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RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:15pm On Jan 08, 2007
*Sighs again* If only we follow a man everywhere he goes. Before you can catch a man in the act of adultery, he must be thinking of quitting the game after a long period of infidelity.

Does it mean we should believe everything people tell us huh

Tiffy, smiley

Wendy, I remember you smiley
FamilyRe: White Girl, Pregnant To Married Nigerian Man by Radiant(f): 11:02pm On Jan 08, 2007
My post, bitchy? Hmm!

As for the woman, she should be prepared for anything and expect both the good,the bad and the ugly. Having a baby for the man is no guarantee she'll be accepted. Ohh! Prolly will get to know the man's village and his name like you'll say at least if nothing good comes out of her visit.
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 10:51pm On Jan 08, 2007
Ummm. . . don't really understand what went on in this thread since my last post. Na wa o!

Anyway, I don't know why I'm not so worried about my "husband" cheating on me. It's a bit strange I know. The issue of STD and what have you scares me though but, one lie I can never tell myself is "my boyfriend/husband will never cheat on me". Says who? We call men pigs and dogs because that's what they are. If one can walk out on the first news, then it's better to remain single 'cause it's 99% possibility a man will cheat! Women are more reserved when it comes to cheating but they cheat too!

It all depends on the level of cheating and the man's relationship with the women and how often. Actually most of these women who claim their husbands cheat have never caught them in the act. They usually hear from their friends or there are signs and suspicions but no certain evidence.

I should date my husband 'long enough' to know how bad he can be. I can't know a man is a womanizer and go ahead and marry him. I definitely know what to expect. If he occasionally cheats for whatever reason but I don't get to find out, then that's good for me. If I happen to find out, I'll ask for the reason for such unfaithfulness and from there we can decide how to sort out the matter. But to just walk out without him being partially involved with another woman is not really something I'll do.

Some women can be really difficult to put up with and a man's next move is to go meet a woman who will say things he wants to hear and obviously satisfy him sexually.Some women are really a pain in the neck and men are such weaklings that they don't know how to handle such people most times. Men tend to give up faster than women.

This issue is too delicate and very sensitive. This is one issue I can afford to put up with for a certain period unlike physical abuse where I'll walk out before a 2nd punch.

We should try and understand our wife/husband and communicate always. It's not right to cheat but shit happens! It all depends on how one handles the situation when caught and how he/she amends his/her ways. This issue is too delicate and sensitive! Only God can save us from diseases and heartbreak 'cause we can't vouch for anybody! *Sighs*
FamilyRe: White Girl, Pregnant To Married Nigerian Man by Radiant(f): 9:39pm On Jan 08, 2007
What will the man's family do for her and the child? How concerned can she be? Abegg!

Like I said earlier, she should keep in touch with the man and the baby will be fine. The idea of meeting his family and ancestors is completely pointless! My opinion!
RomanceRe: [poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin? by Radiant(f): 1:39pm On Jan 08, 2007
Mugu!
FamilyRe: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(op): 1:37pm On Jan 08, 2007
I see you have a reason to read up such infos. Goodluck!
FamilyRe: White Girl, Pregnant To Married Nigerian Man by Radiant(f): 12:05pm On Jan 08, 2007
Uche, and if she goes to the man's family, what happens next? They'll give her a room in the family house and take care of her and the baby? Abeggg!

White people don't really bother about this 'ish. I really wonder if this woman is white undecided She can keep in touch with the man but to go digging into his family is giving herself a long lasting headache!

Uche, you talking as if you not a Nigerian. She want's to know the family huh? She should go ahead. Not my problem!
FamilyRe: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(op): 11:55am On Jan 08, 2007
Easy, I know they're such links but to go digging them and reading them is way out of my comprehension.

Easyy:
why does this not suprise mehuh
Why should it? Go n sleep my friend!
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:50am On Jan 08, 2007
I'll be back later with my reply smiley
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 12:27am On Jan 08, 2007
Off to bed. Goodnight y'all .Honey, y did u come late? smiley
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 12:20am On Jan 08, 2007
Donz, that don't trip me at all. After white dress, what's next? Black and blue face? grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders Who Piss Me Off by Radiant(f): 12:16am On Jan 08, 2007
lol
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 12:15am On Jan 08, 2007
hehehehehehe wink wink wink
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 12:14am On Jan 08, 2007
It all depends on how the guy will adapt to my desires and also bend for me. I'll bend too but he must be a really good person. Otherwise, no marraige but will defintely have kids. wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: Check Out My Pictures by Radiant(f): 12:01am On Jan 08, 2007
@Poster, why u flattered? Like you would have posted your pic if you looked contrary to them comments?

Like your contacts tho'.
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2007
lmao grin
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:55pm On Jan 07, 2007
Ok! All thanks to TOH for killing your enemies grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 11:49pm On Jan 07, 2007
U need to hear them sweet and sensational words huh? grin
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:48pm On Jan 07, 2007
Ohhh! I think say u deh mad true true tongue grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:40pm On Jan 07, 2007
C'mon shatap there! What u feeling like?
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 11:39pm On Jan 07, 2007
cool
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 11:30pm On Jan 07, 2007
Ole cheesy
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:24pm On Jan 07, 2007
I always enjoy when Tiffy and Donz scratch on their faces grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2007
Mckren too don deh confess hin own small small wink grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:11pm On Jan 07, 2007
It's all about, a lil' bit of this and a 'lil bit of that. No greediness will be tolerated but everything in moderation and there's no room for ungratefulness in my books. tongue
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 11:09pm On Jan 07, 2007
As per say u get wetin make you a proper female huh? wink grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:08pm On Jan 07, 2007
roflmao grin Tiffy baby, na madness heee? grin
RomanceRe: Lepa Or Orobo? by Radiant(f): 11:06pm On Jan 07, 2007
lmao @ iice and Bigjay grin
RomanceRe: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:02pm On Jan 07, 2007
What I can do, I'll do and what I can't, I won't do! Is that a reason for a man to cheat?

You guys are funny. Forgetting a woman and her husband can be cheating too huh? grin
FamilyRe: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(op): 10:58pm On Jan 07, 2007
Easy, this one you know all the links and whatever, are you a victim?
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Radiant(f): 10:57pm On Jan 07, 2007
lmao. . . Ika, mind you o, some guys go like you more if you sabi suck lipsrsealed wink wink wink

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