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Ok i pray but u think u know a guy....most women and men that got into deep shit thought they knew their partners.







quote author=Rozz post=90164339]will not marry such husband sef, so it's never going to happen[/quote]

Happy sunday .

You have really fall my hand adanne....
You don't rush to judge a book by its cover.

People can change cos change is the only thing that is constant.

I have. Seen it happen and you should believe in it as well.

You the only lady I have composed a love message to here,I can say one or two words to other chicks but I feel more at ease with you.

Happy Sunday.
I care

adadike:
Air peace all the way

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You be the one to suffer it more at the long run....you think its easy to be a second hand when there are fresh young girls around.

You better have rethink and pray you don't experience such.

You thought marriage is boy friend girl friend thing.










quote author=Rozz post=90163637]When I get married and my husband dare such(God forbids),i will leave him and never look back.I can't stand such betrayal and whatever love I may have for him will be instantly gone.Nonsense all because of sex.[/quote]

Haba dear you don't need to be so rash... The deed has been done.

If he still gives her attention and love she should stay but if he becomes something else she should flee.

We humans are different and our response to family pressures differs .

Happy sunday










quote author=Biancah post=90161637] But he was interested in sleeping with her, no insults ma, but your husband is simply wicked.
He might also poison you one day if his family asks for it.
Your husband did what he did cause he knows at the end of the day, you will still forgive him and take care of his love child.

Pressurize ko, I guess they they forced his d*ck into the girl's vagina.[/quote]

[my candid advice is for you to be tolerant since u said he has not done to u before.


If u know h still pays attention to you and shows u love then accept the child as your own.

Remember we all will die here one day so no need to kill oneself because of anytin.

I hope you meditate on these words and stay with him for better or for worse.

Stay strong.










quote author=saphireadoo post=90160841]I have been married for 9 yrs now.I earn more than my husband, so i settle most of the bills while he supports. Some body called me last month and informed me that a lady in the village gave birth to a child for my husband and his family has gone to bring the girl to my husband house in the village. I couldnt believe it because he has been faithful, so i thought. I went to the village and confirmed the story to be true.When i asked him the reason for his actions, he said it was excessive pressure from his family to marry a 2nd wife because iam not their tribe though we are from the same state. I have had 3 miscarriages and 2 still birth @8 months, God in his mercies gave me a child last year. When this incidence happened, Close family members told me that the attack on my child bearing is from the family because they dont want me to bear fruits in their family. No bride price has been paid on this village girl who has a child for my husband but the lady is living with his family in the village. My husband said he wants to collect the child, he is not interested in marrying the girl. We love each other so much before now and have not had any major issues before now. Pls sincere advice no insults, am so confused right now.[/quote]

I don't believe in. That shit especially in Naija....its a scam they are using to loot money.

Apart from the well known persons we know coming to tell us they had it and recovered. Has anyone within our neighbourhood got it.


Naija where people gossip alot we for hear news of people living around us getting it but none yet the figure keeps going on.

Bastard politicians











quote author=RiyadhGoddess post=87687972]Ok so I have just shared this on a nairalander's thread where he complained of having cold and I thought I should also open a thread and share it to everyone out there who might be in the same shoes I was last week.

I understand that a lot of people are panicking now especially those with the coronavirus symptoms and are very much afraid to go check themselves because of all that is being said in the news or media. If you are in such situation, I will advise you to step out of panic, go to the nearest health center and get yourself tested instead of allowing panic take control of you.

Let me tell you all a story of what happened to me last week. I already shared it in my chat room though.

On monday while making arrangements for our TVC shoot, I all of a sudden fell ill. My temperature went up and I started feeling feverish. I quickly handed over to one of my team mate to oversee the work, then I left for the house.

On Tuesday, Wednesday I couldn't go out because I was too weak. Walking for 5 minutes became hell for me because I felt weak and dizzy when walking. I almost asked my whatsapp family what could be the cause of what's happening to me but I didn't want to create panic so I didn't. What I had in mind was malaria, or shortness of blood but my colleague checked me and said I have blood so I just concluded maybe I need to rest because I've been under stress lately.

Thursday we left Lagos for Abuja for our presentation. I was okay anyway. Friday morning I was fine too.

After presentation on Friday, my whole body system changed. My body was hot, I was feverish, having discomfort in the throat, headache and weakness.
Each time it felt like I needed to clear my throat, I would cough mildly to avoid panic amongst my colleagues and everyone present. My close colleagues teased me about having coronavirus knowing that we had just had a presentation on the virus that Friday morning.

That Friday, I lost count of my urination because I kept on going to the convenience every 5 minutes to pee and that's because I drank lots of hot water due to the irritation I was having in my throat. I became worried but my colleague told me to calm down that my frequent urination was due to the cold conference room. His words helped a bit...

