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RomanceRe: Amazing And Interesting Facts About Men!!! by Ray360: 7:55am On Oct 30, 2015
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RomanceRe: "I Like Him But.... by Ray360:
Juxtified:
Next critic here:
you mention "department" & then "same level". What else is any right thinking human to think, except that you're an undergraduate? The fact that you forgot that obviously means you are much less than that, either a secondary school student or, worse still, a school drop out.
So my candid advice to you: concentrate on your studies or go get a job. Your use of English is embarassing first of all, and second, not everything that happens to you should be pasted on Nairaland.
Mr perfect, Your post isn't error-free too. stop ridiculing the OP on grounds of poor diction. He made a point which any rational human in compos mentis can decipher.

I don't lampoon people because of their poor Use of English, Inasmuch I can understand what is written, then I'm fine.
RomanceRe: "I Like Him But.... by Ray360: 7:38am On Oct 30, 2015
Why so much ado about the OP's luculence? does it change the subject of the thread? na wa o
RomanceRe: "I Like Him But.... by Ray360: 7:25am On Oct 30, 2015
OP, She is not convinced because she doesn't know you too well yet. You should let her know that she would only be convinced of your qualities and attributes when she gives you a chance, A trial for you to unveil yourself to her when you twain are locked in the web of romance.
No partner gets wholeheartedly convinced of the other at the embryonic stage of a relationship, there will always be lurking doubts born of insecurity and sometimes, fear.
fear of heartbreak, cheating, incompatibility and other impediments of a harmonious relationship.
Tell her she will only be convinced when she gives you a chance to Try. And you, don't mess up!
RomanceRe: . by Ray360: 9:33pm On Oct 29, 2015
1. Just be yourself! never try to impress any girl when in a cliquey conversation with girls

2. Be real! fakery is a big turn off

3. Dress well, a good dress sense is a confidence booster. you don't have to storm the boutique and amass all the most fashionable wares, just dress well and be smart.

4. Be thick-skinned!. not everyone will accept you.
RomanceRe: I Think I'm Dead;somebody Help by Ray360: 9:19pm On Oct 29, 2015
Your relationships is just months old and it's on the precipice of a break-up already. Well, Love should prevail. if she truly loves you,your salary which is very insignificant to her won't torpedo the relationship.
RomanceRe: My Sister Now 33 And Still A Virgin Looking For Husband? by Ray360: 9:15pm On Oct 29, 2015
Why do you think she is unmarried yet at 33 as a result of her being a Virgin? aren't there nymphomaniacs out there who have clocked even 37 without a man yet? Is virginity as a virtue now the terminus or causal factor of one not getting married on time? There are other areas of her life other than her virginity. let her be..
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Ray360: 4:10pm On Oct 29, 2015
400billionman:
Mr Psychologist.

There is a guy who lasts one hour and above when having sex with ladies but lasts only 4 to 5 minutes with one particular girl.

Inspite of the fact that they do have spontaneous sex with pre-intimacy, after like 10 tries, he cannot still last more than 5 minutes on her. Why ?
bro, First of all, let me quash this slew notion that might have burgeoned in you. I am not a sex expert or a psychologist, I am just a lateral thinker. Now to your question, It's still within the compass of my earlier questions. psychological problems in love-making ranges from lack of attraction, past traumatic experiences, anxiety ... anxiety is one of the core causes of sexual underperformance! Also, probably the guy is more attracted to ladies who he considers more mature and probably experienced than just a girl. It can't be a medical problem since he doesn't underperform when he does it with ladies
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Ray360: 9:00am On Oct 29, 2015
shay101:
He got high sex appeal. He body type is okay but her breast doesn't really turn me on.
the other lady I had sex with was not as beautiful as she is.
hmm! do you like big breast? and do you think the sight of her breast kills your urge? these questions might seem silly from me, But they can be roots of your plight
RomanceRe: Is There Any Benefit In Male Virginity? by Ray360:
of course dear, There are rich benefits of being male Virgin
1. No SUSCEPTIBILITY TO STDs: A male Virgin isn't likely to get STDs because he doesn't sleep around or fan the embers of whoredom.

2.YOU ARE CLEAN AND PURE, HEALTH WISE : Your spermatozoa is so healthy and uncontaminated

3. RESPECT : inasmuch as some nymphomaniacs might see it as a lack of confidence, Virgin males and females are respected. the discipline to control those crazy hormones is not a babyish feat.

