FKO81:

I hope it's not after1 or subway they kidnapped Where is Deji of Akure and shallow chest beaters OPC watch out they will blame Igbo for this incident

They won't and they never did. It's always the other way round. The igbo blaming the Yoruba or Hausa for all their misfortunes.
It's part of your culture and traditions to blame others for all evil that befalls you.

Good for him if truly he has found the through path in Christianity. ..but he should have been very fair in his testimony and tell who will kill him should he come and pronounce being a Muslim.

For as much as i know, the Yoruba race hasn't gotten to the level of killing one another because of religious affiliation.

Lemon12:
Pls som1 should tell President Buhari that it's almost 10hours since he took over yet we don't have light in my area,shebi he promised us light??even the queue is still here in this filling station and d roads are still bad,what has he been doing in there since he was sworn in.. !

Some people will find it difficult to cope with Buhari being their president cos of their bias and hatred against him. They will never see any good in his reign. Few min to his inauguration, they are running insane............ I pity their physiological condition, cos they will have this to deal with for good 8yrs. .... Haaaa, or ma Se oooo.

viczing:
Buhari is a certificateless

Tinubu is a drug load

Osinbajo is corrupt for mingling with tinubu

*singing* march am march am buhari don fall for ground ooo... march am march am, buhari don fall for ground oo match am x3.....

God bless our president

You didn't add that Jonathan is a clueless drunkard and woman wrapper.

You did add that Sambo is 'cerrificateless' dump

*singing* I have decided no vote Buhari no turning back, no turning back.

nwafuluozoh:
The downfall of a man is not the end of his life. It sure wasn't Okupe's proudest moment but he had just been reminded that some few knuckle heads still want to vote Buhari and need to be won over.

Just like the journalists are trying to talk reality into his indomie brain and win him over.

Well I don't blame him, he knows the truth and reality, he is only trying to keep his job.

Just read about Dajjal in Rihad-u-saliheen during tahlim and I observed that many muslims know nothing about Dajjjal. They believe Dajjjal (anti-christ) is believed by the christians alone.
Funy enough, most christains are not detailed in the understandings of everything about Dajjjal as much as the prophet puts it.
Some of my christain colleagues at work were reaLly amazed how much I know with details about dajjjal more than they know or have heard of.

My major concern here is that the prophet (pbuh) said in one of his explanations that the more the ummah forgets about Dajjal, the sooner it is for him to appear.

To keep us awake and prepared about his coming, am sharing with us the tafsir of Dr. Zakir Naik about Dajjal. Culled from his Facebook page. Very detailed.

Dajjal: In the Light of Quran and Sunnah.

The word Dajjaal is taken from the expression “Dajjala al-ba’eer The root dajala means to mix. The word dajala is used to mean deliberately confusing matters and being vague and ambiguous, The Dajjaal is the one who speaks in vagaries, who tells many lies and deceives many people.

Contents.
a) Description and attributes of the Dajjaal
b)The Dajjaal will not have any children
c) From where the Dajjaal will emerge
d) Places which the Dajjaal will never enter .
e) The followers of the Dajjaal
f) The fitnah of the Dajjaal
g )People of the tribe of Bani Tamim would stand firm against Ad-Dajjal
h) Protection against the fitnah of the Dajjaal
i) The death of the Dajjaal

a) Description and attributes of the Dajjaal

1-The Dajjaal will be a man from among the sons of Adam. He will have many attributes which were described in the ahaadeeth to acquaint people with him and to warn them of his evil.

Hadith-1
Sahih al-Bukhari > Afflictions and the End of the World
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:Allah's Apostle said. "While I was sleeping, I saw myself (in a dream) performing Tawaf around the Ka`ba. Behold, I saw a reddish-white man with lank hair, and water was dropping from his head. I asked, "Who is this?' They replied, 'The son of Mary.' Then I turned my face to see another man with a huge body, red complexion and curly hair and blind in one eye. His eye looked like a protruding out grape. They said (to me), He is Ad-Dajjal." The Prophet added, "The man he resembled most is Ibn Qatan, a man from the tribe of Khuza`a. "
(Bukhari English reference : Vol 9, Book 88, hadith 242, Arabic reference : Book 93, hadith 7215,Sahih al-Bukhari > Interpretation of Dreams :English Ref -Vol. 9, Book 87, Hadith 153 Arabic Ref :-Book 92, Hadith 7112,Sahih Muslim > The Book of Faith: English Ref : Book 1, Hadith 327 , Arabic Ref :- Book 2, Hadith 447)

