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Plz caan any one help me to get clean golf3 tokunbo for #500k. The car should be in good condition cuz I want to use it for transportation biz.

youngalex:
Am seriously falling in Love with this lady,her compusure,intelligence,gentility and maturity is quite an exception it won't be bad to add she is dark n plumpy wit a warm smile not forgeting she is from my tribe though not from the same state,what else can I ask for? If not Aify ...

she is really pretty if she is the one in her dp. I wish u goodluck and plz also wish me goodluck because am in love with Seun . Hope there is nothing wrong in one expressing his/her true feelings.

makzeze:
Who is Seun(Nairaland Owner) supporting: GMB or GEJ? Just being curious.

plz leave my darling Seun alone oh. Seun darling don't mind them. They call u Seun but I choose to call u Ose.

fem29:
Ehn it's just to make dem feel uncomfortable na, you are busy doing the do and you now hear pastor condemning sex . Ok he can get a tape of those indigenous gospel songs.

Sorry but this won't work I bet you because at thaat piont in time nothing matters to the couple than what they are doing or about to do. Your tape won't even make sense to them.

kingofpool:
So easy, just cut off her finger and take it to the place you want to buy the engagement ring, they ll get her size, then you take her finger back to her before giving her the ring.

ireneony:
well i pick seun

I pick Seun too.

Dear ladies I think its time we stop hating ourselves. The rate at which many ladies hate other ladies is just too much & so annoying.

We are just few ladies that have the interest of our other ladies at heart. When ever am opportuned to help a ground of ppl mix with male & female, I always choose to help my ladies first because they are dear to me. I can't even imagine fighting my fellow lady because of a guy or take a man that belongs to another lady, I hate seeing ladies hurt even when they are wrong I just can't condem her total in the presence of a man.

Dear ladies plz let's stop this hate & start loving our fellow ladies plz I don't mean love as in lisbians oh. Am not saying to support them when they are wrong but there is a waay u can correct ur fellow lady with love whenever she dose something wrong rather than hating her.

If you see a fellow lady going through stress & u can help, plz always help, if it means sacrificing your time & money do it as long as you can.

Let's always have this heart to love & help our fellow ladies don't be quick to condem your fellow lady. Stop the hate & jealousy.

POETIST:
I have this roommate who is a wonderful man of God we are both serving in the same school for our PPA.I never knew he has been having affair with one of the excos in NCCF.I got to know lastnight Cos I told him I would be going to watch man united match and I won't be coming back till the fellowing day.but had to change my mind,to get home to see them bleeping hard! I was devastated because I took this guys as bornagain Christians they claim to be.what should I do should I loud it or let it go.Tomorrow is excos meeting day I don't know if I will be able to standing it when they preach holiness.I don't know why people find it so easy to betray









a disturbed corper

Face your Christian life & allow others to face there's. That they had sex dose not mean they are nolonger born again. It is only God that has right to condem them & u have no right to condem who God has not condem.

Create a personal relationship with your God and focus on serving him & leave others alone. The Bible say we should judge not so we will not be judge also and hope you know sex is not the only sin in the world.

If Jesus happens to come today the two ppl u are talking about might go with it why u might not go cuz who knows, those two may have asked God for forgivness.

I no you will want to say the Bible says not to hide such act or sin before u go ahead reporting or confronting them just make sure u are not quilty of any form of sin. Let him who is without sin be the first to cast the stone.

Am not encoraging them either but let's all just pray for the Grace to control ourselve till we are married.

dossypretty:
It took me so much courage before I could come out here to share my problem.

It all started in 2012 when I met my ex in Lagos and we kicked it off in a relationship but little did I know that he was still keeping a girl he claimed to have left, along the line we started having issues about the same girl to the point of him beating me.

This guy in question was once married but lost his wife after childbirth and so with this my parents refused me marrying him because he was talking about marriage. So after like 10 months he was still treating me bad I decided to quit the relationship but he begged that he will never do it again. Months later he travelled abroad and I also got a job in another city and left.

We still kept in touch but I met another man in the new city and decided to give him a chance. Though this new guy has no child but his problem is that he gets angry too much and wants to control everything about me but he is very generous . He doesn't even care if I'm sick or not, unlike my former guy who is more caring and always want to pet me.

