DeOTR: The fact that people died doesn't mean they won't pay what they owe. CEO don't handle billing in home care agencies, so I don't know why they're arresting him instead of taking the company to court. I work with a company that provides platform as a service for care at home agencies in the US. Sometimes, bills are not paid for months after date of service. Service providers have to be paid for their time even if the patient died. He can only be guilty if the service date is after the patient expired.
Edit: I just saw that he also functioned as the biller and submitted duplicate claims. Except he has convincing explanations, he's toast.
And he's also an ex-con Nigerian scammer who already went to jail for fraud, yet he's allowed to bill millions for years, no questions asked. What a country!
SlayQueenSlayer: The thing about the US is that some of these scams are baked-in and protected by partisants, especially the demecrats. A significant number US benefits and aid programmes are pure scams built into the system by corrupt democrat politicians and their allied NGOs. There is an elaborate and sophisticated kick-back networks of money movement.
I tell you my brother, if you know the ststem, and a bit creative (or crooked ), and a risk-taker, you can make serious money. Imagine, this guy already went to jail for fraud yet he was allowed to be billing the govt millions for years
Kobojunkie: Finding meaning in being a slave to another human being since you were never allowed to mature and find other meaning outside of the marriage! 🤐🤐
2. You do know that Things Fall Apart was a work of fiction, right? 🤐🤐🤐
3. The actual phenomenon -- which is in fact death brought on by stress of a loss which never causes or mmics a heart attack-- is said to be quite rare. But here you are insisting it is quite common. 🤔🤔🤔
4. You mean Nigeria has not been populated and steered in the direction it has been heading in the last 65 years by its citizens -- flesh and blood humans? 🤔🤔
1) Infact the woman becomes dominant as couples get old
2) Based on real life
3) Who said heart attack? They die for lack of reason to keep on living
4) Nigeria is not the only country in the world. Some have changed for the bettet7
Kobojunkie: 1. Studies have revealed that the major reason many women refuse to leave abusive/humiliation filled situation is simply either that because: a) they lack financially resources to fund their new life b) they are afraid of what society and those around them might say c) they are afraid of change -- many of them have spent much of their adult lives married-- some where married as teenagers or children, and know no other life than with the man in marriage d) a combination of one or more of the above.
2. As for those of them whom you believe died not long after their husbands, how certain are you they are not suicides? We know now that there is nothing like dying of a broken heart. Either a person was previously ill or they literally committed suicide out of despair aka depression (suicidal tendencies or ideation, a common symptom) . There are lots of such cases that have been researched to reveal this to be the possible causes of most death-by-heart-ache claims. 😕🥱🥱
And no, it ain't necessarily the case that the spouse who died not long after the other missed the dead but more that the spouse left behind saw no meaning to their continued existence after the one they had invested all of their life into was no more. There are some others who think they choose death in order not to become a burden to those left behind. 🥱🥱
There is a lot in this you need to research for yourself. Fairy tales are called that for a reason. They are stories told only by fantastical beings who don't even exist. Stop gulping them down at your age.
3. People change for better yet Nigeria turned out the cesspit that it is today with you literally saying a non cheating man is hard to find. People change for better yet since 1960 , Nigeria and Nigerians have consistently gotten worse over the last 65 years? 🥱🥱
No matter how much you are willing to lie to yourself, you cannot change the reality of this life and the lives of the people in it by it. 🥱🥱
At least you concede they found meaning in life based on that relationship, so much so that they found no reason to continue living after it. See below, an excerpt from "Things Fall Apart" about the simultaneous deaths of an elderly husband and wife. This happens a lot. If you don't call that love what do you call it? Nigeria is not a human being. I don't see how you are arguing that people change!
Kobojunkie: . People don't change because you want them to; as a matter of fact, most people double down the moment the person they are in a relationship with demands change from them. That is being realistic.
2. People — men and women alike — only go through what they are themselves willing to go through. Not what a third-party, no matter how well-intended, tells them to.
3. That is only in Nollywood movies and where performance is required. Most old Nigerian couples are not happy. If you lived every day with them, — beyond occasional visits here and there —you would not miss the truth of this. And if you check well, most of those women had to put up with a lot of bullsheet and misery too. That is no life any person should wish on themselves or their kids.
So, again, I ask you, Marriage na by force?
So why don't the old people leave the marriage? And why is it that when one dies the other will quickly follow? What's your answer? And bear in mind, there are also polygamous families - you KNOW your husband is sleeping with different women. Compare to seeing him ONCE while drunk on his bachelor's eve!
People do change. All the time. Many "sleep-around" young men devote themselves exclusively to their wives and families in later years. Then there was the chaste pastor's wife who decided she wanted to be a prostitute!