Hadith-2
Sahih al-Bukhari > Oneness, Uniqueness of Allah (Tawheed) ->
Narrated `Abdullah:-Ad-Dajjal was mentioned in the presence of the Prophet. The Prophet said, "Allah is not hidden from you; He is not one-eyed," and pointed with his hand towards his eye, adding, "While Al-Masih Ad- Dajjal is blind in the right eye and his eye looks like a protruding grape."
(BukhariEnglish reference : Vol. 9, Book 93, Hadith 504; Arabic reference : Book 98, Hadith 7496;Sahih Muslim The Book Pertaining to the Turmoil and Portents of the Last Hour English reference : Book 41, Hadith 7005Arabic reference : Book 55, Hadith 7545)

It's a very long text. Complete text here

https://m.facebook.com/notes/zakir-naik/dajjal-in-the-light-of-quran-and-sunnah-complete-information/266659076820292

See also
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masih_ad-Dajjal

Elculio:
So are u saying Buhari should not be held accountable for his past actions. You should be objective in your comments and don't allow sentiments and hatred cloud your objectivity. And stop attributing any post that's not in favour of your candidate as the handiwork of PDP.

Just like you are saying Jonathan's incapability and irresponsibilities for the past 6 years should be overlooked. And he shoUld be allowed to totally shut down Nigeria.

BTFormular:
I know say you na muslim. I hate GEJ with all my life but See if to say na atiku or fashola(muslims) contest I for vote foe dem. But buhari no way. GEJ till 2019

I know say you na Christian. When Muslim vote Obasanjo, no wahala. WheN dem vote GEJ 2011 no wahala. When all the Governors of South West be christain no wahala. Na now wey people come support a better person against d daft president na dt time religion come be issue.

Why PDP no give Pat Utomi ticket against Buhari or whoever APC present . Abi na only the ode fromantic utueke be the best Christian for PDP?

GEJ and his slowpoke cabinet members, PDP members and supporters know they are fa student loosing it. That explains the reason for they aggressive media campaign, false accusations, illogical assumptions and propaganda against Buhari.

If truly GEJ and his PDP supporters truly know that GMB cannot win the election, why give themselves sleepless night over Buhari. Why not allow his attempt die a Natural death.

It's very obvious how desperate GEJ and his people are. He doesn't want to loose without giving a destructive fight.

please kindly send to message4wale@gmail.com
thanks

would appreciate if anyone can help clarify this.

will NOUN offer D.E admission to 300L Data Management or Comm Technology using HND Up credit.

is anyone taking the exams this September or December?

Would be taking the exam in December by his grace.

Firefire:

arakurin, oje. dakee tii o ba. mo. Nkankan.

Talo naa eeeee tiii ara. finroeeeee

God hate lies and liars.

Logically, God Hates You!

what do u expect. Accept to work for GEJ, get your case squashed if u are nt yet convicted, or get a presidential pardon if you have been convicted. IN ADDITION TO THAT, you bcom a minister, or get PDP ticket for governor of your state or senate.

I can bet Ministerial appointment or senatorial ticket awaits FFK.

It is logical to reason that PDP/GEJ planted some mole in APC to do some dirty job like causing chaos, disagreemnt and talk ill of APC as an aggrieved insider, then go back to their pay master having accomplished their mission. e.g shakarau, ffk.

well apc actually gave room for their own self destruction.

naija2dabone: Dear God,

You are the Almighty God. You are God all by yourself. No one elected you and no one can impeach you.

I pray for your son Jonathan, who is faced with principalities and powers that have held this nation down in backwardness and darkness for decades. These demons now bear various names including Boko Haram, NPDP, APC, northern Elders forum, NGF, etc. All these demonic wickedness in high places have one common mission: to stop your son Jonathan from completing his transformation programme come 2015.

Dear lord, in whatever way/form they come against your son, let them fall in shame. Let their wicked imagination not see the light of the day, Let their evil plot backfire and may they never see the throne of this nation.

