₦airaland Forum

OVB123:
In uk cost of living is very high and her citizen are complaining. The reason why most Nigerians see 60k pounds as reasonable is because of the depreciation of our currency (naira). Think about it, if 1 pound was equal to 1 naira, who will kill his/herself living in the UK.

60k pounds is a whole alot. I have friends that 30k pounds and are doing fine, you move to a cheaper city.

Please, don't send ur step-daughter away
uote author=Gudfadah post=118781077]Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise
her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?[/quote]

ObamaMessi:
Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

Do you have a mother and Sister? are they women? That's means they are included

Hahahahhahahahha. I noticed it too
quote author=Nonexisting1 post=116212738]The policeman behind him, is he pregnant?[/quote]

Congratulations bro, so happy for you

FrankNetter:
I’m now a USA citizen

Thank God for safe trip

Wahala no dey finish for this country

Nairalanders and plenty wahala, it's well with you my brother.

Mosdll:
Nigerian girls are useless......all of them.

Including your sisters and mother

Please, can 2million naira take someone to UK. What is she going to do in UK? The way our ladies are desperate for money is something else, no wonder most men thing low of most of our ladies.

Please, Bro relocate to UK, so many parents made this mistake many years ago and they are regretting, for the sake of your children relocate.

womenareapess:
how did you calculate it and got this value

All this Naija women with an IQ of that of a lizard will be claiming madame intelligent whereby their brains is just full of makeups and nothing

Same way ur brain is filled with weed

Religion had caused more harm than good in this part of the world.

I sat for IELTS British council yesterday my third attempt, am afraid of what the outcome of my results will be this time, reading had been my problem. Academic reading. I just need prayers, feeling depressed, was not confident of my exam.

Africans and Sex though

Things are really expensive, salary is no more enough, I wish I can go back to my childhood days.

So many crazy and funny people on nairaland

joezy11:
The most ugly breast I have seen in my life

At least it's better than ur girlfriend's own.

Hope you know, you are just a side chick, the guy is very manipulative. I will advice you to flee from him, he doesn't love you.

seunny4lif:
Does post graduate has age limit? NO
As long as you are going for post graduate course or Masters no problem.
Which school?

University college cork

Please, can a 36years get visa for post graduate diploma in Ireland

This is a serious issue though, maybe she felt you won't allow her to go with her kids.

You need wisdom to handle this issue.
It's well dear

hotplate:
seriously i think i need help, i dont know how i suddenly lost interest in going to church. there were certain timea in my life where i never missed a single sunday service but now it barely once in a month. Am not happy about it but i really don't know what to do to regenerate the intrest.

You are not alone in this bro, that zeal is no more there.

chukxie:
By your analogy it implies ALL Nigerians without exceptions are fraudsters, corrupt, kidnappers and totally untrustworthy. And I'm sure you know that's not true. Everyday Afghans are going through the same existential issues Nigerians are experiencing daily. The fact that there are terrorists and their sympathisers there does not mean every Afghan is a terrorist.

He is still a threat, we don't want him

He should not come, they are terrorists.

[quote author=ebukajay184 post=95448499]"I am humbled" - Nigerian Lady Celebrates As She Becomes Assistant Branch Manager of Canada (Photo)


A Nigerian woman, Patience is celebrating after she got a job as the Assistant Branch Manager of a bank in Canada, IgbereTV reports.

The University of Benin (UNIBEN) graduate took to Facebook on Wednesday, October 28, to share the good news.

"Assistant Branch Manager. Canada's Leading Bank.
Thank you Lord!!!!
I am humbled." she wrote.[/quote

Congratulations

That one is big, onion is very expensive now, even tomatoes, 5seeds, 400#, sachet tomatoes 120#

EgunMogaji2:
Personally, I think anyone that truly makes the kind of coin that OP claims should just continue to build the source of income.

I sometimes regret staying too long in the USA when I look at all the missed opportunities in Nigeria while I was gone.

I didn’t quote anyone so please don’t quote me as I’m not feeling well.

Stop deceiving people, 200k can't give anyone with family good life in Nigeria.
Besides while didn't you relocate to Nigeria earlier, you wanted to gather enough money to set up good business here abiii.
You enjoy NIGERIA only if you have money, if not, it's just a rat race.

Wow, Australia PR visa, is very difficult to get, unlike Canada. I will advice you to relocate to Aussy, so that you won't be like most of our parents that are weeping now for throwing away such opportunity.
All the best dear.

Evil and wicked people, the grassroot is part the problem we have in Nigeria, not just politicians.