No but be realistic and always consider the alternative. Bear in mind that people change - for the better and for the worse. And people go through phases. There are some old happy couples today who almost divorced because one of them went through a "sleep around" phase
Kobojunkie: 1. Basically, what you are wanting us to be is that the 1000s of millions of women before you who failed to realize that ideal in the cheat they married — that very same delusion you spun there—, most have not met you, is why? And let me guess, you will be the one and only woman in history —1 in over 4 billion —to make that happen, abi?
2. There are no perfect guys out there; therefore, women ought to accept humiliation and regret all because marriage is by force, abi?
Anyway, I am going to interpret this all as sarcasm. Because I cannot for the life of me imagine, in the year 2025, that there exists a woman out there on Nairaland who has no self-respect for herself at least.
Kobojunkie: Nonsense! Nigerian women like to spin their own Nollywood tales in their heads to keep them enduring bullsheet!
You caught a man cheating before you even married him. (He literally displayed that not only does he not value or respect you, but that by sleeping with your bridesmaid, he probably hates you as an individual and only wants to wife you to make you a housemaid/cook/baby mama/ convenient bang maid(all unpaid services until he gets tired of you). And you think the sensible thing to do would be to marry him and then spend your life living anxious and wondering who he may be cheating on you next with? Whatever convinced you that such a hellish existence is a sensible existence for anyone to choose? 😫😫😫
Ask yourself this. If that man had caught you banging his friend or even any man in the same manner, would he have also spun tales in his head and proceeded with the marriage anyway? That man would not only humiliate your arse, but even drag your parents for having you. He would have his friend label you a disgusting slut for humiliating him. You will be forced to flee that locality before the week's end, and maybe even have to change your phone number as well.🥱🥱
Please, have some dignity for yourself. No one will give it to you. You have to desire and get it for yourself.
You are not being REALISTIC. Almost all hot-bloded (and likely a bit drunk) young men can be seduced by a bridesmaid. He will later settle into being a husband and father and providing for his family which will leave him little time and resources for "bridesmaids". In taking action always consider the alternative. Do you have a perfect guy who'd never look at a bridesmaid on his bachelor's eve waiting to marry her?
franchasofficia: Since ladies know this truth, why did the Bride take it too serious? I thought Bachelor's eve is a night for the Groom to fulfill all his wildest fantasies with other single ladies in the oza room?
Now the lady is back to the street, and you know that the streets of today is very brutal to single ladies; the devil she ran from to preserve her mental health might end up becoming the least evil she would be dealing with on the streets lolz.
Her case was a case of standing between falling into an ocean and falling into a burning furnace; if I were her, I would have tried my luck by falling into the ocean, at least I could be lucky and got rescued by fishermen unlike the furnace where it burns forever
By the way, marriage they said is for better for worse, and she got tested at the start and she chickened out, ire oh
Disclaimer: this comment is based on my bad man side.
Supports what I posted above. Here it is:
Au contrairé. Look at it this way: suppose she didn't catch him? But she actually caught him. Someone said marriage consists a lot of gathering evidence . Now she has something to her advantage right at the beginning. And everyone will hear about it, including their children. That man will spend that marriage trying to prove he doesn't even look at another woman. Besides, the next person may be worse, except she won’t know!
Mr. Spiritualist, what exactly is a spiritualist and what have YOU accomplished with your spiritualism (outside collecting money to do spiritual) and how perfect is your family?
Kobojunkie: Is this a new story? Her face looks familiar!
Anyways, she should thank her stars that she did not marry him, else she would have been stuck wondering whether she should endure for that infamous Mrs badge Nigerian women like to suffer-worship while married to community dick.
Au contrairé. Look at it this way: suppose she didn't catch him? But she actually caught him. Someone said marriage consists a lot of gathering evidence. Now she has something to her advantage right at the beginning. And everyone will hear about it, including their children. That man will spend that marriage trying to prove he doesn't even look at other women. Besides, the next person may be worse, except that she won’t know!
Blackdisciple: It only happens to couples who went to the UK to hustle, it doesn't happen to rich couples like the elites e no dey happen.....
As an average Nigerian you leave your wife in Nigeria to go hustle abroad is a problem as you come back you will surely meet a problem. If both partners goes to abroad to hustle the man will still be in problem because the wife is only wise in her own eyes...
Many men will continue to learn the HARD way until an average Nigerian man stops taking his wife along to abroad to hustle together
Every Nigerian abroad is hustling, even Dangote. If you take your wife along and she hustles and be getting her own money, you must adjust and stop behaving like boss, or it won't work.
Berankis: We want to be like the UK, we want to be like the US. Is this what these God-forsaken countries are all about? Where a spouse can just cook up and allegation and actions will follow without due diligence. By the way, which one is consent to ejaculate? Sometimes these guys are not just worth it...
Cook up? Do you see anywhere it says he denied it?
hoseao: Wife accusing huaband of rape! Yes i know ans i understand it happens but i wonder which processes they used to conduct the investigation and arrived at the conclusion it happened? I just tire, how do these people do this investigation, because 99% of the time especially from nigerian women it always a false accusation.
