₦airaland Forum

NewsongBeauty:
Try A.k, his shop is @ Bashorun,beside Olarem petrol station

Thats far o..bashorun loun loun...lemme see how it goes sha..thanks a lot.

Acidosis:
You can buy a house in your state for the purpose of investment. However, do not think of building a home in your state, while you live and pay rent somewhere else. You may not recover your expenses in 30 years if you put in on rent.

Before you build your dream home, think about where you really wish to reside. Do you still wish to apply for jobs in other states? countries? Where do you wish to live? now and after retirement?

What if your husband live elsewhere? A house remains an immovable investment. Many people who struggled to build never reap the rewards of their labour. If the purpose is to leave something for your children, a home is just a fantastic venture, but economic-wise, there is little to be desired.

You raised valid points..first off all, i see it as an investment..My mother bought d land on which our house was built for 70k..today we get 120k rent annually for the bq.I just want a landed property somewhere that i can put up for rent,i mustn't live there na..With the high rate houses are let out for,trust me,i would recover my money in 5-7 Years. As for work and marital considerations, i cant let any of them hold me back,even if my husband lives elsewhere does it mean he has to move in with me?I am yet to be married so have to make plans for me and me alone,it doesn't stop me from getting married or taking up a job offer abroad.I want to build a house so i can be getting rent from it,rather than invest in a business that i can't supervise personally.

From the moment you start working, you should have savings that would eventually be used to get a plot of land.Little by little,yoi can start building,before 2 - 3 years,you should be able to move into your own house.Hopefully, by this year end,i would buy a plot at any upcoming area in my State for 300k at most.

Adesiji77:

what did u type?put it back o.

Adesiji77:
Explorers, how did I miss this?

Thumbs up...

jisos ,wetin u find come hia?pls i dont want you to get as spoilt as i am o..u r one of my few decent friends.

Sweet thread..

dmola:
nice profile pix

Thanks...

Mayflowa:
Hmmm. I know. But so many people do so many style but can't find word to call it. There is wheelbarrow,spooning, cow girl, reverse cowgirl, scissors, ladygirl, driving etc

Na u be d real MVP..i hail!

Lwkmd...the video is hilarious.. See the way the men dey smile,they were so shy to talk about sex..Doggy style nai be national sex position o..One say “any babe wen u knack for back,she go come back,try am with your babe she go confess”.

I like alcohol,don't see myself giving it up.If na sin,well...

luciouscookie:
Nairalanders are wicked!!! @op don't mind them forming what they are not. Who doesn't like being spent on by her man. Tomorrow now if you marry this kind of guy and complain about him not taking care of you and the kids, they will be the first to ask if you didn't notice all that during courtship. In relationships there are little things that matters, it mustn't be expensive gifts and all that but most times it's good to show your partner you care. Don't nag him about it because it might just be his nature, teach him how to by buying him gifts once in a while.

muah!It beats me why some people make comments contrary to what they actually do in real life.Many of d female nairalanders that commented above are probably one of those that cant walk into a fast-food to buy food of 1k for themselves ,except their bf does that for them,yet they would be on nairaland forming bosslady!There is no award for most liked female,its a free forum,abeg speak your true mind!Who una wan impress here?Every woman should strive to make her own money,but a man who claims to love a woman provides for her,protects her, and professes his love for her by his attitude,care and commitment. Kim kardashian is not hungry by all standards,yet kanye still spoils her silly with exotic gifts.That doesn't mean she cant get them for herself,but it's nice seeing that ur man occasionally gets u nice gifts and vice versa.Issues like this are what has resulted in the current situation where we find hardworking women being “husbands” to lazy men,who dont see anything wrong in letting a woman pick up their bills.Nikenry and amelian,God bless u both for saying it as it is.. Make some dey there dey talk wetin dem no go fit advice their younger sister to do.

blueeyes1:
Choi! See as u dey make my hair plait dada,thanks a lot sis, just to let u know,started a new story yesterday,hope u enjoy it. *kisses*

kai...na speed i just use take rush go read d story.I trust u to deliver!infact lemme follow u,make i no miss anything...

Why she put hand for head?She is probably thinking “who come send this one come dey fool e self like this na,when i don jam correct bobo when better pass am,na now e come wan rush propose,take spoil my correct parole for this town?” #na joke oo..this is just me being silly after a very hectic day.

Cyndi lauper-time after time
Berlin-take my breath away
Billy ocean-carribean queen
Lionel richie-deep river woman
George micheal-roxanne,careless whispers
Sade-no ordinary love
Phil collins-in the air tonight, do you remember
Lighthouse family-goodbye heartbreak
Luther vandross-never too much
Kool and the gang-Fresh
Nu Shooz - Should I say yes
Sinead O'Connor - Nothing compares 2 u
Marvin Gaye - Sexual Healing
Tracy Chapman - The Promise, wedding song
New edition-Can you stand the rain(i loooooove the lyrics of this song)
Raining jane-love is a battlefield
marvin gaye-sexual healing,lets get it on
keith sweat-nobody
Chaka khan and rufus-aint nobody etc etc before i forget myself hia..I am a lover of good music..