The more I read the media especially on Nairaland, the more fear gripped me and there was usually this cold chill in me. I remember reading a thread on Nairaland where a lady gave a vivid story of how she got the virus, symptoms and date. At a point while reading, I felt my whole legs going numb and almost had panic attack. The more I read the news that Friday night the more I shook with fear then this numb feelings in my whole body and felt like I was going to pass out. So I forced myself to stay away from the media.

One Aboki had coughed on me severally even though I turned my face away inside a korope bus, conductor had spat on me while shouting bus stops and asking for money, a passenger had placed her sweaty arm pit on me in a bid to bring out her money, a drug seller had washed his sweat with his finger on me after shouting and hustling his Ghana seed medicines at the populated motor park and of course not to forget, in the Okrika market where I do business, lots of body jamming and these Igbo boys pulling of hands mixed with all sorts of salivas from different mouths... All of these rang in my head which made me panic more. I began to ask myself, "Shile you didn't have HIV is it coronavirus that you will now have?"

That friday night before going to bed, I called my colleagues and asked could it be coronavirus? They all laughed obviously I must have said it in a very funny manner.

Anyway I picked my phone to chat my Daddy.
I said "Dad I think I have the virus". My dad said which virus and I said coronavirus. My dad couldn't control his laughter. I told him see what is happening to me, he kept on laughing.
They all believed my mind was playing pranks on me.

Then I understood what I have been reading on the media was beginning to have an effect on me to the point that it has now replaced the promises of God in my life.

I remembered the psalmist said "The Lord is my Shepherd...I shall fear no evil for you are with me, your rod and your staff comforts me..."
I prayed to God to take control. Following day, my temperature was already reduced except for the weakness and I couldn't feel the discomfort in my throat.

We packed and left for the airport. During check, I was asked to step aside.

Obviously my temperature was high even though it feels warm to me but the thermometer detected it.

I was asked some questions upon questions in an office and my answers were NO. I have not come in contact with anyone who just arrived into the country whatsoever except for my public movements in Lagos.

The lady told me to isolate myself for 14 days for possible check and if there's anything, I should call the numbers given to me but by the time we were done, my colleagues had left me behind.
I rescheduled and came back to Lagos. For the first time, I summoned all courage and shared my story in my chat room on Saturday to drive all fears out of me.

This morning I met my doctor, ran some test and discovered I have malaria and a bit of typhoid which I have started medications.

I want you to know that there are lots of voices out there. Please choose wisely! Please use wisdom when deciding who to listen to. It's not every voice that is dependable at this trying moment. Please pick a few dependable information sources and stick with them. For instance, the NCDC, WHO, LSMOH are excellent.

If the news or social media is noticeably increasing your anxiety like in my own case, please limit the number of times you go on social media to read information that increases panic in you. For me, I completely stopped reading information till I got hold of myself.

Anxiety will always ask for more information. It is greedy and never satisfied. Don't fall into its trap! Also remember the Bible reminds us not to be overwhelmed by what we see. Our God is still on the throne! After the war, the Israelites came to moses and said "we counted and NO ONE IS MISSING" Number 31:49. I pray for you, From NOW till this pandemic ends, NONE will be missing in your family, among your friends and loved ones in Jesus name Amen!

Stay Safe, Wash More & Panicless. Panic kills faster than the virus itself.

God Bless You.
Shile.[/quote]

Good to know dear....

Had a busy day,just came in online to check on you.

Have a splendid night rest

Loveknitting:
How is okay

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Very wonderful one I had .

I pm you so we can chat better....how is Abj dear










quote author=Loveknitting post=90076319]


Yep morning hope you are good[/quote]

Congratulations man.

Am glad to be the first to write a post and to encourage you to keep it up.

You go far someday just stay focused bro.

Wish u d best.

Adanne how is the going with you?

Been a while so I checked on you to let you know I have you in my warm thoughts.

My full blooded sis and sweetheart,you are my one of a kind and I hope to see those wonderful features of yours someday(including flawless face).

I care

adadike:
lol. Already jealous? Am in My home state , Anambra. Just trying to help a nairalander coz I was born and brought up in ilorin and my big cousin is into estate management there

My loveknitting wad up?


How is life with you?

So how did you spend your day?

Interested here










quote author=Loveknitting post=89972317]


Yeah, thanks for your concern, hope you are good too okay bye for now, got works.[/quote]

Hello dearie, how was your day?


Hope you faring well out there.

Stay well and sorry for d other day.

Chinwe4real:
So, all you could deduce was prostitution? There are many evils younno. Fraud. Lies. E.t.c

Good to know dear.

Stay well

Yewandequeen:
Yea I am. Rough day but not beyond my capacity. Thanks man.

Just had fun I mean good fun(no much work at d moment).

Hanging out,trying new places and cuisines.

