byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

Funniest shiit I have read in this section for a long while.

Oga, na better woman u marry jor. It means she doesn't carry grudges for long.

Don't be too hard on yourself.

nzeobi:

Am not a member of any party but Mr. Apc supporter mind you it was Heineken lokpobiri an APC member that went to court.

my brother, God go bless you. These people think it's everyone that is hungry like them to be dependent on party activities before they will feed.

In coming years, women will dominate a lot of sectors in Nigeria and across Africa.

I have done deals with some businesses I found on jiji and those that made me buy were women because they handle it perfectly.


Congrats to this lady and the other computer science first class graduate.

olarge:
Someone that can't simply be happy for the accomplishments of another suddenly forming detribalized entity
we know dem

lol. I just got back and saw this.

The joke is on you man...

You should have quoted me though.

cinoedhunter:

That's a lie.. don't say what you are not sure of because you want to play the tribe cards. If you doubt, go to UNN, NAU, FUTO and do your findings.

don't mind them. They will be playing tribal politics to discredit the south east every damn time.

They feed on hearsay without leaving their mothers titties.

The ones that manage to leave and go to the east have a rather diverge view.

A client I recently got is a Yoruba man. During our interaction, I found out his views and mine about Nigeria are same.

I have to be honest with you, I found it hard to believe he is a yoruba man at first and I even told him his fellow Yoruba people will eat him cos of this. He said he does not care about what they think.

That same day(this past Sunday) I was assigned duty to join his team on a large project when he requested for something and I had the capacity to handle it. It's even the reason I am awake at this hour cos I will soon hit the road with my buddy.

I had to let him know my name and a few things about me. He did same too and told me he lived in the east. I exclaimed and echoed: "you lived in the east" ? He said yes, Owerri to be precise and that he visited there this year.

I was forced to tell him no wonder his views about Nigeria is very different from a typical Yoruba person.

Igbos go out to other regions, these people won't do same but would allow some persons to feed them lies. The next thing you will hear is igbos don't sell land to non igbos. Tell them to bring 5M so that you get them a land in the and you get dead silence.

Because most can't afford it, they assume igbos don't sell land to non indegenes. What they don't know is that land in the east is generally expensive.

I have visited almost all the states the south. I was planning to go North often but this insecurity there scare me. I will never call another man's land a useless place. Like an old neighbor would always say: no land is bad, it's the people in it that does the bad.

Tonnyray:

Yaaaaaaawns...
We haf heard.
Old man, Mr Coder, Mr Employer, Mr world problem solver traveling to somewhere that is none of our business... We have heard you.
Thanks for detailing all your achievements, we are more than impressed
We know you now
Your accomplishments speak volumes


Meanwhile Ebhomielen Ofure Mary we celebrate you and wish you everything you could ever wish yourself. The hardwork, discipline and consistency it took to achieve this can achieve practically anything in the world (even this coding that they're making to look like rocket science which I'm certain you have in the bag already).
I can only imagine how proud your parents are now. I stand with them to celebrate you.
You're the real slay Queen. Slayed mediocrity, indolence, laziness and a failing system. Continue to be a beacon of light to coming generations.
Peace out.

NwaAmaikpe:





The hate speech bill further aims the crosshairs on people like myself who without equivocation or any hues of grey criticize the ills of government.
We are threatened by this bill and hope it doesn't scale through because any truth that sounds unpleasant to our leaders is termed hate speech.
But the truth must be spoken.
Unless they'd rather we speak the truth only when outside Nigeria.

I really do admire Steve Biko and have the utmost admiration for Patrice Lumumba.
Ken Saro Wiwa is amongst my greatest Nigerians of all times and Malcolm X amongst my greatest Blacks of all times but God knows I'd prefer to die on top of a woman than to be executed just for speaking the truth.

Olarge, hope you have not been banned?

I was about to quote one of your post but was unable to do so.

Signify so we can continue

olarge:
Okay you lose.
Now go get a real job.

what is your definition of job? sit in office, wear suits, under AC, collect 200k at the end of the month...

olarge:
Same common sense you're totally bereft of that won't let you comprehend that common sense is not taught. It's acquired through pristine acquisition and application of requisite day to day life experiences.

