₦airaland Forum

Ummmm. . .you've been "scared" of loosing her since 2001? This is 2007! Oh boy, when you're serious about this girl, you won't need an adviser to guide you.

My own advice is, you get serious!

How u doin today?

Mrpataki, what's this all about?

Donzman:
Do I smell feminism in the air?. . .

If a man is cheating on you, he doesn't want you around anyway, get a grip and leave. Refurbish and repackage yourself for the next buyer!

And how sure are we women that the next freaky "buyer" won't cheat on us? Or are you saying we keep moving from one pig to another. For how long

The moment I can't take it anymore from one man and make up my mind to leave, that's a stamp on my mind to remain single! Another "buyer? lmao. . . Impossible!

Goodnight y'all. Tomorrow is another day

TOF,

lmao. . . Oki then. I'm off to bed. Goodnight!

why u deh do hmmm? No be u I see that day weh deh wash plates? U don forget abi?

lol

lmao. . . u Bleep up sha but I feel ya

PTBNaija:
I completely agree. In the Nigerian society, the male is the bread-winner and he alone makes the money. So if the woman is in this marriage and the man begins to cheat, if she leaves, it's like what will she do? Everything belongs to the husband and she would have to fend for herself. And the whole family living with this mentality for a long time is likely to just tell the woman to go back into the marriage.

That's why women should stand up for their right to work and not end up raising kids and cooking for the man and his friends. Gosh!

Women, stand up and be strong! Make your own money and be who you want to be! I know a lady who's a law degree holder but has never practiced. What nonsense! Bread-winner my awesome career!

Tiffy, I understand what you saying exactly.The Nigerian society is upside down!

The issue is that marriage doesn't trip me. Me staying married isn't because I want to maintain the "Mrs" title. It all depends tho'. If we don't have any issue at the time I discover he cheats on me, then there's a high chance of me leaving him. If we've got a kid and this springs up, for the sake of the kid, I 'll hesitate before leaving him. If it continues and I still find out, I'll surely walk out and remain single. I'll sure have flings with other men but won't remarry. It's pointless 'cause almost evey guy out there is bound to cheat so instead of marry another pig, I'll have flings.

About disease, it's only God that can save us. A friend of mine said as long as her husband uses condom, she's fine

lol. . . u no get liver?

If it's repeated, he has two options. Either the marriage packs up or we have an open relationship. He'll definitely choose the first option than see his wife mingling with other men .If he still wants the marriage but can't help cheating, when I'm completely fed up, I'll sure walk out either he wants it or not. There's a limit to which one can push a matter

Because the wedding is over, Kit.

What wrong in asking about your wifey

Wow! NL Talk Show.

I personally will not leave a man immediately I find out that he cheats on me. It all depends on how he goes about it. If he cheats on me and sees it as no big deal, then that's a problem.
It's very possible to still love a man that cheats on me but the tendency for me to remain loyal to him is very very low. If I find out he's cheating on me, he'll have to give me his reasons and if his reasons aren't due to my frailties, then he's in for a cat and dog affair 'cause it's either the marriage packs up or our relationship is an open one and no hard feelings!

The point is that I won't even trust my husband. Majority of men are cheats!!! As long as I don't find out, goodluck to him 'cause this is an act almost inevitable by men.When I find out, the relationship will change tho' but I won't leave him instantly.

You next!

TOH, Really? I didn't see it. Can you pls send me the link.

lol. . . dem get age weh be say persin no fit chop cake again? Kit, I don deh fear u small small o

So madam don become car huh? Whitex, U need cane

When I saw the topic, I was happy until I read the first post and others.

ZuluNation:
That's why you'll be my second wife Snazzydawn . When can I con meet your father?

Sharp sharp!

Kitaun, you don chop ur own abi? Na hin make u get mouth.

Hang out? I heard the news in your Church on New year's day. Your prophets announced the good news. Or may be they were actually prophesying. Hmmm! Not sure what I heard again o


Whatever the case, I hope L is doing good?

If you say so.