Throw your weight around oh God and let them know there is a God in heaven who rules in the affairs of men.

Thank you lord.
In Jesus name

Dear Almighty creator,

You created Jonathan , me, the author of d above prayers and all Nigerian citizens.

It is not your will for an inhumane person to rule us, but its our own doing. This time, we seek for forgivness and devine intervention towards electing a Good leader come 2015.

As for d author of the above prayer and all those who wish the same, they have seen GEJ as d best Nigerians can get, if so, I seek dt you rule and transform their lives d way GEJ has done to dt of a common Nigerian.

Better their lives the way GEJ has done to d Nigerian masses, worsen their lives in a like manner GEJ has done to us.

Considering how GEJ and his administration has used our resourses On us, use your blessing On them d same way.

Make them realise that GEJ is trully d best for them but not for us by adopting .

This alone we seek from you these day

We know you have seen us all, and you have heard us all.
We soley depend On your intervention in 2015. We do not want GEJ and anybody like him, but we seek for a leader far more vissionary, creative and considerate than Fashola, far more trust worthy, deciplined and patrotic dam Buhari.

A leader who knows wat to do, how to do it and when to do. A leader whom you would guide right agains all odds.

Thank you creator,

Amen.

Election Rigged b4 Voting. The Anambra state election is would be a test for PDP's strength in the SE and APGA's (A subsidiary of PDP) proclaimed relevance in the SE against 2015.

So all machinery must be put to test to ensure dat d rigging machine is stil effective.

Mr Aboki: Phuck the House & their report..






Farouk is sitting in their midst everyday and they have the nerve to judge someone else!!


WAKA!!!!!

Who be this mumu tribal dog.

Can two wrongs ever make a right. Just because farouk is still seating in the house, this corrupt daft should be allowed to continue to suck d nation dry.
was farouk not indicted, was he not reliefd of all comiti apointmnt he was holding then.

I am sure you dont know d diff btw appointment as a minister and election as a lawmaker. Odua you sister/ mother can be and should be sacked. But no one can sack farouk except the electorate who elected him


So its either u go to farouks constituency and go and advocate for his call back because oduah has been sacked or better still go and hug transformer to protest her removal.

I wonder what d future holds for nigeria with goats like u.

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By Emman Ovuakporie, LAWANI MIKAIRU & Levinus NwAbuhiogu
ABUJA — MINISTER of Aviation, Princess Stella Oduah, yesterday, told members of the House of Representatives Committee on Aviation that the BMW armoured cars that were allegedly bought at a cost of N255m by the Nigerian Civil Aviation Authority, NCAA, were not meant for her personal use.

As Co-ordinating Minister for the Economy and Minister of Finance, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, also denied granting waiver for the clearing of the armoured cars.

I didn’t grant waiver for amoured cars —Okonjo-Iweala

The Co-ordinating Minister for the Economy and Minister of Finance, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, has denied granting waiver for the clearing of the armoured cars.

Dr. Okonjo-Iweala said in a statement issued by her Senior Special Assistant, Mr. Paul Nwabuikwu, in Abuja, that she only granted waiver for the clearing of cars to be used for 2012 National Sports Festival, EKO 2012, hosted by the Lagos State Government.

According to her, it was the Lagos State Government that applied for waivers for the importation of the vehicle for the festival, as contained in a letter dated June 23, 2012. She explained that the waiver affected Coscharis Motors Nigeria Ltd, only in relation to its being the official partner for the supply of automobiles for the sports festival and no more. The statement read in full:

“Recent media reports which claim that the Federal Ministry of Finance granted a waiver to Coscharis Motors Nigeria Ltd for the purchase of armoured cars are totally false and without foundation.

“Rather, on June 23, 2012, the Lagos State Government applied for Waiver of Destination Inspection Charges and Duty Exemptions for Coscharis Motors Nigeria Ltd, the official Automobile Partner for the National Sports Festival (“EKO 2012”), to purchase 300 vehicles on its behalf for the event.

“Since the Lagos State Government met the laid-down criteria, the waiver was granted.

“It is also important to clarify that the waiver granted to the Lagos State Government for the event did not include the purchase of armoured vehicles”.

