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The girl reminds me of Esther in the orphan movie. Its a psychological condition ,i cant remember the name.They are usually very smart and charming,its hard not to like them,whereas they are very dangerous and are capable of sinister acts.

freecocoa:
No be small smell o.

I couldn't care less if she wants to stay (wetin be my own) just don't come and be blabbing rubbish of how a woman is supposed to be blah blah blah, just sit in the comfort of your mansion and enjoy your misery, don't tell us all men cheat, that's unacceptable, how can your husband disrespect you so much to the point that his mistress will call and threaten you, yet you sit there and type nonsense excuses for him? Jesu!

Calling her a bimbo is an understatement, nansenz woman.

Thank you!You just said my mind.Marriage is beyond having kids together and cohabiting.The man is obviously acting very single,without any consideration of her feelings.He isn't dating just one girl o,several ones all over the place.To the extent that some have the guts to call her to warn her,and she sees nothing wrong?toh!Who knows what he may have told his mistresses about her.For them to have the guts to even contact her ,means her husband must have portrayed her to be just a woman he lives with,whom he doesn't owe any explanations.No matter what,a man should respect his wife's feelings.

Boss13:
For me I think the man has been a serial cheat, but Carolina celebrity status made his escapades go nuclear. Wherever he goes and seen with another woman would make news. He should have Paid himself and his wife some respect by being very discrete. Many rich Nigerian men are serial cheats, but they avoid the news.

On the other hand, women are their worst enemies. Sending Carolina pictures of their intimate affair is nothing but cruelty. I also think Carolina should have avoided social media And kept her marriage low-key because a lot of these female cats were out to make her miserable.

Finally, Danjuma please if you wanna cheat please cheat with sense and use a condom. Know where your priority and responsibility lies and don't allow these women scheme you with emotional stuff because they are deadly. Getting a mistress pregnant is a no-no to the players game. That's plain dumb.

That's it,the way he goes about it is just borderline disrespectful to his wife.

christinie:
Caroline dear, stop washing your dirty linen in the market place, also stop making excuses for him, he doesn't deserve it.

I just hope the man uses protection, and not just sleeping with every Jane, Kate and Martha without protection and prior STD tests.

Don't leave the idiot because of his philandering ways. What guarantee do you have that the next man will be better?

Most women married to billionaires in Nigeria can relate with you, the only difference is that they are not stars like you and most people don't know what they go through.

When I was in the UNI, some bad girls who were into runs/prostitution used to swear by their great grandpas' graves that Igbinedium used his big toes for intimacy with them. Cherry has not left him. They are still 'happily married' and you can't tell me she's not aware of his escapades.

Tinibu was after one girl whose brother was a friend of mine. He did everything to woo her, including being generous to her family but she never accepted because she was a very decent girl, plus her late father left some fortunes for them in the heart of Lagos Island and she never lacked.

Almost all our big politicians, business tycoons, music artistes and even some supposed men of God are like that. That is what our society has encouraged them to do.

Stay there with your kids, think less of the man, get busy with work/business. I know you had a music studio in Lekki Phase 1, what happened to it?
If you are no longer into that business, find another thing to do to keep your mind busy.

Most people saying that she's there for the money should spare her. She got married to that beast at the age of 19. What does a 19 year old know about money?

They advice you to get out but they wanna get in. Imagine a mistress threatening you to leave so that she could take over. Those people sending you their intimate photos with your hubby are devils and you should resist them so they will flee from you. Next time they send it tell them that NOTHING will make you leave your home.

'Pele' dear. It is well.

Yes,let her stay till she gets HIV.

This woman is finished! So na money just tie her down like this so..Even calling him a good man.A good man would cheat if he has to,but wud do so discretely. Any man who cheats without caution or respect for his wife's feelings isn't a good man.

amokeme:
I'm telling you.. The friend he reported me to, said she was lost

Na so their life be jare..Normally,i am used to people saying my pride is too much,so its no longer news.When an insecure man meets a lady who holds her own,has her life together and doesn't act needy,they equate it to ‘pride'.

The surest way na to carry ur MasterCard, in case of any yawa,to avoid emergency washing plate.The guy may not have enough money to cover both of you, but he would sit there dieing in silence just to impress you.

