₦airaland Forum

Giving in a relationship should be a two way thing..That your bf doesn't believe in it. Sit him down and talk to him..Tell him you expect little gifts and nice stuffs from him occasionally, as a token to show he cares and can provide for u.Watch his actions afterwards, if the stinginess persists,talk to your legs and move!Na those kain guys u go marry,e go be like say u marry yourself!

hahahaha i love this..The 4 days i spent at NYSC camp was hell!Thank God my call to bar ceremony rescued me.Don't be fooled, camp is not fun at all!Nothing vex me pass d dirty toilets and bathrooms.I had to bathe on grass,didnt even do no. 2 till i left o.I no fit carry infection say i dey serve my nation.Two winch girls wen dey my room no dey allow people sleep,go gist till 4.am..That morning drill no be for people like me wen no dey like wahala.I just claim pregnancy till i leave camp make i no come faint or roast my skin for sun!As soon dem start,i don locate where pregnant women and sick people dey lounge for corner of the field..no time o!Its interesting tho,u get to meet all sorts of people.A word of advice:carry your feeding money for mammy market paroles, that camp food no be am at all especially if you like to eat quality food.

Juzzybabe:
Yes i got married in Nigeria. And i seriously needs a lawyer.

I empathize with you.By the way,i am a lawyer, pm me whenever you are ready to file for dissolution of the marriage.

The things some women do to keep a man sha...unf**kingbelievable. Abeg, lemme be rocking my life jeje.

damesilver:
Dear barrister, I would like to take your remark of this power bank as an honest basis on which a thoughtfully informed decision is to rely. I know learned lawyers don't lie; they may only not narrate the whole truth.

Please madam, help me on how I can get this device. I mean contact. Thanks.

lol,abeg o..put me down!You can get it from d link i earlier posted.

bigass123:
Sis pls give me the link of the guy selling xiaomi pb.
Thanks

ok,here's it..https://www.nairaland.com/2536612/original-latest-xiaomi-brand-5.1v

lol..she is seeing someone else..E.O.D!

simiolu1:
And someone just gifted me this powerbank after returning from China... If I tell you how much he bought it after converting Yuan to Naira, you'd weep for this country.

A friend who picked up the power bank on my behalf is already asking how much I'm going to sell.

Guy,hold ur powerbank well o,its something you can't get easily in Nigeria.That your friend knows the value that's why he wants to buy it from you.

Rasheed02:
You know what? Oraimo rules the world of power banks.for a start get Oraimo 10PB-AR with 10,400MAH and a digital display of percentage and power bar capacity.you will marvel

Who and what is oraimo?abeg dont let me choke on my tea with laughter.Dude,google is your friend,xiaomi has been rated d second best powerbank in the world for 2016 by pcadvisor uk and many other tech sites.Have u heard of pass through charging.That's when you plug the power bank to charge and can also plug your fone to the powerbank to charge it.That's a feature only the best of powerbanks like xiaomi and other top brands can boast of.

When you buy a 50,000mah powerbank for 3000,damage to phone battery is definitely inevitable.Good power banks like anker,xiaomi and lumsing do not weaken phone batteries.But again,how many persons can afford to buy a 10000mah powerbank for 5k upwards with this prevailing economic hardship?I got xiaomi 10000mah powerbank from a guy here for 4500 and its very good!

Cutehector:
dats even if say she fine.. hw can he just be sendin money and gifts just like dat.. ha

ask me ooo.

i smell lies,no to premarital sex indeed...na so,dem don see mumu.Sone girls and lieing about sex na 5 and 6,wheras wen u dig deep,na konga e be..So the man just dey look her like frame abi?What was d man rushing back to uyo for,to see her fine face?

Cutehector:
very good. Den don't disturb me wen i'm flirting with her alryt. I hope we clear.
Shy boiy

Feranchek:

make una dey argue here, when i get like 3 guys lined up undergoing screening for the position of my new man.