4.GOD WILL HONOUR YOUR MARRIAGE: Marriage is honourable before God with the bed undefiled. God wants us to be pure before marriage. when you get married as a virgin, your wedding night will be a memorable experience. one to cherish till grey hairs marry scalp and you graced the earth in death.
RomanceRe: A Gift From My Friend! Should I Be Grateful Or I Should Return It Back To Him? by Ray360: 8:13am On Oct 29, 2015
Guys and girls! abstain! there is pride in virginity! keep yourself! stop philandering!
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Ray360: 8:00am On Oct 29, 2015
There is no sexual attraction. a core sine qua non for sexual bliss in lovemaking. Some people don't look out for this sacrosanct factor when choosing a partner. there should be a sexual spark in you when you see her. come on!
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by Ray360: 7:43am On Oct 29, 2015
dear OP, from the culmination of your quotations to various posts above, I could deduce that the problem is psychological and can't be remedied by mere shallow means. can you answer these questions
1.What is her sexual appeal like?
2. Primarily, what Type of woman have you always prefered to make love with? shape or stature wise. busty women? slim women? women with plentiful behind? fat women? please answer.

3. what shape does your fiancee fall into according to question 2 above?

4. the other woman you made love with and used as a control experiment specimen, what's her shape like? what excited your hormones before you made love to her?


Do justice to these questions please, I await a reply
RomanceRe: Misspicy Na Jazzz???? >:( by Ray360: 8:17pm On Oct 28, 2015
I marvel at the crop of people in this section. just few guys and girls here are mature. I miss the old nairaland Romance section guys. Mynd44,Ogugua, BrOwnJAY.. NA WA o
RomanceRe: Fine Gals Wants To Ruin My Business! by Ray360: 8:09pm On Oct 28, 2015
I don't judge or mamaguy people online. you just have to change. many of your posts and threads Are weird and always attracts obloquy from people. aren't you the same guy having feelings for a blood-sister? you can change bro, if truly this is the way you are.
RomanceRe: Help!!my Friend And I Are Addicted To Having Sex With Prostitutes, by Ray360: 7:38pm On Oct 28, 2015
LordOfTheWeed:
grin I'm laughing so hard at the naivety of your suggestion grin grin If the OP had known the pros and cons of having sexual affair with prostitutes, he wouldn't have indulged in the act at first, and from his post, he mentioned that he got addicted to the act early this year.. .. .. He probably wanna quit coz he is tired and not getting the excitement he had been getting at the initial stage of the act, not as if he has understood the pros and cons of it.. .. ..

His friend "kazeem" would just slap his face if he tries to preach one stúpid thing to him.. .. .. They both need to visit a psychologist!!!!!
To be frank and candid, you are miles away from the crux of this subject. do you Think the OP would open this thread with an entirely new moniker if he doesn't want to change? From the tone of his post, He feels remorseful and pathetic because he is addicted and was thick-skinned enough to take a very bold step and seek advice on how to be free from the shackles of the addiction.

He also Said Kazeem's height of addiction is taller than his. Then I said, since you want to be free, work towards it, stop visiting brothels, read your books, E.t.C. then he should help his friend who is neck-deep into the act already. is this school of thought too tepid for you to decipher?
CareerRe: 6 Phrases You Should Never Use At The Office by Ray360: 7:02pm On Oct 28, 2015
With all due respect to the poster, I think You are not in Nigeria. Those words you underscored as unnecessary in an administrative setting or atmosphere are actually imbibed by office workers to excessively potray how humble and submissive they are. I see no crime in it as its not against the ethos of behaviour and won't get them fired
RomanceRe: I Am Ready! by Ray360: 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2015
undecided
RomanceRe: Ladies And Gentlemen Did You Know? how true is this? by Ray360: 6:58pm On Oct 28, 2015
libertyfather:
Who tell you that? Sweat is sweat either both stinks or sexy
hahahahah! Your head correct jare. so if a lady with chronic body-odour sweats, it's sexy. indeed, the word sexy is a lost word in this present generation.
RomanceRe: 10 Tips To Make Your Boyfriend Trust You Forever by Ray360: 6:40pm On Oct 28, 2015
Well done OP. Also, Help him strengthen his weaknesses..
RomanceRe: Help!!my Friend And I Are Addicted To Having Sex With Prostitutes, by Ray360: 6:31pm On Oct 28, 2015
LordOfTheWeed:
Like seriously? You and Ray360 are both comedians, no offence.. .. .. Please, did you read the op's post at all before typing this? He said he and his friend are both addicted philanderers and you are here suggesting that he should educate his fellow philanderer on the consequences of the act, how is that possible? Or am i the only one getting both of you wronghuh
If your psychological acumen is topnotch, you would deduce from the post that The OP is willing and ready to change and that his friend has sank deeper into this philandering lifestyle than him. Also, If you read my posts with the eyes of your mind, you will also decipher that I told the OP to talk to his friend if he his ready for a change like him. the OP yearns for a change hence his opening of this thread
EducationRe: UNIBEN STUDENTS ADMISSION THREAD, 2015/2016 by Ray360: 9:38am On Oct 28, 2015
smh...
RomanceRe: When You Find That "Perfect" Person by Ray360: 8:55am On Oct 28, 2015
Insightful[b][/b]
RomanceRe: What Do Women Actually Want? by Ray360: 8:28am On Oct 28, 2015
One Thing I know is, when a woman sees what she wants, she goes for it. the complexity of some women is even above the rational acumen of some men. But If you think all a women wants is money, then such shallow mentality won't fetch you a graceful woman. it's far above that.
RomanceRe: His Girlfriend Wants To Turn Him To An Atm Card by Ray360: 8:17am On Oct 28, 2015
Lol...
RomanceRe: "Husband Scarcity'' by Ray360: 8:03am On Oct 28, 2015
Op, May the celestial anchor rain blessings on you this morning for this masterpiece. most ladies are not ready to start from the Scratch with any man, There is no perfect man anywhere! Any lady who is ripe for nuptial matrimony but still places primary preference on a man who is tall, short, fair, dark, holy etc.. is on a skyline.
RomanceRe: Happy Birthday To Me! by Ray360: 7:55am On Oct 28, 2015
[b]Ohh! Happy birthday dear, Let me write you a poem.


