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I really sympathize with the op. The mistake has been done already. My opinion is that she should urge her husband to marry a second wife, while retaining her job. The husband would be able to have all the children he desires & she would still have a source of income without having to depend on him for anything. Before critics try to crucify me: the man does not have to put the 2 wives under one roof & even if all his attention might go to wife 2, the first wife should put it @ the back of her mind that God forbids, if the husband should die today, life would still go on. I bet u that if she succumbs to the man & stops working, her suffering will know no bounds.

He must have been high on weed. The member should have sprayed a lighted match stick on the pastor to prove his "anointing" instead of the money.

Please! I only hear "blah, blah, blah, blah, blah!

I'm interested. izehi4yo@gmail.com

"This is a family matter, please stay out of it" She said before hanging up.

Utter rubbish to the above statement. It becomes a family matter only when one party desperately needs to hide their dirty laundry from people but if its a case of domestic violence and/or oppression, it becomes food for public digestion. Mtchewww!

With our current economic situation, it will be a great mistake to look down on "Learning a Trade".

Every individual has what makes them unique & which can be their selling point.

My parents hated the word "Learn a Trade". Na so so "Go to school, finish top in your class & get a good paying job"
If I knew then what I know now, I would have combined learning a trade with schooling & that's why I have started encouraging my kids from a tender age to identify any skilled work they would be comfortable with & start learning. Learning can be fun & it doesn't stop them from going to school. Who knows? They may excel in their skilled work & use it to good advantage.

I know you actually meant, "is shim a boy or a girl?

EXLOVER:
I'm confuse oh, this Denrele of a guy is she a boy or a girl?

No be my head. I jump & pass. Thank you!

nabegibeg:
Aunty instead of you to be taking care of your grandchild
You are "borning" for your children to take care of

chai

Or "borning" for her children age mate.

Why won't her mum who happens to be a nurse know for a fact if she was pregnant or not? As in like taking her for pregnancy test or privately using a pregnant kit to verify their fears?
And again when she was not able to speak, what stopped her from communicating with her parents by writing down what was really going on with her?
There are a lot of loop holes in this story but all the same, accept my sympathy. I pray you get healed soon.

After all the time wasted in the name of going to school, the few companies employing will be like: Qualification: M.sc, age limit: 26 years.

TheKingIsHere:
The way igbo men brutalize their women is becoming a call for concern.

Another one today beat the living daylights out of a nursing mother.

My brother, are you for real? Just come & see how they brag of how their wealth always reflects on their wives.

You were seeing her through love colored glasses before. Who smashed the glasses bro? Now you no longer see a princess instead it's a frog you see.

Haven't you heard "Thou shall not take the name of the Lord in vain?"
Don't let God arrange thunder on your behalf. Go back & look for those love colored glasses & quietly wear them again.

tuclap:
Which of the protea hotels? If na warri own na so so owe them go owe yoh till you pack and go

Please were you employed there before? Kindly tell me. Thanks.

I'm so heartbroken for the mother right now. I pray the child is found. To avoid stories that touch, I always ensure that my babies remain with me after delivery & my mother in law is also always there to assist me. God bless her kind soul.
May that wicked person not know peace until he/she returns the baby. Amen.

deewhydoski:
Try to get there before 9am

Thank you

patako:
There is no formal application, just go to the WAEC marking centre in your state with your credentials on the 31st of May, 2018.

Thank you very much.

ellad2k4eva:
i already got an invite. coordination starts 31st of May

Please how did you apply?

deewhydoski:
Nothing like that.....this is how they do it, when u get to the centre locate where they re marking ur desire subject. When u get there u will meet gatecrashers like u, ask anymore if they re writing names, if they re u too do d same thing. The coordination might last for 3days depending on the subjects, and on the last day they will share all the parcel. Waec has there examiners in which they have sent messages too for marking, not all of them will show up and for those examiners that didn't show up there parcel will be given to gatecrashers... Note: they start with anyone(gatecrasher) with highest qualification. U will meet some gatecrasher with PGDE and Msc.....just pray that favour locate u....good luck to u bro

Please what time am I expected to get to the marking venue? Thanks.

Sign me up.

This gist looks fabricated. Although there is nothing new under the sun anymore.
Please bride to be, for the love of God, don't go & commit suicide oh.

These are the "do as I say but don't do as I do" people.
Follow them at your own risk.

Why are some people so mean & heartless? The heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it?

This extremely wicked butcher must not escape appropriate punishment. Please can anyone come up with the exact punishment befitting this callous agent of darkness?

So many gruesome stories these days surrounding marriages. May God have mercy on this country & people. Just imagine, is it not the same marriage where others want out, that others want to enter by fire or by force?

Hello Courage.
A repentant drug addict won't be able to stop himself from abusing drugs even if he actually desires to. There are steps he MUST take to stop his addiction. The same can be said about your own type of addiction.
1st, it's good that you realise that what you are doing is wrong and you would really like to stop. 2nd, genuinely give your life to Christ. 3rd, keep yourself busy with work, social activities etc. 4th, train your mind to hate with every fibre of your being, the thought of engaging in such act. What are those bad things you hate so much & why do you hate them?
Add that olosho activity to that list.
5th, have a mentor, one whom you can trust and confide in.
Rushing to marry may not be the answer to this problem. Many people use marriage to solve personal problems that they can't even tell their spouses. This would only compound the problem not solve it.
6th, if you feel you must marry, do it with someone who is ready to share your pains as well as your joys & vice versa.
7th, learn to be stingy with your money especially when it comes down to spending on frivolous things. Learn to identify frivolous things.
8th, have a very healthy fear of/for STDs.
Forgive the long epistle but to cap it all, with determination, a positive attitude & trust in God, you are good to go.

I believe that children are a blessing from God.

A baby is like a mirror reflecting a projected image. Just imagine having babies in a world free of evil vices, would you call them a curse?
I have always advocated that it's what you wish to see in your children as they grow, that you instill in them when they are very young. Some people don't know anything about being a good parent. Is it not what you sow that you reap?
The devil is out to make mockery of the hand work of God. Has the heart of man stopped being desperately wicked?
But please don't say that because they are a blessing you will now produce more than you can adequately take care of to prevent touching stories. Food is good but if you overfeed, you must feel pain: it's the same as producing children you can't cater for.
My 2 cents.

baaayloe:
LoL, Lazy policemen why dem no follow am inside the tunnel.

Abi oh, my brother. If na Nollywood, Bollywood or even Hollywood movie now, you will see a particular policeman "the actor" surpassing his colleagues with a die hard attitude & practically flying on the ground to catch the thief "the boss"

Some of these ladies already have babies or are co-habiting. In order to be judged as responsible, they would wear a wedding band.
Some are already tired of waiting for Mr Right. So the idea is go undercover, get pregnant with the aim of catering solely for the child but making people think they are legally married.
Other ladies on account of age, wear the wedding band only in some circles especially where critics have reigned supreme. Although this comes across as low self esteem. This type of people should just grow a thick skin & not mind world people.

This is not a her, it is a him.

Please can anybody tell me what business a teenager has with a pastor (whether real or fake) to warrant going to meet him for private prayer sessions?

When I learnt that my sweet nephew David is a sickle cell patient, I felt so bad. He's such a sweet & intelligent boy. I honestly don't pray for anyone to pass through what the child or his parents are passing through right now.
Don't worry @nerdy-dami, your knight of AA status will come for you. Learn not to hide your status from the beginning.

Freiburger:
lol. What a mindset

Brother, don't mind me. We are in perilous times & different B.S has been happening.

Thank God!!!

I entered the thread almost thinking that someone's head had been used to appease the gods of football!