Cold would almost kill me in d middle of the night if i try this..

This one sef na small one,i have seen worse..A matter i handled in citizens rights bureau where i served as a mediator involved the man beating the wife to the point that she was diagnosed partially blind in d right eye. I pitied her because she had no skill so leaving would be really hard considering her lack of viable source of income.This lady however is a hairstylist, wetin tie her there? what's her excuse..awaiting death or permanent disability?

tecno4life:
Remove the cucumber and I will eat. Never liked cucumber

oya remove am..i love fruits and vegetables a lot..

Fried rice and beef,garnished with cucumber...

Whereas many young guys these days would like to criticise young ladies and argue for themselves that "most girls don't want to struggle with a guy who still a work in progress, rather they want a finished product." I have a different view.
my first response is this: what would you want for your own sister at home? Would you prefer for her to bring home a man who is still struggling to get a job, instead of a man who is financially stable and can take care of her basic needs? Would you prefer her to be trekking under the hot sun everyday with a "work in progress guy" instead of a guy with a decent car that can carry her in comfort; or at least pay for a cab to take her where she wants to go? Would you prefer to see her looking haggard and tired everyday from the stress and financial strain of joint contribution for upkeep of the home, rather than looking younger everyday from a man who can take such burden off her shoulder and put her in comfort?
A woman is not a burden bearer: a man is. Forget all this modern bullshit talk about gender equality: the only reason why women are crying out for equality is because many men fail in their responsibilities so women need equal opportunity to fend for themselves.
A good woman deserves a man who can take care of her basic needs: put a roof over her head, and provide for her. Any man who is not capable of doing that should not be professing his love to any woman otherwise he will put her in unnecessary hardships.
What happens when she gets pregnant? Then they both start staring at each other wondering how to buy pampers and baby food?
I have come to realise that a lot of guys thoroughly misunderstand the female folk. I came to understand that most women are not gold diggers. Nor do they even want you to have a huge bank account or drive the most expensive car on the road (trust me guys, the average girl doesn't even know the difference between a Honda, Toyota and a Nissan: her only concern is whether the car is clean, looks decent, has air-condition and sound system... Lol) Women just need to have a sense of security- that you can take care of yourself and be a rock for her to lean on.
A man need not be a 'finished project' but he should be in advance stages of 'development' before taking on a wife. Just as a house need not be fully painted before you move in- but it must have left foundation stage. If a guy is still in foundation stage, he should be concerned about building up himself rather than looking for a woman who will 'understand'
Let men be men for real. Play your part and stop complaining.

NB:This was written by my friend,NLS study partner and learned colleague..#respectbro..He nailed it!Nairalanders, share your thoughts.
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1005 naira was a hit!The song was my anthem that year..

no time for yeye waka.

Qualer:
i'm kinda serious though, just say yes! dazzol!!

see gobe o,say yes to what na..Ok,yes,u are indeed funny.

Qualer:
It means 'we' need to relocate you, fast! so i can get to meet you in person

seriously? lol..nice try.

Qualer:
we have to change that positively, somehow, abi?

I don't get u.

Qualer:
we have to change that positively, somehow, abi?

I don't get u.

Qualer:
all that fabulousness!

awnnnn..That's where my career hustle led me to.

Festivalofholi:
Sweetheart, it has its advantages. Some women like to maintain their privacy and remain anonymous. Especially the rich ones.

I understand,but I don't just see why i should pay a man for that,na so my case bad reach?Anyways,some women enjoy being their own man,so they have no qualms about it.Seriously, dont u think you should stop? You have a promising future being a professional,its not worth it.There's dignity in honest hustle,no matter what!Its better u have a relationship because u enjoy her company and vice versa,not because u want to get paid for providing sex.ual satisfaction.Someday,u may look back and hate yourself and the life you have lived.I am not a saint or S.U member, hell i am even very dismissive about certain morals,but i see it as very degrading to reduce myself to a f.uck toy for anyone..Give it some thought bro.

Festivalofholi:
Yeah bae, Electrical engineering. I'm a hooker too, love d thrill of eating pusssies. Nice to meet u again.

its amazing to know that women actually pay some men for sex..The day my life descends to the point of having to pay for it,make them just blow trumpet from heaven say the world don end.

Qualer:
what are you doing in ibadan with all that?!

with all what?

See her scruffy looking hair,she should leave issues like this to toke makinwa.