Cutehector:
lol it will just be boring.. dnt u get..

It wasn't.. I had a great time.

thorpido:
A private-government partnership is the best way to run a place like this.Those lions need to be well taken care of.

Its run by a private firm,who remits a percentage of d profit made to the government monthly.If it were left to the ministry of environment, tall grasses for don overtake d place since.For me,they are doing a good job.I can't Wait to see how the park would look when the place is fully completed.

Onegai:
OP, nice pictures


I like the ideas of a zoo but why must they keep the animals in a concrete cage? Why not place plants around them and grasses and remove that nonsense concrete floor (which gets cold at night) in order to duplicate their natural habitat so they can thrive? And then instead of 2 hungry-looking lions, you can start building a whole pride of huge lions and more people will come. Who fed that tortoise watermelon, why not feed them their natural food? Where are our zoologists and Animal Sciences graduates? Are they still chasing bank jobs that will never return. Why not approach the zoo and offer your services, negotiate a salary and use that to improve your knowledge and get personal funding internationally?

Tourist centre, redesign animal cages, create a petting zoo, relocate the water parks a by further off and place the recreation centre close to it, create a horticultural garden with rare plants and flowers (many exist in Nigeria), upgrade the park. Pour money into this place because more and more people cannot afford to travel out and will need relaxation spots locally. It takes upto 10 years to get your profits out of this place.

I wish I could be in charge of a place like this! Total redesign and basic upgrades will see more people flocking here.

The place is still being developed. They have plans to put the animals in their natural habitat and bring more animals.As for lions,trust me when i say they are well fed. Have u seen d ones in jos zoo?They are an epitome of acute hunger, u can see their rib bones.Them no get strength to roar sef...lol.My fear is that the lions could climb out of that enclosure someday.While we were there, the male was trying to climb d barbed wire to come out, it tried ,got like 1/3rd of the barbed wire and jumped back..Oh boy,that was my cue to come and be going o,i no fit shout abeg!The zookeeper said the weight of the lion would pull it back,that it cant climb..Shior na so...Lets hope the day they are motivated by hunger,they don't become light enough to climb out.I asked about the tortoise eating watermelon,the guide said they can eat anything,but this one loves fruits a lot(tortoise wen like good food)..lol.

Feranchek:
Buh why you sef go kon go alone na

Cutehector:
Na u wey wan go alone na. So u are single rhaai?

Feranchek:
Buh why you sef go kon go alone na

lol,so persin cannot comot alone again..hian!Anyways,am single tho.

Cutehector:
This is the kinda place u take a girlfrnd to

lolz..true o,people doing mushy stuff everywhere,intimidating those of us who went alone.

Bolade005:
I don't care what anyone thinks but Ibadan is the most beautiful city in Nigeria, even the brown roofs are a beautiful sight to behold.

One would think standard of living in such a beautiful city will be on the high side but no, it's even one of the cheapest in Nigeria. Of all the cities that belongs to its category in terms of aesthetics, their cost of living is far above that of Ibadan.

I love Ibadan.

on point..its a beautiful place.

more..

more pictures...

Some of the zoo animals..

This beautiful park is called Agodi Park and gardens..I visited it yesterday and almost felt like never going home.I felt so at peace with the serene environment and had loads of fun singing my heart out at d karaoke bar.
The park is owned by the Oyo state government and its located along parliament road,Agodi,Ibadan ,Oyo state.The gate fee is N500 but people who intend to swim have to purchase a ticket priced at N1000.
The park has a forestry unit,a pool ,restaurant/bar,karaoke bar(only on Sundays),merry go round for kids,a play park,a lake for boat rides,a zoo(still under construction) and many food spots.You can get popcorn,asun,suya,palmwine etc within the park premises and its quite affordable.
Photos below...

