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FamilyRe: Men, Should You Get Parental Leave? by quivah(op): 4:07pm On Nov 02, 2013
bellong: Some countries do give paternal leave so that the father can have time to help the wife.

It is necessary for the fathers too because not only the mother's sleep is disturbed in the night when the young babe is hungry.
you get brainsmiley..

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Yes, they should - why not?

In the UK, a father is entitled to take some time off either because his wife or partner is having a baby or adopting a child - in which case, he is allowed to take:

~ 1 or 2 weeks paid Ordinary Paternity Leave, or

~ Up to 26 weeks’ paid Additional Paternity Leave - but only if the mother / co-adopter returns to work.

https://www.gov.uk/paternity-pay-leave

I would be a good thing if such laws / legislations are passed on in Nigerial - it's all in the best interest of the child.[/quote] awesome, i never knew its hapening already in some parts of the world
FamilyRe: Men, Should You Get Parental Leave? by quivah(op): 4:02pm On Nov 02, 2013
parismarc: I'll say Yes only for men that help their wives and have only one wife.
For men who have more than one wife,its a No for me,if for example he has four wives,he will be goin for paternity leave frequently,that doesn't make sense,and for men who feel they are the LORDS and KINGS in their homes and can't help their wives,what exactly will be d point of paternity leave?their presence will instead be a nuisance,abeg,there is plenty time 4 bonding,what does a brand new baby do asides sucking and sleeping,is it wen baby is asleep that u want to bond?
@bold, such men are indeed niusances lol!!...
And is it when ya baby starts going to school you develop some father-child bond??!..


Btw,the leave doesnt have to be months, 2weeks is ok for a caring father
FamilyRe: Men, Should You Get Parental Leave? by quivah(op): 3:57pm On Nov 02, 2013
[quote author=♥Dεs•Chγκσ♥]It depends on how the wife percieves and reacts to the financial fulfilment of her post-natal needs and requirements. Raising a 'baby' well is quite expensive. There'll be time for all that 'bonding' if the baby survives till wean-stage, hale and hearty.[/quote] all in one, you mean to go for a NO...
I presume there would be some pay during periods of leaves,so i doubt any financial p that might arise..besides, there should be some savings!!...
Dont you think it might be a lil late, i believe there would be lil or no time then.

FamilyMen, Should You Get Parental Leave? by quivah(op): 12:00pm On Nov 02, 2013


Do you think you should be given paternal leave?

To me;
Yes while men should not get as long as women since there is no healing process after birth for men,men should still get some sort of leave. It is vital that they take this time to bond with their newly born child and also take care of the needs of their wife while they recover...

Tho, some male sees it as sex discrimination...
Whats your say? And reason

Its opened to all..
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:07pm On Nov 01, 2013
NerdyInterests: Quivah, you got me cracking with the banter. Thanks for coming on board and great to have you around.
ha ha! Is banter another word for rebellious?

Thanks ma'am, it was nice having an audience while my bottom was being whooped *smiles*