Now I'm at a cross road because the one here has gone to see my parents and has set a date for the wedding and preparations are on top gear while the one abroad has come back to marry me like he promised. I'm really not happy with the one here because of his attitude and i'm contemplating on running away with the one from abroad because he understands me better.

Please is love enough in marriage?? Help me as your sister

This is a very serious matter. Do you even no why u are going into that marriage? For me, I think you are not ready for marriage yet.

Just make sure u are going into marriage for the right reasons. Search you heart well & tell yourself the truth are u ready to spend the rest of your life with the man u are about to marry, being faithful to him,nto love & charish him all the days of your life as long as you life.

Think about the vows u will be making on your wedding day & be sure u are ready to take dose vows.

Personally, one thing I do while in a relationship is I try to picture my man without all the good things of life and then I ask myself, will u still love,respect, understand, surport & care for him even when he has nothing & my answer is yes then I know I truly love the man.

sqolak:
About 20 women from Bayelsa State were yesterday burnt to death in a multiple accident after visiting the first lady Dame Patience Jonathan.https://www.parrotnaija.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/death-300x210.jpgread more herehttp://www.parrotnaija.com/20-bayelsa-women-burnt-to-death-after-visiting-first-lady/

They are not up to 20. So sad may they RIP my Aunty was also involved so sad.

Omamibaby:
Please help me, our marriage is less than a year but my husband is driving me crazy, i feel like killing him. There was a point i wished that something to happen to him so i can rest and have peace
of mind.
My husband has so many female friends and which he claims there is nothing between them yet they keep calling him at odd hours.
He comes back to the house very late.
Before we got married he always takes me along but now I live like a woman with no husband. The most painful part of everything
is that my husband was nobody when I met him. I stood by him, we work hard together
when things were tough while we were dating. Now he has gotten a good job, all he do is to go to the bar, call girls (long call), come back late. Now he deletes every
message in his phone. Recently, He forgot to delete one of the
message he sent to a girl which he told her that he misses her and still loves her. When I met and confronted him, he didn’t say
anything rather he started keeping malice with me for days.
What I don’t understand about the whole situation is that he makes it seem I’m the bad
person, he always say “did I marry him or his phone, that he saw other girls before he got
married to me?” What bothers me is that, if a man has nothing to hide, while will he gets
angry when the wife touch his phone.
I’m so unhappy and I’m scared of walking out because his people have this bad notion
about yoruba women that they don’t stay in their husband’s house and our marriage is
just 10 months old. I’m fed up and tempted to poison him.

plz don't poison ur husband & don't even think of killing him. You can't create a life so u have no right to take a life.

All you have to do now is to pray to God to bring your husband back to you & try talking to your husband about things.

For me, it could be possible that u husband never loved you. He was with u when he had nothing because he needed someone to turn to & you were there for him & when he finally got a good job he feels the only way to pay u back is to marry you. God help you.

vfactor:
What u jst did is reverse psychology. I asked u a question, instead of providing the answer, u make an attempt to attack the object, instead of the subject. Throwing the same question back to me. It's a even a falacy. (ad hominem, i guess). The truth is u want my answer, so u can formulate urs.

Aside from money, Men provide protection and support (be it physical, emotional, etc) for women. There are many more. But i choose this one which is more gender specific, so that u can tell all of us here, what you as a working class woman would bring to the table in a relationship, (sex aside).

you mean reading through my last post u couldn't even understand or you just didn't read it. I answered your question perfectly b4 asking you about men. If u didn't get that in my last post then it mean your thinking is very low. If u read all my post in this topic you will find out that I have listed not less that 10 things a lady can offer outside sex but if u still can't get it then the problem is from you & not ladies. Its very obvious that you fall among the kind of men who can't appreciate the effort of ladies & truly don't have anything to say to you so buy & enjoy the rest of your evening am done talking to you.

Blackett:
Why then did you make it sound as if their age was responsible for your lack of interest?