Oduah disclosed this at the investigative hearing on the controversy on a day the Minister of Finance and Co-ordinating Minister for the Economy, Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, clarified that she did not grant waivers for the controversial armoured cars.

Princess Oduah also told the committee that her media aides, who rose in her defence when the story broke by saying the cars were meant for her security, actually spoke in error.

Aviation Minister, Ms. Stella Oduah
Aviation Minister, Ms. Stella Oduah

In her 12-page presentation to the committee, she said: “As you all are aware, what necessitated this public hearing were the events that followed a false and malicious online publication that I had compelled the NCAA to purchase for me two (2) nos BMW bullet proof cars at the cost of $1.6million.

“Let me state emphatically from the onset that the allegation concerning the purchase of the two (2) nos bullet proof cars for me by the NCAA is false in its entirety.”

After reading her presentation, Rep Zakari Lafia Mohammed asked her whether it was a loan or lease that her agency obtained from First Bank of Nigeria, and she said it was the same, adding that the money NCAA would pay would still be below the N240million at the end of the year.

On whether she acted within the ambits of the law by giving approval beyond N100 million, she said she approved the money and asked the NCAA to do the needful. The committee and the Aviation Minister then engaged in an argument over what she meant by “needful.”

She had claimed that in her approval she said “kindly do the needful.” Rep Mohammed took her up by suggesting that “saying the needful means a go-ahead to implement.

Responding, Oduah said: “No, you are wrong on that, the needful does not mean full approval.”

My aides spoke in error—Oduah

On the defence put up by her media assistants, the minister said both assistants were wrong to have initially denied and also saying later the cars were bought for her for security reasons. According to her, the confirmation the media said they had was wrong. “As a matter of fact, their justification and confirmation which they brandished is nothing but the erroneous responses of my aides.”

She further said: “You may recall that there have been attempts at clarifying issues pertaining to this particular procurement. In the process, some of the issues were further muddled up. I mention in this regard the first attempt at clarifying the issue by the Coordinating Spokesperson for the parastatals when he was first confronted with the allegation, without recourse to the Minister or the Principal Officer of the Ministry and its agencies, who described the information as a mere rumour.

.”This was followed by the statement of my SA Media who was himself guided by his own perception of the duties and challenges of my office and possibly, even the danger to the person and office of the Minister. This is made evident by the fact that his statement focused on my personal security and safety without recourse to procurement process and policy file to which he had no access.”

The NCAA D-G, Fola Akinkuotu was then asked whether he did the needful, and he said he was not in-charge at NCAA when the order was given for the purchase.

Also, Permanent secretary of the ministry, George Ossi was then taken to task for allegedly misleading the minister by not advising her appropriately.

The committee said the permanent secretary ought to have asked the NCAA to do the right thing. The permanent secretary, however, claimed that due diligence ought to have been done by the agency before applying for approval. He claimed that he was not available at the time everything happened. The D-G also said he would have followed the Procurement Act if he was the one the directive was given to do the needful. He said the acting D-G, Joyce Daniel Nkemakolam ought to explain why he did not do that.

In his evidence, Nkemakolam said: “We interpreted the directive to mean to go through it in line with the Procurement Act”. He said due diligence was followed but they had a mindset that they were within the budget limits.

But when he was asked why he didn’t follow due diligence to ensure that it was in tandem with the procurement law, he said he thought since the agency had got the approval of the National Assembly, there was no need for such diligence. He was also asked why he initiated a memo to approve 54 vehicles when what the National assembly approved was 25 vehicles. He was reminded that what was approved was N240million and not N643million.

NCAA was further asked whether the board sought approval of the President to approve the car loan. Nkemakolam said he was working on the mindset that they were still within the approved limit explaining that what NCAA discussed with First Bank was a lease. He was asked whether the NCAA board approved the money and he said the NCAA has interim board and that he was working on account that it was a lease and not loan.

Drama in the house

The drama continued with Rep Manwe asking the former DG of NCAA to disclose who uses the controversial bullet-proof cars since the minister bluntly confessed that they were not bought for her use.

It was one question that got him jolted as minutes passed before he could provide an answer. And when he finally found his voice, he said: “Anybody can use the vehicles when they are in the pool. They are operational vehicles.”

