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shy girl do you listen to yourself? is this the advice you will give your mother? or your sister? look yourself in the mirror and honestly answer that question!
I dont expect an honest answer from you here but i just wonder if you really believe some of the things you have said. this isnt a personal attack on you, its just a question on the type of person you are.

Anyways i must add that I appreciate everything your saying here- it gives me further insight on how people can be, its a sad world we live in when one can intentionally lead another into danger. Be it a complete stranger or otherwise.

Do you honestly think there is an ounce of legitimacy in the op's situation? do you really?
is it foolish to immediately denounce the op's fiance as a scammer?

all I can say is wow! we have some characters here smh

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=578201.msg7461295#msg7461295 date=1294163868]you say "stay far away from us" . Isn't that what the OP is asking us now? she  is asking us if she should stay or not. And you are encouraging her that there is no problem.  it is when kasala dun burst and they are angry and come back to vent that you now turn around and say "stay away from us then". You don't remember when you were telling them to stay and enjoy internet or yahooze marriage. when you know that such a marriage is somehow somehow and have little chance of success.
the same guy who is encouraging her now will laugh at her when she comes back bitter and angry.
don't be a hypocrite and let us call a spade a spade. I definitely don't want the woman hurt. she has gone through a lot. and at the same time also, I hate all the bad image and I think these are the kinds of things that contribute to it. foreign people getting scammed. we shouldn't encourage them when they come like this.
if she had met him on the streets of poland and he was his agemate, my comments will be different. Even craigslist and most businesses ban people from trading with Nigerians in Nigeria. It's very dangerous and risky. you don't encourage stuff like that. it is only when you have been a victim that you can understand.[/quote]You have hit the nail right on the head! a spade should always be called a spade!

You can grow apart, esp if your young as you start maturing our rquirements change and your partner may not be able to fufil it!

yorke:
My advice 2 naija galz > pls try order 4 what u know u can eat n stop formin one thing that u are watchin your weight. U waste guyz money 4 nothing. And when u get home u start blamin urself 4 nt eatin enuf n crackin d chicken.

LWKMD!!!!!

some women dont wanna seem to piggish innit!
[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=576171.msg7460129#msg7460129 date=1294154480]Don't you just hate that Yorke? When chicks just order a salad and you know damn well they starving!

I tell women that all the time. If you dating a guy who worrying about money then maybe you need to get another dude who into you and doesn't care about the money. Then again I tell them to be reasonable too do not order whatever just because.

So I hear you on that Yorke,[/quote]looool funny enuff salads are always the most expensive on the menu!

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=578201.msg7460058#msg7460058 date=1294153842]Ayettty,

Tell Platti I am mad at her. I am doing wonderful and the honeymoon was uhmm (smiling). Well, a lot of things have happened since you been gone and the Mister is waiting on a little belle boy. You gon be an aunt soon.

I still say I smell red poo. Something don't sound right to me and when something don't sound right it ain't right.[/quote]awww im happy for you! hope all is well!
ill let her know!

@ shyone- you really do take things waaaay to personal! im simply discussing our difference in opinion.

@queen u tellin me! the ish stinks to high heavens!

MRbrownJAY:
i am sorry to hear that. yes some people may see what i stand for as arrogant but, i guess, i strongly believe in what i write therefore would make a clear point out of it. . . . . . . . whether controversial subject or not.
i will never believe that my views are those of everybody but that they make sense to ME (and hopefully a few out there).

your views arent arrogant, you are. so that affects the way you see things.
its easy to judge and make remarks about situations when you think highly of yourself
but once you honestly think about who you really are your views become more down to earth

I dont see any sensible woman staying with you for long, i personally wouldnt mess with a dude that proudly boasts about sleeping with skanks, that just shows me hes a skank himself!

my queen!!! congrats! I wasnt banned i was just pissed! nl is full of scum!
so how was the honeymoon?
platti's cool! shes doing her thang!

shyone excuse me dont take everything so personal im just saying i disagree with you sheesh!

I didnt ask for a sermon really, I was just wondering why you said she should hit the gym, and you still havent reallyy answered the question. Are you giving her a lifestyle lecture or giving her tips on how to have a happy marriage with a Nigerian man? because i am definitely confused!

I am suprised the same fingers you use to type about God is the same one you use to say - we all take advantage of each other? what is godly about that? lets leave God out of this and give me a more practical approach.

Also im sorry to say, nobody wants to be used, whether mutual or otherwise, neither do i think she should lead herself into a position where she is taken advantage of. And definitely not marry a man who can cause her harm. she doesnt have to part with it, for him to be able to take it from her. Especially if they are in their matrimonial home

You say your a woman but it sounds to me like this is a game to you??

I dont know what the giving is all about i didnt ask how you feel when you give to people??, how will she maintain happiness of sense of worth being with a man that is taking advantage of her and will leave her? where is the consistency?