Nice having you around too sis
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan 2013/2014 Admission by quivah(f): 11:40am On Nov 01, 2013
oboshan1: So why are people congratulating themselves on ui admission
lol thats because jamb has released the adm list... its not on ui's site but Haba bro! Its glaring na
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan 2013/2014 Admission by quivah(f): 10:34am On Nov 01, 2013
oboshan1: Has ui release admission list, cos there is nothing on their website?
NO...
RomanceRe: Can You Quit Your Job In Order To Stay Closer With Your Partner by quivah(f): 7:16am On Nov 01, 2013
Csami: Sister, u almost had everything right except for "a cheat is a cheat no matter the distant ". Distant is a strong barrier in a relationship and not everyone has this ability to walk away from temptation.
Op, ask your friend what is her guarante.
……
Thanks brother,..
But i believe im still right.. shey d guy wan dey tell me say e no dey sh,ag babes dre ni?
And wat i meant by the quote is; if such a guy is alrdy a cheat,bein closa wldnt chng d fact..
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan 2013/2014 Admission by quivah(f): 1:49pm On Oct 31, 2013
Fynestboi: Please kindly follow the planning thread for the forthcoming Nairaland Interschool Debate here:
NAIRALAND INTERSCHOOL DEBATE PLANNING THREAD
NO cheesy
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan 2013/2014 Admission by quivah(f): 1:33pm On Oct 31, 2013
^^^^^THEY don't know..
Tell them lol cheesy
RomanceRe: Can You Quit Your Job In Order To Stay Closer With Your Partner by quivah(f): 12:36pm On Oct 31, 2013
that would be a very silly thing to do na cheesy
Who guarantees a relationship? what assurance does she has she's gone get engaged to the dude after all? What if she loses the relationship at the long run?.... #two losts, will she start blaming the guy,cussing guys in general for her stupidity...?
Come again, bf??

Btw, tell her to ask her bf this;
What if you move over here to PH and plan our future together?...
Lets hear his reply..

Lotta peeps had survived long distance relationships.. let them keep pushing through jor smiley and if the distance keep posing as a threat, tell her , move on!!!wink
But seriously, she could apply for a transfer if possible tho..
I just wonder if her guy can do the same for her which i very much doubt sad

#all in one;
A cheat wil be remain a cheat,distance or no distance.
Lonely or not.. so i swear down i cant buy that "i dont wanna be distracted by girls" sh.it lool

Bfhuh!!
Christianity EtcRe: You Cannot Divorce Him Or Her, Else You End Up In Hell by quivah(f): 10:00am On Oct 31, 2013
yeahhhh! God hates adultery and divorce,yet Hes quiet on Polygamy..

Huh??!

@op Hypocrisy has no other better meaning!


Lol you can preach that to your female brethrens in violent relationships..

Btw, i can't remember where the bible talked about girlfriend/boyfriend...or is it from your own version?
Christianity EtcRe: Celestial Church Of Christ: Your Experience by quivah(f): 9:13am On Oct 31, 2013
STRESSFUL!!....


Hmph, temple or churchhuh Whats a church bro?
CelebritiesRe: ’i’m Dying For Chidinma Of Projectfame! Skuki’s Peeshaun Confesses! by quivah(f):
that arrogant filled dude?!!
Chidinma deserves a lot better..
Lol@im the finer of the skuki..

Please stop dying and just.....#take a look downcheesy





[size=4pt] die die dude, die quick! chidinma,mochedda,nnena and the rest will make a tribute song for ya!![/size]
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 7:13pm On Oct 30, 2013
obadiah777: huh, the 'd' ? tis nuffin. tis jus a regular 'd'
cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 7:08pm On Oct 30, 2013
obadiah777: gaddem heathen. smdh undecided
pardon me...
But whats the 'd' up there^^^
Have got some nutty thought in my head


FOLYKAZE: Obadiah is the son of thousand fathers. He claimed to be jew, britain and Nigeria. The guy is somehow.

Queeny I love your soft words....mind saying more? Anything
a man of many nations is born of none...lol
You a pagan really?? Checked somma your posts..

And hope this would be sweet enough; how do you do?
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:50pm On Oct 30, 2013
Mr President: Grumbling...hmmm
Sorry Aunty Quivah
angry angry
postrate mister..
Im old enough to be your aunt..cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:47pm On Oct 30, 2013
you guys are funny tho..

As far as there is fun insaults,one can go a long way..
Folykaze... please free them.. lets just have fun, i kinda enjoy you guys.. seriously!

And i aint stepped on,im quick to remove my foot..