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9.Like there's no tomorrow-Justin garner
8.All the way up(remix)-fat joe,remy ma,jay z and french Montana
7.Beautifully numb-Ellie goulding
6.All night-Nicki minaj ft ice mike
5.In common-Alicia keys
4.Touch it-Ariana grande
3.Currents-Justin garner
2.Nothing is promised-Mike will made it ft Rihanna
1.Equal-chrisette michelle ft rick ross

Trending songs for the first week of june..

Amhappy:
Abusive and violent people are dangerous,stay off them. That ur friend is wise. If he had gone back home that night, the story would have been different by now.

My dear,God just ordered his steps that night, cos d mumu love he had for her would av led him home on a normal day.

Cutehector:
lol there is one quote abt women I read somewhere. It says. There are two things in life dat can't be predicted. The weather, and of course women.

Now let's narrow this down to me, I find myself meeting ladies who hav been in abusive relationships. I really just duno why. Den they keep me in d dark, like i'd just hav ta wait and wait and wait till she gets over her ex.. people hav told me to change my circle of female friends.. which i'm doing, but the new lady I just meet, must hav an awful story about an ex.. is it just dat hard to meet people who really didn't hav abusive relationships in d past at all? Or are they just faking it in the name of "forming hard ta get"


What happend to the notion whereby ladies say if they really like a guy, den wats d point of keeping him in d dark.

My dear, almost every lady has a sad story to tell about her experience with men she dated in the past.However,some lie about it or grossly exaggerate the facts to score some sympathy points, and to maybe ensure you treat her well.A lady makes a guy wait not just because she is forming hard to get,she just wants to be careful so as not to get hurt again.Just be patient, if there's any you really like,she would eventually say yes to you someday when she is good and ready to date again.

Cutehector:
dats very surprising I must say.. and it really baffles me. Sometimes I ask myself why. U just see a lady get out of an abusive relationship, the same person who vowed will neva hav anythn to do wit a boyfrnd again, will still, just after a month, be rolling out wit another guy... den u as the friend who constantly advices her will just be like, "smh" sometimes I wonder if a lady can stay single for just one year... no dates, no flings, nothing.

lol,its not so easy jare.In most cases,we ladies go into another relationship so soon just to help get over the ex.It works actually sha.How would you be pinning for a lost lover when you are occupied with another?.Ideally,a person ought to allow him/herself to be fully healed of all the emotional and psychological truama the last relationship caused.But again, some failed relationships are capable of hunting you emotionally till the day you die.There is just no amount of time that could rid a person of d experience and memories (good or bad),so why waste time?The odds are the other party may have moved on to a new relationship ages ago,so we just try to move on by being with someone new.

Cutehector:
the one dats surprising me is the "female beater"

U hear of cases where the lady will say, he slapped me once before we got married but I later forgave him because he cried and begged for my forgiveness...



It's just laughable

You can't blame them,many persons can't be alone. The need to be in a relationship (no matter how toxic and abusive), is so strong in most persons. They would rather stay put in a clearly bad situation just to say "i have someone". I thank God that when push comes to shove,there is nothing or no one i can't walk away from.I love myself like that o,i would choose me (my emotional well being and happiness) over and over again.

Cutehector:
This is an eye-opener

Many others would still make this grave mistake,we never really learn until it may be too late.