I didn't make it sound that way but u on your own decided to read it that way.

vfactor:
I dnt support the notion that a woman's benefit to a man is sex. Cos i knw woman enjoy sex as much as men. In fact, if a man doesnt satisfy a woman, no matter how satisfied the man is, the woman may go outside to satisfy her self. So both enjoy sex, and it is no way a gift frm a woman to a man.

That said, what if she doesnt cook, wash, or clean a man's house. (maybe due to distance, work, etc) i'll like you to tell us what a man benefits from a woman in a relationship? This is question is important for ladies to answer. Cos the more u impact positively on a man's life the more he'll respect you and want to be with you. Any maid can cook, wash, and clean...even guys do dis for themselves. So we need something more tangible, something significant, something motivational.

There are so many things ladies have to offer only if some men will appreciate them. You may not appreciate it but there are other men who will. Besides what do u think men have to offer a lady outside sex? Money am sure. Is that all u have have to offer? If money is all u have to offer a lady as a man then you thinking is very low because is that u wake up to the reality that many ladies 2day are working very hard to make there own money which I am one. If what a man has to offer me as a lady today is just money then he has nothing to offer because am already ok the way I am but if what he has to offer is sincere love, faithfulness & understanding,great future & happy home with lovely kids then he truly has something to offer of which I can also offer him dose things I just mentioned.

So of you men think money is everything. A sincere love & faithfulness alone is better than any amount of money & gift. Just listening to someone problem is even something. Have you not heard of ppl who commit sucide just because they are going through pains & they have no one they really trust to share there problems with.

So I throw the question back to you. What else can u offer a woman outside money. Bear it in mind that outside money anything else a man can offer, a woman can also offer & this days there are women who can also offer her man money.

Blackett:
Hmm. Choices I guess. And maybe they have also been disappointed before. I have a 39 year old friend that's single today because his wife divorced him when she saw his business crashed at the moment. Now he's worth millions but is very scared of commitment. So whenever he gets over his fear, he'll be begging to get married as well.

It happens.

You should marry for love anyway, and not age.

your friends case is different he has been married this guys am talking about have never been married.

I don't care about their age but am just not attracted to them & an't date or marry someone am not attracted to.

Blackett:
Making money.

Not money at all from our conversation 2 already graduated & got good jobs at the age of 27 & 28 other 3 got their job in their early 30s it is only one that got his job late.

[quote author=Eberex post=30725867][/quote]Its a general advice to all men both married & single but its obvious u couldn't comprehend it.

Am posting this because of a post I saw that Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer her man beside sex.

That is a very wrong statement we ladies are lovely, caring & very tender. We love easily & sincerely.

Men its time you learn that a lady should be appreciated no matter how little what she may have done for u. If a lady should cook for u & help u in keeping your home clean plz appreciate her, if a lady washes your clothes & put water in the bathroom for u to take ur bath its something plz appreciate her & if she buys u a gift no matter how little it is plz appreciate her. If you have something to do but you don't have the chance to do it u can call her and say plz babe help me to do so & so & she will be glad to help.

Now, I don't no who gave you Nigerian men the stupid idea that when a lady dose all that for you its because she is desperate this is one very stupid idea that u men must erase from ur head & mind. Not all ladies who do all that are desperate so many of us do it because we sinerely love & care for our men.

You men should learn to appreciate us ladies. For those men who see ladies as being desperate & that there are lots of ladies all over, just wait until u are 45 & still single as I type this now I have 6 different men of 38 & 42 seriously begging for marriage am not dating any of them thou but what keep bodering me is what were these men doing all this while.Men! Men!! Men!!! Ehammmm

EgusiSoup:
Let's call a spade a spade!

They have all shown the same qualities. All the soups I've tasted from Otueke to Ijebu-Ode, From Crystals in Abuja to Crystals in Portharcourt.

I have tasted about 80% of the soups and after careful analysis, I've come to realize that they only thing they can offer you is SEX.

I'm yet to see a Nigerian Girl with brains, I'm yet to see a Nigerian girl that looks at your personality before looking at the Car you drive, the list goes on and on.... Buh seriously, Nigerian Girls need to change their way of thinking.

For all the money, time and energy that'll be spent today by the Men out there today just to please a "Nigerian Girl" because of some burrowed tradition called VALENTINE, it'll all end up in SEX. That's the only thing they have to offer In return.

