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Juxtified:Mr perfect, Your post isn't error-free too. stop ridiculing the OP on grounds of poor diction. He made a point which any rational human in compos mentis can decipher. I don't lampoon people because of their poor Use of English, Inasmuch I can understand what is written, then I'm fine. |
Why so much ado about the OP's luculence? does it change the subject of the thread? na wa o |
OP, She is not convinced because she doesn't know you too well yet. You should let her know that she would only be convinced of your qualities and attributes when she gives you a chance, A trial for you to unveil yourself to her when you twain are locked in the web of romance. No partner gets wholeheartedly convinced of the other at the embryonic stage of a relationship, there will always be lurking doubts born of insecurity and sometimes, fear. fear of heartbreak, cheating, incompatibility and other impediments of a harmonious relationship. Tell her she will only be convinced when she gives you a chance to Try. And you, don't mess up! |
1. Just be yourself! never try to impress any girl when in a cliquey conversation with girls 2. Be real! fakery is a big turn off 3. Dress well, a good dress sense is a confidence booster. you don't have to storm the boutique and amass all the most fashionable wares, just dress well and be smart. 4. Be thick-skinned!. not everyone will accept you. |
Your relationships is just months old and it's on the precipice of a break-up already. Well, Love should prevail. if she truly loves you,your salary which is very insignificant to her won't torpedo the relationship. |
Why do you think she is unmarried yet at 33 as a result of her being a Virgin? aren't there nymphomaniacs out there who have clocked even 37 without a man yet? Is virginity as a virtue now the terminus or causal factor of one not getting married on time? There are other areas of her life other than her virginity. let her be.. |
400billionman:bro, First of all, let me quash this slew notion that might have burgeoned in you. I am not a sex expert or a psychologist, I am just a lateral thinker. Now to your question, It's still within the compass of my earlier questions. psychological problems in love-making ranges from lack of attraction, past traumatic experiences, anxiety ... anxiety is one of the core causes of sexual underperformance! Also, probably the guy is more attracted to ladies who he considers more mature and probably experienced than just a girl. It can't be a medical problem since he doesn't underperform when he does it with ladies |
shay101:hmm! do you like big breast? and do you think the sight of her breast kills your urge? these questions might seem silly from me, But they can be roots of your plight |
of course dear, There are rich benefits of being male Virgin 1. No SUSCEPTIBILITY TO STDs: A male Virgin isn't likely to get STDs because he doesn't sleep around or fan the embers of whoredom. 2.YOU ARE CLEAN AND PURE, HEALTH WISE : Your spermatozoa is so healthy and uncontaminated 3. RESPECT : inasmuch as some nymphomaniacs might see it as a lack of confidence, Virgin males and females are respected. the discipline to control those crazy hormones is not a babyish feat. 4.GOD WILL HONOUR YOUR MARRIAGE: Marriage is honourable before God with the bed undefiled. God wants us to be pure before marriage. when you get married as a virgin, your wedding night will be a memorable experience. one to cherish till grey hairs marry scalp and you graced the earth in death. |
Guys and girls! abstain! there is pride in virginity! keep yourself! stop philandering! |
There is no sexual attraction. a core sine qua non for sexual bliss in lovemaking. Some people don't look out for this sacrosanct factor when choosing a partner. there should be a sexual spark in you when you see her. come on! |
dear OP, from the culmination of your quotations to various posts above, I could deduce that the problem is psychological and can't be remedied by mere shallow means. can you answer these questions 1.What is her sexual appeal like? 2. Primarily, what Type of woman have you always prefered to make love with? shape or stature wise. busty women? slim women? women with plentiful behind? fat women? please answer. 3. what shape does your fiancee fall into according to question 2 above? 4. the other woman you made love with and used as a control experiment specimen, what's her shape like? what excited your hormones before you made love to her? Do justice to these questions please, I await a reply |
I marvel at the crop of people in this section. just few guys and girls here are mature. I miss the old nairaland Romance section guys. Mynd44,Ogugua, BrOwnJAY.. NA WA o |
I don't judge or mamaguy people online. you just have to change. many of your posts and threads Are weird and always attracts obloquy from people. aren't you the same guy having feelings for a blood-sister? you can change bro, if truly this is the way you are. |