It is an open secret that in recent times,many partners have taken to killing,defacing their spouses with acid and all sorts of violence stemming from an unhealthy lack of control of emotions and extreme jealousy. We would recall the ronke shonde case, or is it the woman whose throat was slit by her husband because she was the breadwinner which made him very insecure?The case of the lawyer in Ibadan who stabbed her husband to death also comes to mind.
I am no relationship or marriage counsellor,but i know that an extremely possessive partner can be a potentially dangerous person in future. Most times,we all get carried away by the fact that they love hard "the extra questions to know who called you,who you were seen with etc We get carried away because it is admittedly very flattering to have someone love us so fiercely,that he or she cannot bear the thought of losing you to another.We see the signs during dating; but dismiss it as deep love!
I want to implore everyone who is yet to be married to shine their eyes very well before entering into the union of marriage.. A client once advised me and i quote him " pls look and pray well before you marry,don't rush because your mates are all married,you don't rush to a place you intend staying all your life".
Today, i would have received the news that my friend was murdered by his wife. How so ?Let me tell you a brief history of their relationship.They got married in March 2015 after having dated for more than 3 yrs.She has always been hot tempered. I can recall how she hunted girls she suspected he was dating to beat them up with a warning to stay away from her boyfriend.On two occasions,she smashed his phone to pieces because she was suspecting him of cheating on her.I visited them in 2014 and personally witnessed how she emptied a plate of hot rice on my friend's head because he said he wasn't hungry yet.The quarrels were getting too much so he broke up with her for like 2 months to avoid being pushed to hitting her someday.During that period, her mother kept on calling my friend to take her back,that she doesn't eat,locks herself up in her dark room and was in a state of severe depression. She affirmed that her daughter would never behave badly again as she had learnt her lesson.
My friend,(a.k.a Mr stupid in love) took her back. They got married and her madness continued.I hadn't heard from him in a while now because we had a fight about her attitude. I warned him about marrying her,he refused. He told me at 34 most of his mates are married,the devil he knows is better,where would he start building another relationship from? etc to justify his marriage to her.I had to let him be and hope for the best in their union.I was shocked when i saw 18 missed calls from him today.I called back he was crying saying "thank God for me,i would have been a dead man". What happened was that last night, he had a company meeting that was slated to finish by 8pm so he called his wife to tell her abt it.They finished and it was raining heavily.On his way home,he assisted a lady who flagged him down for a lift.He had to go past his house junction to drop her off at her place.While she was in d car the wife called and during d call,the phone of the lady started ringing.The wife asked who was in the car with him and my friend said its someone he is giving a lift.She started asking diff questions showing thatbshe was getting paranoid and suspects it was his mistress.My friend said he was getting pissed and told her they would talk at home,that he needed to focus on his driving since it was raining. He said she called back like 4 times, he didn't pick up because he already knew she was going to be dramatic.
He got home and met her really furious,abusing him and laying all sorts of accusations alleging unfaithfulness.He explained everything, yet she insisted that he was a bloody cheat and liar. He then stepped out to take a walk,to cool off and let her anger subside.He left d house and decided to stroll around their estate.He had just walked a few blocks and was lost in thought when a man walking on the other side of d road shouted " oga! Comot road o".He looked back and saw that his wife's car was on high speed, and clearly determined to hit him.He ran off d road to stand close to the fence of a house still im shock.She came down from d car and walked to him saying "Na that man save u o,i for jam u die..Since u cant stay with me alone, at least wen u die those ur girlfriends will rest na."
My friend was stunned,she even went on to say "na me go kill u o,as u say u cannot leave the women outside". She left him there and drove off. He said he called a friend that lives some streets away to come pick him up and he slept at the friend's place till this morning. He can't even go back to their home because he is scared and doesn't doubt that she can kill him.I asked him,"so which yeye love made u marry her and still stayed till now knowing she is very hot tempered and violent?It took this near-death experience to wake him from his deep slumber.His younger brother with a spare key who lives with him occasionally was sent to go get some of his clothes and other vital belongings.He said he met d wife crying,that they should help her beg her husband,that she loves him very much thats why she acts paranoid.
Pls nairalanders, pray and look well before you end up with a partner that would be the cause of your untimely demise from this world.My friend learned d hard way and is getting ready to rent a place and cut all ties from her.I told him "God prevented her from hitting you,to teach you a lesson and open your eyes".Nobody should even hesitate to leave an abusive partner,your safety and peace of mind should come first.You may not be lucky to come out of it alive.A word is enough for the wise.People must talk,but na who dey alive dey even hear wetin people talk o.