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wow i think there is something wrong with the poster!

im guessing since your free to imagine how the person will be like in reality you can fall for the illusion you created.

But u cant fall in love- dont even think u can fall into infactuation

its foolish either ways

tensor777:
Maybe they are delibrately set so. It is a fair point as really even a 20% pass rate is more than enough to fill the availablle slots in universities.

For your information university is not the way truth and light, its has absolutely nothing to do with o'levels, there is a level of knowledge everyone is expected to have and thats why we have o level examinations. they are used to work, they are used as proof of basic knowledge and they are also used to gain entrance to all sorts of education not just university!

so regardless of the 20% that pass, averages should be considered so it is at least known that the holder knows as much as every other average student in the country.

Maybe the examinations are too difficult? they should be examining students according to national averages not just setting difficult questions and expecting them to pass! sheesh

I dont think theres anything wrong with the elephant house *kanye shrug* it beats the eyesore of an elephant they used to have in south east london!

whats ur beef? im not complaining about anything i said someone needs to start uploading nollywood movies like they do hollywood movies. Dont give yourself hypertension!

yea you think wrong mate!

iwell i do it! *kanye shrug*

[quote author=eku_bear link=topic=579357.msg7467722#msg7467722 date=1294244298]@queensmith: There is a difference though between meeting (1) a "good girl" at a club, later on marrying her and (2) a ho at a club. Most people can and should be able to tell the difference, and understand that (2) is not wifey material.[/quote]and your point is? the question said can one find a good person in the club? get with the quota
[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=579357.msg7467912#msg7467912 date=1294245804]Ayetty,

The men that met their wives at the club who were strippers and hoes they won't tell you that.  They will make up poo like I met her at a function or a party.  They know damn well they would turn a ho into a housewife if the person has it all.  THere are men on this site crying that their wives are no longer the "chick" they have met years ago.[/quote]exacty, ALOT of men NIGERIAN men meet thier wives in questionable situations! but they dont say!
I like this delusional pedastool they like putting themselves on!
and most of these men you are talking abt are whores too and dont deserve any better!

and lets not forget you are more likely to meet a LovePeddler in the church than in the club so this applies anywhere!

I just finished watching the show i loved every single moment of it! i think it was brilliance! the adeshinas are a beautiful family!

^^ if only, no i dont! im just goo with money!

tboy1:
That is not the perfect representation of the average Nigerian family . . . Those kids are kinda weird

Yeah the mum found the Dlido and wanted to give it to charity . . . the mum did not know what she was holding, if not she would have prayed for Julie

How many nigerian families are you familiar with in london?
the kids are not wierd at all! boys/men born bred in hackney RAP! thats what most of them do, it might seem wierd to you but this is the ghetto an thats how things are!
ayo is a very responsible guy who has done alot with himself, to me the family are amazing and like every other middle class nigerian family they have thier issues, in the end they are still there for each other!

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=35178.msg7467819#msg7467819 date=1294244998]There are white and AA women would move to Nigeria with their husband. I won't do it.

Ayetty!!! You so silly! Hee hee![/quote]lool its truuuuu!

tboy1:
No it is not

yes it is!
and woooooooooooooooooooort? didlo?? seriously?? yeparipa! what was the mum doing in her room? goodness!

I loved the show i think it was a perfect representation of the average Nigerian family! Funny enough julie is really cool peoples i never realised she had soo many issues at home! think i need to catch up on some episodes!

adolfe bad:
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sure. . .
Ho's too get married everyday, and they bear the title 'MRS'

exactly- male whores and female whores alike!

Nothing wrong with it at all! most people are just closed minded to it! God knows theres an entire difference between dating a nigerian man and dating an english dude! a huuuuuuge difference!

[quote author=eku_bear link=topic=579357.msg7467526#msg7467526 date=1294242714]Which naija dudes do you know who marry hos from clubs?

Sleep with, yes. But marry? No way.[/quote]again men that have themselves confused! i can tell you right now a significant number of nigerian men meet sleep with and marry women they met in clubs so dont go over feeling yourself now! if you dont know you better go and ask!

did i send them on an errand

[quote author=George_D link=topic=575531.msg7464861#msg7464861 date=1294214697]for free i guess? [/quote]for what would you rather? If i can watch every sitcom- tv series movie or soap opera online I should also be able to watch nollywood movies.its only fair!

goodness i think i actually missed most of the information- does the woman have young kids? what did she take a loan for? goodness this story gets worst and worst!

but we can always continue to daydream!

