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Ladies, would you leave your mate/husband if he couldn't perform his duties?

Duties:

Sexually
Providing security and stability
protect you like a king protects his queen?

provide you with children because his FAMILY JEWELS are depleted

act such as a matured man who know that his role as a man

Would you stand by him despite the fact he can't perform or HOPE FOR THE BEST?

Be careful Vic, I see FURRY AZZ slithering over here!

You sure you can get it up forcefully VIc?


THe last man that told me he WAS GON "handled" me ended up regretting it,

Don't knock it until you try it sista girl!

Aint that right Vic?

I just spayed furry azz, he calm for right now, HE ACT UP AGAIN, going to spay him again!

You do know that NOT EVERYBODY IS CLEAN Jaybee, so dipping your sausage elsewhere aint ideal,

But if that WHAT YALL AGREE ON THEN HEY,


I can get the blind part Omoloa, but the cripple, YOU WILL BE DOING ALL THE WORK!

Challenging you? Nawl simply INFORMING YOU, big difference bruh!

A man will tell you when he is into you WITHOUT ACTUALLY TELLING YOU,

Men are very physical and they show their emotions physically so pay attention to the repetition of his behavior, TRUST ME IF A MAN NOT INTERESTED IN you, HE WOULD NOT WASTE HIS TIME,

A man that wants something will PURSUE IT, if he doesn't he not into YOU,

Awwww!

(whispering to Omoloa, dont marry him!)

Okay Jaybee,

Let say Sue, not saying that your girl real name, WORK WITH ME ON THIS,

Let just say sue AND YOU living together, a guy across the street or down the street take a liking to Sue, sending her flowers and love letter informing her of his interest, she disgusted and throws the junk away in the trash can, YOU COMES HOME and so happen to take the trash out or saw something in the trash, would you question her or just throw the bag in the dumpster?

I see Vic to scared to answer,

You don't wanna none of this bruh, YOU COULDN'T HANDLE THIS, and I hate to send you to your momma crying,

You got busted huh Furry azz?

Jaybee,

Just because a person is disabled doesn't mean they can't do other things, now she may not be able to ride you or gyrate her hips like she used or could, but she can use her hands, toes, feet, mouth, arms, and toys,

No, you do not have to buy a doll but you can use your mate the best of her ability,


I have known men and women who have stayed with their mates through thick and thin even through a disability, IT REALLY EACH INDIVIDUAL character, and morale,

190,

You a damn lie, I saw you over there trying to get PRINCESS number, she is PRINCE twin sister!

Now I have been to friends house who I know mates are away on trips or work in another town, where I have attempted to throw trash away and saw some things that I shouldn't see like a used condom,

I said to myself if the mate is away on work and there is nobody but this person in the house, SOMETHING IS WRONG, but the thing is what If I WAS HER MAN, and saw that, I wonder how he would have reacted had he seen it,

Well Jaybee,

Sometimes people do some of the stupidest chit and instead of thinking rationally which they can't they may be cheating or someone may give them something that is not appropriate so they trash it, BUT THE THING IS, instead of throwing it in city dump or somewhere else they throws it in the house trash can then when confronted they make up a lie saying they found it, WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF IT HAPPENED TO YOU?

Jaybee!!!

Now, now! You can do other things to supplement the fucccking Jaybee, that an excuse!


As for me, I wouldn't leave my husband because there aren't that many GOOD PEOPLE out there and I married him for BETTER AND FOR WORSE, I may have to pray and ask for patience, BUT I THINK I CAN DEAL WITH WHATEVER COME MY WAY because I told told in the WORD, nothing is put on you that you can't bear,

Hmmm, I feel you Omoloa,

However personality at times does not reflect how a person will look in appearance, I have seen girls with awesome personality and does not take care of their appearance as they should,

But I feel ya though,

Why would you want to do that Vic?

Could be living with you or visiting you,

Would you date a man or woman that has a disability or life threatening illnesses? This person is your soul mate but they have a life threatening disease or disability and makes you happy, would you still date them?

What disability can you tolerate or won't tolerate?

My friend left her husband when he became physically disabled when he had a bad truck accident. He was paralyzed from the neck on down and she divorced him. Would you divorce your spouse or break up with your mate if they become disabled?

What would you do if you found love letters, personal photos, shredded phone call logs, personal gifts, and used condoms in the trashcan outside or inside your house?

What if your mate said that he or she found it and threw it in the trash? Would you believe them and move on or would you investigate further?

Women are just better at it, YOU MEN LIE MORE THAN WOMEN but lousy!

Hmm 190, did you say you will click your heels? Hmmm


It interesting that SOME men prefer women with make up and saying that it will bring out her beauty, the question remains if makeup was eradicated indefinately, WOULD YOU STILL DATE HER?

I know alot of men say they prefer WOMEN THAT NATURALLY LOOKING, but seems to gravitate toward the GLITZY AND GLAM women that can almost look drag queenish and many of the men claim they want the good woman type, but keep getting bad women types,

So basically what you saying that if she has make up on and it what make her look good, she okay with you, but if she take off her mask and look like gremlin, YOU NOT COOL WITH THAT?

Omolola1:
In other words, you hate communication?

The thing is that SOME men do not know the real definition of COMMUNICATION and according to the definition of Communication:

: an act or instance of transmitting
: information communicated
: a verbal or written message
: a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior <the function of pheromones in insect communication>; also : exchange of information
: personal rapport <a lack of communication between old and young persons>
: a system (as of telephones) for communicating
: a system of routes for moving troops, supplies, and vehicles
: personnel engaged in communicating

So once again, communication is deem INAPPROPRIATE by the male's standard of how a woman should communicate.

The number one REASON WHY MOST MARRIAGES failed is because COMMUNICATION is not effectively utilized AND TOO MANY LEADERS and not enough followers,

adosjun:
Nice question u ask her EVE,
poster, more seen and moderate talk win it 4 a lady, A lady dat talks too much is a big turn off . A lady shld know wen to talk n keep shut, Vulgar words are also bad.

What do you mean by A LADY SHOULD KNOW WHEN TO TALK AND WHEN TO KEEP SHUT? Explain that elaborately please,

petebor02:
i see, then i connect u with one,she is from Warri how about that guy?

Some men like women that are talkative and most time men CONFUSED TALKATIVE as unladylike. Which to me is ridiculous, if a woman is not your cup of tea do not approach the woman nor try to CHANGE HER,

As far as being seen, Vic, I knew you would say that you HorRRny TOAD,

I don't know about Jaybee, I done suspect something about him,

You lying to momma? If you can lie to momma what else can you lie about, Liar?

Guys,

Do you prefer glam girls over tom girls? Do you want your girl to wear excessive make up when going out in public? Or do you prefer your girl to dress casual with no make up when going out in public?

What GOING ON IN YOUR MIND when you see a girl in the street with EXCESSIVE makeup and glam, WOULD YOU APPROACH HER?


Be truthful,

I have gathered in my observation on Nairaland and off Nairaland that SOME men tends to get macho or predatory when women are outspoken or speaking their minds.  Why some BOYS can't swallow the thought that a woman can actually be physical and aggressive?

The less talkative women tend to get the delicate rose treatment while the more spoken women get the mob mentality.

Men, do you PREFER a woman that is SEEN versus heard in the relationship?  Do you feel manly when you are talkative and your woman just an eyecandy?  What do you say to men that battle women who are outspoken?  Do you think the manhood is challenged when a woman challenges the man?

Ladies, do you feel that YOU SHOULD BE HEARD or seen?  Do you think that being seen boosts up the man's ego?