When you are faced with real world, we will have discussion. You are still being fed, young man.

olarge:
You that your parents aren't feeding, Mr employer, Mr Coder, kindly list your accomplishments here
Oh I get the usual narrative: I don't owe you any explanations. Bwahaha. Audio entrepreneurs. We know you
Biko park well

Okay. You win. Now go take your food from your mum's pot.

olarge:
It's easy to bash someone's achievements without being able to point to a single one of yours Mr Coder
Audio employer wants me to join his logistics team
Bros stop embarrassing yourself here cos everyone can see you for what you truly are... and obviously aren't.
And speaking of ban, you're the only one who's been employing foul language here so speak for yourself. My parents taught me better

Nah nah... Your parents never taught you common sense.

Otherwise you would have known that school is different from real world.

You are still being fed by your parents obviously.

When you leave their house and can fend yourself, we can have a discussion.

For now, enjoy the free meal you are still getting from your parents

olarge:
This is super storyyyyyy....
Everybody be MD/CEO for social media

Dumb skull. You can only call yourself a CEO when you have board of director and shares to your company.

olarge:
What a thing to say on someone's sterling 4-5 years meritorious academic endeavour.
If this is not vile bad belle hating I wonder what is.

if you pull things shit too much, they will ban u and I.

What is wrong with your dumb skull? Why would anyone hate a lady they have never met? Is your brain programmed to see only hate? So someone can't talk about the school system that churn out students without practical knowledge?

PrinceGallant:


This is hatred. For her to reach that level, she is not just theoretically good, she is practically the best. And if you care, you can go to her department to vent your jealous. She can html your head, css your body and JavaScript your whole.
Rejoice with a successful lady, let your own time come as well.

What is wrong with you people and the word "hater"

Are you not aware that computer science graduate are hardly anything to meet current global demand because of the obsolete curriculum from Nigerian University?

Why would anyone hate someone they have never met? Does that make sense to you?

We are talking about the school system, and not the lady or her grade.

olarge:
The emboldened already say all there is to know about you, not your unverifiable audio self employment. As I anticipated you dodged the part about telling us what degree you graduated with and the problems of the world you've been solving ever since
You're what you are: a hater, nothing more nothing less. The thread is about the academic accomplishments of a worthy graduate, the least you sore losers can do is chip in a word of congratulations but no... it's now you see those who can't code smh. Ask yourself this question; if she was your daughter would you spew these same inane gibberish? It's amazing that in your world academic excellence and practical expertise are mutually exclusive. Your rants keep on about obsolete schools and curricular.. smh in this day and age it's a globalized world. People train themselves in these things. The knowledge is out there.
I've had 3 first class graduates as friends and I can state categorically that brilliance is only 20% of what it takes. The remainder is hardwork, discipline, consistency and tenacity. Without having met this lady I'm convinced without an iota of doubt that she epitomizes these. So I celebrate her. Ebhomielen Ofure Mary we now know and celebrate. Mr "I have never worked for anybody in my life" who are you?
Audio world problem solver. Park well joor

I don't bloody care about what you think about me or what you think about yourself.

You asked what I do and I told you don't work for anyone.

I have my own business. If you live outside Lagos, you can join folks that handle logistics for me

All these ones still thinks current world care about their paper qualifications.

Even you sef na audio you be.

I would have said more but I don't owe you any explanation beyond what I have told you.

While you snore, I will be on the road by morning as early as 5a.m between Ogun and Oyo state... What I am going to do there is not your business.

fergie001:

You don't seem to get it....once your ward says this man is suspended....all they do is forward the suspension letter to the NWC...who will call an emergency NEC and remove the Chairman.

The NWC is the administrative "oga" but the Ward is the most potent.

Why do you think the PGF called for Oshiomhole to call for NEC? They are all in it together. They are tacitly behind Obaseki.

As a party member, you register at Ward level not at NWC.

All I think Obaseki is pushing is that Oshiomhole shouldn't conduct the primaries for Edo guber.

Bless you.

Hallenjay:
eeeyah
But NWC will b the one to organise primary election withing the party and Oshiomhole will der leader or appoint who to do dat as national chairman. ..they will denial Obaseki d party ticket and d court will rule because d vested body to conduct d election does and it'll just go in d case of ogun state...The earlier Obaseki goes to pdp the better for him. ..removing Oshiomole as chairman cannot happen through him now. .it's a much a later task nt now

Obaseki is a Benin man. OSHIOMOLE is not a Benin man.

Tribal politics will play out las las

HospitalityDiva:
Obaseki is the most distracted governor in Nigeria currently. He does not need these distractions.

