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adecz:
The Area Ibom & Cross River natives
are too backwards and unbelievably
superstitious.. 😲👹😈👺

That is why they generally do not progress❗️❗️


TUFIAKWA❗️❗️❗️


But how her kpekus come swell up
like fresh bread nah..😎

I think you're right. The guy I dated in school was akwa ibom. I regret dating that guy till date.

Neddstark:
Its not about tribalizing. Do a google search on housemaid maltreatment. 80% of them has igbo culprits.

100% please. It's always them.

News like this always touches my heart deeply. If I come face to face with such a woman, I'll beat the hell out of her, she'll pray for death to free her.

She don dey fine pass Chioma. Chioma already looking bloated and flabby.

Persephone1:
Culture differs and may influence opinions. Where I'm from, the bride's family shoulders the major responsibility when it comes to the wedding ceremony. The bride's parent carries most, and the couple supports them. Due to the economic situation, both the groom, the bride, and the bride's parents share the bills while the groom's parents support them.

Most brides consider what happens after the wedding so they hardly ever allow a man to go too extra. Yeah. You will see the color, the glamour, the flamboyant owambe but believe me behind it all is combine deliberations and calculations from both couple and parents. Nobody wants their daughter to end up soaking gaarri after wedding. It is very rare for wedding to be fully sponsored by the groom, that's a slap on Yoruba parents .

Correct! I knew you were Yoruba from your first paragraph.

Everything. I believe in 50:50.

leroi01:
Asides being wrong about all the drivel you wrote up there, you really need to get a life.

Don't come on nairaland to let off familial pressure steam.

Dear men, avoid this one. She's a shrew.

Prolly the type that will kneel for pastor and oga but will be a hag at home.

Sorry is your case. Consider yourself ignored.

leroi01:
Look at this arse kisser!

Further buttresses the point.

Seek help.

Arse licker kill you there. That's why you'll struggle to reach your potential. Your type has nothing, just empty barrel. You don't tell your interviewer as you please, that's downright silly. You should say, "yes, you can". Which one is as you please? Who do you think you are. If you didn't need the job, why did you go for the interview? Or who do you think you're deceiving with your online braggado?

leroi01:
See...just move on.. okay.

Move.

If you know your worth and have options, you would think and react differently.

Just move.

Thanks for your interest.

Bye.

Oh please just shut up. Do you know who you're talking to? Can you leave your job before you get another or you stay on your job pending when you get another? How much is your net income per month. Do you know the number of companies I've worked with? Just shut up there.

leroi01:
I mentioned an experience that happened 5 years ago... And you are worked up like this in 2023?

Seek help. You can Google some self help books.

It should help boost your self esteem . And help you learn "manners".

Oh just shut up. Who cares if it's 10 years ago? You were unreasonably arrogant. When you go for an interview, you're not going there to beg, you're not begging anyone for money or favors. You're there to win. And your senses should have told you that, when you want something from someone, the other person automatically has the upperhand. Give to Caeser what he deserves. Nobody asked you to grovel. And yes, you're daft and arrogant. No where did I say or imply that I'm nice. Afterall, I referred you to my comments on this forum.

You don't tell your interviewer "as you please" . That's just too much.

leroi01:
Shush there. We know your type.

You've been abused for so long it is now normal to you.

Like I said, have some self respect. Particularly cos you are a...lady.

Oga shut up there. It's obvious you have nothing upstairs, otherwise your insecurities wouldn't have gotten the better of you during that interview of yours.

leroi01:
This is exactly why your employer will treat you like shyt, disrespect you and still expect you to be grateful for it.

If you know the value you offer, you would Have some self respect.

You know, it's even very daft of you to go interviewing for a job carrying your shoulders. This is what I tell people. It's not a smart move, just daft daft daft. Humble yourself and get the job. That don't make you a doormat. When you get in, you can then do as you like, your skills and confidence will speak for you.

It's only insecure people and those who don't know their onions people walk all over. Not even your MD will disrespect you on your job cos you're confident. So when you go into an interview with pride, what do you gain other than add to your stupidity? You need to be strategic to achieve your goals. Not everytime gra gra. Go and read my posts on this forum, then you'll know I'm not a pushover.

Again, for your record, I've not had any personal experience regarding this topic or I'd have shared mine. Perhaps because I got the looks and I have a good taste in fashion. My appearance is always very appealing so you wouldn't want to "disrespect" me. Also, I'm very likeable so I always ace my interviews. Any questions directly about my personal life wouldn't hurt me, just don't bring my family into it.

leroi01:
This is exactly why your employer will treat you like shyt, disrespect you and still expect you to be grateful for it.

If you know the value you offer, you would Have some self respect.

You're daft. No employer has ever disrespected me. Infact, every job I ever left, my employers wanted me back and never wanted me to leave. Also, I always take the lead at my work place and every other place I find myself. If not that this is a very anonymous forum, would have posted proofs for you to eat your word like shit.

GodWrites:
You probably lack boundaries. Check your relationships and tell me I am wrong.

You're absolutely wrong. I have very strong boundaries both in my personal and professional life. I no dey take nonsense o. Now regarding interviews, I'm there for the job and the money, nothing else concerns me. Not even my interviewer's opinion or personality matter. I'm not an insecure person so nothing breaks me.

mofedamijo:
Don't confuse a recruiter, a hiring manager and a random manager as the recruiter.

I own a recruiting and staffing company, and I totally understand the frustration of some candidates.

