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i saw the photo and was like helloooooooooooooo how u doin

You can't generalise sha, but from what i've heard or maybe what i've seen they probably won't have fantastically massive packages but he will ride you like motorcycle in the bedroom, and he won't get tired, and you probably won't like it that much, but it's all hypothetical sha you'll never know until you try!

ZUBY77: My first one week, i was busy blaming those who didn't attend the marriage ceremony.
Then the second week, i recalled that we recieved some envelops from people with money inside all of them. Then i approached mrs zuby who was in custody of the envelopes for us to check how rich we have beçome only to be told that the job has been done already by her and her mother. The reason being that they didnt want to stress me by inviting me to count money. igbo girls.

Third week, i was busy thinking about the best way to tell mrs zuby to go back to her parents until she puts all the money back to the envelops exactly the way it was.
Fourth week, i devised a plan to make her pay for the petrol for our generator. She likes electricity so much. So i will check the generator every morning and each time the petrol is finished, i will stay outside until 8am, by then she must have called to remind me what i already knew. And i will tell her to drive to the station and buy petrol. Now the money from the envelop is going down fast and she is complaining.

Aside this little envelop adventure, we are happy people.

o god!!! i cannot!!! i cannot with this!! lmao!!!

Gaggi: Thnks, i'm working on it. Just that if i dnt talk for 10 mins she wants to knw whats on my mind. If i say nothing is on my mind, she doesn't believe and claims i'm not being open. She wants to discuss every single thing. It's frustrating sometimes. Sometimes a man needs to think and clear his head alone. Haba

you are right, I will say she needs reassurance. You are probably the laid back non chalant type and that can get some of us a lil worried about whether or not you are happy.
Try to be a bit more reassuring, cuddly, tell her you love her more often, spend quiet time with her in your arms, buy her a car, when she bothers you tell her not to worry that you just dont like talking much. Eventually she'll get used to you.

Ammyng: Also why does it bother them so much to see women of other races with confidence? No offense but is it because it's been proven that white women has the lowest esteem? They envy successful black women and even envy our curve I'm not racist I'm just trying to figure this out.I would appreciate if you didn't leave racist comments either.Thanks!

if your not racist then you sure do need help!

where did you read that they have the lowest confidence? Seriously where do people get off with this mindset? So now its the white women following you around obsessed with your figure abi? Well it all adds up given the top actresses, models, and female business owners are all black. and so is the female population of oxford and harvard university and with that the top 10 female billionaires are all black too. White women sure do wish they were you!
Well done!

Cant really make any conclusions based on these figures except for the number of candidates from each state? Anywhere else we can get more info?

Chimezie198: Its becoming alarming. How do i stop him?
Help please

what kind of beer? It probably doesnt make a difference sha, also does he do this every blessed day or have you just averaged it out?

If he does then I'm afraid you have an alcoholic on your hands, your probably dealing with what could eventually become a lifelong addiction. I advise you to abandon him while your young support him through a full recovery and make sure he knows you are there every step of the way o girl you better quit while your ahead

internet nigerian? what on earth is that??

IgboWifeUSA: Everywoman who thinks this way cant possibly be a goldigger. If originally, parents would pick a wealthy guy who Already has a house and enough money to begin building a family, you are basically calling the parents goldiggers. This did not began with her generation.

Actually if we are to be frank thats exactly what it is, it isn't today women have been travelling to England for the full purpose of working to support thier husbands. Women that base thier life choices based on whether the man will cover their every need without them having to contribute are exactly so.
Whether the man is a cleaner or a billionaire is irrelevent since our perception of wealth in this case is relative.
I may not blink twice at the OPs situation, but to your typical village girl he's a goldmine. See what I mean?

Beowulf: It is rather unfortunate that most people on here chose to knock the OP unnecessarily. Is it so difficult to disagree with someone without getting abusive?
The last time I checked it was not a sin nor was it unlawful to remain single.

It is a serious fallacy to think that marriage confers one with a sense of responsibility or responsibility in itself. I know lots of married folks (male and female) who are the most irresponsible persons I know and many single fellows who have more sense of responsibility in their index fingers than most married persons have in their entire anatomy.

Choosing to remain single cannot be an indication of selfishness at all. It is with due respect a very asinine line of reasoning. Being single and getting married like everything in life have their merits and demerits. None is qualitatively superior to the other. It is all swings and roundabouts as per what works for each individual. Marriage does not place you on a moral high ground over singelhood any more than singlehood does over marriage.

Personally, I have had many reasons in life to entertain a life of singlehood and at the same time seen enough to decide to take a stab at marriage eventually when the time is right.

Whichever status I eventually choose, I will never adopt a false sense of moral superiority over any person that chooses an opposite status.

Rant over!

GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM!!!!

coogar: he probably didn't explain to her very well. a man can't just ditch a babe on a small issue like this one.
there have been hundreds of thousands of village girls who have been transformed already. the babe in question won't be an exception.
even osuofia learnt to behave himself in london - and this girl cannot be any worse.

sarcasm?

agiboma: look tell the woman mortgage is a two person responsibility, tell her incase you divorce she is entitled to half the value of all assets including the house maybe she will then see it differently. She may feel that she is paying for a home that will never be hers.