LordOfTheWeed:To be frank and candid, you are miles away from the crux of this subject. do you Think the OP would open this thread with an entirely new moniker if he doesn't want to change? From the tone of his post, He feels remorseful and pathetic because he is addicted and was thick-skinned enough to take a very bold step and seek advice on how to be free from the shackles of the addiction. He also Said Kazeem's height of addiction is taller than his. Then I said, since you want to be free, work towards it, stop visiting brothels, read your books, E.t.C. then he should help his friend who is neck-deep into the act already. is this school of thought too tepid for you to decipher? |
With all due respect to the poster, I think You are not in Nigeria. Those words you underscored as unnecessary in an administrative setting or atmosphere are actually imbibed by office workers to excessively potray how humble and submissive they are. I see no crime in it as its not against the ethos of behaviour and won't get them fired |
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libertyfather:hahahahah! Your head correct jare. so if a lady with chronic body-odour sweats, it's sexy. indeed, the word sexy is a lost word in this present generation. |
Well done OP. Also, Help him strengthen his weaknesses.. |
LordOfTheWeed:If your psychological acumen is topnotch, you would deduce from the post that The OP is willing and ready to change and that his friend has sank deeper into this philandering lifestyle than him. Also, If you read my posts with the eyes of your mind, you will also decipher that I told the OP to talk to his friend if he his ready for a change like him. the OP yearns for a change hence his opening of this thread |
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Insightful[b][/b] |
One Thing I know is, when a woman sees what she wants, she goes for it. the complexity of some women is even above the rational acumen of some men. But If you think all a women wants is money, then such shallow mentality won't fetch you a graceful woman. it's far above that. |
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Op, May the celestial anchor rain blessings on you this morning for this masterpiece. most ladies are not ready to start from the Scratch with any man, There is no perfect man anywhere! Any lady who is ripe for nuptial matrimony but still places primary preference on a man who is tall, short, fair, dark, holy etc.. is on a skyline. |
[b]Ohh! Happy birthday dear, Let me write you a poem. Above all dregs of sorrow and gloom Above all cockatrice that corrupt the films of Joy, I pour beads of rhymes on your bosom unalloyed, Let the malleable foliage of a new sprout, Be the pond of joy on your face newly bathed, Like a new born baby smeared with powder, Throw all frowns to the dips of oblivion amidst the echoes of woe from dark covens, Be gallant like Sheilas on Graceful gown, Rubies and Jasper I pour at your lintel With starry fireworks on the skyline of your clime, grow old like ashes and clay, let your worth not fray, onion-shine dam, your avocado beauty creams the rusts of ugliness, Staking all pillory to the jaws of hell, Can I sentinel your remaining days on earth? Like an angel from heaven's palatial court? Perhaps, my frowns will straw life from your lot Like flamingoes at the bank of a murmurous River And my frail thews will not quiver, I blow my fife to tear the veins of heaven, For today, a fresh star smiles out from your cloud I blare my piccolo so loud Like Mother today will be so proud! God bless you dear! this is from my Core! God bless you! [/b] |
PunkyVeer:You are one of the very few ladies here who posts sensibly. keep it up. Dear OP, both of you need ample time to emend this fracture in trust. true Love, Trust, Faithfulness and other condiments that bond relationships are difficult to burgeon again after a dwindle. revive some of the things you did that cemented trust at first and take it from there. |
slightlyMad:I will not insult you as it is uncultured and too early to do so, next time, Make a point like a well bred lady and jettison venomous words. there is an aura of newness that come with marriage, one that doesn't waned easily. the OP's said they got married 3 years ago, I am sure the marriage isn't even up to 6yrs or so. Also, other psychological factors can be responsible for this blandness in lovemaking |
texanomaly:thanks, good morning[b][/b] |
blackprowler:Firstly, go to first bank and spearhead the queue, tell them you want to paid for airing your thoughts on an issue online. how ludicrous! now to the topic; The OP and her husband aren't up to 50yrs yet,as such, your comparison doesn't hold water in the light of this issue. I repeat, we can keep assuming and be far from the crux of this issue. |
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I'm laughing so hard at the naivety of your suggestion 