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I hope I'm in the best position to answer this question being that i am Nigerian myself.

I'm currently dating a Nigerian girl but guess what? This happens to my longest relationship so far. You know what they say “once you go black, you never go back”. Well i think it somehow plays out here too, because I'm currently considering settling down with her. Tada!!!

Here's what you need to know

I have been very fortunate to travel this world and still do. I love adventures and thanks to my spontaneous nature, I'm pretty much able to blend into any society i find myself.

I have had different relationship with girls from different nationalities like; Germany, England, Iran, India, Spain ans Ireland, to mention but a few which i think makes me better equipped to answer this quetion.

The typical nigerian woman

If I am to guess, the question in your mind currently will be; “ why is your relationship with your current Nigerian girlfriend your longest”.

Firstly, i wouldnt want you to think my answer is being influeced with the fact that I'm Nigerian. Thats the more reason why i made it known above that i have been in relationships with girls that are not Nigerian.

A typical Nigerian girl is caring, or should i say very caring? Please avoid getting it twisted, not even single one of this girls can be caring in a relationship. That being said, i could confidently say a Nigerian girl who doesnt prove to be caring in a relationship is simply not in love with her partner. Its that simple.

A typical Nigerian girl would go to any length to prove her love to her partner and keep the relationship thriving. I have lose count on the number of times my girlfriend have sacrifised her own happiness to make me happy, this is something unique when compared to my other relationships.

A typical Nigerian girl is quite concise with what she wants. In simple and clear terms, she'll express herself, telling you exactly how she feels if you ever go off track. Again, she'll do but the contrary if she doesn't love her partner. Okay now, you might be confused on why she's in the relationship in the first place if she isnt really into her partner. Well its quite common in Nigeria to see girls going into relationships other than love. Nigerians are political by nature.

A typical Nigerian girl goes into a relationship with prudence in mind. The future matters alot in this part of the world and so its quite understanding to see that we tend to put our relationships in this track as well. This works out very well most times when you find a partner who has got this at the back of their minds. This simply means, she's ready to be with you through thick and thin, being that she has programmed her mind for a long-term relationship.

Are you still with me?

Then Lets conclude;

I enjoyed my other relationships and i have no doubt about that. Except that I've never felt this much connected to a girl before than i do right now. She opened a new chapter in life that i never knew existed. She's not perfect but she's got what i want in a woman. I pray nothing ever come between us.
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DonroxyII:
So What's it Mama ?

Delightsome2023:
I'm interested please how do I apply

Gerrard59:
One naive nairalander go read this and think he is innocent. Not knowing this is Nairaland's biggest patron of sex workers.

DonroxyII:
I think Poverty & Bigger Life than One's Economic Means !

beejaay:
if this is truly your story, then you should be one of those championing ethnic war and hatred everywhere..you should be a bridge builder going by you were brought in bu unknown people without thinking about your race, your ethnicity or religion...people like you shouldnt be in politics or supporting one side of the divide but stand for everyone...you were given a chance for a reason...

JobNeededUrgent:
yes.
like how much is the remuneration?

JobNeededUrgent:
this is certainly me you're referring to

Lala222:
My lips

Nostring:
My humongous cock

Autobot05:
I forgot my change

tremilatre:
Lol, thats not an option What pushed me out of the country is still keeping me out. I'd rather move yet again to a country that has offers better work environment.

kambili999:
It's sad

TyroneP:
Yea

yinkbell:
That would be a private Secondary Schools; Mush room School to be precise.

Mitchy49:
Obaseki the Sacker. I had thought this man would do well but he disappointed me.
Today is my birthday. I appreciate Jehovah for preserving me till this moment. I would have died many years ago when I had no brother, sister, mother or father. How i was able to survive till now remains a Mystery. God I just want to thank you. I have nothing but I am still grateful. I hope for better days and I want to Appeal to the readers of this comment to Bless me with 4k to meet a pressing Need pls. Thank you

ojotobiloba1:
I am a teacher

The hardest point of the job is nonsense complains from the parents when it's time to pay. O lord, Answer my prayers

TyroneP:
I receive an average of 25 official calls a day. I meet up with about 15 new people and I'll definitely be in about 5 meetings at least in a day. More than 20 people are willing to meet with me daily. Sometimes I forget I'm yet to take breakfast @2pm. I am a criminologist.

yinkbell:
Are joking that fresh graduate of Law School gets 30k per Month?
I don't expect such pay for that Noble profession.

Dijita:
If you are making less than #100k as a lawyer you should open your own practice

tremilatre:
As a doctor abroad, hardest part of my job is the fear of litigation. I'm literally walking on eggshells and practising defensive medicine.

Postinor:
so since u are a doctor, can you point out why girls pussy smell

linsco1256:
I run a laundry and dry-cleaning services. The hardest part of my job is when customers claim their clothes without making payment and I end up spending time and resources recovering my pay.

kambili999:
I'm a medical doctor.

All I can say is the healthcare sector in Nigeria is heartbreaking. What's worse is financial constraint of patients to even afford basic drugs like antibiotics because of the high level of poverty.

pimplucious:
I am an hotelier. The hardest part of my job is having to deal with my staffs to make sure they do not short change me. Whenever I come up with a means to stop financial leakages, they find another to subvert it.

It’s a case of cat and mouse with them I swear.

Adek15:
I’m a realtor. Hardest part is conducting inspections and being aired by clients afterwards.

Sassyboy37:
Pls I’ll love to go into E-hailing business but I don’t have a car yet to start up .I have active bolt acct .I don’t know if anyone have car to rent out pls kindly hlp a brother.thanks