You want to finish the posters life? Am I the only one that sees the girl as a crook?? and people complain about goldiggers yet nobody can recognise one! lol!

this is odd. . . lol. Im not even sure I know how to respond to this!

Right, if marriage is important to you she needs to respect that, you either live together as husband and wife or you don't live together at all. I must say the children you have has complicated things so leaving is going to be a bit of a problem.
Regardless of her reasons for not wanting to marry you she is showing a lack of devotion to you and your relationship, if she loves you enough marriage shouldnt be a problem. You may want to start thinkign along the lines of 'she's probably not the one'

coogar: ditch the babe? just like that?
what's wrong with people and their hasty actions? the girl does not understand how it works abroad.
it's the duty of this dude to explain things to her. she comes from an environment where men pay for everything.

you didnt read the post! he explained to her, she's a typical village girl that thinks every man in london is a millionaire!
I dunno dude- I will strongly advise the op to stay away from such chicks unless he can afford it, the last thing he needs is a village pea brained chick on the loose in London, it will be wahala from beggining to the end! Many men have tried and failed!

what is it with Nigerians and their Nigerian food gan sef? change your diets save your wallet!!!

tellwisdom: chloroquinesmith, sweerie, can i touch ur boobss?? U will enjoy it morethan me

i know you think your funny, but your really not. I suggest you crawl back into whatever hole you came out from, this is the only bit of attention you'll receive from me.

Johndoe100: @modele

You should listen to agiboma. She seems to have a good hea

d on her shoulders.

I agree, but I won't call it a good head, she knows what she's wants and that's to remain married no matter what.
Not a bad thing if the op can learn to kill her character completely. But in yet to meet a woman with such low respect for herself that she'll sell her very being for an illusion. O well!

neyostica: Op, leave the girl alone, she wants a real man who can takecare of her not some struggling modafucker like you. Yeye boy, why she go contribute? You beta go n work harder. Queensmith, you are a foollllllllllll

Your mother is a bigger fool, keeping an slowpoke like you. Kmt

Woo i advise you to leave your wife in nigeria to marry a man that will deliver all her dreams and desires while she sits at home like a slowpoke! mshew!
Does she think shes marrying a millionaire? She must have never been to school ,does she believe because you live in the uk you are a millionaire? She should hold on to that thought!
For your peace of mind i advise you to marry a woman that understands marriage is an equal partnership and everyone must pull their weight about and not be dependant for anything! mshew
Many nigerian women work very hard for their families, even more than their husbands! You better drop that village girl like shes hot immediately!

debrief08: Please can we quit this defeatist attitude and stop discouraging the guy? Haba, let him try first, we discourgae people from getting thier dues all the time: "dont go to court to challenge wrong dismissal, you will waste time and money" "dont go to court when a Doctors malpractice costs a life, leave it to God to judge", haba, allow the guy to try first, he didnt ask if he should get his money or not, he asked HOW he should get his money, if you dont know how one can recover money lent to a deceased then let him be. It is his money, he deserves to try all avenues to recover it, it is not his fault that she died, he did a favor by helping a friend in need.

The attitude i think is down to cowardice and is very common in africans, i guess the arrogance doesnt defeat that...

tellwisdom: Can i smooch ur boobbss

Are you an 1diot?

agitator: All this gold diggers, see as dem dey advice the guy go marry because him say him dey travel out and well to do. If na one broke-a rse guy, you for see how dem for take support am to remain single for him miserable life.

Nigerian women with double standard. Kai una too much.

Actually the people that disagree with the op are mostly men. Pay attention!!!
Every opportunity to bash the women nonsense!

You need to get the money from her next of kin, her husband. If they took her funds after her death they can also take her debt. You should approach him as soon as possible before he scrams. It is a sensitive time but if the husband is a noble man he will honour the debt and get the money back for you asap.

dayokanu: That means I had in you in mind since 2010

Erm.....ooook then......*3 awkward turtles*

and i dont remember you in any of the NYC plans? i think ur talking abt someone else.

o your not joking?

*2 awkward turtles*

That was a very long time ago dude.

that is exactly it, when you get to heathrow, ask for Yetunde Smith at one of the info desks. They will direct you to my house which is accross the road from terminal 1

dayokanu: Yetty How far na. I fit enter London come visit you one of these days oo

ahhhh first name basis ok then- erm . . . .yea. . . ok then. . . .erm . . *awkward turtle*

i was in college, damn was that a mistake! mshewing just thinking about it! lol

so what exactly is the purpose of this thread? To bich about other peoples marriages? To make fun of some peoples failures? To moan because someone disagreed with your opinion or didn't take your advise?

Its no wonder why they say women are our own biggest enemies, if you have nothing to say, say nothing, this is all unnecessary and discouraging.

coogar: marrying the right partner solves 80% of the problems one might encounter in marriage.
sadly, a lot of people marry the wrong spouse for reasons best known to them.

U got it!

Reasons best known to them ke? Lets try foolishness, stupidity desperation and thoughtlesness....

Manage me ke? Hehe ignorance is bliss!!

Oya you two pair up and stop acting shy!