But the lawmaker wouldn’t give up. He continued with a rider to the question. “Do you mean that a messenger or cleaner in the agency can use the cars?”

At this juncture, there was dead silence in the hearing room, with the D-G losing his voice for the second time. And when again, he found it, he answered this way: “Those categories of vehicles are for VIPs which include the minister, including you, the honourables.”

Just then a blast of laughter erupted in the hall which to some extent provided some comic relief to everyone. But Rep Manwe wouldn’t stop. He asked again: “Can we have the log book of the movement of the car?”

In a subdued voice, the D-G answered: “I am not a transport officer. I don’t know whether they are still keeping those log books.”

When it now became obvious that the D-G had exhausted all the answers he had, the lawmakers mandated the agency to bring the man who received the vehicles at the point of delivery by Coscharis Motors.

In her closing remark, the chairperson, Onyejeocha assured Nigerians that justice would be done to the report of the hearing.

“Fact speaks for itself. We have tried to listen to people — Coscharis, the minister, NCAA, First Bank, BPP and Customs, and we have their submissions with us. We will consider what we have whether it is in line with extant laws and financial regulations. We assure everyone and all Nigerians that we will do justice to this hearing,” Onyejeocha said.

Speaking with some journalists shortly after the hearing, the minister, Oduah expressed gratitude to the National Assembly for giving her an opportunity to present her own side of the story.

Police disperse pro-Oduah protesters in Abuja

A new dimension was added to the armoured cars saga, yesterday, in Abuja when the Police dispersed a group of women who staged a solidarity march for Stella Oduah. The women who numbered about 50 had stormed the Federal Secretariat, to protest against what they alleged was the continued harassment of Oduah.

They had had arrived the Federal Secretariat chanting solidarity songs in support of Oduah with placards of different inscriptions.

Some of the placards read “Leave Stella Oduah alone” “Stella has transformed the aviation sector.”

Speaking to journalists during the protest the leader of the group who identified herself as Rita Obu and President of Goodluck Jonathan Women Support Group alleged that there was an attempt by Stella Oduah’s political opponents to frame her up in the same manner they framed up Patricia Etteh, former Speaker of the House of Representatives. Etteh was forced to resign in 2007 over a scandal that erupted in the sixth assembly of the House. She was later exonerated of any wrongdoing by the lower Chamber of the National Assembly.

Commenting on the allegation that the Aviation Minister abused her office by pressurizing the Nigeria Civil Aviation Authority NCAA to purchase the cars for her use, the leader of the group asked: “Is Stella Oduah the only minister or public officer for whom bullet-proof cars have been bought in this country?”

She continued: “What her male political opponents have done is to frame her up.

Whenever, any woman is appointed into any high office in this country, the men would go and rake up untidy things about her for the purpose of bringing her down. They should leave her alone”.

In response to a reporter’s question she asked “Have the men exposed other political office holders who are also riding bullet-proof cars ?”

“Have male political office holders who are using bullet-proof cars been removed from office?”

“I want all these questions answered” she said.

According to her: “I am not saying it is good or not good for top government officials to be driven in bullet proof cars.”

What has been done to others who are being driven around in security cars?” she asked.

She said she didn’t want to mention names but was aware that other ministers and even governors were being driven in bullet proof cars.

In response to another question about public outrage over the cost of the cars, she retorted “The cost of security cars bought for other past top government officers was also too high”.

She maintained that all other top government officials should also present their bullet proof cars for probe.

She denied that the group was sponsored by the Aviation Minister to embark on the protest adding that the group’s major goal was to protect the interest of women.

She cautioned President Goodluck Jonathan against sacking the Aviation Minister adding that it would be tantamount to partiality on his part.

She linked the agitation for the sack of Princess Oduah as part of a plot by a cabal to destabilize the Jonathan administration.

Another group which identified itself as the Grassroot Movement for Unity and Stability also participated in the protest alongside the women.

In a press release circulated at the venue of the protest and signed by the group’s National Coordinator, Edisemi Yiki, the group declared that “our society will die the day men and women of good conscience choose to remain silent in the face of cheap baseless blackmail which cannot be proved beyond reasonable doubt” .

