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Family › Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 7:23am On Oct 28, 2015

Eberex:
I would like to make an observation on your response Ray360. Correct me if I'm wrong, after the two are married they will definitely explore their sexual appetites till death do them part. Hence its still very possible that this incidence would still occur even if they never lived together during their courtship. Question I wasa expecting you to ask from the highlighted is "didn't she experience this while she was living with him?

bro, good morning. She said they had lived together for few years (years she didn't specify which might be 2,3,4 years). living together already created that " man and wife" aura, aside from the frequent sex, seeing him everyday, cooking for him, washing his clothes are other factors that can lead to this insipidity. above all, we are just assuming, only the op can affirm or debunk these assertions. be well bro.

Romance › Re: Military Men Drive's Me Wild by Ray360: 11:04pm On Oct 27, 2015

I know of a girl who met my military friend on 2go and loved him spontaneously. she travelled from Kaduna to Lagos because of him. Some ladies are like that. they just love the pride, security and confidence that comes with dating a soldier. you are not alone.

Romance › Re: Crazy Ex by Ray360: 10:51pm On Oct 27, 2015

mehn, The rate at which very young boys and girls have sex these days is astounding. sex is not sacred anymore, the level of morality has dwindled.

well, OP, You are still young, face your studies for now. there is time for everything. that's all I can say.

Romance › Re: END TIME: What Is This Guy Doing With This Old Mama? by Ray360: 10:38pm On Oct 27, 2015

seyi200:
The woman in the picture was his mother his mourning his mother as she's late now.... His my friend and you can check him out on facebook. Prince Adeyemi

you see, caution should proceed judgement. may God help him.

Family › Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 10:33pm On Oct 27, 2015

missyadorable:
Why not? Men think only them are good in changing taste..lol.what is good for the goose is good for the gander

lol, Do you love variety?

Romance › Re: Help!!my Friend And I Are Addicted To Having Sex With Prostitutes, by Ray360: 10:12pm On Oct 27, 2015*

dear Op, Firstly, At 18, You are way too young to start having sex. Also, from your Story above, you seem traumatized and more determined to break-free from the manacles of this addition which has eaten deep into the core of your soul. your Friend, Kazeem seem not to be ready to change like you from what I can deduce, Talk to Kazeem and let him know the dangers of this philandering lifestyles, educate him on the likely consequences like STD, HIV/AIDS and other pandemics and maladies. If he refuses to turn a new leaf, unfriend him and work on yourself, that's the first step to take, you can never break-free from this from this addiction if you are still friends with kazeem who has refused to stop this dirty way of life. Also, Be more engaged in destiny-defining ventures! you are 18, your studies should be of paramount importance to you! start moving with people you can learn from! read your books, study! never stay idle and above all, Pray!

cheers!

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Family › Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 10:00pm On Oct 27, 2015

cbrass:
Thats not an excuse, can you ppl just stop all these " you have enjoyed everything you aught to have enjoyed after marriage thing" pls don't think am in support of premarital sex

what then is your point?

Romance › Re: Mature Advice Please: How Can I Get Over My Ex?? by Ray360: 9:49pm On Oct 27, 2015

You have confessed you still love him, why not pour oil on troubled waters, Jettison all elements of Concord and acrimony and apologize to him. Inasmuch as you still love him, it would take a subtantial length of time to get over it and it may weaken your emotional thews.

Romance › Re: END TIME: What Is This Guy Doing With This Old Mama? by Ray360: 9:44pm On Oct 27, 2015

It would be highly irrational to speak ill of a picture like this without a prior knowledge of the type of relationship that exists between the two of them. she might be his mother. OP, be reasonable

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Family › Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 9:32pm On Oct 27, 2015

joseph1832:
Obviously she needs to speak to her husband immediately. From the way she sounded I won't be surprise if missionary is all she has been experiencing.