And obadiah, you havent aswered my q, :/ are you Nigerian?? Silly yes! But the way you write tho!!
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:31pm On Oct 30, 2013
FOLYKAZE: after insulting her it then turns to party? Mr, kirikiri facilities need to be expanded, ya all are disrespectful and need to be in jail
but when i made a correction and voiced my opinion, i was labelled a rebel...
Guess they couldnt take to simple correction.
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:25pm On Oct 30, 2013
FOLYKAZE: Obadiah should change his moniker to Elijah777. He came back from long time famine and ya dead bones who had died from starvation wake up. Lol.
you noticed too..
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:22pm On Oct 30, 2013
MEILYN: u are so emotional, this is nairaland Miss and not real life.......
lool yeah, i should just calm and overlook the insults.. i getsmiley SMH
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:12pm On Oct 30, 2013
Mr President: OK OK OK. What's ur drift Babe? wink
be a good boy and go through my posts..


Thats if it interests you


Seriously,guess have missed out on what makes one a rebel.. to the best of my knowledge, i aint the only rebel and stiffheaded here.
Funny how insults are allowed but another person's opinion is tagged rebellious
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:04pm On Oct 30, 2013
MEILYN: cry erm i can see u like stories.. I have like 5 boring tales for u cry
one of which is, how obadiah has got 3 disciples


wait till you see a rebellious woman . ..
Im too intelligent to be one!

Till yall gat my drift on this thread,don't make fun of yourselves!!
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 6:00pm On Oct 30, 2013
mcfynest: i just hope she is ready to eat the scroll, but i bet it, after eating it she will come here to testify.....it taste like honey....
lol im no old wine brah..
That i disagree with your topic shouldnt make me one..
Take some corrections and change the topic to the right sense
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:55pm On Oct 30, 2013
MEILYN: MICAH 4 VS 5 For all people will walk every one in the name of his god, and we will walk in the name of the LORD our God for ever and ever.

It doesnt matter who follows who, cheesy cheesy what matters is that we are going to the same direction, which is the way of the Lord....
cool story bro..
Cool story
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:53pm On Oct 30, 2013
mcfynest: YOU ARE STILL ON MILK DEAR grin
and you on?!..
Abeg nobody is disputing its allegory..
But try and make your topic drive your intentions..

I was hoping to see some arguementsarguements

Mr President: How? I dont get you.
im not against the noah stuff..its not a new news..

Now you get me?? And stop attacking me! It makes me blushwink
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:49pm On Oct 30, 2013
obadiah777: grin grin grin from the sound of that name Sire, i am suspecting she chop periwinkle and ube remain grin grin
havent you had enough on the other thread? Don't be a bore
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:45pm On Oct 30, 2013
Mr President: We're open to knowledge and rationality Sweerie.
U should open up to knowledge too. You would be shocked what lies just beyond your eyes.
wink
you seem to be missing out on my posts

Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:43pm On Oct 30, 2013
Mr President: Cool down and learn Babe. Watch it all unravel before you...like melting chocolate grin on the tongue. U gat to be humble to receive tho' cool
indeed means ;
able)

1. (modal) truly; in fact; actually 2. (degree) In fact.

synonyms ♦(actually) certainly,definitely,in fact, indubitably,really,surely,truly, undoubtedly

interjection

1. indicates emphatic agreement

synonyms ♦absolutely ♦

Hope you can relate it to the post it was directed to..

Kapeesh!


Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:38pm On Oct 30, 2013
FOLYKAZE: the OP is on crack as usual. He came to vomit what he was feed.
prolly the ones obadiah's feeding him
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:37pm On Oct 30, 2013
Mr President: Education. To liberate from ignorance. To show that the real meat of The Holy Bible is coded in dark sayings.
indeed....!
Christianity EtcRe: .noah Story,(literal Or Allegorical)??? by quivah(f): 5:35pm On Oct 30, 2013
obadiah777: quivah what you chop remain for awon boys ?
is meilyn tied to your tail or is it yours to his??!
One of you is always fflw the other.. lol!


I chop goodwil remain, sometimes i wonder if you a Nigerian

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