Also having ladies and guys turn their heads when I pass .... It gives a kinda pleasure and pride you know.

If I were to be born next time,let me b my same self.

Hope you still cracking necks out there...

Millenniumlady:
Lol. Oh sure i did....really excited ? Tell me about it

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Greetings my queen,
How has your day been like?

Guess you having your fun out there.











quote author=Yewandequeen post=89992223] sorry for late reply been very busy,

I am staying safe, hope ure too?[/quote]

Holla holla, she that makes guys to turn their heads...wad up?


Hope you had a beautiful day.

Mine was splendid and fun filled,really excited

Millenniumlady:
Nope you just look like one besides i don't like them because of how they oppress people

Hi my lady,how was your day?

Hope it was splendid.

Checking on you

makydebbie:
Thank you dear.

I don't need to quote exactly how u expect it to make my sense known.


Doesn't matter if we in 1420 bro

ForestHill:
RawHumper, learn how to quote properly; this is 28 May 2020

I understand chale....no p.

You can make it come true chale










quote author=makydebbie post=90030474]
Hopefully your dream comes true.
Oh please I don't reply pms.[/quote]

I hope to visit Ghana someday.

Chale can i pm you?

Thanks and pleased to meet you once again

makydebbie:
Thank you dear.

Its an honoroable profession.....love the patience and skill to deliver.

Keep it up dearie cos you are a gem

makydebbie:
I used to be a teacher until three weeks ago. My life as a teacher has been an amazing journey of self rediscovery and empowerment. It was also part of the key stages of my personal development and life goals growth. I didn't only teach, but I learnt as well.

While teaching my kids, I was also learning with them and from them. Yes, I did learn from them because one thing I discovered even deeper in my teaching job is how kids, being so young and so innocent at heart combined with their sweet natural unsuppressed, imaginative curious minds, can view things in ways most adults would ever not. Being around them rekindled an originally strong imaginative light and a beautiful sense of deeply natural observation that is always present in all of us as children but which we tend to outgrow and leave dormant when we grow older into our older teens, twenties and forties. Most adults today have lost their childlike wonder and innocent sense of belief that dreams can come through. Being around my kids as a teacher strongly reminded me of what exactly it is like to just believe and bask in the wonder of how truly beautiful the world around us is despite all its chaos and madness.

During my time as a teacher, I took the role of guardian for my kids, training and nurturing them to walk in the right path with regards to making their dreams a reality, supporting them along the way and telling them that they should never lose faith in the beauty of their dreams inspite of what the world tries to project as negative and impossible. I let them know that their million dreams can inspire them into worlds undiscovered and realms yet unknown.


Now, I wouldn't even lie to you or sugarcoat words. Sometimes, teaching can be the best job in the world and sometimes it's the worst job ever. Teaching is so very incredibly demanding.

I love my kids and I'll always remember them. From my very inquisitive Alberta, to video vixen Emmanuella and my peaceful Doris. I love them all. They are awesome!

Anyone can teach but to teach well and care for the people you’re teaching, you’ve got to be really determined and committed.


Teaching helped reshape key aspects of my life. I've learnt to be tolerant and accepting of most people, and that most people can benefit and learn when offered help and given the chance to try and make a difference. I also learnt perseverance. Teaching is like a religion, it changes your perception of life, mentally, psychologically and changes your view in general issues concerning our day to day activities as we learn everyday.



I enjoyed my work. Not that every day was uniformly pleasant, but on the whole, it was life changing. It boosted my confidence and made me very creative and much more actively imaginative. I had to be super imaginative and very creative in my teaching job. I had to develop my own style of teaching that would make me comfortable in my role as a teacher, and would make the children comfortable in their roles also as my students.



Though, I would say teaching is for those who enjoy being challenged and enjoy the company of children. Sometimes I can't help but feel when they leave their houses in the morning, their only intention is to frustrate my life rather than learn before closing. Lol.


I strongly recommend teaching for curious, intellectual, patient and creative people. You would learn loads and it'll make your experience as a teacher worthwhile. Because, Children can be great companions. I have had some engaging conversations and I'm always awed at the extent of where these little innocent minds wanders to. The sheer limitlessness of their thinking and imaginations blew me away oftentimes.


I like to listen to them and I always remind them that their voice matters, as great leaders of tomorrow. I love children, I love teaching. But in life, we've to move on when the time comes.

*Feeling nostalgic.*

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Well am not i also hate them most if them.

My uncles are comm of Police, AIG retired and i have an in law that is a Commander in the Navy waiting for his promotion this year. But i still tell them i hate their professions and i turned down their iffers to enroll me in the force.