All i saw was 2 yrs,no kiss,no hug and sex!Una dey try sha..(Yes,i have a healthy sexual appetite,so save the sermon).@op,just sit her down and let her know how you feel abt this,and the implications on your relationship. She should be able to reach a decision on what she really wants.

amokeme:
Hehehehe.... Really but there is nothing wrong in going with a hungry stomach so long you will pay your own bills na.
Well, there was this one time I was to meet someone somewhere, but I forgot because I was really busy with some stuffs, and just when I was to go get something to eat (my first meal for the day o ) he called to remind me, but I told him we needed to reschedule that I'm with a friend and we have been helping my mum sort out some stuffs and I'm really tired. But he insisted. So I said fine, he should meet me at a restaurant becaus we are very hungry (the tone of his voice changed immediately, ) he said "ok no problem coldly" in my mind I was like, look at this one
Sha sha, he got there before us sef, we exchanged pleasantries and all that... it was time to order, hehehe, me that I like food before, I ordered a heavy meal (I eat too much) my friend too, and he was just looking, I can imagine what was running through his mind (we were meeting for the 1st time).. my friend asked why he wasn't taking anything, and he said "nah I'm fine" I was just smiling inside me. When the bills came, I ordered for a takeaway, and he was clearly unsettled, (the talk wasn't flowing sef)
The final bill came and I paid with my card. The look on his face was priceless (my friend didn't even notice anything, she was too hungry)
He was now like "you didn't have to do that, I was going to cover it" then I told him " well, I don't know how much you are worth so I wouldn't want any inconvenience on your part. By the way, the pack is for you"
The guy took it P sha. And told the person that introduced us that I'm very proud and arrogant
I was like are you kidding me What did I do! Sometimes I don't even know what guys want,
Anyways, I can go on a date with an empty stomach, as long as I'm going to pay for my food.. Nobody should have a problem with that

Some men can be very confused sha,if you had waited for him to pick up the bills,he would have tagged u a hungry gold digging lady who wants to turn him into an ATM.

pinceprinz:
Sleep no gree come cos work dey for me to finish plus the terrible heat my constellation of fans can't get to extinguish .. U nko?

my body is programmed to wake every night to read and play on Nairaland.

pinceprinz:
oh well then, I think we're now on the same page. Ride on, the law!

why r u awake sef?

pinceprinz:
Agreed sha... At least , you won't be charging as much as you would for some customer x from nowhere abi?

Definitely!

pinceprinz:
Chai! this your own love for money no be here oh

before nko?Na scholarship i take go law school?I paid mehn,so no free work for anyone(except my mum).At least the person should be able to pay for stationeries and my seal.

No 2 tho..lol.Please scratch that!Na him pay my law school fees abi e put me on legal retainer?.He would pay something jare.No be only free! No 3 is a misguided assumption.When you see some lawyers in court, how shabby they look,walahi you would lose faith in being in the profession. I saw a lady last 2 weeks at a high Court, na so she dey sweat like say tomoro no dey,her camisole had small palm oil stains on it.She sat on my roll,i still dey vex,i look her leg e dey white like say she been go hawk carrot that morning.She looked too dirty for someone who was appearing in court.Even my male colleague noticed it.My point is ,being a stylish person has nothing to d with being a lawyer,though some of us no dey slack to make sure say our packaging tight!

xendra:
yea; smart has nice perfumes...and there is tom ford-but for price the place i asked the lady said 4k, was going to buy it for someone

if it's smart collection tom ford,its 1k to 1500.

Who follow this list go wait till judgement day before e go see husband marry.

mobdro is amazing..However ,showbox is the best.It has 2016 movies top chart songs and many series with option to download or stream.

KashyBaby:
Is it for male or female?


Female...Dhalia by givenchy it's sweet floral scents ,I love this or Roberto cavalli by Roberto cavalli, it's has a variation, they got gold, red and black... all great scents..


Male...Dior got a new scent it's sauvage , light but long lasting...it's great when u work indoor..or john varvatos artisan black, quite strong, but smells terrific...

Didnt you read the part where he said not more than 2000 naira..Hian!You should have also recommended patou's joy perfume na.@op, you should get New musk for men..its like 1500 or those smart collection perfumes..1k,They are long lasting and smell great.