JooEeL: Me too I want to know how o. If its so easy to make such false claims then men are living so on edge over there.
Simple: 1) people can't lie too much, they can only twist the truth. The man obviously admitted his wife didn't agree he cum inside her. 2) Motive. WHY would she lie about something like that?
pigmania: He should have ignored her. What if he didn't see her sleeping, or what if she wasn't the only one jonzing? He already secured the moneybag, no need for drama.
If she had been at the back and he had seen her, he could play it off as someone who came tired. But to sit right up front in the face of the performer and world cameras? Honestly it was as if someone sent her to tell Burna something about his music
GorillaApp: You are correct. A deep apology and taking responsibility for any fvckkk upp would have been better. Americans like apologies and owning up to your fault and mistakes. Him think say this na Nigeria
Not true. Mention one person America forgave after apology. Once you apologise you must resign! But it could work in Burna's case - apology with explanation he rightfully felt deeply insulted! But maybe the whole thing is SPIRITUAL - by performing his songs he is directly insulting his new religion of Islam for which his songs are capital HARAM!!
otipoju: I've never listened to his music ever since then. I hate nasty people who act with impunity.
Na settings orientation dey worry the guy. Setting wey no get any levels beyond Nigerian society.
Na Americans you wan try intimidate.? People wey choko pas you times 500
But it was a big INSULT to Burna, let's be honest. The woman was telling him his music was boring. Even to fall asleep in front of a speaker is a huge insult, how much more a whole concert, right in front of the performer! It easy to see it as a HUGE intentional insult - as if Burna's enemy sent her to do it!
Islam teaches pride when he asked the woman to leave he started his sentence with
Wallahi
Wallahi I’m not doing another song till you go home.”
Since when did Rivers people start saying Wallahi?
That reflects the company he keeps
This downturn in his career is a direct consequence of becoming a Muslim
That was Allah talking through him
Muslims have this arrogance that they are on the right path and everyone else is astray
He became a Muslim and shortly after was cancelled in America
Join the dots
Which would be understandable if you want to view it as punishment, BECAUSE HIS TYPE OF MUSIC IS TOTALLY HARAM IN ALL BRANCHES OF ISLAM!! By performing he is directly insulting the religion!
MaxInDHouse: If you don't want this it's OK i didn't force you to quote me so try not to be abusive simply because i responded to you.🙂 Did they believe the earth will be filled with humans? Genesis 1:28 Well that's what Eve thought will make them Gods over the coming generation of humans after all they will become many through reproduction and make the earth there domain where all dwellers will worship them. That's what Satan meant when he said:
"God knows that in the very day you eat from it, your eyes will be opened and you will be like God, knowing good and bad.” Genesis 3:5
Knowing good and bad means setting up standards for others who will be born after them.
MaxInDHouse: That's what people think about God after reading the Bible but a thorough study shows it's not so. According to the Bible God had a sound prospect for humans and of course He knew what mankind is capable of doing with the way He created us because we are capable of creating things ourselves but there is limitation to what we can do as we can't create a single thing out of nothing so whatever we can do must be from the available resources found on planet earth. Surely God knows mankind will get to the stage of electricity, telecommunication, automobile and others but when it comes to how each person thinks that is left to what each person chooses that's where freewill comes in. Our problem began when Adam and Eve were introduced to politics which means they want to be Gods over others setting standards and dictating what type of life others should be restricted to that is what politics brought and that is why we are gradually moving towards self extinction because man can't rule man without prejudice it will always end up with oppressing others! Ecclesiastes 4:1; 8:9 So when God told Adam and Eve not to eat from the forbidden fruit which you keep referring to as apple it's an parable which means humans are free to do whatever they want but one thing they must not do which is setting standards for their fellow man {Genesis 2:17} once that happens majority will start thinking of how to join the ruling class and that will lead to a big trouble as the resources God gave us will be channeled to production of destructive devices which they will be using to intimidate and oppress others. Look around you today and ask yourself how much human rulers are spending on accumulating weapons in contrast to what they are setting aside for agriculture to feed their people. Then you will understand what i'm saying. In a nutshell God gave us freewill but we have misused it to our own detriment!
I'm sure anybody reading this will be wondering if you are okay. There were no "others" for Adam and Eve to want to be gods over. THEY WERE BY THEMSELVES!
Secondly, you can't have partial freewill that only aoplies to individuals but not to big things BECAUSE THINGS ARE INTERCONNECTED. The smallest act of one individual can change the course of history. Let's say on the night Hitler was conceived his dad had used his freewill to go play poker instead of going home to sleep with his wife. A totally different person would have been conceived and therefore no WW2!
Thirdly, you must be talking of another and not God of OT when it comes to war. Do you think ALMIGHTY God of OT couldn't have accomplished all He accomplished without wars? There is no place it says He hated wars, that's man's insertion, and infact the term "Man of war" was severally applied to Him.