We recruiters have a specialized training and industry standards on questions to ask and not to ask a candidate.

Wow. Finally, someone who's passionate about HR. Many people do this course and get certified for name's sake. They couldn't care less.

leroi01:
Hehehe...back in the day...2017 precisely.
I'd aced all tests and interviews for a middle management position with a financial consulting firm (big one).

Whether you agree or not, you were arrogant.

OmoOshodi:
SSS interview.....sitting in the waiting room from 7am till 6pm and nobody to tell you someone is coming to attend to you....only for someone to show up at 6pm to come he following day....for 3 days



Only the smart ones will notice the hidden camera in the room and knows that while sitting down there it is already your interview



Lol

These kind of situations are the easiest for me. I can hold myself well during interviews. If you like delay for hours on end, I wouldn't flinch or break. I know their game. Whereas in the real world, I'm an impatient person. Impatient to the extent that I don't use the ATM cos of queues. I'm so impatient to the extent that, people who know me personally will often tell me, " o de ma ni suru" - be exercising patience ahn ahn"

deen84:
The MD was asking me my parents occupation

What's his business? Now this is what I regard as a stupid question.

Emmamay10:
At the final phase of the interview, I was called to meet their MD During the course of our discussion, the dude asked me why I am yet to marry after asking for my age. I felt annoyed. I wanted to smack his bald head, but I maintained my calm. In a nutshell, we ended up laughing loud when he asked again if I were a 'Ibo man', knowing fully well that I am a Yoruba man..

This was really funny. But I wouldn't get angry if I'm asked why aren't I married cos really why am I not married at my age. It's a very sensible and objective question if you asked me.

fuckluv:
Power of money. The amount of money Rihanna spent on skincare monthly is enough to feed some people for a year.

I can spend all my wages on skincare that wouldn't bleach or give me artificial color if I know how to go about it. Na who know way know book.

I love Rihanna's preggy dress sense. Unique.

It's just the British accent I love die more than anything.

Creamypie:
Akpo-oreri for this dude. His hotel, car, bank account, e don forfeit them. All this small kids go just dupe person of his sweat wey e don acquire even b4 them born them. But the property cost pass the money he dupe this particular person oh. Once FBI collabo with efcc, even ekeweremadu and tilimbu no fit put mouth. See hush ekuke and invictus case

How is this cheap looking hotel worth more than USD268k?

Ajisebioyolaari:
That thing is evil. It needs to be banned. I've lost over 6m myself. Even when I had abstained for months, I still fell into the trap again and lost close to 2m extra.

Now, things are a little tight for me and ironically, I am happy about it. Because when the going was good, I wasn't doing anything meaningful with the money but gamble.

Government must ban all these betting companies. Youths are losing their minds on a daily.

There's nothing evil about gambling. It's greediness that's the issue. Once you tackle a problem from its source, you'll win the battle. Deal with the problem of greediness that u have first, and everything else will fall into place.

Naaa. What he needs is brain surgery and reconstruction.

komzy589:
I can bet my balls that women like you are ugly!😂😂

Naaa I'm not.

Poanan:
Which health condition? Bully knows how to bully even with his health condition, then he should be able to get beatings with that also. Let your son fight back they are both kids and you have to start teaching yoir son. The next time ypur son comes crying, make sure u beat him immediately and send him back to fight.

Beat him ko, beat him ni. See your twisted mouth like beat him. I'm sure you're very local. Illiterate or semi-illiterate. It's illiterates that beat their children anyhow. You talk like you lack exposure. Why would you beat a child because you want to correct him on how to handle bullying? You're not ok.

NoToPile:
The only challenge I see here is just because the child is autistic.

I have a son who is very calm and would rather report to his teachers and me at home than fight back, his teachers even told me he is calm and doesn't like fighting back.

One day he complained so much and out of frustration I told him to Fight back didn't know I gingered something in him. The teachers had to ask me at pick up time if I asked him to fight back, he actually overdid it and we all rested. No more nonsense from anybody for a while.

This was interesting to read. It means your son respects, loves and looks up to you. That's why he took your words to heart and your words encouraged him. I believe he sees you as his greatest support.

Xerona:
Hello Nairalanders, there is an issue at hand.
I have two kids and recently gave birth to the third few months ago. It's been really difficult for me since I practically do most of the house chores... my husband is hardly around because of work.

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Those people telling you to persuade your husband know nothing. The reason your husband is adamantly refusing you is that, he knows he would sleep with her. Take it or leave it. And that's why he's not giving you any reason.

Jashub:
Your emotional stupidity won't change the facts that she will be replaced once she starts misbehaving under her husband's authority.

I see that you've been carefully selecting weak women for relationship/dating all your life. That's why you're still flapping wings anyhow, yapping nonsense about how you treat your woman. Surely, you've never been with a woman who will deflate your overbloated ego in one fell swoop. I like dealing with men like you. You will eat your own shit if we cross paths. Nonsense!

Jashub:
Your emotional stupidity won't change the facts that she will be replaced once she starts misbehaving under her husband's authority.

Woe betides any woman who marries an egoistic animal like you!! Just make sure you're not hiding this horrendous trait that you have from your woman. Cos no woman in her right senses will marry someone with animalistic tendencies.

Jashub:
Dey there dey deceive yourself . Her replacement is already on its way

Why you talking like a crazy, angry fellow? Are you really crazy or just pretending to be?