Thats by way so tell me about yourself....
Tnx.











quote author=Millenniumlady post=90021582]Nope you just look like one besides i don't like them because of how they oppress people[/quote]

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Lol......do you like it when am a military personnel ?










quote author=Millenniumlady post=90000385]lol i can see you're not backing down song you look like a military personnel are you one ?[/quote]

My bad I thought otherwise.

So what's up with you?







quote author=UndauntedYOCA post=90008150]
Lol, I was just trying to help out. I didn't accuse him of anything. Please read it again. I didn't mean any harm.[/quote]

My pleasure so how is Ghana?

Has the lockdown been eased?










quote author=makydebbie post=90018426]

Oh that's cool.
Thank you.[/quote]

Like seriously she is the one scamming us to zigzag story.


Btw....your dp is cool.

I have been to Kumasi,Togo and Benin cool places especially Ghana but in drinks I prefer French drinks like Moka,etc











quote author=makydebbie post=64080617]This story doesn't add


up at all..

A Nigerian is accommodating strangers like really? Like really?! Like



reeeeaallllly?!![/quote]

She had a something with him....thats cooked up story.

We guys know what some ladies are capable of ......

Its just that he dumped not help at all.

Its not help had it been he is kinda ugly I may accept but the lady saw fine boi na so don't ever say rape.








quote author=Amarabae post=64078608]You accommodated a stranger guy you met on nairaland in your house and likely in ur room.
Hmmmm. That's risky.
What if he overpowered you and force himself on you.
BTW in a law court, you have no evidence to back up this accusation.[/quote]

Am sure they had sex and they guy dumped her.
She is trying to get at him,she knows he wont come out to say what happened.

Well you ladies are wonderful











quote author=Diamond23 post=64078491]Can't judge till I hear his side of d story.Accommodating someone u dnt know just because u both r nairalanders abi romancelanders , pastor kingdavid come clear ur name oooo.[/quote]

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Easy lady but he has good intentions.


He wouldn't have posted it here if he had ill intentions.


I just hope they are safe and its just dick they are collecting










quote author=UndauntedYOCA post=89985132]
Her number is switched off.
If you've got her name and surname then one can try searching on FB to contact her family/friends but then na you go land for wahala if they aren't found because you'd be called a kidnapper.[/quote]

You mentioned two girls but now you talking about one girl and her picture and number.


How real is your story plz?

sheggsliveth:
on my way coming home yesterday at Lafenwa bus stop, met two girls at the bustop who couldn't afford bus to toll gate...I have to talk with my colleague to share their money since I don't have enough of cash...when we in the bus is when I discovered that they never been to sango before.i asked for their number incase and they gave it to me.
One Mr Daniel that they we to meet at sango switched off his phone, I dropped at toll gate and I later called them to know if Mr Daniel have picked the call..to my surprise he never picked and they were stranded at the bus stop,...I called to ask where they really are but they mentioned one street...when I later called around past 10 they said they found someone who will accommodate them and I asked if is she or he but they said he...tried their number at past 12 still ringing, but when I try their number now it's switched off since 5am till now.
should I drop the number here...
but how could you leave as far as Ibadan to sango without knowing the person you are coming to meet,when asked if they have met Mr Daniel before they said NO, I feels like slapping them...God knows have done my part.
Her number +two3four 806 257 678six

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Forget that one men nowadays are not the same men of 20years ago.

You think its about sex you can use to hold a man?

Well when a man opens a little to a woman its out of love but a man can never open up fully to a woman even your husband so dear never you think you know alot about your man or you can na lie.

Men can be complicated too








quote author=Rozz post=89981513]All men are vulnerable to women it is natural.A real woman knows how to make her man vulnerable,forget all this hardness some of you men display.[/quote]

U should be thankful to God u are not blind or dumb.

At least you can bleep girls so u don't need to worry about what people say.

I for one,don't give a shot what people say as long as am happy.

Stay strong man







quote author=Bonatheripper post=89995Yes I have K legs although it isn't visible that much.
I have lots of confidence which tends to help me but then when someone tells me I have those scissors legs my confidence drops to 0 then climbs back gradually ones I get angry and make love to a new girl.


It's really annoying.


I can't help but admire those with straight legs... They don't know how lucky they're.

I yen for straight legs.
I know ones I have enough money I'll travel out and perform osteonomy to correct the genu valgrum... Yes I know all about K leg.



Ok... I syked a girl in the night and god willing she wasn't that hard to get.

She slept over on Tuesday so in the morning I was up trying to put on th Tv.


She was like jeeez.
Babe you have K legs... Walk let me see

I felt depressed immediately.


Even when I'm on skinny jeans I feel someone is laughing at my K small legs

I won't complain if it was Bow arrow legs.... Bow legs don't make your whole body look out of shape like K LEGS...











GOSH...... I HATE [size=40pt]K LEGS I AM SAD[/size]



DO YOU HAVE K LEGS OR ANY OTHER INSECURITIES?[/quote]