May God help us.









Please do not quote me or else it won't be funny.












Egusi Soup

Nigerian ladies have a lot to offer just that most Nigerian men do not no how to appreciate a woman. If a woman cooks & help u keep ur home neat its something. If she washes your cloth and run water for u to bath its something and if she buys you little gifts from time to time, its something beside this there are so many things Nigerian ladies have to offer only if the guys will allow us help them.

Just that so many guys don't no how to appreciate their ladies & if a lady should those things I have mention, most men sees the lady as being desperate which is very wrong most times we ladies do this because we love & care for our man.

tejusbrit:
Thanks! blue and brown has just 1 piece each left in stock. I would hold on to it for you.

Thanks am trying to contact someone to pick them up for me. Can u upload a pix of the inner one u said its 2 in 1.

tejusbrit:
if u buying up to three, i would give u 4k

thanks that is 12k. Someone will contact u.

tejusbrit:
ok! 32 Oladipupo, Agege. Thanks

thanks someone will contact you its 5k the last price can't it go for 4k?

tejusbrit:
Add me on Watsapp 09097995119 or drop ur number and let me add you. I am at Agege, Lagos

no need adding u on whatsapp just give me ur shop address & I will send someone there. I will just give the person ur contact to call u. Thanks I want the blue,red & brown.

Driven:
@satope, thanks ma'am, I'll heed your advice. Judging from her last post, I'm completely sure something isn't right somewhere, so I'm out.

just b4 u go out, am not a desperate lady as I speak I have 2 officers whose rank are higher than his & 2 with Ranks lower that his they are all out ffor marriage plus other civilians just that am not attracted to them & I can't marry a man am not attracted to. So u can insult me & say anything u like but being desperate is never part of my life. Not just for men alone but for everything about life. Enjoy your day sweetheart.

satope1:
Driven...Please do drop it. You don't need to insult her for seeking sympathy or whatever here.

Realdeal44... sometimes just a thank you to a comment is enough. You can't always be right with everyone.

Can you ladies just drop it now please?

for your infor I didn't come to seek for sympathy I all feel happy in sharing my story that's all I truly don't no what is bitting that chick. Anyways I don't have time for u both.

Driven:
Sidechick, speak for yourself! I'm not a lady like you- one with low self esteem who would agree to such nonsense arrangement. Speak for yourself! You agreed to date a man even though you knew he had other girls, now you think every other girl is like you?
Coming here to seek sympathy which you dont merit.

It's such a shame, mostly because you havent learnt anything, and you most certainly will repeat this mistake.

Desperado. Date the next commando that comes when you know he already has a harem, you hear? You're lucky his fiancee didnt pour hot water on you this time, that's why you're still yarning nonsense here.

Hide your head in shame o'jare!

hehehehehehehehe

tejusbrit:
@realdee44! do u have someone in lagos who can easily come and acknownledge the goods and send to u thru waybill? if not we v registered company account u can pay into and we vsend thru waybill.
very good quality

Paying money into your account is a NO NO NO. Where is your office or location let me see if I can get someone to meet with u.

Driven:
Say whatever you like, I will still not give you my sympathy. Hope you left the pepper soup for both of them to devour? Next time, agree to be a sidechick, you hear?

U still didn't hear that I don't need your sympathy. Funny enough if u check yourself very well u know that once or twice in ur life u have also been a side chick that is if u will even be truthful to yourself.

Nice bags but I can't say if its a good quality bag until I see it. Am based in kaduna & would have love to buy 3 different colours so how do we go about it?

Driven:
This shows you haven't even learnt your lesson.

asking him to read & unnd my post b4 commenting has nothing to do with learning any lesson. You are just one of dose ladies who for no just reason hates there fellow ladies.

Driven:
I was beginning to think there was something wrong with me for not feeling a tinge of sympathy for her too.

Funny enough I don't need ur sympathy.

satope1:
Ok. No issues.

You don collect that car back?

If tou no need am. I Don't mind y5oy borrowing it out for some few weeks. One can do with a little a car in this hot sun.

I only gave him to car for the period I was away na he has his own car.