Good day all...I type this with pain in my heart because i wasted my time, afternoon sleep and money yo go fix my hair and it was an epic fail..Please,i need a good hair stylist that fixes weavons very well in Ibadan. If the person does home service,it would be nice too i work on saturdays.Abeg help a sister out oooo.The lady i used at one plaza just finished me! She no just know anything at all.She concentrated d weave on one side,while one part of the hair was still very scanty.I touched my hair after she was done and i felt like rolling on d floor with tears.I am loosening it this morning or filling it up at another salon.I live around agbowo....Abeg recommend who u can vouch for his/her expertise o.Also lemme have an idea of how much the stylist charges,not the one i will go there and hear that to fix simple center parting is 3000.Thanks.

holamiday:
Spirit filled, tongue speaking, fire wielding, sanctimonious church goers saw the boy & walked away.

A tattoo wearing foreigner who may probably be an idol worshipper or atheist was courageous enough to do the needful.

We should learn to judge people and make friends based on individual character, not religious sentiments, colour or national bias.

Spot on o..Not just tattoed,but bum short wearing,yet she has a heart of Gold.God provide the means for me to be selfless,thrs always someone to assist with an act of kindness.

X21:
When fuel was easily available, most people buy just the quantity that can be emptied into generator tank. Of recent fuel is scarce and public power have become very unreliable. These two factors made it necessary to have back up fuel beyond what the generator tank will take.

For people living alone in a compound, storing fuel outside the house is not an issue, but for people sharing compound with others there is a challenge of balancing safety with security.

How do you keep fuel in the house to ensure to ensure you have enough and avoid possible fire out break.

My guess - guest (spare) toilet, sit out, etc.

Please share you experience so that we will all remain safe.

I keep mine in my bathroom.I no dey for my Yam no done o.

nitt:
abuja is not as rosy as it's made to sound.

without accommodation and a car, abuja is not for you.

but, it seems u r not making effort to get a self-con or sumtin even on the outskirts.

The mistakes most new employees make wen called for interviews with good prospects of landing the job is that, searching for a place should go in tandem with attaining a job esp in a big city.

One thing I hate in life is squatting esp with total strangers or acquaintances.

One way or another, there is bound to be a problem that will spoil such arrangements.

So, the only advice n sensible thing to do now, is to get a house agent's number n begin the search for a self-con on the outskirts.

best wishes

GBAM!you have said it all.

I can relate to this fully.But wait o,@op how would you be living with a red blooded man ,and not envisage the high possibility of him wanting to get intimate with you.Your faith strong sha!Its 2 out of 10 men that can actually accommodate a lady for free,without making a move on her.Next time be sure you have made concrete accommodation plans before you move to take a job.I had to relocate last month also,wasn't so rich at that time but borrowed money from a friend and added up from my savings to move into my own place?Life is too short to lose your dignity ,peace of mind and respect because of issues like this.Personally,I no just fit stay with person,the rubbish when your eye go see eh!At the end if the day,the trauma and all emotional headache you experience won't even allow you to be happy and efficient at the new job.Wish you all the best dear,e no easy.

i have made amazing friends that are going to stick around for a lifetime through this forum.

That's how they overhyped the camon c8,even claimed that the camera picture quality beats that of iphone 6.Lo and behold,that turned out to be one hell of a lie!

wolfgangg:
oh you stay around there?

no,i work arnd there.

wolfgangg:
hey think I've seen you once around bodija - oshuntokun avenue ' I might be wrong tho'

uhmmmmm...ok,that may be true.

wolfgangg:
a guy once told a girl in my major that he'll like to hit it.... she obliged - while I've been professing love to her for some time just to get into her pant but only turned me to her course administrator




LESSON: If its sex you want' say it - don't beat around the bush!!

lol..So on point.

I was broke,looked for cheap fuel @86 naira to no avail,treated malaria,had to work thru out d holidays on emergency cases and restructured my long term life goals to suit my new status,after I broke off my engagement/relationship with him.What a holiday!

misscall247:
Hi dear....are u serious

Damn serious o...Wetin my eye don see in the name of love,men and relationships....mouth sef no go fit talk am.

Forget abt Mr right,just give me “Mr has a job,knows what it takes to be a man,kind and supportive”.I'll be fine with Mr good enough!

donem:
Those days I was very good at signature forgery, so I did a replica stamp of my establishment, when it gets to that time of the month, I simply sign and stamp my matter peacefully.

Those in kirikiri gat nothing on u..I hail!