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@ goodguy

I love myself so much that what people/society say about me is like butter on a hot knife. I don't give a Bleep especially when it comes to my freedom and happiness. I'm my greatest critic so whatever people say about me is like talking to the walls.

Apart from marital unfaithfulness and physical abuse, it might get to a point that I'll be sick of the man and the whole marriage thing, and all I'll do is explain to the man how I feel and simply leave and be free.

I actually see marriage as slavery! Sorry to say it but that's how I feel.

Suck face abi suck ? _{Hmmm! Truth don deh come out small small}

Starting with You Ika! lmao

Like I said, I won't leave the man immediately. I'll give him a grace period but there's always a limit ya know.

Donzman and David, what happens if your wife is cheating on you on a constant basis? Honest answers pls! Thanks!

mamaput:
Whats the big deal as long as the[b] mother knows the fathers name. and the way to his village[/b]

lmao

Where is Hot Angel to come and defend Nigerian girls? Nonsense!

@Topic, I can only speak for myself. Haven't kissed any girl let alone a Nigerian girl but I've been told by the few guys that have been graced to mount on my lips that I'm a good kisser

Why blame America?

I'm optimistic but not naive tho'. Shit happens!

Whatever!

Donzman:
Be realistic, chances are that your man is going to cheat on you so your best bet is to work it out if it happens.

Donzy, why did you then talk about getting prepared for a next buyer?

lol ?@ Eurpho

Easy, I was just asking

You want to debate on Nigerian men and women?

lol. . . Been doing the same thing you do

Easy, what's your own answer and leave those blockheads and their research?

I know but I doubt if I'll remarry after a divorce.

Cabali, na today we begin see Christians!

Exactly! It all depends on the woman and the man though. They have to agree! But the future of the child has nothing to do with the man's family!

I barely know my extended family and believe me, they've not contributed jack shit to my bright future.

Tiffy, I feel you tho' but I won't leave instantly. I might not trust him like before but I'll still give a chance to live with the little I have.

If I can't take it anymore and I'm tempted to go into a new relationship with another man, then I might as well get a freaky divorce.

Eurpho, once I divorce one man, that's it! Ain't gon' remarry again!

Ummm. . . .First of all, I have a feeling you not white and there's more to your story.

Anyway, why bother about telling his family about the baby? If you insist on having the baby then go ahead and leave the man alone if he doesn't want to share the responsibility with you.You can't force him 'cause anyway he doesn't want the baby. You are the one who insists on having the baby.

So what if you have an abortion? Will you be the first to do it? No! and will definitely not be the last. It's possible you've had an abortion before but just want to have this one.It's also possible you haven't done it before.

All this noise about lying to you and all that 'ish is pointless! You've got the money and the ability to raise the kid so go ahead and leave the man alone!

Why worry about what the family will do? They can't do anything than accept the child but can't promise they'll accept you if he's indeed married to another woman.
If you want to tell his family and wife, despite the man's objection then go ahead. If the news ruins his marriage I guess you'll be happy.

You not the first to be in this kind of situation and I can assure you that this man will definitely want to know his child someday.

The future of the child depends on you who insist on giving birth to him/her. The family has nothing to do with his future!

Chill out girl or go see a doctor.

Eurpho, if you leave, will you remain single?

cabali:
If u are waiting for me to justify your sins, am sorry am not as smart as the one u should be meeting for help - Satan!!

Cabali, your replies throw me off my chair all the time. . lmao

Tiffy, so the minute you hear or find out he cheated/is cheating, you leave?

lol. . . you guys are so full of shit. Get over yourselves.

I thought I was talking to Mrpataki? Are you the same person?

I wanted to make sure if I had called you a hypocrite or fake Christian. Was wondering what gave you the nasty guts to address a comment to me.

Hey listen, quit your crap now and mind your business before this topic turns into another discussion.

lmao . . . . Wonders!

I think the sticker shit might be the best bet

That you a hypocrite and fake Christian?