Cutehector:
The message was clear

Be fruitful and multiply!

Mossaino:


Thank goodness someone knows two candidates who meet these criteria so I guess fortune has smiled on me Well, thanks for your advice... I will keep my eyes wide open

RedBenson:


Taah! Stop lying. Liers will head to hell.

gmaribel:
Op you are on point.

As for me I can't even buy biscuit or give money to them before thier parents accuse me of giving witchcraft to their children. Talkless of allowing them to come and play in my flat.

Prevention is better than cure. Before your story ends up in Nairaland

Aisha95:
My life force is gradually fading away. . .
Each moment, am alone, sitted in the confines of my room, I experience a sudden surge of suicidal rush. I have fought hard to defeat this feeling but its effect in me is overwhelming.
To me; life is meaningless. It's no longer worth living.
I don't know what else to do with my life.

sundayslim:
My landlord and his wife, along with some other neighbors think I'm a wicked person that doesn't like children. This is because I don't allow their children come to play in my apartment. Let me tell you the short story:

I moved in about 7 months ago, and my landlord lives just beside my flat. Everyday, his children (ages 2, 6 and 9) always come to knock that they want to come and play. Sometimes they say they want to watch cartoons since I have a dstv.

The problem is, I live alone, I'm single and I don't have any children for them to play with. I spend most of my time at work except weekends when I love to cook. The children usually come during weekends.

I decided not to let them come and play because I've been hearing about "65 yr old rapes this", " 25 yr old defines that ". I'm still very young, and please don't get me wrong: I'm not saying I have plans to defile anyone's child or that I'm capable of doing that.

I usually see these children going to other flats and other houses on the street to " play" and I don't want a case where someone will defile any of them and I automatically become a suspect, that's why I decided not to let them come in. In fact, when they knock, I don't even answer once I know it's them.

Now, people in the area are saying I'm a bad person that's why I don't like children. I don't want to tell them my reasons.

Dear nairalanders, did I do the right thing? Is there a better way of handling this situation?
Please advice.

Cc: Lalasticlala

Mossaino:


Hmmn! So they are no working class 'good' girls? Anyway, show me a very beautiful, responsible, good girl even though not working but educated and there can be a compromise!

Mossaino:
Where are the good men in Abuja?

Must it always be good girls? And what does 'good' mean to you?
Kindly unbundle that word as 'good' connotes different meanings to different people.

[/color] [color=#000099]Just as the word 'good' connotes "responsible, God-fearing, humble, respectful, considerate etc"... You know what are talking about na

Zende:
It is there because, my dear i really desire to get married but for now i lack the means.

emmykey0128:
my name is Tunde, I have been dating a girl (folake ) for almost 5 years now, she take good care of me throughout my university days food,cloth, money.she is a wonderful & loving gf. bt her problem is that she cheat on me a lot,I caught her cheating on me up to 4 times when in d university but I always forgive her because I love her and most especially she takes good care of me because I m from humble background, now we are through and I now have a job and my mum wants me to settle down, I never cheated on her for the five years we have been dating though because I love her but I know this girl that she has d tendency to still cheat on me because its in her habit to cheat, my question is should I still go ahead to marry her because I really love her and she has really tried for me I don't want to b an ingrate,but What about her bad side which is cheating? when ever I caught her cheating on me, she promise to change but she still does it again, please I need your help guys I m confused

temitope014:
I am dating this care lady. She has been good and homely and the wife material a man couple ever wish for. The only problem I have is that she is light in complexion. A couple of times I have been warned by this spiritual heads not to engage or marry a lightened lady. Dough I dont want to be too spiritual, but I am afraid. Friends, please advise me...

mamboroo:
First of all I want to thank everyone who took his hand to wrote anything to me yesterday
Also I want to make something clear
Because I received many mails claiming am a scammer
I asked my friend who introduced me here and she told me that it means I want money!
Pls friends brothers and sisters i am not asking for anyone money here
Am just releasing my pain
Can you imagine being in jail 24/7 for almost seven years for something you didn't know?
Money I didn't even buy underwear or even just saw even from far with my eyes?
Pls just read me give me advice if you can't pls leave me in peace
I can get money if I want
I got many friends from jail who were released before me.they are prostitute here in Lagos I met them they want me at any cost.remember I told you am beautiful
Not that much but I know I can make some money .but I don't like
So pls don't be so harsh.tommorow I will tell you something very interesting.
But pls pray hard for me
I went to school I was very intelligent very hardworking student
But my career is in vain
My future is no more
Pls keep your money just pray for me .OK?

Zende:
Hello, i wish to meet a lady here that is rich and classic, so we cud get married. I will be more fulfill if she's from the South South, South East or South West. Also average height and light in complexion and not more more than 32 and off course a Christian. Will be 35 by Sept. 1.64 in height, dark and slim, from the middle belt and a Christian. Never a dull moment with me, luv putting smile on the faces of people. Pls if interested call me 08121675224. Let's start from there. Thanks.

Mzdivacious:
what's wrong with boys of today...a wife who cooks cleans n takes care of u.ull be looking at her sick or incapacitated n u can't do that much for her when she isn't strong enof.nawa o

what realdee44 keeps saying "when u come of age u will understand" isn't an insult.its true cos y'all definitely won't be talking like this ten years from now

Luedave:
u also think well b4 quoting me.......... y telling me u got a man is ma F biz



..... my advice to ladies out there is to work fr their money and get enough fund to support d husband wen in need and not syphoon 4rm d husband

Luedave:
i dodnt say i want to marry yu.....





if i need a woman in ma life, she gotta be som1 wu wud assist me to get beyond d peak of success

Luedave:
u wud live to undastand beta.... No1 is gonna wait fr y'all to fund him but u wud lose if u also wait fr a man to fund u

MrsChima:


Ok. Free me nor.

Luedave:
u wud live to undastand beta.... No1 is gonna wait fr y'all to fund him but u wud lose if u also wait fr a man to fund u

Luedave:
u beta dnt gve urself hope

MrsChima:


According to the bible, they were kicked out the garden because they disobeyed God.

Satan cornered Eve because he knew Eve could influenced Adam to fall for the trick. You have men running amuck and posting threads about how women have used and discarded them....sounds like the daughters of Eve.

vjsmiles:
check my profile...
Check it keenly...
Check the surroundings very well..
Does snow fall in Nigeria?
My dad mum and siblings are not with me...
And what the fvvvk do you know boud maturity?

peedeeasobie:




When you get married, you will redefine weakness!
You will know there is a difference btw a girlfriend and a wife!

You will know that sometimes you will wash your families clothes- all of them. You will clean your child's poo and do many menial stuffs and that will not make you less of a man!

My dad washed my mum's clothes, especially her nursing uniform for many years! He wouldn't allow any other person do that unless he was out of town YET my dad is absolutely in charge of the home even after we have all left the house!

Washing your wife's undies doesn't reduce you!

Jacksparrow0712:
I leave the poster below me to answer



Wow! He's a good man. I respect and like him
But I wouldn't wanna be like him (God forbid bad thing)

vjsmiles:
your dad doesnt have a daughter money to employ a house help or you?

Princecalm:
that certainly won't be love, it only means you are blinded by infatuation.