According to the group: “We are concerned that certain persons have constituted themselves into a secret cabal with the sole aim to undermine and rubbish the developmental efforts of the Aviation Minister.”

The group further stated that some of the present administration’s enemies see Oduah “as a threat come 2015 especially because her political machine known as door-to-door contributed to President Jonathan’s victory at the 2011 polls”.

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SW media at work, well Stella Oduah aint going no where until d Judge says guilty.

If the major media houses in d country have been tagged as SW owned, unprofessional and unreliable like you deed above, can you please list for us the reliable and proffessional media houses we can trust in Nigeria.

I guess the one you run abi.

Just to coverup the bad deeds of your ethnic corrupt sister. I won't be suprised if this same media houses turn the best when they take On Tinubu, Fashola, Obasanjo, Aregbeshola, etc.

However they have been the best when they reported the cases of Gbenga Daniel, Iyabo Obasanjo, Tafa Balogun, Farouk, Eteh etc.

Now I can imagine what would become of Nigeria if an Igbo man rules.

My imagination cant be far fetched just a look at how the igbo men presently govern their own states and how they did in d past under d military and also presently how they manage ministries and agencies.

Yeye people.

arsenalwenger: I wont lose sleep as long as source of the info are punch, sahara reporters or premiumtimes. These media houses have proven to be shameless\unprofessional for the past few days in sham journalism.


They are however fighting a lost battle cos the progress being experinced nationwide, in the aviation secror, can never be eroded by charlatans from a particular section of the country who believed that the control of the aviation sector is their birth-right. Funny enough they are already constituting nuisance to sane minds with all these unending whinnings.

If the major media houses in d country have been tagged as unprofessional and unreliable like you deed above, can you please list for us the reliable and proffessional media houses we can trust in Nigeria.

I guess the one you run abi.

Just to coverup the bad deeds of your ethnic corrupt sister.
I won't be suprised if this same media houses turn the best when they take On Tinubu, Fashola, Obasanjo, Aregbeshola, etc.

However they have been the best when they reported the cases of Gbenga Daniel, Iyabo Obasanjo, Tafa Balogun, Farouk, Eteh etc.

Now I can imagine what would become of Nigeria if an Igbo man rules.

My imagination cant be far fetched just a look at how the igbo men presently govern their own states and how they did in d past under d military and also presently how they manage ministries and agencies.

Yeye people.

babylolaroy: w/o sounding lewd, i wanto request for a clarification on dat numba 63 or so dat talks about understanding the husband if he isnt in d mood to be intimate. Toh Allahu a'lam. buh didnt the quran or hadith say that a wife MUST always answer such a call from ha husband? else she wud be cursed by angels till dawn.

Now my qstn is why isnt dat applicable to women since what is good for the goose is also good for the gander

To the best of my knowledge, I believe what the hadith is saying is that the wife shouldn't do it just because she wish to punish her Husband with it or dictate to the husband as regards when/when not to do it.
But for any other justifiable reason outside that, she has not gone against the hadith. Moreover, the husband would understand.

Moreover, if only someone can give us the circumstances guiding that hadith, the we would no when its justified and when its not.

I would suggest you go through this post too https://www.nairaland.com/1493672/loving-wife-odd-times


Allahu a'lam

As a follow up to my last post 81 Ways To Win Your Husband's Love https://www.nairaland.com/1485194/81-ways-win-husbands-love, I deem it necessary to share this too.

I wish to state that the content of lists such as this are just suggestions, and not binding on any one and may not work in all circumstances. The last post was seen as too long and as subjecting the wife to the husband.

But can tips on a successful life contract be too long?

Someone's comment suggests that she cant fake/act most of the points suggested just to please her husband. But when the marriage is head for the rocks, we would be forced to even over act the 81 points.

NOW EVERY RESPONSIBLE MAN SHOULD READ THIS:

Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
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Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.(But Yours is just awesome)

Love her…when she looks disheveled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change. Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her.... when she is not in the mood to be with you in bed.. She is only keeping you for a more pleasurable one next time

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new clothe anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive carefully. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both of you

Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!

?Love her…When there is no reason to love Her, the love her Most JUST BECAUSE SHE IS YOUR WIFE

All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.