MRbrownJAY:
@queensmith
difference of opinion is when someone say they are different than you and you accept it. bringing YOUR dating preferences in the matter  to try to make a silly point shows us that its way more than that.

for the last hour you have given me your opinion about my person like as if we dated/were going to date.
i politely told you that this is who i am and you can either take it or leave it (since i dont give a damn what you think) but you continued talking about how i should conform to your whatever lifestyle, like this is some dating contest to see who can be the most "attractive" out here. lmao!

lady, i dont care about what you think of me or how you want me to be, GET IT?! that should have been the end of the story.

if i sound arrogant to you then so be it, conceited so be it, ugly fat smelly or whatever so be it. this is your views and i accepted it, now get off my dikc and go sukc on something else. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  and stop "following me" around (as you claim).

shouldnt i get credit for that regardless?!

nuh uhn! my dating preferences have nothing to do with it, i dont strictly mean dating i mean everything in general whether it be a friend an acquaintance youve misunderstood me- and once again why do you keep saying i asked you to conform? did you not read the part where i said i didnt ask you to do anything? lol the way your even taking my opinion just further proves my point! i

omg dont get ur panties in a bunch mb- were discussing differences in opinion arent we? dont take everything soo personally if you really have no problem with who you are you wouldnt fight me soo much!
i dont remember asking you to change your life! i simply pointed out the reason why youve said what you have! i never asked you to do anything for that matter- just stating the reasons you think the way you do! gosh! I didnt realise ive touched a sensitive spot!

gosh mbj you already know your arrogant and narcissistic so why you putting up defences now i pointed it out? your life doesnt bother me in the slightest im just saying its the reason you view some things the way you do, instead of looking at it from a more humble perspective. Dont get me wrong Im not a humble person in any way whatsoever, but there are some issues you cant approach with an overly inflated view on who you are- esp when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.

I love this question!

let me put it to you this way- If you consider yourself a good man and you go clubbing- YES
if you think of yourself as a scumbag but your looking for someone completely different- NO

whatever brought you to the club also brought others to the club, and as much as you can try and judge a woman by her choice of entertainment, you cant exclude yourself from the judgement you use!

Then theres always the type of club you go to as well- for example if a woman had asked me 'can you find a good guy in a strip club' I will say no because only a prostitute goes looking at men in a strip club and only a man LovePeddler picks girls from a strip club but then again the pair make a perfect match!

nope! your simple arithmetic is all soo wrong! then again i dont want you to add up my weekly expenditure cos its going to bother me!

@mbj there is a big difference between being confident and being conceited you know that.
I dont blame you- africans are known to worship thier sons-probably why soo many of them are useless  
Theres a limit and a point when feeling yourself excessively clouds reality! you may feel like a king but back here on earth your not! Theres nothing attractive about narcissism so dont fool yourself!
Theres also nothing positive about being a skank!

Simply because ive observed your arrogance all of a sudden im low in self esteem? you know what, you couldnt actually be more wrong!  but this isnt about me- this is about you!

MRbrownJAY:
i have never had women problem in my life and NEVER WILL so i dont give a damn what YOU may think of me.
as for who you will mess with, who give a flying fukc?! this is not a dating contest, so if thats what you are looking for on NL then you better go to the dating section and put your resume out there. duh!

I find that soooooooooooooooooooooo difficult to believe! but your fooling yourself and not me!
Dont get me wrong i just said that as an example- i didnt insinuate you wanted to mess with anyone I was just making it clear the fact that dudes like you irritate me!

you asked me what makes me think im better than a skank? tbh im soo high up there i dont even no what a skank is! in fact the closest ive ever been to one is this conversation im having with you!
Im not a man but you really need to stop thinking you represent! Trust me theres a world of men out there that do much more are worth much more and dont go around looking for skanks! your obsession with these 'skanks' you love to mention amuses me indeed!

tbh im not as good as the op at breaking down every penny! i dont like looking at bank statements and im only concerned with money coming in and not going out! im guessing those are the kind of things people living in Nigeria are used to. and i definitely wont call the op's salary small! right now i will kill to be on 25grand!

what i can add is the fact that i earn less than the op, i spend a minimum of 10pounds everyday on food, i go shopping at least 6 times a month- the less expensive the store the more i spend, thats a minimum of 40pounds 6 times a month not to mention my horrible shoe addiction ( i wont even go there!), I also go out almost every week/end, clubbing (50) bar (20) bowling (20) restaurant (30) i pay gas and electricity quarterly 150pounds each! i have a very expensive broadband package i cant be bothered to change a monthly subscription to the gym and live in a 1bedroom apartment by myself i really dont get how the op ends up with soo little? I still manage to travel abroad at least every 3 months and spend no less than 700pounds on each holiday!

i dont drive (yet) maybe the op should get rid of his car for now, you might also wanna consider paying your rent annually, i also think you should get a credit card, it helps spread cost and is there for rainy day!

No guy shoulD be telling ladies on the street he loves her. thats just all round wrong!

funny enough i wont call any of that living large! you dnt buy anything out of the ordinary! i earn much less and live much larger
its all about how smart you are with your money!

IloveFred:
However I listen to only my heart.

I see you believe in fairytayles- at your age there is probably no harm to it right?

thats all i can say without factually insulting you. I wont wish you luck cos no amount of luck will change whats gonna happen- I will however wish you keep us updated!