish her bad but come tomorrow, she will be here again crying over an abusive marriage.Hence there is no love, anger could set in and the guy would end up using her the way he wants.

My dear.. It's a very bitter and painful truth. I wonder why she's feeling reluctant to call off the wedding when her dad is/will not be there when she's being abused and treated like thrash.. If she calls of the wedding the guy will at least see her with some respect and not one desperate chick who want to tie him down with pregnancy.. Cz that's what I see too. If you want to be treated nice you have to earn it true your actions and not force your self on someone who doesn't want you.. You don't force love/marriage if it's not working, get out of it with your head high.

Maaamaaa:
Okay MA. I'll tell him about the ante-natal but I don't to call off the wedding if not he will use it against me to my parents and his parents. I want to focus on me and my baby and let him decide for himself what he wants.

No honey.. Call off the wedding your self and stand by your decision until d baby is born. Only you can decide how you want to be treated..

UncutSk:
am ibo they do tho, have you attended a trad marriage, tho a Nigga got to boycott some

Hmm!!! Unless in IMO state. In my place everything is not even up to 200k that's even bcz of recession o..

Op you can lie ehh!! Which place in Igbo demands such

The problem lies with the admired and not the admirers. If you allow it get into your head, you will be doomed. Take compliments, appreciate but still see your self as normal, as being on the average side. That way, you will be able to think with your brain and not your beauty and figure..... Garit

Did he marry the wives today or were they married before the coronation?

Am confused here, someone help me out.

I love her hair style

You are obviously fu*king girls with yeast infection who doesn't know how to stay neat, same applies to those of you who agree with him.

Fu!ck a clean babe who knows how to take care of her self very well and you will swallow the pussy juice without knowing....

No pictures?

The stomach is scary. Women are really trying.

Well done mr hope she was worth the.... you know....

alatbaba1:
Why do we like acting God? Don't we have parent with AA blood group and still have children with health issues? Health issue belongs to God. Let God take charge of that.

About the mod's. No. Mind dem. Na so dem dey do

Unavoidable health issues, This one can be avoided. I don't act God and I also do not tempt him.

alatbaba1:
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Your parents are dam sooo lucky. Op do not try this, luck may not be on your side.

Like someone rightly said " it's nature playing probability selection" you don't wanna raise a family on that.

This is the reason everyone is suppose to know their blood group. Incase you come across that person you will like to build a home with. There's nothing wrong in asking someone about his/her BG before falling deep in to d r/ship. It goes a long way in saving emotional pain.


Btw! Who's the mod that banned me this is the second time am banned since I joined Nl. Come and tell me what I did cz there was nothing wrong in what I said.

You banned me over a simple harmless comment, while you allow the bashers roam freely!! No problem, my God will judge you

ItsQuinn:
Olodo

My dear, I don't even have strength to start educating him on it when goggle have made research easy.

Talk2Bella:
Ok

I tire for some people o!! Their dumbness is mind boggling. Imagine the boy!! he just can't understand that these are people's story that you post here.

Lolzz some people sha!!

Most ladies do get Hot before, during and after their period. Though it may sound disgusting to some people to have sex with their partner during period, it's actually not and there's no health issues involved for the guy.

But for the girl, there maybe, especially if the guy is not the faithful type; the reason is because a woman's body is prone to infection during her period, her body is open and can easily accommodate any form of infection it comes in contact with.

Cutehector:
I belong to the school of thought that believes it's possible to love just one person (intimately) without breaking up

It's possible, only if both party keep nurturing and nourishing the love. But when one person starts acting funny, there's bound to be break up whether you like it or not. There comes a time when you can no longer turn a blind eye to it, you will be left with no choice than to save your self from the emotional torture.

Talk2Bella:
"Love is not blind, it chooses to ignore" I love that quote

Thanks sweety

Cutehector:
people think it's not possible to love just one person forever.. male and female alike.


Have you loved just one person (intimately) from the onset?

May be no, but I've never dated more than one person at a time. Not because I can't, but because I choose not to.

That should atleast count for something.

Cutehector:
cuz human wants are insatiable.

Being insatiable in romance is simply becz they don't want to find the satisfaction in who they have.

They programmed their mind not to be satisfied with one person hence they jump from one person to another.

Cutehector:
this issue of cheating sef... do u wanaa knw d real reason why people cheat?

To your question, yes.

But for me, I feel cheating is a choice. In your subconscious mind, one must have thought of it, nurtured it and wait for the opportunity to show up.

If you don't want to cheat, you won't. It's like making a decision and standing by it.

Cutehector:
lol what if it were a girl who cheated, and she was beggin her guy to giv her a second chance, would u have advised same?

Well it depends on the nature of the cheating. From the write up, the person in question seems like a philanderer, a chronic cheat. In such situation I will advice same.