Oshiomhole should behave like the elder politician that he is. Sadly, he appears to be like the typical Nigerian politicians whose political ego means much more to him than the progress of his constituency.

He should stop listening to the acolytes and praise singers, and shealth his sword.

I think the Edo people should march out and demand that Oshiomhole stop distracting governance in the state. Otherwise, the electorate will end up being at the losing end.

I told someone here that Oshiomole can't do shiiit.

Dem think say na joke.

Skyfornia:
FFK always high...imagine this guy, Reno and fayose together in a beer parlour, Omo the bar go turn comedy zone.

this one think say the thing no reach him side haq haq haq

Annie001:
Bad belle people everywhere, it takes a genius to make first class, can’t we just celebrate her in peace
Many people make first class through cramming but do you think it a joke to cram
inferiority complex is why many of you are hating
Choke on her success

It is not bad belle.

The issue that brought the divergent opinion was whether she can code because its a general knowledge that Nigerian universities use outdated curriculum.

What is the point of getting a first class as computer science student if someone can't code?

That degree requires practice demonstration as opposed to other course.

Seems you have not heard of computer science graduates that can't code even in HTML.

Its the Nigerian educational system we talking about not even the lady's GP.

Why would I even rubbish someone's grade when I know what it takes to achieve such?

olarge:
Story for the gods
What did you finish with? How many world problems have you solved with your 3rd class?
Bloody hater

u are an idiot.

Go read my initial post that led to that bastard talking anyhow.

I said most computer science student can't code based on the obsolete curriculum used at Nigerian University.

EVEN HERE on nairaland, they go to programming section to get guidance. Majority are a self-taught programmers.

I did not say anything about the ladies grade.

But you fools who think paper qualifications will take you far without additional skills, which are not often available at moribund University, is why many of you will be without job for a long time.

I have never worked for anyone since I left school if that should give you about me and that is because I spent early year studying things not found in Nigerian schools while I was there.

I create my own opportunities and I do it without fear.

olarge:
A University of Ibadan first class best graduating student? Please what decrepit institution did you graduate from if you ever did? You haters should learn to shove your stinking opinions up your leaking behinds. This girl is a freaking genius by any standard. If you didn't make a first class you are not qualified to even respond to this. Nigga bow down to a sista that's greater than you.

I should bow down when there lots of first class roaming the street without a job? U must be sick..

I dont belong to your class of Nigerian who worship paper qualifications. Sorry. Check the next door.

First class that most can't solve real world problems?

Have you ever wondered why most of the lower class student tend to do better than those who top the class after graduation?

Like I said, check the next door.

mercytripletz:


Just take your jealousy and hate else where.
For her to graduate with a 7.0 (PERFECT CGPA), she can code very well.

most computer science students can't code. Shey na FOTRAN we still dey talk for 2019?

If u test that lady, she may not even know jack about HTML Css, php and other languages

Righteousness89:
How did you know What The CAN President He is Praying about?

Let's be Careful!!

What is he doing there are a time of election? Anyway, na Nigeria religious zombies I pity.

Zombies that do not know their leaders will sell them to the whites as slaves if it comes to that.

CodeTemplar:
Ha ha ha ... e pain am. Are you a contractor in Winners?

Just because someone comment here does not mean they don't have anything meaningful to do.

I don't work at Winners but I know when to fill gap when I see one. I have been busy with other projects plus one of the winners pastor messed up my friends money and it's been a hell of year for him.

We hope to get over it before the year runs out.

Welcome to tyranny unleashed.

Another Hushbingo.. FBI, where are u?

iammo:
Last time i checked Femi Falana is a Yoruba man, and Deji Adeyanju is a yoruba man, so what makes you Ibo boy think yoruba needs to chestbeat before you get our concern

you are not serious. You all should come out enmass and demand his release. Falana and Deji can't do it alone.

Demand for his release. WTF is wrong with you?

Iamgrey5:
Sowore is fighting for all Nigerians

I don't know why some people are trying to force a tribal identity on his protest.

It does not matter. Learn to protect your own when it time cos the Buhari u people are trying to sacrifice him for spoke on behalf of Bokoharam even before he became a president in 2015

iammo:
Some Ibos get problem sha

yes, we get problem for speaking up when others keep silent.

Omoodua007:


How about the sick Igbo man otedola rescued ?

how about the tens of Yoruba Airpeace rescued?