Above all dregs of sorrow and gloom
Above all cockatrice that corrupt the films of Joy,
I pour beads of rhymes on your bosom unalloyed,
Let the malleable foliage of a new sprout,
Be the pond of joy on your face newly bathed,
Like a new born baby smeared with powder,
Throw all frowns to the dips of oblivion
amidst the echoes of woe from dark covens,
Be gallant like Sheilas on Graceful gown,
Rubies and Jasper I pour at your lintel
With starry fireworks on the skyline of your clime,
grow old like ashes and clay, let your worth not
fray,
onion-shine dam, your avocado beauty
creams the rusts of ugliness,
Staking all pillory to the jaws of hell,
Can I sentinel your remaining days on earth?
Like an angel from heaven's palatial court?
Perhaps, my frowns will straw life from your lot
Like flamingoes at the bank of a murmurous River
And my frail thews will not quiver,
I blow my fife to tear the veins of heaven,
For today, a fresh star smiles out from your cloud
I blare my piccolo so loud
Like Mother today will be so proud!
God bless you dear! this is from my Core!




God bless you!


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RomanceRe: How Do You Build Trust After It Is Broken?can D Trust Be Regain by Ray360: 7:51am On Oct 28, 2015
PunkyVeer:
It is the most difficult thing to rebuild. There's always gonna be pieces missing just like a broken glass. As hard as you might try to glue & put together all the pieces of a broken glass, you can never get it back to it's pristine condition.
You are one of the very few ladies here who posts sensibly. keep it up.


Dear OP, both of you need ample time to emend this fracture in trust. true Love, Trust, Faithfulness and other condiments that bond relationships are difficult to burgeon again after a dwindle. revive some of the things you did that cemented trust at first and take it from there.
FamilyRe: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 7:40am On Oct 28, 2015
slightlyMad:
receive sense sir.
even when they did not live together, after marriage, wont they live together? wont this same phenomenon happen?
all these holier than thou people always looking for ways to smuggle in their holiness
I will not insult you as it is uncultured and too early to do so, next time, Make a point like a well bred lady and jettison venomous words. there is an aura of newness that come with marriage, one that doesn't waned easily. the OP's said they got married 3 years ago, I am sure the marriage isn't even up to 6yrs or so. Also, other psychological factors can be responsible for this blandness in lovemaking
RomanceRe: Help!!my Friend And I Are Addicted To Having Sex With Prostitutes, by Ray360: 7:31am On Oct 28, 2015
texanomaly:
Best advice here.
thanks, good morning[b][/b]
FamilyRe: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Ray360: 7:31am On Oct 28, 2015
blackprowler:
You seem to be the posterchild of the ignorant majority of Nigerians. So if both were virgins on wedding night and are married for 20 years, how would you explain? So in their 50s (or even 40s) if they have this complain you'll tell them they should stop because they've battered the petals for 20 years? I should be paid for my insights cos the vast majority of Nigerians don't know anything about how this life really works
Firstly, go to first bank and spearhead the queue, tell them you want to paid for airing your thoughts on an issue online. how ludicrous! now to the topic;
The OP and her husband aren't up to 50yrs yet,as such, your comparison doesn't hold water in the light of this issue. I repeat, we can keep assuming and be far from the crux of this issue.

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