That's so not true, I totally disagree. From what I can deduce she's lost interest because the sex isn't exciting anymore. All she need do is speak to her husband so they can put their heads together and think of a way out of it. Remember sex isn't just the usual bang bang bang, it goes way deeper.

bro, We can just keep guessing and be miles away from the crux of this insipidity in coitu.s. it might be deeper than we know. issues like this are better tackled by asking the lady some key questions. the man might have developed some uncultured lifestyles that the wife doesn't like, as such, she looses all sexual urge when it's time to make love. I still stand on my point though, the excitement waned to the lows because of that. we never can tell

Romance › Re: What Are Subtle Signs That Someone Isn't A Good Partner? by Ray360: 9:11pm On Oct 27, 2015

1.He/she doesn't discuss the future with you, plans, long time and short time goals
2. He/she doesn't care much about your general well-being
3. He/she is a poor listener. nothing makes the romantic bond stronger like when he/she listens with rapt attention when you are telling your worries.
4. He keeps committing the same offense and saying "I am sorry" all the time without a conscious effort towards change
5. He/she doesn't help you overcome or strengthen your weaknesses..
6. He is not jealous. this might be funny, but true. There should be a healthy Jealousy for one's partner, if you cherish something so much, you would protect it with all you can muster. true love comes with a spark of jealousy no matter how little.

these are the ones I can churn now

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Family › Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 8:42pm On Oct 27, 2015

iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/

Cc:lalasticlala

the emboldened is the genesis of the problem, you two had started living together even before getting married, You must have slept with each other zillion times, What's there to excite you again in marriage? when your petals had already been battered, no flavour again to spark excitement

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Family › Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 8:33pm On Oct 27, 2015*

I used to think only men loved variety when it comes to coit.us, so women too love diversity in taste... humm

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Romance › Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Ray360: 8:15pm On Oct 27, 2015

dear OP, At 20, There are better issues of life you should focus on rather than delving from one relationship to another. Nevertheless, If you chose to toss the romantic dice, be sure of what you want. Firstly, define what you want. what are the basic qualities you want your ideal woman to possess? assess yourself and be objective and pragmatic enough to define your weaknesses and strengths. true love grows when you see your weaknesses as strengths in another. Relationships these days has been bastardized and pathetically narrowed to a hedonistic game boys and girls play just for fun. are you in the first flight of guys who champion the spoilt mentality of fantasies? If you just want a girl that's slim, tall, fair, dark, E.t.C then you are not ready. Good luck!

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Romance › Re: Men Stop Using Money To Draw Women! Spend Nothing Still Have A Girl P.1#stayrich by Ray360: 2:40pm On Oct 27, 2015

coolsix:
You are missing OP's point. He is talking about girlfriends and not fiancee! You start spending when you are sure the love is real and would lead to marriage not a girl you just want to sex 5 times and drop when another beautiful one comes around.

Besides, he is not African too.

so? Ohh! the way many dudes and girls see relationships on this forum is bemusing. So there are guys who just have 4 to 5 girlfriends just for sex sake? holy Moses!

Romance › Re: Men Stop Using Money To Draw Women! Spend Nothing Still Have A Girl P.1#stayrich by Ray360: 1:55pm On Oct 27, 2015

Strahovski:
Very wrong and I'm still going to address that. Note my post did not say you should not have money or not be financially stable.

But I'm still going to address your point.

Get real bro and face reality! In your article above, you said your father said you should not spend money on a girlfriend because she is not a wife yet, that's ridiculous! before nuptial knots are tied in matrimony, there is a prior relationship between a man and a woman, it's through that period that get to unveil certain parts of their life, you share gifts, go out and Explore the romance to the seams! won't you spend money in doing all these? Your father's advice Is a hooey and doesn't conform to the ethos of romantic bliss

Romance › Re: Men Stop Using Money To Draw Women! Spend Nothing Still Have A Girl P.1#stayrich by Ray360: 1:46pm On Oct 27, 2015

dharay99:
...I ac†ually read ur
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#bliv ds a† ur own peril#

D man, how far?

Romance › Re: Men Stop Using Money To Draw Women! Spend Nothing Still Have A Girl P.1#stayrich by Ray360: 1:38pm On Oct 27, 2015

OP, There is what we call societal or environmental mentality which revolves around a particular domain. In Nigeria, Money has always been seen as a fundamental sine qua non that a guy must have before he can be accepted by a girl. this spoilt school of thought has motivated many into doing fetish things just to boost their ego. But one fact still remains sacrosanct, financial stability in a man is one of the qualities that can't be written off if a man must sustain a relationship

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Romance › Re: Five Signs A Girl Is Falling In Love With You On Campus. by Ray360: 1:32pm On Oct 27, 2015

Chestar5:
ur comment is spoton

thanks

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Celebrities › Re: (photos) Bimbo Oshin And Sikiratu Sindodo Amazing Bleaching Evolution by Ray360: 12:05pm On Oct 27, 2015

This bleaching trend is disgusting, why is it so prevalent among the Yorubas? even in my street, you would see fat bleachy Yoruba women with very thick stretch marks. pathetic!