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=578201.msg7456336#msg7456336 date=1294101248]Yes, I am Queeneve and I do not know either.  Maybe she upset about something and had to take it out on someone.   I didn't know American and UK men were African.  I guess I was asleep when the memo passed around.[/quote]lol its ayettymama! wassup are you married now?

im probably the only one that disagrees with shygirl
esp when she says she should hit the gym to look young- is it because her husband didnt know her age when he married her or because she should be ashamed of her age?
no2 i agree with her focusing on herself, but i dont think she should alow him to take advantage of her knowingly, its dangerous in soo many forms. He can rob her in soo many ways. she should still be very careful. if she wanted fun i dont think she needs to marry him!
and all the if he stays if he goes stuff, still i dont get the point of her marrying him, if its that simple why doesnt she keep him as a boyfriend?
i dont think marriage should be taken as a joke- esp in this sort of situation. regardless of how many of you feel Nigerians can be very dangerous people!

mrs eve u wouldnt happen to be queen eve by any chance would you??

ivynwa, and where did you see her insult african men? if english is a problem simply say, she said african men dont tend to like old women when they dont have sons? gosh here we go again *rolling of the eyes*

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=578201.msg7455784#msg7455784 date=1294092903]you tell her to be happy still if her marriage doesn't work.
will you be happy if you went half way around the world and spend all your money to bring a poor man out of poverty and he dumps you? you will feel extremely silly and bitter. the pain will remain with you for life.
go and read the threads I posted about bitter european and foreign women who have been scammed. none of them is happy. duh
let's be realistic here.[/quote]are you minding him? he sounds like another scammer to me!
these european women better start growing brains because romance scams are soo 2006!

there is no way your right! in fact there is a big fat ZERO 0% chance he is good! the only way he will be good was if he was the president of Nigeria and was looking for somewhere to launder his money! that will be the best good you can get!
listen to this, every single nigerian man born and bred in Nigeria that you meet outside of africa is dangerous until extensively examined and fully proven beyond all reasonable doubt that he is not! you need to adopt those principles when dealing with them or you will be losing alot more than your heart!

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=578201.msg7455524#msg7455524 date=1294089310]Germany have a large mixed Nigerian and German family communities. Interesting.[/quote]^^ because they all need papers! most abandon their wives never to bee seen again!

@poster shine your eye well well! your soo called husband is dodgier than the 5 day feta cheese in my fridge you better not fall for the scam.
there re plenty of men (even black ones) in poland dont let yourself get hurt!

nl is full of stories exactly like yours and trust me they never end well!

sometimes when things are too good to be true, they really are!

this is funny! is this the new way of bullying people into voting! im shaking in my boots! mshew

^^ lol i actually once had alot of respect for him actually, were similar. . . . . once u remove the arrogance sha!

im *ignoring* you from now on, your the real wannabe here. Tryna act like u know ayettymama! but seriously i really am flattered! i never realised I was a celebrity!

goodness mbj still hasnt changed!

wtf?? sent an email to who? to where? i didnt come here for you. i neva have and neva will give a shiz what nlers think!

i wasnt banned, i forgot my password! unno wat forget it, im flattered i have such dedicated fans!

shes chattin crass pay her no attention! I dont know where she thinks she knows me from I dont know her from adam, is she the undiscovered underground queen of nl that I must now be knowin her middle name. kmt monkey!

odunnu fall back ayettymama doesnt know you and by the looks of it you obviously dont know her. quit it!

yeeeeee freind for wia? i was never your freind on fb oooo! yeparipa! akoba adaba! omg lies on me when im not dead! gosh im no ones freind on fb and neither did i discuss plat and inspired on fb. dont even try it i personally know 2 or 3 people from this website and your not one of them fall back. Who crowned you the original yetty verifier? gosh this site brings trouble from all 4 corners doesnt it. No wonder someone was talking trash about me leaving fb because of inspired! wtf where do i know inspired from kmt nlers need to stop the trash talk!

MEN - if a woman turns you down please DO NOT ask why. . .its irritating, just take it that she doesnt want you

stalking is NEVER an attractive trait, neither is telling her you dream of her, her name is your password, her photo is your screensaver and so on and so on. some will call the police

Jealousy in a man is GAAAAAAAY! try to keep cool, its never good for a man to be too into a womans business, your only pushing her away!

WASH YOURSELVES!!!! and invest in sensuous perfume! need i say more?

Dont force yourself or try too hard to dance with a girl at a club and keep your hands to yourself! Not all women like being rubbed up and down by strangers. and if the song is fast dont rub up against her, u cannot grind a womans backside to bumper 2bumper!

Dont show interest in every woman that is friendly to you. Some men need to learn that alot of women are friendly. esp in england.just because she answered you when you said hi doesnt mean shes interested in you. Shes just trying to be polite!

and omg MOISTURIZE YOUR LEGS PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE! why the hell do all men have dry legs? lmao!

Theres nothing wrong with it, i personally wouldnt marry a man with kids but thats my selfishness
if theres something special there nothing should come in between it, mutual understanding can make things work
i do find your attraction to single mothers in particular a little suspicious tho! *kanye shrug*

too close to home- will almost be like dating a cousin!

I have absolutely no idea odunnu! lol
what makes u think I know that?

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