• Treat the women well!!!
May Allah bless us all and make all the husbands treat their woman right! AMEEEEN

maclatunji: OP, this your list has me smiling. Really nice.

Thanks.

May be difficult to practice, but would go a long way to breed love, care and understanding in the family.

Morover, they don't apply to d ladies alone, applies to d guys too

Sissie: No 5. She should go to the door not RACE to the door.

No 8. Why shouldn't she ask him what he's thinking? Even if it's random thoughts, especially if he appears to be in deep thoughts.

No 23, that's if he provide "everything"

No 31, if she's not funny she's not funny, why does she have to go to the internet to look for joke?

No 53. You only know his financial condition if he lets you know, if he doesn't does she start snooping around?

No 54. If there are up and downs they both face it, so if his behavior change why does she have to keep her behavior the same?

No 66. Not all his shortcomings should be overlooked, some have to be worked on.

Hmmm, you sound harsh.

1-Listen actively. When your husband expresses an opinion or a thought, pay attention. This shows you respect him and his views and nothing pleases a man more.
2-Dress pleasantly/attractively. Mostly women dress properly when going outside and at home they wear worst clothes..U should dress urself so that ur husband will feel good when he looks at u...
3-Smell good.
4-Say thank you with a smile. When your husband does an odd job around the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more.
5-Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug.
6-Prepare his favorite meal. After he returns home from work on an ordinary day, surprise your husband with his favorite dinner. He will not only be glad to have the food he likes best, but will appreciate the time and effort you put in preparing it.
7-Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break
8-Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”… because unlike women, men’s thoughts are as random as the results of a Google search.
9-Give your husband a nice massage, after a particularly exhausting day at work.
10- Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother. Treat his siblings as ur siblings and his father as ur father and u would see then how much he will respect u
11-Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam.
12-Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
13-Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence) etc. This will build his self-esteem.
14-Tell him he’s the best husband ever.
15-Call his relatives for a lunch or dinner at your home.
16-Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.
17-When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested.
18-Stop nagging non-stop before Allah ta’ala gives you something really to complaint about.
19-Help him to find and build his inner strengths and skills.
20-Encourage him to do good deeds.
21-Share Islamic knowledge with each other. Try to watch Islamic channels together so that u both can learn.
22- If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over it, insha Allah.
23-Thank him sincerely for providing you with everything.
24- If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.
25-When you’re mad at him, don’t say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.
26-Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.
27-Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they’re good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn’t feel “cooped up” at home.
28-If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.
29[b]-Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings[/b].
30-Don’t get mad over small things. It’s not worth it.
31-Make jokes. If you’re not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him.
32-Tell him you’re the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you’re good at.
33-Learn to make his favorite dish.
34-Don’t ever, EVER talk bad about him with ur friends or family unnecessarily.
35-Use your time wisely and get things accomplished. If you’re a housewife, take online classes and get active in your community. This will make you happy and a secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.
36-Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or not to do. NOT give command or instruction like servant. Because Allah says in quan “They are garment to each other”
37-Tell your husband you love him many many times.
38- Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always looking fresh and crisps.
39- Ask Allah to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and love between the two of you, every day, every prayer. Ask him to protect that bond from Shaytaan. When a lesser devil destroys the love between spouses, he is the most beloved of Shaytaan.
40-The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Try to make his favorite food
41-Always let him know that you appreciate him working. It makes it easier for him to go to work.
42-Surprise him with gifts. Even necessities can be gifts.
43-Listen to him. (Even when he talks about extremely geeky things like Queries, Tables and other boring things.)
44-Try (hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies.
45-Take care of your skin, esp. facial. Face is center of attraction.
46- Learn tricks and “techniques” to please your husband in intimacy. Of course goes both ways.
47-When you are sitting together, quietly slip your hand into his. Your husband will love the easy expression of intimacy between you two.
48- If you are not satisfied intimately, talk to him and tell him. Help him or provide resources, don’t wait till matters become worse.
49-Prepare for special evenings with him with special dinner and exclusive time
50-Don’t discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is tired or sleepy. Find right time for right discussion.
51-Learn to compromise
52-Respect his rights
53-You have to know about the financial conditions of your husband so that you do not demand a thing that is too hard for him to buy. Because if wife demands a very expensive thing which husband couldnt buy then he becomes mentally tensed and sometimes he does not tell her wife about that.
54-Ups and Downs are a part of time. You have to keep your behavior with your husband same in both times. Else he will be broken. If any calamity strikes him make him sure that you are with him and will be always
55-Share your happiness and sadness with him.
56-Accept him as is, he is a package deal.
57-Send your husband a text message out of the blue with a message of love.
58-Send him an email without a reason.
59-Ask him to buy gifts to his parents and siblings.
60-Write love notes or poems and place them in the book he's been reading.
61-Teach your children to respect and honor their father.
62-Yes for flattery. No for arguing.
63-Call your husband with the best names, cute nicknames, and names he loves to hear.
64-Always give him pleasant surprise.
65- Preserve and guard the tongue.
66-Expect, accept, and overlook his shortcomings.
67-Expect and respect his jealously.
68-Put food in your husband's mouth.
69-Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
70-Don't ignore the small things, deal with them before they be come big.
71-Avoid being harsh-hearted.
72-Respect and show that you appreciate his thinking.
73-Respect and understand him when he might not be in mood for intimacy.
74-Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home.
75-Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
76-Have a good intention for him.
77-Designate a nice, clean, spacious area in your home for the two of you to pray at night whenever you can.
78-Let him have the TV remote. Granted, that you wish your husband spent more time with you, than watching the sports channel/NEWS, but it will make him happy.
79-Find a quiet moment with your husband to whisper “ I love you” in his ears. If you have already said it, say it again. You can never say these three words too often and you can be sure, that every time it will make your husband glad, he married you.
80--Hold his gaze. When you are speaking to your husband or listening to him, make sure that you keep eye contact. This will assure him of your attention and your respect, which is empowering to any man.
81-Take care of his money and properties.