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Celebrities › Re: Silverbird Group Also Congratulates Actress Okonkwo Gertrude Nkeonyere by Ray360: 12:00pm On Oct 27, 2015

congrats.

Romance › Re: A Treatise To The Thread : She Refused To Date Me Because I Am Short by Ray360: 10:27am On Oct 27, 2015*

[b]Guys who yammer rejection from ladies are too pusillanimous and Lack the ethos of romantic affiliations! I can't allow any Colleen mamaguy me and make me loose my confidence as a human. Ladies look out for qualities they desire and when such qualities are lacking, they grow Cold and become queer like a cold fish. All these fantasies of tall, short, slim, tall are mere illusions that some girls had been nursing right from their kidhood days like the OP opined. A true and sweet woman wants to see certain deep endowedments in a man like intelligence, financial stability, A healthy sense of purpose, fatherly virtues which embodies care, security and other drool-worthy attributes. Any girl/lady that places height, complexion and other hedonistic and wishy-washy features over the afore-mentioned deep qualities is still a juvenile at heart and not ripe for ladyship. There is a difference between a girl and a lady. the latter wields the attributes of womanhood, the former is still a blooming petal, still flirtatious like a butterfly[/b]

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Romance › Re: D'banj Is My Celebrity Crush - Nigerian Female Singer (photo) by Ray360: 10:20am On Oct 27, 2015

LadyX:
If you go to your producer dressed the way you are on the photo, why won't he ask for s*x?

your head is well oiled

Romance › Re: D'banj Is My Celebrity Crush - Nigerian Female Singer (photo) by Ray360: 10:18am On Oct 27, 2015

Romance › Re: Caption This Photo. You Wont Believe It!!! by Ray360: 10:15am On Oct 27, 2015

Tobiee:
[email] I don't like old women. [/email]

even your grandma?

Romance › Re: Help! How Do I Stop Flirting? by Ray360: 10:07am On Oct 27, 2015

you don't have canons that define your social life. you are easily lured or enticed by superficial words. If you are deep enough, You won't flirt. Flirtatious tendencies come alive when You want everything.

Romance › Re: Five Signs A Girl Is Falling In Love With You On Campus. by Ray360: 9:34am On Oct 27, 2015

Harbosede02:
If I was into a guy on campus..... I wouldn't do any of that.

exactly my point! I find it stale and insipid when some guys try to define a particular attitudinal aspect of ladies by fixed concept. Women are weird, what holds for miss A Might not hold at all for miss B

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Romance › Re: Five Signs A Girl Is Falling In Love With You On Campus. by Ray360: 9:20am On Oct 27, 2015

OP, Some mature girls are conservative when they love a guy, some may feel they will be ridiculed or look cheap if they do certain things that may give an impression that they love a guy. Let me also shock you, Some girls will pretend to hate the guy, often antagonizing him in class and public discussions. women are complex, some girls don't do all what you have up there.

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Romance › Re: Most Guys Are Only Nice/kind To Girls Cos Of Sex... by Ray360: 9:09am On Oct 27, 2015

It's a ludicrous trend that burgeons in many walks of life, especially in white collar labour force. A friend of mine who is fair, pretty, busty and brainy was denied a job she was very qualified for by all standards because she refused to "play ball" with the manager of the company, only yellow-bellied nincompoops will seek to screw the honey-well of a girl because he helped her, I don't do that, I don't belong to that clique of guys.

Romance › Re: Why Men Avoid Dating Fat Girls by Ray360: 9:02am On Oct 27, 2015

There is an attractive difference between fatness and chubbiness. the latter boasts plentiful drool-worthy flesh that waters the tongue and sends sexual sensations down the spine which sparks the libido. I prefer that.

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Romance › Re: Picture: What Is Going On Here? by Ray360: 8:55am On Oct 27, 2015

It's a norm in most traditional weddings in the west, man is instructed to touch the wife's privates and prayers are said in tandem to thwart forces of childlessness and barrreness, the wife is also instructed to touch her husband's "power house" and prayers are said to torpedo demonic forces of impotence and weak erection. I have been to a wedding ceremony where norms like the above took place, it's not new, OP

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