A woman came to ask the Prophet (peace be upon him) about some matter, and when he had dealt with it, he asked her, "Do you have a husband?" She said, "Yes." He asked her, "How are you with him?" She said, "I never fall short in my duties, except for that which is beyond me." He said, "Pay attention to how you treat him, for he is your Paradise and your Hell." (Ahmad, al-Nisa'i Al-Targhib wa'l-Tarhib, 3/52)

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:

"Any woman who dies, and her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise."

[Ibn Majah, Book 1 Hadith 59

The parts in Bold I find very much interesting, I have no doubt a lady observing all these rules would have an everlasting happy Family.
If I have a wife doing all these (81), Walahi she would be the queen of my Empire .
Although all theses cant be achieved at a time, working on them one point at a time consistently would make the Magic.

Sallam.

What do you think?

romeo:

The churches were marked along with mosques abi?? Or only churches were marked for demolition? The real hypocrites are, you and that Boko governor!!

Have you seen Muslims litter an area with mosque buildings before?, so Mosque should be marked just as a compensation or remedy to churches that have been marked?

Now the Hypocrite is obvious.

kokoA: Nigerians and double standard.. Smh! A month ago, the government of Borno state marked some churches for demolition, christian nairalanders rained down insults on the governor and accused borno government of persecuting christians. Its a pity! Nigeria can only progress if we decide to drop religious and ethnic sentiments.

Just this same week, some daft were pouring insult on the LASG for closing The Chosen Church for sanitation related issue. They accused Fashola of being Anti-Christian and Anti-Igbo (Bcoo the church belongs to an Igbo Man). But this same set of people praised Fashola when he demolished the Only Mosque in the Secretariat and aslo deported some yorubas to their home state.
At least the Governor of Enugun is Not a Muslim neither is he a Yoruba Man.

What do they have to these now, is the Governor of Enugun now Anti-Christ?

REVOLUTNIS: How many mosque in Lagos has fashola shut for noise pollution?

Just about the same number of churches he has shut for the same Noise pollution even though the degree of noise pollution from churches are far more detrimental. just imagine a street with over 7 churches all with powerful sound systems on Fridays (Vigil till Saturday), Sunday (Morning till evening), and even on ordinary days when they have one or more church activities. Are they not constituting Nuisance to their neighbors?

Purpose of visit?

Is it mere coincidence that the above listed cases involves pdp stakeholders?

Since majority of them are still relevant to the party, then efcc will remain silent.